Financial Crisis Suicide Numbers Mounting

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KELLI KENNEDY | October 14, 2008 09:00 AM EST | AP

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An out-of-work money manager in California loses a fortune and wipes out his family in a murder-suicide. A 90-year-old Ohio widow shoots herself in the chest as authorities arrive to evict her from the modest house she called home for 38 years.

In Massachusetts, a housewife who had hidden her family's mounting financial crisis from her husband sends a note to the mortgage company warning: "By the time you foreclose on my house, I'll be dead."

Then Carlene Balderrama shot herself to death, leaving an insurance policy and a suicide note on a table.

Across the country, authorities are becoming concerned that the nation's financial woes could turn increasingly violent, and they are urging people to get help. In some places, mental-health hot lines are jammed, counseling services are in high demand and domestic-violence shelters are full.

"I've had a number of people say that this is the thing most reminiscent of 9/11 that's happened here since then," said the Rev. Canon Ann Malonee, vicar at Trinity Church in the heart of New York's financial district. "It's that sense of having the rug pulled out from under them."

With nowhere else to turn, many people are calling suicide-prevention hot lines. The Samaritans of New York have seen calls rise more than 16 percent in the past year, many of them money-related. The Switchboard of Miami has recorded more than 500 foreclosure-related calls this year.

"A lot of people are telling us they are losing everything. They're losing their homes, they're going into foreclosure, they've lost their jobs," said Virginia Cervasio, executive director of a suicide resource enter in southwest Florida's Lee County.

But tragedies keep mounting:

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_ In Los Angeles last week, a former money manager fatally shot his wife, three sons and his mother-in-law before killing himself.

Karthik Rajaram, 45, left a suicide note saying he was in financial trouble and contemplated killing just himself. But he said he decided to kill his entire family because that was more honorable, police said.

Rajaram once worked for a major accounting firm and for Sony Pictures, and he had been part-owner of a financial holding company. But he had been out of work for several months, police said.

After the murder-suicide, police and mental-health officials in Los Angeles took the unusual step of urging people to seek help for themselves or loved ones if they feel overwhelmed by grim financial news. They said they were specifically afraid of the "copycat phenomenon."

"This is a perfect American family behind me that has absolutely been destroyed, apparently because of a man who just got stuck in a rabbit hole, if you will, of absolute despair," Deputy Police Chief Michel Moore said. "It is critical to step up and recognize we are in some pretty troubled times."

_ In Tennessee, a woman fatally shot herself last week as sheriff's deputies went to evict her from her foreclosed home.

Pamela Ross, 57, and her husband were fighting foreclosure on their home when sheriff's deputies in Sevierville came to serve an eviction notice. They were across the street when they heard a gunshot and found Ross dead from a wound to the chest. The case was even more tragic because the couple had recently been granted an extra 10 days to appeal.

_ In Akron, Ohio, the 90-year-old widow who shot herself on Oct. 1 is recovering. A congressman told Addie Polk's story on the House floor before lawmakers voted to approve a $700 billion financial rescue package. Mortgage finance company Fannie Mae dropped the foreclosure, forgave her mortgage and said she could remain in the home.

_ In Ocala, Fla., Roland Gore shot his wife and dog in March and then set fire to the couple's home, which had been in foreclosure, before killing himself. His case was one of several in which people killed spouses or pets, destroyed property or attacked police before taking their own lives.

"The financial stress builds up to the point the person feels they can't go on, and the person believes their family is better off dead than left without a financial support," said Kristen Rand, legislative director of the Washington D.C.-based Violence Policy Center.

Dr. Edward Charlesworth, a clinical psychologist in Houston, said the current crisis is breeding a sense of chronic anxiety among people who feel helpless and panic-stricken, as well as angry that their government has let them down.

"They feel like in this great society that we live in we should have more protection for the individuals rather than just the corporation," he said.

