The Business Of An Open Relationship

The Business Of An Open Relationship

Tango   |  Dan Eldridge   |   March 3, 2008 03:16 PM


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Carrie and I made the decision to spend the rest of our lives together. But because we've decided to do so without getting legally married (see Marriage Without Monogamy), a prenuptial agreement is obviously out of the question. And yet neither one of us likes the idea of building a life together without any sort of financial protection, especially after that harrowing ordeal with the ex, who, by the way, still hasn't bothered to return Carrie's $16,000. And that's to say nothing of her furniture and art collection, which is worth many thousands of dollars more, and is today sitting unused in a self-storage facility. Guess who has the only key? (Hint: Not us.)

I suppose there's more than a little irony in the very conservative solution Carrie and I eventually settled on, which was to launch a holding company--an organization, in other words, that will exist purely for the purpose of "holding" the goods and monies we've chosen to co-own as a couple.

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This article should be known as If you want to sleep around but convince yourself your not a whore who's probably got an STD. If you think your so worried about a prenup you shouldn't stay with that person. Why do people keep trying to have the benefits of marriage with out the commitment. Ok give me a hotdog but leave out the hot dog. Face it, your just two porn stars who aren't stars and no one wants to see. I'm sorry the words Mistress and Concubine are no longer PC, but thats exactly what your relationship is. Its nothing new under the sun.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 10:43 AM on 03/07/2008

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You sound oh so 1950s....time to live in the present.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 01:23 PM on 03/09/2008

What a creative and cleavor way to establish a relationship. Creating a holding company to hold the assets that you hold in common might work if you make a commitment to honor your agreements. I hope that Carrie's past relationship doesn't carry resentments for the lack of respect and honor for the time together.

Often when couples come together and their past hurts come up it seems to rupture the bond and love of the relationship. May the magic of Love and Love's Secret always stay alive within your new relationship. It seems that as long as love is alive and resentment and anger don't take over couples can continue to treat each other with honor and respect.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 10:21 AM on 03/05/2008
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Die yuppie scum.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 10:38 PM on 03/03/2008
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Sounds like an old Maureen McGovern song.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 07:43 PM on 03/03/2008
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