Financial Crisis Suicide Numbers Mounting

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KELLI KENNEDY | October 14, 2008 09:00 AM EST | AP

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An out-of-work money manager in California loses a fortune and wipes out his family in a murder-suicide. A 90-year-old Ohio widow shoots herself in the chest as authorities arrive to evict her from the modest house she called home for 38 years.

In Massachusetts, a housewife who had hidden her family's mounting financial crisis from her husband sends a note to the mortgage company warning: "By the time you foreclose on my house, I'll be dead."

Then Carlene Balderrama shot herself to death, leaving an insurance policy and a suicide note on a table.

Across the country, authorities are becoming concerned that the nation's financial woes could turn increasingly violent, and they are urging people to get help. In some places, mental-health hot lines are jammed, counseling services are in high demand and domestic-violence shelters are full.

"I've had a number of people say that this is the thing most reminiscent of 9/11 that's happened here since then," said the Rev. Canon Ann Malonee, vicar at Trinity Church in the heart of New York's financial district. "It's that sense of having the rug pulled out from under them."

With nowhere else to turn, many people are calling suicide-prevention hot lines. The Samaritans of New York have seen calls rise more than 16 percent in the past year, many of them money-related. The Switchboard of Miami has recorded more than 500 foreclosure-related calls this year.

"A lot of people are telling us they are losing everything. They're losing their homes, they're going into foreclosure, they've lost their jobs," said Virginia Cervasio, executive director of a suicide resource enter in southwest Florida's Lee County.

But tragedies keep mounting:

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_ In Los Angeles last week, a former money manager fatally shot his wife, three sons and his mother-in-law before killing himself.

Karthik Rajaram, 45, left a suicide note saying he was in financial trouble and contemplated killing just himself. But he said he decided to kill his entire family because that was more honorable, police said.

Rajaram once worked for a major accounting firm and for Sony Pictures, and he had been part-owner of a financial holding company. But he had been out of work for several months, police said.

After the murder-suicide, police and mental-health officials in Los Angeles took the unusual step of urging people to seek help for themselves or loved ones if they feel overwhelmed by grim financial news. They said they were specifically afraid of the "copycat phenomenon."

"This is a perfect American family behind me that has absolutely been destroyed, apparently because of a man who just got stuck in a rabbit hole, if you will, of absolute despair," Deputy Police Chief Michel Moore said. "It is critical to step up and recognize we are in some pretty troubled times."

_ In Tennessee, a woman fatally shot herself last week as sheriff's deputies went to evict her from her foreclosed home.

Pamela Ross, 57, and her husband were fighting foreclosure on their home when sheriff's deputies in Sevierville came to serve an eviction notice. They were across the street when they heard a gunshot and found Ross dead from a wound to the chest. The case was even more tragic because the couple had recently been granted an extra 10 days to appeal.

_ In Akron, Ohio, the 90-year-old widow who shot herself on Oct. 1 is recovering. A congressman told Addie Polk's story on the House floor before lawmakers voted to approve a $700 billion financial rescue package. Mortgage finance company Fannie Mae dropped the foreclosure, forgave her mortgage and said she could remain in the home.

_ In Ocala, Fla., Roland Gore shot his wife and dog in March and then set fire to the couple's home, which had been in foreclosure, before killing himself. His case was one of several in which people killed spouses or pets, destroyed property or attacked police before taking their own lives.

"The financial stress builds up to the point the person feels they can't go on, and the person believes their family is better off dead than left without a financial support," said Kristen Rand, legislative director of the Washington D.C.-based Violence Policy Center.

Dr. Edward Charlesworth, a clinical psychologist in Houston, said the current crisis is breeding a sense of chronic anxiety among people who feel helpless and panic-stricken, as well as angry that their government has let them down.

"They feel like in this great society that we live in we should have more protection for the individuals rather than just the corporation," he said.

It's not yet clear there is a statistical link between suicides and the financial downturn since there is generally a two-year lag in national suicide figures. But historically, suicides increase in times of economic hardship. And the current financial crisis is already being called the worst since the Great Depression.

