More Women Order Meat On First Date, Consider Salads "Insipid"

Restaurateurs and veterans of the dating scene say that for many women, meat is no longer murder. Instead, meat is strategy. "I've been shocked at the number of women actually ordering steak," said Michael Stillman, vice president of concept development for the Smith & Wollensky Restaurant Group, which opened the restaurant Quality Meats in April 2006 on West 58th Street. He said Quality Meats' contemporary design and menu, including extensive seafood offerings, were designed to attract more women than a traditional steakhouse. "But the meat is appealing to them, much more than what I saw two or three years ago at our other restaurants," Mr. Stillman said. "They are going for our bone-in sirloin and our cowboy-cut rib steak."

In an earlier era, conventional dating wisdom for women was to eat something at home alone before a date, and then in company order a light dinner to portray oneself as dainty and ladylike. For some women, that is still the practice. "It's better not to have a jalapeño fajita plate, especially on the first date," said Andrea Bey, 28, who sells video surveillance equipment in Irving, Tex., and describes herself as "curvy." "You don't want to be labeled as 'princess gassy' on the first date."

But others, especially those who are thin, say ordering a salad displays an unappealing mousiness.

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