Financial Crisis Suicide Numbers Mounting

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KELLI KENNEDY | October 14, 2008 09:00 AM EST | AP

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An out-of-work money manager in California loses a fortune and wipes out his family in a murder-suicide. A 90-year-old Ohio widow shoots herself in the chest as authorities arrive to evict her from the modest house she called home for 38 years.

In Massachusetts, a housewife who had hidden her family's mounting financial crisis from her husband sends a note to the mortgage company warning: "By the time you foreclose on my house, I'll be dead."

Then Carlene Balderrama shot herself to death, leaving an insurance policy and a suicide note on a table.

Across the country, authorities are becoming concerned that the nation's financial woes could turn increasingly violent, and they are urging people to get help. In some places, mental-health hot lines are jammed, counseling services are in high demand and domestic-violence shelters are full.

"I've had a number of people say that this is the thing most reminiscent of 9/11 that's happened here since then," said the Rev. Canon Ann Malonee, vicar at Trinity Church in the heart of New York's financial district. "It's that sense of having the rug pulled out from under them."

With nowhere else to turn, many people are calling suicide-prevention hot lines. The Samaritans of New York have seen calls rise more than 16 percent in the past year, many of them money-related. The Switchboard of Miami has recorded more than 500 foreclosure-related calls this year.

"A lot of people are telling us they are losing everything. They're losing their homes, they're going into foreclosure, they've lost their jobs," said Virginia Cervasio, executive director of a suicide resource enter in southwest Florida's Lee County.

But tragedies keep mounting:

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_ In Los Angeles last week, a former money manager fatally shot his wife, three sons and his mother-in-law before killing himself.

Karthik Rajaram, 45, left a suicide note saying he was in financial trouble and contemplated killing just himself. But he said he decided to kill his entire family because that was more honorable, police said.

Rajaram once worked for a major accounting firm and for Sony Pictures, and he had been part-owner of a financial holding company. But he had been out of work for several months, police said.

After the murder-suicide, police and mental-health officials in Los Angeles took the unusual step of urging people to seek help for themselves or loved ones if they feel overwhelmed by grim financial news. They said they were specifically afraid of the "copycat phenomenon."

"This is a perfect American family behind me that has absolutely been destroyed, apparently because of a man who just got stuck in a rabbit hole, if you will, of absolute despair," Deputy Police Chief Michel Moore said. "It is critical to step up and recognize we are in some pretty troubled times."

_ In Tennessee, a woman fatally shot herself last week as sheriff's deputies went to evict her from her foreclosed home.

Pamela Ross, 57, and her husband were fighting foreclosure on their home when sheriff's deputies in Sevierville came to serve an eviction notice. They were across the street when they heard a gunshot and found Ross dead from a wound to the chest. The case was even more tragic because the couple had recently been granted an extra 10 days to appeal.

_ In Akron, Ohio, the 90-year-old widow who shot herself on Oct. 1 is recovering. A congressman told Addie Polk's story on the House floor before lawmakers voted to approve a $700 billion financial rescue package. Mortgage finance company Fannie Mae dropped the foreclosure, forgave her mortgage and said she could remain in the home.

_ In Ocala, Fla., Roland Gore shot his wife and dog in March and then set fire to the couple's home, which had been in foreclosure, before killing himself. His case was one of several in which people killed spouses or pets, destroyed property or attacked police before taking their own lives.

"The financial stress builds up to the point the person feels they can't go on, and the person believes their family is better off dead than left without a financial support," said Kristen Rand, legislative director of the Washington D.C.-based Violence Policy Center.

Dr. Edward Charlesworth, a clinical psychologist in Houston, said the current crisis is breeding a sense of chronic anxiety among people who feel helpless and panic-stricken, as well as angry that their government has let them down.

"They feel like in this great society that we live in we should have more protection for the individuals rather than just the corporation," he said.

It's not yet clear there is a statistical link between suicides and the financial downturn since there is generally a two-year lag in national suicide figures. But historically, suicides increase in times of economic hardship. And the current financial crisis is already being called the worst since the Great Depression.

Rising mortgage defaults and falling home values are at the heart of it. More than 4 million Americans were at least one month behind on their mortgages at the end of June, according to the Mortgage Bankers Association.

A record 500,000 had entered the foreclosure process. And that trend is expected to continue through next year, despite the current programs from the government and the lending industry to refinance delinquent homeowners into more affordable loans.