It's not yet clear there is a statistical link between suicides and the financial downturn since there is generally a two-year lag in national suicide figures. But historically, suicides increase in times of economic hardship. And the current financial crisis is already being called the worst since the Great Depression.

Rising mortgage defaults and falling home values are at the heart of it. More than 4 million Americans were at least one month behind on their mortgages at the end of June, according to the Mortgage Bankers Association.

A record 500,000 had entered the foreclosure process. And that trend is expected to continue through next year, despite the current programs from the government and the lending industry to refinance delinquent homeowners into more affordable loans.

Counselors at Catholic Charities USA report seeing a "significant increase" in the need for housing counseling.

One counselor said half of her clients were on some form of antidepressant or anti-anxiety medication. The agency has seen a decrease in overall funding, but it has expanded foreclosure counseling and received nearly $2 million for such services in late 2007.

Adding to financially tense households is an air of secrecy. Experts said it's common for one spouse to blame the other for their financial mess or to hide it entirely, as Balderrama did.

After falling 3 1/2 years behind in payments, the Taunton, Mass., housewife had been intercepting letters from the mortgage company and shredding them before her husband saw them. She tried to refinance but was declined.

In July, on the day the house was to be auctioned, she faxed the note to the mortgage company. Then the 52-year-old walked outside, shot her three beloved cats and then herself with her husband's rifle.

Notes left on the table revealed months of planning. She'd picked out her funeral home, laid out the insurance policy and left a note saying, "pay off the house with the insurance money."

"She put in her suicide note that it got overwhelming for her," said her husband, John Balderrama. "Apparently she didn't have anyone to talk to. She didn't come to me. I don't know why. There's gotta be some help out there for people that are hurting, (something better) than to see somebody lose a life over a stupid house."

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Associated Press Writers P. Solomon Banda in Denver, Joann Loviglio in Philadelphia, Juanita Cousins in Atlanta, Samantha Gross in New York and John Rogers in Los Angeles contributed to this report.

An out-of-work money manager in California loses a fortune and wipes out his family in a murder-suicide. A 90-year-old Ohio widow shoots herself in the chest as authorities arrive to evict her from th...
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- Nofoolhere I'm a Fan of Nofoolhere 12 fans permalink
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ATTENTION RIGHT WING: "BY THEIR FRUITS YE SHALL KNOW THEM."

A Tree and Its Fruit (Mat 14: 33-37)
“Either make the tree good, and its fruit good; or make the tree bad, and its fruit bad; for the tree is known by its fruit. You brood of vipers! How can you speak good things, when you are evil? For out of the abundance of the heart the mouth speaks. The good person brings good things out of a good treasure, and the evil person brings evil things out of an evil treasure. I tell you, on the day of judgment you will have to give an account for every careless word you utter; for by your words you will be justified, and by your words you will be condemned.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 01:18 PM on 10/14/2008
- luciadulu I'm a Fan of luciadulu 13 fans permalink

Thank you for citing this! It was the only thing that made my father (who used to be intelligent and compassionate and now lives on a daily diet of fear and Rush Limbaugh) SHUT UP about how God was leading George W. Bush!

"Dad... where does it say that the fruit of the spirit is war?"

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 02:02 PM on 10/14/2008
- Rapid Ray I'm a Fan of Rapid Ray 18 fans permalink
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The current leadership has always put "the spoils of war" ahead of the seeds they have sown.

It's become pretty apparent right now...

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 02:49 PM on 10/14/2008
- Felicty I'm a Fan of Felicty 31 fans permalink
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A republican form of population control, perhaps?

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 01:17 PM on 10/14/2008
- JenMI I'm a Fan of JenMI 15 fans permalink

Sad...thanks republicans.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 01:12 PM on 10/14/2008
- Rapid Ray I'm a Fan of Rapid Ray 18 fans permalink
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There was a running joke that became a reality in the US....
"He who dies with most toys...wins."

Gradually, we have become a nation who's measure of success is judged by only dollar signs and things paraded before your neighbors in an attempt to demean their lesser gains and pad self serving egos. To achieve this facade of status, one only needed to run up multiple credit cards and take out loans to buy it from a financial system that was more than willing to "lend" a hand...with interest.