Rising mortgage defaults and falling home values are at the heart of it. More than 4 million Americans were at least one month behind on their mortgages at the end of June, according to the Mortgage Bankers Association.

A record 500,000 had entered the foreclosure process. And that trend is expected to continue through next year, despite the current programs from the government and the lending industry to refinance delinquent homeowners into more affordable loans.

Counselors at Catholic Charities USA report seeing a "significant increase" in the need for housing counseling.

One counselor said half of her clients were on some form of antidepressant or anti-anxiety medication. The agency has seen a decrease in overall funding, but it has expanded foreclosure counseling and received nearly $2 million for such services in late 2007.

Adding to financially tense households is an air of secrecy. Experts said it's common for one spouse to blame the other for their financial mess or to hide it entirely, as Balderrama did.

After falling 3 1/2 years behind in payments, the Taunton, Mass., housewife had been intercepting letters from the mortgage company and shredding them before her husband saw them. She tried to refinance but was declined.

In July, on the day the house was to be auctioned, she faxed the note to the mortgage company. Then the 52-year-old walked outside, shot her three beloved cats and then herself with her husband's rifle.

Notes left on the table revealed months of planning. She'd picked out her funeral home, laid out the insurance policy and left a note saying, "pay off the house with the insurance money."

"She put in her suicide note that it got overwhelming for her," said her husband, John Balderrama. "Apparently she didn't have anyone to talk to. She didn't come to me. I don't know why. There's gotta be some help out there for people that are hurting, (something better) than to see somebody lose a life over a stupid house."

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Associated Press Writers P. Solomon Banda in Denver, Joann Loviglio in Philadelphia, Juanita Cousins in Atlanta, Samantha Gross in New York and John Rogers in Los Angeles contributed to this report.

An out-of-work money manager in California loses a fortune and wipes out his family in a murder-suicide. A 90-year-old Ohio widow shoots herself in the chest as authorities arrive to evict her from th...
An out-of-work money manager in California loses a fortune and wipes out his family in a murder-suicide. A 90-year-old Ohio widow shoots herself in the chest as authorities arrive to evict her from th...
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- bud812 I'm a Fan of bud812 9 fans permalink
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Revolution!

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 11:56 AM on 10/18/2008
- Zeje I'm a Fan of Zeje 9 fans permalink

When i was diagnosed with metastatic cancer (5 years ago, I'm o.k., thanks to chemo), the first thing I thought was "It's not as bad as being unemployed." I've been unemployed, so I know. The only time I ever understood suicide was when I was unemployed. The depression that comes with being out of work is overwhelming.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 01:20 PM on 10/17/2008
- MenaC I'm a Fan of MenaC 4 fans permalink
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I am a 27 year old woman who bought her first house last December. At the time, I was a full-time restaurant manager. The house I bought is modest, the mortgage well within my budget; only 150 more than my rent had been. After two hurricane evacuations, the restaurant closed. After I spend most of my money on supplies and evacuation costs, I find out that I no longer have a job. In the midst of hurricane recovery, I have to find a new job. I settle for $3 less an hour than what I was making. Right now I'm hoping my check will cover my Oct. payment, already 16 days late. If it doesn't, I don't know what to do. I don't have cable or a fancy car, eat out or go to movies, dance at the clubs...I go to work and come home; that's what I can afford to do. I've borrowed money from my grandmother to help with my hurricane expenses, I've tapped out my unemployment benefits (600 for 2 weeks) since I'm now employed. My biggest fear is failure. Success to me is having my own home. Neither my father nor my mother ever had that, and it's very important for me. I didn't over extend myself when I bought my house, times are rough right now. I hope that Ibounce back, catch back up soon. I also hope that if I can't, I don't succomb to that desperation and leave my family grieving.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 10:15 AM on 10/17/2008
- edsel I'm a Fan of edsel 4 fans permalink