Counselors at Catholic Charities USA report seeing a "significant increase" in the need for housing counseling.

One counselor said half of her clients were on some form of antidepressant or anti-anxiety medication. The agency has seen a decrease in overall funding, but it has expanded foreclosure counseling and received nearly $2 million for such services in late 2007.

Adding to financially tense households is an air of secrecy. Experts said it's common for one spouse to blame the other for their financial mess or to hide it entirely, as Balderrama did.

After falling 3 1/2 years behind in payments, the Taunton, Mass., housewife had been intercepting letters from the mortgage company and shredding them before her husband saw them. She tried to refinance but was declined.

In July, on the day the house was to be auctioned, she faxed the note to the mortgage company. Then the 52-year-old walked outside, shot her three beloved cats and then herself with her husband's rifle.

Notes left on the table revealed months of planning. She'd picked out her funeral home, laid out the insurance policy and left a note saying, "pay off the house with the insurance money."

"She put in her suicide note that it got overwhelming for her," said her husband, John Balderrama. "Apparently she didn't have anyone to talk to. She didn't come to me. I don't know why. There's gotta be some help out there for people that are hurting, (something better) than to see somebody lose a life over a stupid house."

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Associated Press Writers P. Solomon Banda in Denver, Joann Loviglio in Philadelphia, Juanita Cousins in Atlanta, Samantha Gross in New York and John Rogers in Los Angeles contributed to this report.

An out-of-work money manager in California loses a fortune and wipes out his family in a murder-suicide. A 90-year-old Ohio widow shoots herself in the chest as authorities arrive to evict her from th...
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- rich misty I'm a Fan of rich misty 1041 fans permalink
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http://election.princeton.edu/2008/10/14/get-on-the-bus/#more-1831

Urgent Request from the Princeton Election Consortium

Lab Director Sam Wang asks that we please "Get on the Bus"

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 03:13 PM on 10/14/2008

ok - maybe a stupid question....are "they" still getting paid? have their separation packages been frozen? (you know them, they're bastards!)
in the past weeks it's been reported that these execs left these failing companies with golden parachutes...have those parachutes turned to lead?

my mom (RIP 7/13/08) left a pittance of an inheritance thru wachovia to my sister and i in the form of mutual funds. i was able to get mine out & into my credit union, my sister is kinda dumb, she's screwed and on the verge of losing her home.
my mom's financial advisor at wachovia - he's in PERU - doing missionary work or something like that! hmmm....something tells me he smelled something funny.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 03:04 PM on 10/14/2008
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Meanwhile our admin and their walstreet flunkies keep getting rich as we as a nation parish.... disgusting

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 02:53 PM on 10/14/2008
- Yve72 I'm a Fan of Yve72 8 fans permalink
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Why do most Americans live in a credit-financed fantasy world?
Live within you means.

Sometimes I think it would be better if the stock market did crash. Rip the band-aid of once and for all so we can get back to reality.

Our government is going to bail out companies with billions of dollars it doesn't even have. Isn't this @ss backwards?

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 02:46 PM on 10/14/2008
- tbrnotb I'm a Fan of tbrnotb 18 fans permalink

How kind of you to again blame the victims in this tragedy! It's so easy to look in from the outside and ask these questions. It's our culture and our society. It's the way it is. Why not ask the Palestinians and the Jews to live peacefully together. Ask the Protestants and the Catholics in Northern Ireland to sing "Cumbaya."

As a person who has recently gone thorugh a foreclosure, I wish I had a dollar for every friend and family member, who blames me for my foolishness as they moan about how "they played by the rules" and will now have to pay higher taxes. And you wonder why people commit desperate acts.

Try a little compassion. "Live within you means" is rather cruel as well as gramatically incorrect.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 03:05 PM on 10/14/2008
- Yve72 I'm a Fan of Yve72 8 fans permalink
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Its hard to hear the truth, isn't it?
Your friends and family members were right. Try listening to them instead of lashing out.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 07:50 PM on 10/14/2008
- BCubedReg I'm a Fan of BCubedReg 6 fans permalink

Yve72 said

"Why do most Americans live in a credit-financed fantasy world? Live within you means."

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What an insensitive, irresponsible thing to say.

Are you actually suggesting people pay in full, cash for their houses? Pay in full cash for their automobile?