Read between the lines and you see a simple pattern. Desire to give the appearance of affluence was the central role of our economic system's collapse. Borrowing became the primary method. Efforts became secondary at best.

The people who had less are now the people who have more.
They have learned to live with realistic goals and within their means. They survive because they are more immune to the despair of loss. It was not about what they had, but rather that, once gotten, that it could never be taken away.
These are the people who live a practical lifestyle and never put it at risk to the ill winds blowing across Wall Street today. Those who have lost are suffering the indignity of it and these extreme cases are the result.

"Never measure a person by the size of their wallet. You may miss the best they have to offer."

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 01:11 PM on 10/14/2008

This is a very valid comment that applies to a portion, but only a portion of the people really suffering in these financial times. There are others who've never even been able to get as far as borrowing for a home... There are people in my family who are saying "We're NOT having problems, we didn't make stupid decisions... we never lived beyond our means...". And they genuinely believe that anyone who is in crisis caused it themselves. That group will always be around, and I do not dispute that it has grown and the getmore/showmore way of living did contribute to many people's current problems. But this phenomenom does not apply to everyone who is not making it right now.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 01:48 PM on 10/14/2008
- omahajim I'm a Fan of omahajim 5 fans permalink
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i will send my ENTIRE STOCK of glaser safety slugs to wall street.

will somebody give me an address to send them to please?

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 01:09 PM on 10/14/2008

Naaaah...keep your ammo (you might need it).

Send 'em a 6 foot section of garden hose instead.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 01:26 PM on 10/14/2008
- punk I'm a Fan of punk 56 fans permalink
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Those people didn't spend wisely their $300 rebate check from Bush.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 01:09 PM on 10/14/2008
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They bought groceries; totally living above their means... (totally sarcastic)

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 01:12 PM on 10/14/2008

Yup, Yup.

Even Ramen went from 6 cents a package to 10 cents in the past few months.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 01:20 PM on 10/14/2008
- bluekatz I'm a Fan of bluekatz 13 fans permalink

And who told you that, BUSH or the Mainstream propoganda machinel? How far do you expect $300 dollar to go in this day and age?

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 01:23 PM on 10/14/2008

Those gosh darn grocery speculators!

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 01:26 PM on 10/14/2008

The pre-election-fuel-cost-reduction scheme to re-elect dregs and McCain is in place.

However, if the Treasury gives $5 Trillion to liars, cheats, and scum-bags, wouldn't the stock market jump 5,000 points and ensure a GOP triumph?

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 01:05 PM on 10/14/2008

i made it have way through this story and had to stop..so sad!

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 01:04 PM on 10/14/2008
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Then don't go through these posts; Ther are comments with even more heartbreak and some posters that think that the good life just falls in your lap if you just work and don't "live above your means"

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 01:08 PM on 10/14/2008

Horatio Alger was a fable written by those who INHERITED their riches.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 01:10 PM on 10/14/2008
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Reminds me that there are alot of military families and veterans that are going to feel the financial crunch far deeper than than us blue-collars. What will the politicians have as a paneacea for their economic woes? I've got two friends and three cousins in Iraq and Afganistan now, and their families are getting their utilities cut off and receiving foreclosure notices. I don't hear the GOP saying what they'll do for them; so what hope does the ordinary citizen have?

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 01:04 PM on 10/14/2008

In the immortal word of Dickchinny, "So?".

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 01:11 PM on 10/14/2008
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I understand that I shouldn't expect a VP who would shoot his hunting partner in the face to possess a moral compass, or for that matter, a conscious. But we can dream, can't we?