I'm out of a job to, People in this country need to learn to start living withen ther means. I had a fairly decent job. Could 've moved into a larger house. I chose to stay in my starter house. Thank god i did. I still have my good neighbors and am able to meet my mortgage obligation. Ya just can't borrow more than you can afford ,soon the chickens will return to roost

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 05:39 AM on 10/17/2008
- StephenJK I'm a Fan of StephenJK 21 fans permalink

How can you afford to meet your mortgage obligations with no income? Why would you even think of moving into a larger home with no income? Because a lender offered it to you.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 06:37 AM on 10/17/2008
- OldKnute I'm a Fan of OldKnute 100 fans permalink

OK LOOK!

Now you SEE! Now you all SEE!

I warned and warned and warned!

I told you to HOLD,,, Hold Everything! Hold even if it hurts.

Now I am going to BEG YOU! We have TRILLIONS setting in hedge funds, equities, personal holdings.

Trillions and Trillions of dollars.

Here is what I am begging you to do. CUT the Bottom! ONLY! If the Stocks drop[ by 200,, BUY IN SLOW. THEN HOLD!

200 more,,, CUT THE BOTTOM,, Buy in slowly! SLOWLY!

Cut the Bottom,,, cut off the bottom!

For Banks,,,, The Fed has money now! DON”T ask the Fed to pay off the whole loan, JUST the differential. Discount the loans and renegotiate a fixed loan for the new evaluation. Feds pick up the difference. That way,, BOTH the Homeowner and Bank share the loss. Homeowners get IMMEDIATE, relief, lower Fix Rates, the Banks still get their monthly payments and sustained cash flow.


How to tell the REAL homeowners from Speculators?

Ummm? The IRS has been doing that for over 70 years. It is called Primarily Residence.

Remember,,, 200 drop,, buy in slowly,,, you all know you are getting one heck of a deal!

CUT OFF THE BOTTOMS!

Slowly! Together we can do this!

All the best

Knute Neo-LIB

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 05:28 AM on 10/17/2008
- OldKnute I'm a Fan of OldKnute 100 fans permalink

One other thing!

You know I am a sentimental old SOT. I cry at kittens who get frightened over a too fast a moving ball of yarn. This is not k’vitsh no kolboynik, no glick either. We are in this together. Da sometimes shmaltzy. Eh,, so sue me!

But I speak my heart! No Moyel here, but I know its gona hurt, a little. AND,,, we will be better for it, we all will. Plotz or putz,, We don’t know. We don’t know,, We never know,,, all we have is faith,, AND each other.

If you have the time, if you want to take the time,, listen to these words. The WORDS!

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=clZE4Wrrw_w

One of my Favs.

All the best

Knute Neo-LIB

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 06:39 AM on 10/17/2008
- JNagarya I'm a Fan of JNagarya 29 fans permalink

Don't worry, the Republicans have connected the dots on this one:

1. Ignore the damage done the defrauded and bail out the megawealthy fraudsters, and,

2. Promote more and more gun ownership so the defrauded can solve the problem on their end of the raw deal.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 01:04 AM on 10/17/2008
- Davwbaird I'm a Fan of Davwbaird 22 fans permalink
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I am facing hard times. Only paying bills connected to house and utilities.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 12:40 AM on 10/17/2008

If only those Wall Street bankers could find the same sense of decency.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 12:03 AM on 10/17/2008

also, if you are a veteran, you can call 1-800-273-TALK, the national hotline and be immediately connected to services at your local veteran health center as well.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 09:18 PM on 10/16/2008

FYI...