The median household income is approximately $50,000 and the median home price is just over $200,000. How long do you think it will take to save $200,000 to pay cash for a house (around 15-17 years depending on savings interest rates and 10% annual salary savings)? Especially when the family is already paying rent. The purpose of credit is to allow that family to pay over time the mortgage of the home instead of paying rent.

If an unexpected job loss occurs during hard economic times happens.. it's not just the job that is lost, but a stable home/house. If unexpected medical bills occur, the house can be lost.

Most of the people in the post are victims of a bad economic downturn of no fault of their own.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 03:19 PM on 10/14/2008
- Yve72 I'm a Fan of Yve72 8 fans permalink
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You know, there actually are non-rich people who pay cash for their automobiles!
I doubt that majority of these foreclosures are due to medical bills.

Obviously most people can't pay cash for their houses, but your monthly mortgage should be within your budget. Why do people have 5 bedroom houses when they only have 2 kids?

Nobody should have a house that's more than 2.5 times your combined annually salary. Nobody should have a car that more than 50% your salary. Period.

My husband makes 55K a year. I am home with children. When we bought this house, we agreed that on his salary alone he should be able to pay every bill & have money left over for the kids' college savings and our own AND HE HAS DONE IT EVERY YEAR! We live frugally.

I have married girlfriends who make as much money as my husband, but they waste it because that wanna live a certain lifestyle. Americans waste money.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 07:46 PM on 10/14/2008
- tbone99 I'm a Fan of tbone99 88 fans permalink

Is that your reply to retirees living in houses now worth half their value, whose income has dwindled as their stocks became worthless?

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 03:37 PM on 10/14/2008
- Yve72 I'm a Fan of Yve72 8 fans permalink
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Nobody told them to buy those overpriced houses.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 07:21 PM on 10/14/2008

When it became acceptable to have hundreds of thousands of American men women and children living homeless and destitute on the streets, that was the beginning of the end. And still people took the happy pill, blamed the victims and believed in 'real' estate while greed became rampant and acceptable. Sometimes I think the epidemic of anti-depressant, anti-anxiety medicating are really apart of this problem and not part of the solution. Depression and anxiety were valid and sane responses the day a sociopath took over the White House. Replacing the traditional opiate of the masses with a blind faith in corporatism was like playing musical chairs on the Titanic. Whether by Big Pharma, Big Insurance,Big Banking or Big Armed Forces you folks have been SCREWED, Flush the meds. Wake up! Get real. Take action. Please. It is so sad to see what is happening to your country and your people.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 02:40 PM on 10/14/2008

All empires fall eventually due to the infighting and the greed and ranchor going on among those in power. The real sociopath, the real power behind the American throne for the past eight yrs. as far as I am concerned, is Dick Cheney. Joe Biden called him the most dangerous VP this nation has ever had. For good reason. Just look at the state of the nation and how one nation's greed and avarice, and blindness and studpidity in allowing corporate interest to trump that of the people of the nation has led to this nightmare. To all of those that may be in despair, look to the creator, look to the Almighty for strenghth and sustenance. He will carry you through. Let us all pray that he will see fit to place Barrack Obama as the new leader of the free world in this election.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 03:31 PM on 10/14/2008

300 Million Americans? Why not give $1 million to each American? Problem solved....and a lot cheaper than $700 billion. Isn't tax payer money supposed to bail us (the people) out?

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 02:39 PM on 10/14/2008
- Furby I'm a Fan of Furby 66 fans permalink
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Not to worry Dundee, most of your government flunked out at math too. If you divide 700 billion by 300 million, that's about $2,300 per person. I still like your solution :)

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 02:44 PM on 10/14/2008
- dac253 I'm a Fan of dac253 23 fans permalink
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JINX! Buy me a beer!

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 02:46 PM on 10/14/2008

So much for the quality of a Hahvahd MBA!!! LOL

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 02:48 PM on 10/14/2008
- dac253 I'm a Fan of dac253 23 fans permalink
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I think your math might be off a little. Nice sentiment tho :)

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 02:44 PM on 10/14/2008

Sorry, but that amounts to $300 TRILLION.

If you're going to toss around figures, get the math correct, please.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 02:46 PM on 10/14/2008

They actually did that in Germany in the Great Depression, hoping that German families would go out and spend. Instead, it caused rapid inflation, causing the need to drag wheelbarrows of money to just buy an apple.

