Financial Crisis Suicide Numbers Mounting

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KELLI KENNEDY | October 14, 2008 09:00 AM EST | AP

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An out-of-work money manager in California loses a fortune and wipes out his family in a murder-suicide. A 90-year-old Ohio widow shoots herself in the chest as authorities arrive to evict her from the modest house she called home for 38 years.

In Massachusetts, a housewife who had hidden her family's mounting financial crisis from her husband sends a note to the mortgage company warning: "By the time you foreclose on my house, I'll be dead."

Then Carlene Balderrama shot herself to death, leaving an insurance policy and a suicide note on a table.

Across the country, authorities are becoming concerned that the nation's financial woes could turn increasingly violent, and they are urging people to get help. In some places, mental-health hot lines are jammed, counseling services are in high demand and domestic-violence shelters are full.

"I've had a number of people say that this is the thing most reminiscent of 9/11 that's happened here since then," said the Rev. Canon Ann Malonee, vicar at Trinity Church in the heart of New York's financial district. "It's that sense of having the rug pulled out from under them."

With nowhere else to turn, many people are calling suicide-prevention hot lines. The Samaritans of New York have seen calls rise more than 16 percent in the past year, many of them money-related. The Switchboard of Miami has recorded more than 500 foreclosure-related calls this year.

"A lot of people are telling us they are losing everything. They're losing their homes, they're going into foreclosure, they've lost their jobs," said Virginia Cervasio, executive director of a suicide resource enter in southwest Florida's Lee County.

But tragedies keep mounting:

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_ In Los Angeles last week, a former money manager fatally shot his wife, three sons and his mother-in-law before killing himself.

Karthik Rajaram, 45, left a suicide note saying he was in financial trouble and contemplated killing just himself. But he said he decided to kill his entire family because that was more honorable, police said.

Rajaram once worked for a major accounting firm and for Sony Pictures, and he had been part-owner of a financial holding company. But he had been out of work for several months, police said.

After the murder-suicide, police and mental-health officials in Los Angeles took the unusual step of urging people to seek help for themselves or loved ones if they feel overwhelmed by grim financial news. They said they were specifically afraid of the "copycat phenomenon."

"This is a perfect American family behind me that has absolutely been destroyed, apparently because of a man who just got stuck in a rabbit hole, if you will, of absolute despair," Deputy Police Chief Michel Moore said. "It is critical to step up and recognize we are in some pretty troubled times."

_ In Tennessee, a woman fatally shot herself last week as sheriff's deputies went to evict her from her foreclosed home.

Pamela Ross, 57, and her husband were fighting foreclosure on their home when sheriff's deputies in Sevierville came to serve an eviction notice. They were across the street when they heard a gunshot and found Ross dead from a wound to the chest. The case was even more tragic because the couple had recently been granted an extra 10 days to appeal.

_ In Akron, Ohio, the 90-year-old widow who shot herself on Oct. 1 is recovering. A congressman told Addie Polk's story on the House floor before lawmakers voted to approve a $700 billion financial rescue package. Mortgage finance company Fannie Mae dropped the foreclosure, forgave her mortgage and said she could remain in the home.

_ In Ocala, Fla., Roland Gore shot his wife and dog in March and then set fire to the couple's home, which had been in foreclosure, before killing himself. His case was one of several in which people killed spouses or pets, destroyed property or attacked police before taking their own lives.

"The financial stress builds up to the point the person feels they can't go on, and the person believes their family is better off dead than left without a financial support," said Kristen Rand, legislative director of the Washington D.C.-based Violence Policy Center.

Dr. Edward Charlesworth, a clinical psychologist in Houston, said the current crisis is breeding a sense of chronic anxiety among people who feel helpless and panic-stricken, as well as angry that their government has let them down.

"They feel like in this great society that we live in we should have more protection for the individuals rather than just the corporation," he said.

It's not yet clear there is a statistical link between suicides and the financial downturn since there is generally a two-year lag in national suicide figures. But historically, suicides increase in times of economic hardship. And the current financial crisis is already being called the worst since the Great Depression.