National Suicide hotline numbers in case you worry about yourself or a loved one:

1-800-SUICIDE 1-800-273-TALK
1-800-784-2433 1-800-273-8255

This website has a list of the local state by state hotline numbers: http://suicidehotlines.com/

or just call 911

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 09:16 PM on 10/16/2008
- LexLuthier I'm a Fan of LexLuthier 7 fans permalink
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And another one from the police blotter of my local news:

http://www.onlineathens.com/stories/101608/cop_344588459.shtml

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 07:07 PM on 10/16/2008
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You know, these sorts of things were happening before the financial meltdown came to fruition. But now that its hitting more "middle class" Americans, suddenly its a huge tragedy? What about all the people who lost everything they worked their lives for just trying to pay off medical bills? Predatory lenders can take away your house but they can't take your life, so why would you give it to them? I don't mean to sound insensitive, but I can't understand why people would be willing to kill themselves rather than live the kind of life I do, and millions of other Americans do every day. No house, no car, no spouse, struggling to make ends meet. In other words, flat broke. I know what it feels like to be victimized by financial institutions, and to get the disturbing and threatening phone calls at home and at work constantly. It takes its toll... but its only money, its only bricks and mortar, 2x4s, doorknobs and windows. Worth dying over? I don't think so...

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 05:35 PM on 10/16/2008

This thread should stay around. It's very helpful to those of us who have occasionally (or daily!) thought suicide is the only way out of the rubble, but have been hanging in there with our glasses still half full. Now, if McCain/Palin win, that's a different story. Then, there will be NO hope left, and this one will be checking out, or leaving the country. Something... but definitely not sticking are America to watch it go further down the drain.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 04:13 PM on 10/16/2008
- SOLERSO68 I'm a Fan of SOLERSO68 36 fans permalink
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I dont know about that. I think (god forbid) should the right wing phalange find a way to "win" this election i will consider other altenatives before suicide, or trying our luck on the refugee circut. we should at least band together for a final stand if thats what it amounts to. I have watched the unprecendented semi nationalization of the American and European banking system with awe.What generations of marxixts couldnt do has been accomplished in 30 years by the capitalists themselves, and whatever paulson and the gang are saying, there will be no easy going back. I hope it is just the beggining. I dont want the abolition of our way of life but it needs to be improved. From here we can establish new standards for our society. Health care and college education for everyone should be simply part of the deal. With a real health care system in place we can end the hideously immoral, expensive and fruitless "war on drugs" that is eroding our society. i am dreaming of a world where we are responsible neighbors and friends in the global community. The coming energy and climate disaters can only be dealt with by such a responsible community. for some reason i feel that the door is ajar, and maybe, if we get past this election barricade, we can force it open. I really believe this "change" election is one of historic scale and importance, with a clear choice of progress or degeneration.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 07:58 PM on 10/16/2008
- JNagarya I'm a Fan of JNagarya 29 fans permalink

Now the the Republicans are doing the very thing they have consistently labeled as anti-Emrican -- "Communism" -- "involuntarily" in order to rescue the megawealthy members of their class who screwed up -- and screwed the taxpayer yet again -- let's insert some CHOICE in the nationalizations. Let's nationalize a few things that'll help EVERYONE, not only those who don't need the help:

How about, first --

Heatlh care.

Second:

Utilities, as a natural/community resource and necessity owned by ALL. That inlcudes electric, other energy forms, and such as the broadcast spectrum, the telecommunications industry, and the Internet.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 01:09 AM on 10/17/2008

This is one of the saddest stories I've read in a long time. My heart goes out to all the many, many families being sucked into this black hole economy. This is just more evidence that we need change in our government now more than ever. Absolutely heartbreaking.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 03:54 PM on 10/16/2008
- mbbythesea I'm a Fan of mbbythesea 12 fans permalink
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yes well, even if you don't value your worth with having a job, a home, the ability to pay for meals...others do. what choice are people left with? being supported by relatives? not such a great option for many.

If we were Denmark. Canada, Switzerland, the Netherland or many other countries that provide support until we got back on our feet, perhaps people wouldn't feel so desperate. We should look at our cultural lapses in compassion and safety nets before we start blaming individuals that need assistance.

I hope people will hang in there, surely better days are coming. in the meantime, you are not alone and many of us understand how horrible a position so many have been put in and how devastating it is.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 12:31 PM on 10/16/2008
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