Financial Crisis Suicide Numbers Mounting

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KELLI KENNEDY | October 14, 2008 09:00 AM EST | AP

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An out-of-work money manager in California loses a fortune and wipes out his family in a murder-suicide. A 90-year-old Ohio widow shoots herself in the chest as authorities arrive to evict her from the modest house she called home for 38 years.

In Massachusetts, a housewife who had hidden her family's mounting financial crisis from her husband sends a note to the mortgage company warning: "By the time you foreclose on my house, I'll be dead."

Then Carlene Balderrama shot herself to death, leaving an insurance policy and a suicide note on a table.

Across the country, authorities are becoming concerned that the nation's financial woes could turn increasingly violent, and they are urging people to get help. In some places, mental-health hot lines are jammed, counseling services are in high demand and domestic-violence shelters are full.

"I've had a number of people say that this is the thing most reminiscent of 9/11 that's happened here since then," said the Rev. Canon Ann Malonee, vicar at Trinity Church in the heart of New York's financial district. "It's that sense of having the rug pulled out from under them."

With nowhere else to turn, many people are calling suicide-prevention hot lines. The Samaritans of New York have seen calls rise more than 16 percent in the past year, many of them money-related. The Switchboard of Miami has recorded more than 500 foreclosure-related calls this year.

"A lot of people are telling us they are losing everything. They're losing their homes, they're going into foreclosure, they've lost their jobs," said Virginia Cervasio, executive director of a suicide resource enter in southwest Florida's Lee County.

But tragedies keep mounting:

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_ In Los Angeles last week, a former money manager fatally shot his wife, three sons and his mother-in-law before killing himself.

Karthik Rajaram, 45, left a suicide note saying he was in financial trouble and contemplated killing just himself. But he said he decided to kill his entire family because that was more honorable, police said.

Rajaram once worked for a major accounting firm and for Sony Pictures, and he had been part-owner of a financial holding company. But he had been out of work for several months, police said.

After the murder-suicide, police and mental-health officials in Los Angeles took the unusual step of urging people to seek help for themselves or loved ones if they feel overwhelmed by grim financial news. They said they were specifically afraid of the "copycat phenomenon."

"This is a perfect American family behind me that has absolutely been destroyed, apparently because of a man who just got stuck in a rabbit hole, if you will, of absolute despair," Deputy Police Chief Michel Moore said. "It is critical to step up and recognize we are in some pretty troubled times."

_ In Tennessee, a woman fatally shot herself last week as sheriff's deputies went to evict her from her foreclosed home.

Pamela Ross, 57, and her husband were fighting foreclosure on their home when sheriff's deputies in Sevierville came to serve an eviction notice. They were across the street when they heard a gunshot and found Ross dead from a wound to the chest. The case was even more tragic because the couple had recently been granted an extra 10 days to appeal.

_ In Akron, Ohio, the 90-year-old widow who shot herself on Oct. 1 is recovering. A congressman told Addie Polk's story on the House floor before lawmakers voted to approve a $700 billion financial rescue package. Mortgage finance company Fannie Mae dropped the foreclosure, forgave her mortgage and said she could remain in the home.

_ In Ocala, Fla., Roland Gore shot his wife and dog in March and then set fire to the couple's home, which had been in foreclosure, before killing himself. His case was one of several in which people killed spouses or pets, destroyed property or attacked police before taking their own lives.

"The financial stress builds up to the point the person feels they can't go on, and the person believes their family is better off dead than left without a financial support," said Kristen Rand, legislative director of the Washington D.C.-based Violence Policy Center.

Dr. Edward Charlesworth, a clinical psychologist in Houston, said the current crisis is breeding a sense of chronic anxiety among people who feel helpless and panic-stricken, as well as angry that their government has let them down.

"They feel like in this great society that we live in we should have more protection for the individuals rather than just the corporation," he said.

It's not yet clear there is a statistical link between suicides and the financial downturn since there is generally a two-year lag in national suicide figures. But historically, suicides increase in times of economic hardship. And the current financial crisis is already being called the worst since the Great Depression.

Rising mortgage defaults and falling home values are at the heart of it. More than 4 million Americans were at least one month behind on their mortgages at the end of June, according to the Mortgage Bankers Association.

A record 500,000 had entered the foreclosure process. And that trend is expected to continue through next year, despite the current programs from the government and the lending industry to refinance delinquent homeowners into more affordable loans.

Counselors at Catholic Charities USA report seeing a "significant increase" in the need for housing counseling.

One counselor said half of her clients were on some form of antidepressant or anti-anxiety medication. The agency has seen a decrease in overall funding, but it has expanded foreclosure counseling and received nearly $2 million for such services in late 2007.

Adding to financially tense households is an air of secrecy. Experts said it's common for one spouse to blame the other for their financial mess or to hide it entirely, as Balderrama did.

After falling 3 1/2 years behind in payments, the Taunton, Mass., housewife had been intercepting letters from the mortgage company and shredding them before her husband saw them. She tried to refinance but was declined.

In July, on the day the house was to be auctioned, she faxed the note to the mortgage company. Then the 52-year-old walked outside, shot her three beloved cats and then herself with her husband's rifle.