You never want to just "give" everybody money, since it defeats the purpose of money.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 02:48 PM on 10/14/2008

Yeah, like the money (our money) that the government is giving to the banks. Kind of defeats the purpose of money AND banking, eh?

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 04:21 PM on 10/14/2008
- zetacplus I'm a Fan of zetacplus 12 fans permalink
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You need to check your math: It would cost 300 trillion dollars to give 300 million people 1 million dollars.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 02:53 PM on 10/14/2008
- frank1569 I'm a Fan of frank1569 14 fans permalink

"More than 4 million Americans were at least one month behind on their mortgages at the end of June..." And probably at least another 4 million renters who were behind at least a month as well.

If I were one of the Wall Street bank robbers, I'd be investing in major protection right about now...

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 02:32 PM on 10/14/2008

Booosh has already done that for them.

Hear about the Army's 3rd Battallion being brought home to train in "crowd control" techniques?

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 02:38 PM on 10/14/2008
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Its a recession. STOP! You'll scare the kids.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 02:30 PM on 10/14/2008
- studlyguy I'm a Fan of studlyguy 9 fans permalink

Yeah I know but when they finally admit to a recession,you better believe it's really a depression .

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 03:18 PM on 10/14/2008
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If only this soap opera would end like the movie "Network"; "...the only man in history who was killed for poor ratings."

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 02:27 PM on 10/14/2008
- studlyguy I'm a Fan of studlyguy 9 fans permalink

Volcker says America is in a recession ,I disagree I say we are in a economic DEPRESSION!

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 02:26 PM on 10/14/2008

I love this stuff...its like a literary tragedy coming to life...

awesome... bring it on

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 02:23 PM on 10/14/2008
- dac253 I'm a Fan of dac253 23 fans permalink
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That's not very nice. Actually, that's pretty evil. Turn off the t.v.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 02:32 PM on 10/14/2008
- Furby I'm a Fan of Furby 66 fans permalink
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Brings to mind two old french fables, the one about the ant and the grasshopper, and the other one about the crow and the fox. In the first, the ant says to the destitute grasshopper "You chose to sing all summer long while I worked away, well now you can dance."

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 02:38 PM on 10/14/2008

You will see how entertaining it will be -- when the lights go out.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 02:38 PM on 10/14/2008
- Knowitall I'm a Fan of Knowitall 74 fans permalink

I don't understand. What are you talking about? Are you replying to the article I just read? Is there any limit to our stupidity.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 02:42 PM on 10/14/2008

shiznaw must be one of those "tough love" advocates...

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 03:20 PM on 10/14/2008

THE MAN WITH THE BLOOD ON HIS HANDS!

American Troops are choosing death at their own hands (Suicide) in record numbers, American Pre-Adults are choosing death and murder in schooling killings at record number (Suicide), and now those in our economic system and chewed up by the Capitalist System are choosing death at their own hands (Economic) Suicides.

Does anyone think that maybe its time to look to those who have caused this starting at the very TOP, the Imperial President, and ask the question, what do you do with a criminal who the blood of so many is still fresh upon his hands?

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 02:15 PM on 10/14/2008
- Meggie I'm a Fan of Meggie 82 fans permalink
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Haven't there been statistics that under Republican administrations, suicides go up?

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 02:17 PM on 10/14/2008
- maxfax I'm a Fan of maxfax 17 fans permalink

That wouldn't be surprising.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 02:38 PM on 10/14/2008
- Nova16 I'm a Fan of Nova16 34 fans permalink

To the "faith based" republicans suicide is another form of premature "rapture".

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 03:24 PM on 10/14/2008
- Furby I'm a Fan of Furby 66 fans permalink
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A little self examination might also be in order. How much of the junk we now have did we actually need? And how much would anyone pay for that second hand junk now? How much stuff did we deny ourselves for the sake of contributing to our savings? How many credit cards did we voluntarily destroy after paying them off? How much time did we spend educating our children about fiscal responsibility and living within one's means? If the answer to most of these questions is "0", then we are as big a part of the problem as the corrupt government and corporate crooks. They saw the opportunities we laid out before them and made the most of them.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 02:51 PM on 10/14/2008
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Don't blame the victims. That's the completely wrong way to solve the problem. While there certainly is improvement that people need to make in their own individual lives, the very structure of the economic system has been tilted to favor the rich and those who cheat.