Rising mortgage defaults and falling home values are at the heart of it. More than 4 million Americans were at least one month behind on their mortgages at the end of June, according to the Mortgage Bankers Association.

A record 500,000 had entered the foreclosure process. And that trend is expected to continue through next year, despite the current programs from the government and the lending industry to refinance delinquent homeowners into more affordable loans.

Counselors at Catholic Charities USA report seeing a "significant increase" in the need for housing counseling.

One counselor said half of her clients were on some form of antidepressant or anti-anxiety medication. The agency has seen a decrease in overall funding, but it has expanded foreclosure counseling and received nearly $2 million for such services in late 2007.

Adding to financially tense households is an air of secrecy. Experts said it's common for one spouse to blame the other for their financial mess or to hide it entirely, as Balderrama did.

After falling 3 1/2 years behind in payments, the Taunton, Mass., housewife had been intercepting letters from the mortgage company and shredding them before her husband saw them. She tried to refinance but was declined.

In July, on the day the house was to be auctioned, she faxed the note to the mortgage company. Then the 52-year-old walked outside, shot her three beloved cats and then herself with her husband's rifle.

Notes left on the table revealed months of planning. She'd picked out her funeral home, laid out the insurance policy and left a note saying, "pay off the house with the insurance money."

"She put in her suicide note that it got overwhelming for her," said her husband, John Balderrama. "Apparently she didn't have anyone to talk to. She didn't come to me. I don't know why. There's gotta be some help out there for people that are hurting, (something better) than to see somebody lose a life over a stupid house."

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Associated Press Writers P. Solomon Banda in Denver, Joann Loviglio in Philadelphia, Juanita Cousins in Atlanta, Samantha Gross in New York and John Rogers in Los Angeles contributed to this report.

An out-of-work money manager in California loses a fortune and wipes out his family in a murder-suicide. A 90-year-old Ohio widow shoots herself in the chest as authorities arrive to evict her from th...
An out-of-work money manager in California loses a fortune and wipes out his family in a murder-suicide. A 90-year-old Ohio widow shoots herself in the chest as authorities arrive to evict her from th...
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I'm sickened with the desperation in this country. People shouldn't feel like their lives are over because they've lost their homes. Now, if they've lost their homes, their retirement and their dignity while being hounded and evicted by the mortgage companies, that's a different story. We have this misnomer in this country that poor people are nothing but lazy; that they're failures. Being poor/bankrupt is not always a final verdict, people. It may not even be the worst thing that can happen to you.

This makes me think how odd it is that people determine their worth this way.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 12:20 PM on 10/16/2008

Agreed. This is an indication of how wrong our priorities are. Our culture worships money and things. I am talking about people who are used to living "high on the hog" and then lose it when their McMansion and excess material items are taken away. People who are truly in need deserve help. But those who are shedding unnecessary luxury items should quit complaining and do what they have to do.

We need to get back to core values, and they have nothing to do with big houses, a new car, computer games, and luxury items. This mentality has led to our current undoing, and it is looked upon with disdain by the rest of the world.

We have to return to simple values and we will, be it voluntarily or kicking and screaming.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 12:37 PM on 10/16/2008

Thanks, Kelli, for this post. What you've reported on, I fear, is only the beginning of an increasing trend towards suicide, murder or the tragic murder-suicide combo you provide grim examples of.

As an business strategy and HR consultant, I've been worried about the psycho-social impact of the economic downturn. I remember a time when even threats of downsizing would propel desperate people to come to work and go on a terrifying shooting spree.

I think corporate leaders must be proactive in helping support people in these frightening economic times.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 10:43 AM on 10/16/2008

I'm no lawyer, but I see some legal liability here. If the "caveat emptor" principle doesn't exempt manufacturers from liability for selling toxic products, why should it protect loan companies from misleading people into buying mortgage products that are known to lead to these problems?

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 06:19 AM on 10/16/2008
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    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 03:53 AM on 10/16/2008
- Einstein44 I'm a Fan of Einstein44 14 fans permalink

We are witnessing some sad and dangerous times in America !!!!