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 01:29 PM on 10/14/2008
- bluekatz I'm a Fan of bluekatz 13 fans permalink

That has always been the problem for many military familes. When you see military families having to rely on food stamps while working for the government you know something is seriously wrong. No military family should be without the basics especially when there commander in chief has ordered them to war. The problem with those who like to take this country to war is that they look at our military personnel as expandable and clearly as numbers with no regards nature of being a human being. The government could careless, just look at the care they receive once they return from war yet the profiteers rake in milions. Rape and pillage and the people will not mind!, that their way of thinking.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 01:32 PM on 10/14/2008
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Personally, I don't see the people I love as "cannon fodder". Just as civilians don't deserve to suffer for the lack of compassion of our goverment, neither should our military. They're fighting for Exxon, BP, and Blackwater, not for my freedom. They should get anything their families desire if the goverment wantes to use them in this fashion.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 01:40 PM on 10/14/2008
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More proof the average man and woman should be able to form a Labor Union with other workers.
The age of credit is over. Workers must collectively negotiate for more $.

See this link for more info:

www.freechoiceact.org

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 12:58 PM on 10/14/2008
- tonydon I'm a Fan of tonydon 6 fans permalink

Why are we pailing out the banks and wall street crooks who got us into this mess. How about freezing andlowering the interest raates on credit for the consumers, and whatch the economy recover. Oh No we are going to give the breaks and money to the fat cats and big salaries. American we are being screwed.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 12:56 PM on 10/14/2008
- zizyphus I'm a Fan of zizyphus 110 fans permalink
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These are our own homegrown versions of suicide "bombers". It is so sad. They are protesting a system that has used and abused them for so long.

It is so hard when we are faced with most of our elected representatives voting to give the banksters billions of dollars, while poor, hard-working Americans are terrorized by our government.

Now we hear they may give us a few of the cake crumbs: extended unemployment benefits, tax credits: sort of a party favor after the lavish banquet they presented to the banks.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 12:54 PM on 10/14/2008
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In the paper: Iowa running out of unemployment funds

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 12:56 PM on 10/14/2008

More like they're going to let us sift through the garbage cans after the banquet...

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 12:57 PM on 10/14/2008
- bluekatz I'm a Fan of bluekatz 13 fans permalink

You know when you have companies like AIG throwing 400K parties and getting a bailout the only thing left for these bastards is jail. There is no excuse for companies to get away with this or get a slap on the wrist while the average American is struggling. They are the reason from the crisis yet they get rewarded. If we allow them to go unpunished then its our fault. We need to ensure that these people through these suspect politicians be held accountable. How many other companies have done what AIG has done and we don't know about it?

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 01:06 PM on 10/14/2008
- bluekatz I'm a Fan of bluekatz 13 fans permalink

You know when you have companies like AIG throwing 400K parties and getting a bailout the only thing left for these bast^rds is jail. There is no excuse for companies to get away with this or get a slap on the wrist while the average American is struggling. They are the reason from the crisis yet they get rewarded. If we allow them to go unpunished then its our fault. We need to ensure that these people through these suspect politicians be held accountable. How many other companies have done what AIG has done and we don't know about it?

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 01:07 PM on 10/14/2008

Get real...if you think our current "justice system" is going to do a damnthing to these thieves, you're kidding yourself.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 01:39 PM on 10/14/2008
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The whole thing is so tragic, but not to people like Phil Gramm.

There are the people that Phil Gramm called "a bunch of whiners".

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 12:53 PM on 10/14/2008

I'd rather be a "whiner" than a wanker. 8-]

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 01:12 PM on 10/14/2008

Palin & McCain - the Winking Wankers

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 01:28 PM on 10/14/2008

Isnt it Ironic, that some of the richest most powerful people in America are taking our Tax money, using it to help the richest most powerful sector in America, to literally use it to provide us consumers with loans @ interest to give them more income from us, while we also have to find a way as taxpayers to pay back the US debt @ interest, that was sold to other countries including those that like terrorists that want to bomb us.

