John McCain's First Wife Speaks Out

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First Posted: 06- 9-08 09:42 AM   |   Updated: 06-17-08 05:12 AM

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The UK Times scores the first interview with John McCain's first wife in the 2008 campaign season:

McCain likes to illustrate his moral fibre by referring to his five years as a prisoner-of-war in Vietnam. And to demonstrate his commitment to family values, the 71-year-old former US Navy pilot pays warm tribute to his beautiful blonde wife, Cindy, with whom he has four children.


But there is another Mrs McCain who casts a ghostly shadow over the Senator's presidential campaign. She is seldom seen and rarely written about, despite being mother to McCain's three eldest children.

And yet, had events turned out differently, it would be she, rather than Cindy, who would be vying to be First Lady. She is McCain's first wife, Carol, who was a famous beauty and a successful swimwear model when they married in 1965.

She was the woman McCain dreamed of during his long incarceration and torture in Vietnam's infamous 'Hanoi Hilton' prison and the woman who faithfully stayed at home looking after the children and waiting anxiously for news.

But when McCain returned to America in 1973 to a fanfare of publicity and a handshake from Richard Nixon, he discovered his wife had been disfigured in a terrible car crash three years earlier. Her car had skidded on icy roads into a telegraph pole on Christmas Eve, 1969. Her pelvis and one arm were shattered by the impact and she suffered massive internal injuries.

When Carol was discharged from hospital after six months of life-saving surgery, the prognosis was bleak. In order to save her legs, surgeons

had been forced to cut away huge sections of shattered bone, taking with it her tall, willowy figure. She was confined to a wheelchair and was forced to use a catheter.

Through sheer hard work, Carol learned to walk again. But when John McCain came home from Vietnam, she had gained a lot of weight and bore little resemblance to her old self.

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Today, she stands at just 5ft4in and still walks awkwardly, with a pronounced limp. Her body is held together by screws and metal plates and, at 70, her face is worn by wrinkles that speak of decades of silent suffering.

For nearly 30 years, Carol has maintained a dignified silence about the accident, McCain and their divorce. But last week at the bungalow where she now lives at Virginia Beach, a faded seaside resort 200 miles south of Washington, she told The Mail on Sunday how McCain divorced her in 1980 and married Cindy, 18 years his junior and the heir to an Arizona brewing fortune, just one month later.

Carol insists she remains on good terms with her ex-husband, who agreed as part of their divorce settlement to pay her medical costs for life. 'I have no bitterness,'

she says. 'My accident is well recorded. I had 23 operations, I am five inches shorter than I used to be and I was in hospital for six months. It was just awful, but it wasn't the reason for my divorce.

'My marriage ended because John McCain didn't want to be 40, he wanted to be 25. You know that happens...it just does.'

Some of McCain's acquaintances are less forgiving, however. They portray the politician as a self-centred womaniser who effectively abandoned his crippled wife to 'play the field'. They accuse him of finally settling on Cindy, a former rodeo beauty queen, for financial reasons.

Read the full article here. Last week, McCain was pressed on his marital infidelities at a town hall meeting -- watch video and read an account here.

Read the whole story: Times UK

The UK Times scores the first interview with John McCain's first wife in the 2008 campaign season: McCain likes to illustrate his moral fibre by referring to his five years as a prisoner-of-war in Vi...
The UK Times scores the first interview with John McCain's first wife in the 2008 campaign season: McCain likes to illustrate his moral fibre by referring to his five years as a prisoner-of-war in Vi...
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H. Ross Perot said it best, this guy is a oppurtunist. What a weasel this guy is. Shame on you John McCain!

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 10:22 AM on 06/09/2008
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This is a perfect quote for a McCain ad. Come on DNC and begin filming!

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 11:12 AM on 06/09/2008
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Uh oh. I was waiting for this and wondering when it would happen......

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 10:20 AM on 06/09/2008
- olivia I'm a Fan of olivia 96 fans permalink

Note the source:

Times UK

The American press won't touch it.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 10:28 AM on 06/09/2008
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Such is one of the major problems facing our country and the reason for the lack of accountability of our leaders.