Notes left on the table revealed months of planning. She'd picked out her funeral home, laid out the insurance policy and left a note saying, "pay off the house with the insurance money."

"She put in her suicide note that it got overwhelming for her," said her husband, John Balderrama. "Apparently she didn't have anyone to talk to. She didn't come to me. I don't know why. There's gotta be some help out there for people that are hurting, (something better) than to see somebody lose a life over a stupid house."

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Associated Press Writers P. Solomon Banda in Denver, Joann Loviglio in Philadelphia, Juanita Cousins in Atlanta, Samantha Gross in New York and John Rogers in Los Angeles contributed to this report.

An out-of-work money manager in California loses a fortune and wipes out his family in a murder-suicide. A 90-year-old Ohio widow shoots herself in the chest as authorities arrive to evict her from th...
An out-of-work money manager in California loses a fortune and wipes out his family in a murder-suicide. A 90-year-old Ohio widow shoots herself in the chest as authorities arrive to evict her from th...
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- ersf I'm a Fan of ersf 16 fans permalink

And all McCain can propose is cut the capital gains tax on investments... Out of touch.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 11:39 PM on 10/14/2008

I was deeply sadden while reading this article. It really hit me because my neighbor shot himself yesterday. He did leave a note stating financial problems.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 11:34 PM on 10/14/2008

As focused as this society is on consumerism and financial success, it is very difficult for those in financial difficulties to admit to a seemingly final and total failure. Now would be a good time for their relatives and friends to make an effort to demonstrate that they are there, to offer support and try to help. Starting by making themselves available, non judgementally, in any way they can, to those families or friends who may having trouble.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 11:26 PM on 10/14/2008

Sorry needed spell check typing to fast hope someone reads and helps themselves

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 11:24 PM on 10/14/2008
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There's approx 350 million americans. let's just say there are 250m households (there are probably less) The govt could've given each household $1 million dollars to pay off their home loan and buy healthcare. that would';ve cost $250million instead of $700 billion. Just think of the spending frenzy that would result with a paid off mortgage. All the business would start pumping out extra crap for folks to buy and they'd have to hire people to make the extra crap and all would be right with the world

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 11:23 PM on 10/14/2008
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250 million people times $1 million comes to $250 trillion. 250 million households getting $250 million only comes to only $1 dollar each. Doing that math homework in school was important after all! God Bless us ALL in these troubling times!

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 05:51 PM on 10/15/2008

READ THIS TELL SOMEONE YOU NEED HELP RIGHT AWAY DONT BE ASHAMED ITS OK GET MEDICAL HELP AS FAST AS YOU CAN.. SUICIDE DOES NOT DISCRIMINATE TAKES ANYONE RICH OR POOR .I lost everything 12 years ago and attempted suicide and was lucky I survived big mistake new family new life i never thought it would get better but it did i got medical help Its no a cop out your clinically depressed and to becomes very dangerous its a shamefull secret I created a Suicide awarness and prevention program and I am a insprirational speaker from my ordeal and my personal story .. my ordeal of ingesting 250 tylnol and lived with no complication saves a life then I have done something good . I went from Real esate to detailing cars but like my father said hard work will get your head right you have to be able to be happy with nothing .you deserve a second third and fourth chance . I started studying Buddhism becasue god just aint doing it for me, we have to do it for ourselves I started for the first time in 12 years feeling really depressed again for all I have gain but I think back when I had nothing I was my happiest but I went and got on meds its not for ever I got off them back then and will again gotta be strong in the self and you will overcome any obstacle.. You will be happy again

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 11:18 PM on 10/14/2008
- edwarvir I'm a Fan of edwarvir 36 fans permalink

This is the most crictical financial time I can ever remember
but suicide is not the answer. THIS TOO WILL PASS! Please
pray and trust in GOD. We must help each other.. I feel
so sorry for these families in this article. I know it's
not easy. but we must see about each other and don't be
too proud to ask for help..

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 09:43 PM on 10/14/2008

Try not to bother GOD too much right now... "He" is "busy" coping with the threat to his reputation if "He" "lets" McCain lose... Didn't you see that guy praying before a recent McCain rally??? He was reminding GOD that all the Muslims and Bhuddists and such are praying to THEIR GOD that Obama should win.... Sooooo, if Obama wins, that means their GODs are better than.... HEY! What the....?

Nevertheless, I think it's probably a pretty good idea to "pray for money." That's what ALL the religious leaders do, after all.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 12:18 AM on 10/15/2008
- ddb I'm a Fan of ddb 2 fans permalink
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Unnecessarily vicious responses to someone trying to be helpful.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 08:24 AM on 10/15/2008
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Platitudes are always most helpful.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 01:54 AM on 10/15/2008
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except the helping each other part. but life in suburban America, and especially the palliative materialism it breeds, has created so much distance among ourselves that when crisis comes, we have no tools with which to address it except what our most important and influential teacher--television--tells us. And all it tells us is to buy more--and what losers we are if we don't. If your whole self-definition is based on what you buy/consume, when the ability to do THAT comes to an end, what else is there to do but die?