So we taxpayers took out a loan with foriegn countries at interest, to finance a plan to help the biggest banks in America stay in business to keep Loaning us our money that we are already paying on with our gross taxes, that we now have to pay back to those same Banks again at more interest off our Net incomes. All for the profit of those banks whose top officials are rewarded for this debacle by making 8 or 9 figure salaries with extras.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 12:50 PM on 10/14/2008

There's more, Troo...

http://www.bloomberg.com/apps/news?pid=20601087&sid=av8fOkC1HHEc&refer=home

Goldman Sachs continues make money off the backs of U.S. taxpayers.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 01:15 PM on 10/14/2008

Republicans redistributing wealth upwards, continuing to kill the New Deal they always hated ...

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 01:29 PM on 10/14/2008

The Republican viewpoint on this tragic trend probably parallels what they thought of Katrina victims being displaced:

"Less Democrats to vote against us....."

Wonder what the Social Darwinists in the Republican Party would think if God sent them a note saying that all the unfortunates they scorn are the reincarnation of people who thought like them in a previous life.... Do you think they would pay more attention to the Golden Rule???

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 12:46 PM on 10/14/2008
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I read in another article on HP that the GOP were gathering lists of foreclosures to challenge the votes of those people at those addresses. So, I am sure they have seriously gathered disaster information for the same purpose.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 12:50 PM on 10/14/2008

The GOP Golden Rule?

Do unto others, then walk away laughing."

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 12:52 PM on 10/14/2008
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Yup! The YOYO party (You are On Your Own)

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 12:57 PM on 10/14/2008

Ah, the Ownership Society ...

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 01:30 PM on 10/14/2008

Let me start of by saying that I am probably one of the biggest liberals you would ever meet. But I also believe in self control. Don't have kids you can't support both financially and emotionally. Don't buy things you can't pay for out right. That includes buying a house and fancy cars and running up your credit card debt. The problem in this country is everybody relies on the government to take care of everything. The side of any bag or bottle you buy tells you how to do everything, so you wont get hurt. Schools must totally watch out for your kids because heaven forbid you should actually be a parent. TV and the government must watch out for your kids because your to busy to watch what your kids are doing. You don't have to have a TV. Or allow your kids to watch what they want. Yes the purpose of the government is to help us all live together. So the bullies can't pick on the weak. But it is not their responsibility to watch over everything everyone does. We all need to grow up and be adults. These people made stupid choices. And now they can't live with the consequences.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 01:10 PM on 10/14/2008
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I have huge newsflash for you; you are not a "liberal"; you maybe a "libertarian" but not a liberal. Stop and think a minute about what you wrote. How many people do you know that eran under 75K a year that can pay cash for a house when the average cost of a house, here in , lets ssay, Missouri is 125K. Do the math an dtell me where or how anyone can save up that money and pay rent. Then explain, what the consequences to out economy would be ; new homes starts would be non existant and the ripple effect. You obviously were absent the day they explained the difference between Athens and Sparta; and what a civilization is judged by.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 01:20 PM on 10/14/2008

rphillips,

I believe you have forgotten to consider circumstances that are beyond one's control. There are people who have had a good job with good pay who are not living beyond their means but are laid off and unable to find another job with comparable pay or even low-paying one for that matter. Or these people might have had a devastating illness in the family that may have cost hundreds of thousands of dollars but had little or no health insurance to cover them. Or those who have endured a natural disaster like a tornado or a hurricane or flooding and their insurance does not cover things like lost time from work or the entire loss of a home.
Their are many circumstances that put people in a suicidal mindset and many of these circumstances are certainly not of their own doing.

We need to be more compassionate and empathetic of others if we are to coexist in peace.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 01:30 PM on 10/14/2008
- adl I'm a Fan of adl 6 fans permalink

I agree with you that many in our country need to step up and start taking responsiblity for some things. And, I think this financial crisis is making a lot of people reassess what they do as far as using credit and I think that's a good thing. But, it's never ok for people to feel so hopeless that they decide to commit suicide. I feel nothing for compassion for someone in that position whether they got themselves into it or not.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 02:09 PM on 10/14/2008
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