I can hear Chris Matthews now..........."John McCain selflessly divorced his first wife Carol because the embarrassment of public scrutiny of her condition would have been too difficult for her to bear. Therefore, at great risk to himself, the maverick independent family minded McCain risked his political career to save Carol from the constant scrutiny of the press as a wife of a political figure. What a man!!!!!!

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 10:51 AM on 06/09/2008

High praise indeed.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 10:57 AM on 06/09/2008
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If you want to find out the bare, unvarnished truth, you alomst have to look outside the US.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 11:35 AM on 06/09/2008

McCain likes to talk bout his loyalty, his values, yet it seems he is no better than anyone else in this department. I think the reason the Republican party is imploding is because they have chosen to paint themselves as always taking the high ground, of having real family values, etc. etc. and that is just not true. They are no better than anyone else and no one likes a hipocrite.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 10:20 AM on 06/09/2008
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...leaving your sick and pain wife for vanity reasons is not a "Leader We Can Believe"

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 10:19 AM on 06/09/2008
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John McCain's biography gets less appealing by the day. Regardless of how Carol McCain feels about him their story is one of a family destroyed by his choices. It was he who chose active combat duty while he had a wife and young children to support. It was he who chose to divorce his crippled wife in order to marry, Cindy, a younger richer beauty.

You would think that he would treat Cindy McCain with adoration and respect but he does not. He calls her derogatory names in public.

McCain is no worse in his treatment of women that many other men of his age and social class but that does not make it acceptable. He doesn't even understand how condoms help prevent the spread of HIV.

If you have daughters that you love don't vote for John McCain. It is very clear how he views women - as impregnable meal tickets.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 10:15 AM on 06/09/2008
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John McCain needs to be called on the carpet about his ADULTEROUS affair with Cindy. He talks about Senator Obama's lack of judgement: what about his? This man is not fit to be Commander in Chief. You mean to tell me he didn't have the patience and temperment to wait for an official divorce before he hooked up with Cindy? I guess for him good judgement only applies to political subjects. If women want to be angry be angry with the way this man DISRESPECTED his first wife. Be angry with Cindy McCain over the fact that she knew this man was married and still decided to hook up with him. Is adultery now an accepted behavior for our politicians today? No matter how long ago it's been.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 10:09 AM on 06/09/2008

Correction needed - That would be the Daily Mail - not the "old lady" The Times.

Sad and revealing though this story is, I wonder how much traction it will receive here in the States - given Obama's intention to steer to the high road.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 10:08 AM on 06/09/2008
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This might be the year it is best for the GOP to lay down the Family Values angle.

They are a wee bit vulnerable on that issue.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 10:56 AM on 06/09/2008
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Oh my goodness, he is just like my ex-husband!

That will go over wonderfully with all we Gals out here who have been there, and sympathize with Ms McCain #1.

She may have had a lot of health problems, but she is much more beautiful than the plastic, aging Barbie Doll he is married to now!

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 10:07 AM on 06/09/2008
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The republican way of doing bizzness. Use people up then discard them when they are worn out.

Haven't noticed any of "The Renegade's" children from that marriage out on the campaign trail with him. It would be interesting to hear their take on the old fool.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 10:07 AM on 06/09/2008
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    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 10:41 AM on 06/09/2008
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The U.S. landscape is litter with the disabled bodys of the people who made the Republicans rich.

Workers and ex wives.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 11:08 AM on 06/09/2008
- riley85 I'm a Fan of riley85 2 fans permalink

Let's be fair...Where are those pictures of Obama riding his bike? I'm sure the photographer that dared snap these photos has received death threats or is being investigated by the FBI.

I'd rather see photos of Obama being a nerdy dad than coverage of obsessive fans fainting and cheering when he coughs. This makes him look real.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 10:07 AM on 06/09/2008
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As a parent I am sure he wore th helmet as a role model for the girls. We parents have to put a lot of silly things on our heads. It is part of the job description!

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 11:14 AM on 06/09/2008

Very true. Or he cares more about doing the right thing, than doing what "looks good" or is considered the cool thing to do, even if you get ridiculed for it. Imagine that!

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 11:41 AM on 06/09/2008
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Great news for all of those Hillary supporters who will be voting for McCain this November!

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 10:03 AM on 06/09/2008
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Married a famous swimwear model, and a few years later, dumped her for a new skinny bleached blond with a lot of money.

In other words, he is just like the guy H's remaining bitter supporters are bitter about.