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 05:52 PM on 10/15/2008

Like everyone else, I'm really sad about what I've read. However, I'm more disturbed by how people are commenting! If you think that people who commit suicide are stupid, silly, lazy, proud, etc... then you obviously no NOTHING about suicidality and depression!
You also must not have any children or close family members so that you could understand the sense of pressure, worry, and dispair that comes with not being able to care for those people fully.
Of course, I don't expect people who have never dealt with depression to understand it, but I also don't expect to read about such contempt toward individuals who have committed suicide!
Luck you(!) to the people who don't know anything about deep suffering!

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 07:29 PM on 10/14/2008
- Alethea I'm a Fan of Alethea 64 fans permalink
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Agreed. As someone who recently lost my job due to my company closing it's doors and going bankrupt, I completely sympathize. It's very easy to slip into depression when you don't even know if you are going to be able to pay rent next month or even buy groceries. And it's even worse when you didn't even make any mistakes to deserve such a frightening turn of luck.

it can (and does) happen to the best of us. And when faced with the realization that you are only in so much control over your own life, it shouldn't be surprising that many people succumb to despair.

Those on this board who think that it's the fault of the individual (such as myself) for their situations due to laziness or stupidity are simply hoping that's the case. Because if it isn't... then anyone (even them) could succumb to this unfair economic situation.

Well I got news for some of you: anyone (even you) could succumb to this unfair economic situation. Key word: unfair.

There's a broader picture here. And it has to do with the Republican agenda to create an aristocracy (see Bush's tax cuts) that helped to create this situation. And what we need to do is eliminate the corporate welfare system that the Repubs have created. Because as of right now the playing field is far from level. And the ones who suffer is the middle class.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 09:14 PM on 10/14/2008

Depression and suicide are not crimes, they are symptoms of larger problems. Those who choose to mock those with such problems do not understand, its not any different than cancer. Its a medical issue. It can be helped with the best counselors, in some cases meds. Its not a sin to say, I am having a bad day, bad life, need help. Its not a sign of weakness, its a sign of strength. I watched my beautiful daughter suffer from depression, try to harm herself, and luckily, got help, counselling to become a wonderful wife and mother. I also watched a friend whom I knew since childhood take her life. No warning signs, which made it harder to live with. We have to tell people we know who are suffering from depression, its ok to be worried, sad, uptight. Nothing in this life is worth a permanent solution to a temporary problem. This financial mess should not have taken the lives of so many, and those who let it happen should pay the price, the victims already have, and it was preventable.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 11:49 PM on 10/14/2008
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Looking to place blame for all of this? Look no further than Candidate McCain's most trusted economic advisor, Phil "Enron Loophole" Gramm.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 07:09 PM on 10/14/2008

Go watch the film, Into The Wild.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 06:28 PM on 10/14/2008

Excuse me! What do you mean it's all about money with American people?? Unless you live under a rock, we need basic necessities like food and shelter, right? And, to acquire such necessities, we need MONEY! Not everyone lives high on the hog, and I dare say, most of these struggling Americans live a modest lifestyle!

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 05:56 PM on 10/14/2008
- hannitysux I'm a Fan of hannitysux 3 fans permalink

The moral of the story? Don't build your life around money.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 05:45 PM on 10/14/2008
- neesy08 I'm a Fan of neesy08 20 fans permalink
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Nobody should be this materialistic. There are worse things in life than being poor. Kill y ourself and you cannot rebuild te life you had.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 05:42 PM on 10/14/2008
- jeburr24 I'm a Fan of jeburr24 8 fans permalink

If anyone reading this is considering suicide for any reason, please know that suicide is NOT the answer. Please reach out to your loved ones; they will thank you for it. Or if you feel you have no one and you are desperate, know that there are people out there who care and want to help. This is a good place to start on the Web:

http://www.metanoia.org/suicide/

You can also call 1-800-SUICIDE or any number of other suicide prevention hotlines.

As they say, suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem. Whatever your situation, there is a better way.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 05:27 PM on 10/14/2008
- TAIsabel I'm a Fan of TAIsabel 54 fans permalink
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I can't help but think of Aldous Huxley and "Brave New World". Twenty years ago a friend asked me how does one raise children in this debauched world and I said: EDITING. Editing meant focusing on the important things and staying clear of the false world that was being built around us. Unfortunately, the American dream was turned into the American nightmare, false heroes, vain celebrities, bling, cars,Wall Marts, credit cards...excess at every level with a drug to match your every mood. Is your child undisciplined? Ritalin! Are you overweight? Diet pills! Are you impotent? Viagra! Are you getting old? Plastic Surgery!

I am very sad for all of this misery, it fills every aspect of our now disastreous condition. Perhaps the only silver lining is a wake-up call and a true and deep desire to change and refocus. I hold no illusions though, history has been here before, many times. Barbara Tuchman wrote two of my fravorite books, "A Distant Mirror" and "March of Folly". I think of her often too.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 05:08 PM on 10/14/2008

You nailed it. Well done.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 12:36 PM on 10/15/2008
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