Many people (myself included) did everything right. But in an unfair system that isn't always enough. I worked my butt off at my job, lived within my means, never had more then $2K in debt at any one time. But when my company failed due to lack of revenue, I lost my job and my boss couldn't pay me for 3 months worth of salary because he was going bankrupt. Now I'm in a lot of debt due to no fault of my own. And yes I did get depressed (not enough to kill myself) but when everything spirals out of control like that, it's hard not to.

I've finally decided to move on with my life an deal with what I have to deal with, but I resent your implication that I brought this on myself. When the deck is stacked against you, there's not much you can do except try to manage. And I know for a FACT that I'm not the exception, because I know at least 5 others who will likely be laid off and be put in serious financial trouble. Although THEY have small children. So I feel even worse for them. And you should too.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 03:22 PM on 10/14/2008

Listen you, from the time babies can see the flickering tv through their crib slats there is an entire system designed to instill in them the values of capitalist consumption. Read a little about Edward Bernays if you want to understand the brainwashing and social conditioning EVERY American undergoes right from the time they are born until they die. It is what is both encouraged and expected of people and to think that under all this social conditioning that people can somehow rise above it and eschew consumerism - oh, but then they are derided as freaks or socialists or granola heads or whatever. If you want to break your arm patting yourself on the back for being such a nonconformist fine, but do not blame the victims of this society for doing exactly what society told them to do.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 04:26 PM on 10/14/2008

There's another factor to why people are literally scared to death about losing everything: The great prejudicial didain for the poor that has been cultivated for decades!
The RW Media especially while claiming everyman representation has actually been spewing intense hatred & depise for Poor People. We have been accused under 1 giant blanket of being "stupid, lazy, bad, mean, drug addicts, useles, etc etc"

The "poor" have been Middle Class's 'enemy' for decades!
Who would ever want to become their enemy?

But maybe now We need to quickly revamp that outlook & (please!) come to realize that "The Poor" are just people; good people trying to survive, honest people that things didn't go especially well for. Don't abandon each other, or Us the already Poor, while struggling to keep your own ship afloat.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 02:11 PM on 10/14/2008

During the Great Depression, neighbors actually put people BACK into their homes.

"A lot of 'em was put out. They'd call and have the bailiffs come and sit them out, and as soon as they'd leave, we would put 'em back where they came out. All we had to do was call Brother Hilton...Look, such and such a place, there's a family sittin' out there. Everybody passed through the neighborhood, was a member of the Worker's Alliance, had one person they would call. When that one person came, he'd have about fifty people with him...Take that stuff right on back up there. The men would connect those lights and go to the hardware store and get gas pipe, and connect that stove back. Put the furniture just like you had it, so it don't look like you been out the door."

As related to Studs Terkel by one Mrs. Willye Jeffries. (Excerpted from Howard Zinn's "A People's History Of The United States: 1492 - Present")

During bank-ordered farm foreclosure auctions of the early eighties, neighboring farm families would often show up en masse to block the auction from proceeding.

I wonder...do we still have it in us to HELP OUR NEIGHBORS, are have we become such a greedy culture that we only think of ourselves?

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 02:34 PM on 10/14/2008

*I wonder...do we still have it in us to HELP OUR NEIGHBORS*

Liberals do... and always have. That's what separates us from republicans.
Liberals don't need billboards in our honor when we help our neighbor.
We just DO it.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 02:46 PM on 10/14/2008

yet another chapter in the Bush legacy.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 02:10 PM on 10/14/2008

Ah, wouldn't it be nice if we could just blame everything on Bush? But life is not so simple, alas, and there is blame to spare for EVERYONE who has EVER bought into the conservative "me first and to hell with everyone else" philosophy. Bush was just the last (and dumbest) of a string of national criminals. Sure, hang the SOB - but save some rope for more than a few others.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 03:08 PM on 10/14/2008

Unfortunately, the psychological effects of this depression is like that which was experienced in Orson Welles' 1938 radio adaptation of War of the Worlds. People will behave irrationally to impeding doom and its the innocents who suffer, while the culprits walk away with billion$$$$.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 02:04 PM on 10/14/2008
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But, Sir... You're calling this period a "Depression" and not a "Recession"? The econnomists and BushBabies say this is a temporary thing, like chicken pox, and that we'll recover if we are "strong and flexible"?

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 02:13 PM on 10/14/2008
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