Vote for him, Geniuses, then live with that.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 10:15 AM on 06/09/2008
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Exactly, so to all of the angry Hillary suporters, this is the person we need in the White House? Please explain, how this man will improve things for you and this country?

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 11:05 AM on 06/09/2008
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McCain lives the dream that many over-the-hill guys have. He married a sexy, younger chick............................whose family made millions in the booze industry.
His admirers live vicariously through him. They'd love to leave their wives, who have gotten older, while the men haven't apparently. Unfortunately, most men don't have a woman on the side who is as rich as Cindy who is willing to steal another woman's husband.
Most just have the affairs, but stick with the wife who does all the mundane things that need to be done every day for him. They want it all.
McCain is seen to have it all by men who would trade places with him in a heartbeat.
The only thing that stops them is that not too many young, sexy rich chicks are attracted to old farts, if the women have their own money.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 12:09 PM on 06/09/2008
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My thoughts exactly.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 10:26 AM on 06/09/2008

How is this a worthy news story??? This is the type of BS we need to stop doing in elections.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 10:03 AM on 06/09/2008
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Because sexism and feminism were made centerpieces of this campaign by you-know-who, it is extremely relevant.

Because her supporters are threatening to vote for him over perceived sexism, it is extremely relevant.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 10:10 AM on 06/09/2008
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Can anybody really say they know what goes on in someone else's marriage? I think this is irrelavant, We should judge our candidates on their public lives, not their private ones.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 10:24 AM on 06/09/2008

So character means absolutely NOTHING to you? Obviously not --- that's why you agree with McCain. Wow! How LOW can the Republicans go?

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 10:22 AM on 06/09/2008
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Because this is the type man "myfriends" is. He did alot of womanizing when he got home..he fooled around in all ways during his Naval Academy days..and the media has certainly taken many of Obama's interests out of context and made much to do over them...ad nauseum. And because McCain has gotten a free pass in the media. And because foreign newspapers are more honest than ours..we CAN get a bit of this. It has been on this site before..months ago. But "Follow the Money" still stands with "myfriends". McCain couldn't do anything else when he returned from VN..he had to find somebody who could support him, he went into politics for the same reason.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 10:26 AM on 06/09/2008
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"foreign newspapers are more honest than ours" Not necessarily. This article used a known con-man and liar as a source, Ted Sampley. Yeah, the basic facts in the article are true, but liar Sampley and the author put the worst possible spin on them. Anyone who uses Sampley as a source should know that their writing will not be taken seriously.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 10:47 AM on 06/09/2008

I have to respectfully disagree with you. I think this speaks directly to McCain's character, which some of us are not aware of. I, for one, did not know the details of his first marriage. I always thought that John McCain used Cindy McCain like a "prop" instead of a wife. As a women, I find this story disturbing and sad

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 10:27 AM on 06/09/2008
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it goes to Character

and it is a huge FLAW!!!!

he's not going to get a Free Pass Card called "Mid-Life Crisis"

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 10:27 AM on 06/09/2008
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I thought the story was devastating, but it will be only if the MSM picks it up. Poor women, and CM bought her silence.

Can you imagine how Mc'hothead'ain will react if he starts getting questins about this? If it is a femaile reporter, he's lible to use the C word. If a man, he's liable to throw a punc.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 10:02 AM on 06/09/2008
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Yeah, and month or so after the divorce from his first wife was final, he married Cindy... aka Cindy, WAS the other woman.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 10:41 AM on 06/09/2008
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She and Nancy Regan must have shared notes.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 11:12 AM on 06/09/2008
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Fortunately for Cindy McCain, assuming that how she snagged him initially, John McCain is now seventy-two and depends on HER for his lifestyle.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 12:24 PM on 06/09/2008
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It's already been in the MSM, many times. Here's one.

http://www.nytimes.com/2007/12/27/us/politics/27mccainkids.html?pagewanted=1&_r=1

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 10:54 AM on 06/09/2008
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Very glossed-over.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 12:37 PM on 06/09/2008
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I doubt this story will bother any white Republican males. More likely they will be jealous McCain pulled it off.

But it will bother women everywhere.

Soon the only women voting for McCain will be the remaining bitter H supporters.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 10:55 AM on 06/09/2008
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