Sam Adams, Portland Mayor, Admits Relationship With Teen Following Year Of Denial

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JOSEPH B. FRAZIER | January 20, 2009 10:35 PM EST | AP

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PORTLAND, Ore. — The mayor of Portland apologized Tuesday for lying about a sexual relationship with a male teenager he was mentoring three years ago, but asked the city to consider it an anomaly in two decades of public service.

"I screwed up. I blew it. There's no way to sugarcoat it," Mayor Sam Adams said during a City Hall news conference scheduled after he cut short a trip to the presidential inauguration in Washington, D.C.

Adams was elected easily last year, making Portland the largest U.S. city to elect an openly gay mayor. He was sworn in Jan. 1.

Rumors of the relationship had surfaced when the then-city commissioner was getting ready to run for mayor in 2007, but he and the teen both denied it at the time.

In a statement he released Monday confirming the relationship, Adams said he lied then because the rumors claimed the teen was underage. He said the relationship did not begin until after the teen turned 18 in June 2005. That is the legal age of consent in Oregon.

At the time, the teen was a legislative intern whom Adams mentored on being gay and in public service. He is now 21 and has not made any public comments acknowledging any relationship with Adams. He did not return a request for comment Tuesday from The Associated Press.

In his City Hall remarks, Adams said their relationship was inappropriate because of their age gap; he is 45.

And he admitted he asked the teen initially to deny the relationship. "I am deeply sorry that I asked him to lie for me," he said.

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Adams stressed the issue is about a public official lying, not sexual orientation, and he would work to regain the public's trust.

"I will be subject to greater scrutiny because of this, and that is appropriate," he said.

"My reputation has been impacted. Friendships have been impacted, and that's appropriate as well."

Adams said he would cooperate in any investigation. He said he has no plan to resign, but left open the possibility: "If it were no longer in the city's best interests that I stay, yes, I would resign."

Commissioner Randy Leonard, who defended Adams when the rumor surfaced in 2007, has now called for an investigation. Leonard's chief of staff, Ty Kovatch, voiced concern about Adams' decision to ask the teen to lie.

"It reveals a much more strategic and planned effort to mislead people," Kovatch said.

Leonard said he believes Adams can continue as mayor _ unless "further omissions and discrepancies" emerge.

PORTLAND, Ore. — The mayor of Portland apologized Tuesday for lying about a sexual relationship with a male teenager he was mentoring three years ago, but asked the city to consider it an anomal...
PORTLAND, Ore. — The mayor of Portland apologized Tuesday for lying about a sexual relationship with a male teenager he was mentoring three years ago, but asked the city to consider it an anomal...
 
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it's absurd to think at 18 an individual can go to war, but is incapable of choosing his sexual partners. What rock are you living under?

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 01:55 AM on 01/21/2009

Two adults had sex, big deal. He shouldn't have lied about it but let's not blow this out of proportion.

More power to him. I hope I can get 18 year olds to sleep with me when I hit 40. :)

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 12:38 AM on 01/21/2009

So, he lied because it got him off the hook then, I wonder if he's lied about other things because that was the convenient thing to do?

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 12:32 AM on 01/21/2009
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We already went through this with Clinton, who had a private relationship with a consenting adult.

Except, in this case, neither consenting adult is married.

Get over it.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 12:09 AM on 01/21/2009
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I agree--the press is out of line to even ask about it.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 01:09 AM on 01/21/2009
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During this inauguration of HOPE and CHANGE, and our wtnessing our amazing new leader of incredible standard setting, it's interesting to note there is still the opposite side of the coin, in political power positions who hang on to a selfish idea of what they can get out of life reduce it to the idea that it's ok to stick it to anyone who has passed the legal age limit within the past 15 minutes, then justify telling the young person still wet behind the ears that it's just fine and dandy to lie about it should asked, regardless of who your lie takes down. Sam Adams was this kid's mentor.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 12:05 AM on 01/21/2009
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It's perfectly fine to keep a private sexual relationship between two single consenting adults strictly between themselves.

That's the thing about being an adult. You get to do adult things WITH adults... in private.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 12:14 AM on 01/21/2009
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Exactly HOW is it even possible to tie this in with Obama's inauguration?

And once again, HOW is any of this any of your business?

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 12:18 AM on 01/21/2009

I agree with you 100%

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 12:40 AM on 01/21/2009
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!00% huh? I thought the attempt to bring Obama into this was kinda sleazy.... but hey, that's just me.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 12:58 AM on 01/21/2009

Agree. All the more reason Adams should step down. He's not in step with the CHANGE we all want.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 03:07 PM on 01/22/2009

While the Mayors actions may not have been illegal, they show a severe lack of character. He was supposed to be mentoring this kid, and yes 18 is still a kid, instead he took advantage of his position of authority. There is a vast difference in the amount of emotional and life experience between an 18 and a 42 year old. He knew that his actions were wrong, which is why he asked this kid to lie in the first place.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 11:59 PM on 01/20/2009
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"and yes 18 is still a kid"

He's an adult, with needs. Live with it.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 12:17 AM on 01/21/2009

Which he should have had the chance to explore with another 18 year old. Im not even close to 42 and I wouldnt get involved with an 18 year old.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 12:56 AM on 01/21/2009
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If your supposition is to be believed, then we have kids fighting our wars.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 12:19 AM on 01/21/2009
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"Leonard's chief of staff, Ty Kovatch, voiced concern about Adams' decision to ask the teen to lie. 'It reveals a much more strategic and planned effort to mislead people,' Kovatch said."

