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"You Are Responsible For Your Own Orgasm"

First Posted: 03/28/08 03:45 AM ET Updated: 11/17/11 09:02 AM ET

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tangomag.com:

I WAS 17 WHEN my sexual education began.

"You are responsible for your own orgasm," my boyfriend told me. He was the guy I lost my virginity to, the guy I had my first orgasm with, and the guy whose words would one day become my mantra: I am responsible for my own orgasm. I believe that literally and figuratively. In bed, I play an active role in getting what I want. But I also take charge of getting what I want throughout my sexual life. That's why, along with a husband I adore, I have lovers.

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I WAS 17 WHEN my sexual education began. "You are responsible for your own orgasm," my boyfriend told me. He was the guy I lost my virginity to, the guy I had my first orgasm with, and the guy whose ...
I WAS 17 WHEN my sexual education began. "You are responsible for your own orgasm," my boyfriend told me. He was the guy I lost my virginity to, the guy I had my first orgasm with, and the guy whose ...
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Don't know much micro-bio-logy
09:36 PM on 12/30/2007
Just wondering what if the author's husband had stepped out with (or brought home) another guy.
02:47 AM on 12/29/2007
Open relationships can cause open wounds. After having my affair filmed for a documentary, I have had no affairs since....

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02:05 PM on 12/28/2007
Who have you been having sex with lately? Orgasms depend on a lot of things. Like for one the person you are having sex with!!!!!!
07:29 PM on 12/27/2007
What the hell is this. It sure isn't an article with substance...it doesn't really declare anything except that you are responsible for your own orgasm. How profound, I was relying on telepathic sex waves from Paris Hilton for mine. It doesn't even go into enough detail to make a valid point, not to mention the pedophile picture attached.
10:31 PM on 12/26/2007
Why are there child sized feet sticking out from under the covers in a picture accompanying an article about sex? Shame on you Huffington Post!
05:09 PM on 12/26/2007
In some occasions I think that the world is just about getting it! The diversity of issues raised are very centric and mundane. What is the point? We all grow old and irrelevant to younger generations, is that the issue here?
02:26 PM on 12/26/2007
"We slipped into bed with my husband as if we’d done it a hundred times before, one on either side of him."
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Take the husband out, and I bet you had.

So your husband doesn't deserve to have you to himself... At least, not in your opinion. Congratulations on not having to do "without"... Or just with him.
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12:08 PM on 12/26/2007
This is some kind of achievement or something?