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 12:53 AM on 10/16/2008

It's hard to pay for a home when you don't have work. The unemployment numbers are staggering and the cost of living is very high in some places. I feel sorry for these people. They didn't see any other way out. The "buck up buttercup" speech works when you're coming from a certain level of comfort or security. Not so much if you don't have anyone or anything and it doesn't look like it will get better.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 11:48 PM on 10/15/2008
- TLV I'm a Fan of TLV 118 fans permalink

If you have to eat worms and live in someone's basement, at least you'll be warm and fed. Do not despair!

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 08:17 PM on 10/15/2008

Banking and the mortgage crisis will become the scapegoat for everything now. The woman in Mass was THREE AND A HALF YEARS behind on her mortgage. She is not a casualty of the mess that has happened in the past year. For some people, the financial crisis will be an easy trigger to make a decision, for good or bad, that they have been delaying. Some of the comments here show people who used a crisis to turn their lives around. Others will use the crisis as an justification for suicide rather than admit to depression. (I had a neighbor who killed his kids, his wife, their dog and himself because he had skin cancer) People commit suicide all the time for a variety of "reasons." But trying to strengthen a connection between the financial situation and desparation by citing cases that have nothing to do with this current situation is sloppy journalism and gullible reading.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 07:01 PM on 10/15/2008

I think the point was that there has been a double-digit increase in just the last year, as the financial crisis has intensified. Perhaps that one woman is not a good example (I don't know the details of how long she had been behind in her payments, so I'll take your word for it), but I know that where I live the homeless shelters and soup kitchens are seeing a large percentage increase in families who have lost their homes and have no place to live, usually because of job losses. It is unusual to see whole families in shelters - it's usually mentally ill or drug abusing single adults using their services. The animal shelters are full to bursting here, also, from people having to give up their pets when losing a home and moving into an apartment of the streets. Some people are just going to give up when faced with losing everything they have. Not the best reaction but then, I'm not in their shoes so it's not for me to judge.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 09:44 PM on 10/15/2008
- moonbay I'm a Fan of moonbay 5 fans permalink

When the thought comes, "It will never get better," push it out of your brain. IT IS A LIE your anguished heart and head are starting to believe. Reach out to a friend, family, a neighbor, a kind stranger, your local mental health group. THERE IS ALWAYS HOPE. IT WILL GET BETTER. Tell that to your heart. Believe it. IT IS TRUE.

Many, many people have reached bottom, reached out, and kept going. I am one of them. I have less money now. I'm happier than I was in all my years of gaining a huge salary. I have good friends, I have a good life. I embrace my values and live by them. Sometimes, we just have to be booted-out from a livestyle that "looks normal," but isn't good for us or our souls. Blessings to you, keep going.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 05:33 PM on 10/15/2008
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I can say that I have felt this desparation since last year as I was struggling to pay my mortgage that I once could afford until I got laid off. I still managed to struggle and pay with help from my parents until I got a better job once again. But at the sacrifice of my medical benefits, I took a contractor job.

People shouldn't feel so up against the wall and so helpless. When I was struggling I barely wanted to live. I couldn't imagine if I didn't have the family support I did have.

People say, oh just get a job. Well that doesn't solve the problem immediately if you're behind. I worked 2 part time jobs and still couldn't make the salary I used to make. I even lived without hot water for a few months to make it.

Everything isn't so cut and dry and it boggles my mind how people who have money seem to think it is.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 04:38 PM on 10/15/2008

"People say, oh just get a job. Well that doesn't solve the problem imeediately if you're behind."

Not to mention, there are some parts of the country where the ratio of unemployed to jobs availible is outrageous. If there are 1000 people unemployed in a town with 50 job openings, that only leaves 50 people with newly acquired incomes to start paying their mortgage with again. That's just a rhetorical example, but its true. It's not all cut and dry. Its not black and white. I think, unfortunately, the problem is that some people just can't put themselves in someone else's shoes. They have no empathy or understanding of any life situations but their own. That's why the wealthy sit around saying the government shouldn't give hand outs. They don't know how hard it is to work from the bottom up.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 04:03 PM on 10/16/2008

I know that money motivates. With students who actually come from a fresh cohort, I'll often offer a five dollar prize "to anyone who can guess exactly the two things that everybody on earth wants more than anything else." So far, I've never had to pay the full five bucks.