To mislead people about a private sexual relationship between two single, consenting adults.

It's their prerogative.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 11:56 PM on 01/20/2009
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If I were a Portlander, I'd be far more interested in what he was going to be doing for the city than who he's having sex with. The guy was of legal age--no crime committed.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 11:40 PM on 01/20/2009

You're right. As a Portlander, I don't really care about the sex (though it does contribute to his overall sliminess), but I'm very upset about his appointments of unqualified staff in the City in order to keep the story quiet.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 09:23 PM on 01/22/2009
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typical.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 11:35 PM on 01/20/2009
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Yeah, I would agree, the expressed homophobia is typical.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 11:59 PM on 01/20/2009
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Referring to an 18 year old only as a "teenager" until the end of the article, where only there it's revealed he was 18, is misleading.

If you said he was 18 at the beginning of the story, it would be a different story than the one implied.

The thing about being 18 is that you can do adult things AND adults too.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 11:32 PM on 01/20/2009

I agree. It is so hard to comprehend that he hasn't had the decency to do so. But then again he has already proved his ethics. This action by an Adult Gay man can set back all the hard work and all the heavy lifting that his predecessors have done to battle the old wives tales that all Gay men are born Liars and are Predators. The fact that he denied it is an indication that he knew how inappropriate his actions are. In some States having sex with an Intern is a Actionable. He seems to have not an ounce of shame by lying. The attempt to spin this tale by attempting to infer that the responses are Homophobic is preposterous and shameful.
I am embarrassed for him!
Resign you Clown!

I am an Out Gay Male who has stood up and Out .

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 11:18 PM on 01/20/2009
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Oh man, this Mayor is "Eye Candy" to me, mmmm, lol, yummy!!!!

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 10:59 PM on 01/20/2009

haaaaaaaaa­aaaa....RO­TFL.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 11:14 PM on 01/20/2009
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Who cares about this? 40 year old men screw 18 year old men in the gay community all the time, don't they? Why is this news?

It's a sad day in America when who you screw has any effect on your qualifications and abilities to serve in public office. For all you know, maybe the 18 year old was after him and he actually restrained himself until the kid was legal and/or no longer his intern?

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 10:38 PM on 01/20/2009
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BTW, the kid he screwed, just barely out of h.s....Por­tland's now mayor encouraged to also lie for him, and this negatively affected other's careers and reputations, and no doubt will play a major part in the young man's life, as he realizes by the year, how he was manipulated by his so called self titled "mentor" to lie...at an age before he really understood the repercussions of his actions, when all he was thinking was what any 18 year old is thinking when they engage in sex....the thrill of the moment. It was up to Sam Adams, in his 40s to be the adult and make a decision bigger than the thrill of the moment.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 11:36 PM on 01/20/2009

Well, I don't think it is a gay vs. straight thing. Plenty of middle aged executives and politicians have mistresses or girlfriends many years their junior.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 02:36 AM on 01/21/2009
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Again, if no laws were broken and was consensual (implicit in the first condition), we don't even have the right to be discussing this. None of our beeswax. Deal with it. Know your boundaries.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 10:16 PM on 01/20/2009

JICC,

You obviously have your own agenda here, because you completely ignored most everything which I stated. You don't live in Portland and you don't know what the issues even are involving this case. So, why are you making uneducated comments?

You're attempting to make it a "gay" case. It's not an 'US (straights) against YOU (gays) ' case. However, similar to the O.J. Simpson jury, who freed a black murderer because deviant defense team successfully manipulated the jury into making their decisions based on black vs white (racism). They freed a murderer just because he was black. You want to disavow all of Sam Adam's wrong-doings just because he is gay.

I'm with President Obama. Everyone needs to "put away childish things, and grow up".

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 04:56 PM on 01/21/2009

No, OJ Simpson did (most probably) commit a crime, your mayor did not.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 05:54 PM on 01/21/2009
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Yes, I completely ignored it: I was not replying to you or anyone else, Mr. Agenda. Uneducated­... I doubt it.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 09:28 AM on 01/24/2009

Some on here don't seem to 'get it'. What's wrong with it, you actually ask.

Sam Adams point blank lied to everyone in this city during an attempted cover-up. I don't care about his sexual preference. However, I do care that he is a liar, untrustworthy, and just plain ignorant and reckless enough to have had sexual relations with a young aide (17 or 18 yrs of age, who knows...Sa­m is a liar after all. He claims they waited to have sex until after the youth's 18th birthday..­.yeah, right...wh­atever. If you want to believe that...).

I am a Portlander and I want him out of office, as does 70% of those polled today. I am so very ashamed and embarrassed for the City of Portland to have this person as our mayor.

Sam, it is no longer in the city’s best interest for you to stay on...RESIG­N. We don't want you!

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 10:05 PM on 01/20/2009
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