I mean, this is America, land of the free money and home of the brave shopper. Fully 85% of new pupils this semester(I've kept track)listed "money" as one of the two things. This is a much higher than normal figure, as folks are 'getting down to brass tacks' and leaving fame and love and respect out of the picture, with knowledge or understanding barely registering.

None of those answers would have been right either, as should be obvious to such inhabitants of the 'Grace of God' as we have have here in 'Huff-land­.' Am I right? I can't promise five dollars, but I will give kudos to anyone who can answer correctly.

Nevertheless, money matters. The Nazarene's fundamental insight about the power of feeding the hungry and healing the sick represents a core understanding that 'grace' in the context of starvation and disease is unrealistic, unobtainable for the most part. I just hope that more people learn to answer my question wisely, and that we engage with each other to manifest the material magnificence that we are capable of having, instead of the misery so rampant now, both materially and spiritually.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 12:23 PM on 10/15/2008
- Billie I'm a Fan of Billie 23 fans permalink

This is the endgame of republican theory of trickle down economics. The emotional torture and deaths of so many people is heartbreaking. And the only thing that's "trickling down" to coin the phrase from St. Ronny Reagan is. . .nothing. While fatcats are feasting, wages are stagnant. People are working two or three jobs and having to spend less time with their children (family values?????) and prices on everything are going up, up, up! And you get candidates like McCain talking about how americans are the best workers in the world! Well, then pay them a living wage! Stop exporting their jobs! Get them health care. The hypocrisy is mind-boggling! The lack of empathy is disgusting. The exploitation of religion is beyond contempt. The republican demonization of being an intellectual and then pushing a "no child left behind" educational program is ludicrous. I think the republican party has really gone over the edge into insanity.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 12:39 AM on 10/15/2008
- ladydriver I'm a Fan of ladydriver 3 fans permalink

If you've never felt like you had no options or somewhere to turn, then you can't understand how someone can take the step to "quit" on life. It's not out of weakness or being simply overly materialist, it's about fear and hopelessness. And, anyone who thinks it's the "easy way out" has NO CLUE. Sometimes people just can't take the pain anymore.

None of us should think we're so above these others who have reached that point that we sit in judgment on them. What every single one of us needs to do right now is make sure that we're taking care to remind ourselves and our family and friends that there is hope, and, as another person posted, THIS TOO SHALL PASS. Communicate! Pay attention! If you find yourself or someone you know showing signs of giving up, GET HELP! Don't wait...ACT­.

This another reason why the fear and hatemongering of the McCain/Palin side is so dangerous. People are realizing that they have nothing concrete to offer, that they are not fit to lead, while at the same time instilling fear and distrust in their supporters of Obama.

Keep getting the message out to everyone you know. WE CAN. YES, WE CAN.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 12:27 AM on 10/15/2008

beautifully put. Thank you.

I always remember the words of the emcee at the very beginning of the Woodstock concert in 1969. Looking out over 400,000 people with rainstorms about to break out he put it simply: "if we're going to get through this we have to remember that the person on either side of you is your brother and sister."

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 12:31 PM on 10/15/2008
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Do we now add these deaths to the soldiers and civilians who lost their lives over the greed and actions of this administration?

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 12:19 AM on 10/15/2008

Good question. Call it the 'economic collateral damage' of the Bush administration

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 12:32 PM on 10/15/2008
- mae1 I'm a Fan of mae1 permalink

This is the more reason why middle class Americans should wisen up and vote for their own economic interests and not racism. Blue collar, lunch bucket, low education, low information voters should choose life and instead of suicide by opening their minds to change for the better. Stop the republicans from deceiving you into enriching the wealthy expecting a trickle from them. It will never happen because human beings are selfish by nature. You cannot trust your destiny into the hands of selfish liars like Mc Cain/Palin!

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 12:11 AM on 10/15/2008
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