Ted Haggard New Gay Sex Allegations

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ERIC GORSKI | January 24, 2009 01:23 AM EST | AP

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This image taken from video, supplied by Magnolia Pictures, shows the Rev. Ted Haggard preaching in the documentary film "Jesus Camp". Disgraced evangelical leader Ted Haggard's former church disclosed Friday that the gay sex scandal that caused his downfall extends to a young male church volunteer who reported having a sexual relationship with Haggard _ a revelation that comes as Haggard tries to repair his public image. (AP Photo/Magnolia Pictures,File)

DENVER — Disgraced evangelical leader Ted Haggard's former church disclosed Friday that the gay sex scandal that caused his downfall extends to a young male church volunteer who reported having a sexual relationship with Haggard _ a revelation that comes as Haggard tries to repair his public image.

Brady Boyd, who succeeded Haggard as senior pastor of the 10,000-member New Life Church in Colorado Springs, told The Associated Press that the man came forward to church officials in late 2006 shortly after a Denver male prostitute claimed to have had a three-year cash-for-sex relationship with Haggard.

Boyd said an "overwhelming pool of evidence" pointed to an "inappropriate, consensual sexual relationship" that "went on for a long period of time ... it wasn't a one-time act." Boyd said the man was in his early 20s at the time. He said he was certain the man was of legal age when it began.

Reached Friday night, Haggard declined to comment and said all interviews would have to be arranged through a publicist for HBO, which is airing a documentary about him this month.

Boyd said the church reached a legal settlement to pay the man for counseling and college tuition, with one condition being that none of the parties involved discuss the matter publicly.

Boyd said a Colorado Springs TV station reached him Thursday to say the young man was planning to provide a detailed report of his relationship with Haggard to the station. Boyd said the church preferred to keep the matter private, but it was the man's decision to go public.

The disclosure comes as Haggard, 52, is about to give a series of high-profile interviews to promote the cable documentary about his time in exile. He is scheduled to appear on CNN's Larry King Live on Thursday, the date of the documentary's premiere, and already has taped "The Oprah Winfrey Show."

In early 2007, New Life Church disclosed that an investigation uncovered new evidence that Haggard engaged in "sordid conversation" and "improper relationships" _ but didn't go into detail. Earlier, a church board member had said there was no evidence that Haggard had sexual relations with anyone but Mike Jones, the former male prostitute.

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Haggard confessed to undisclosed "sexual immorality" after Jones' allegations and resigned as president of the National Association of Evangelicals and from New Life Church, where he faced being fired.

Anticipating criticism of the settlement with the former church volunteer, Boyd said Friday that it was in the best interests of all involved. He would not name the volunteer or the settlement amount.

"It wasn't at all a settlement to make him be quiet or not tell his story," Boyd said. "Our desire was to help him. Here was a young man who wanted to get on with his life. We considered it more compassionate assistance _ certainly not hush money. I know what's what everyone will want to say because that's the most salacious thing to say, but that's not at all what it was."

He said that "secondarily, it's not great for our church either" that the story be told. Boyd said Haggard knew about the settlement two years ago.

In a letter e-mailed Friday to New Life Church members, Boyd said of the settlement and agreement not to talk: "This decision was made not as an attempt to conceal wrongdoings, but to protect him from those who would seek to exploit him. His actions now suggest that he has changed his mind."

The letter said the church "received reports of a number of incidents of inappropriate behavior" after Haggard's fall. "In each case, we have tried our very best to do the right thing each time, including disciplinary action when appropriate."

Boyd said the "inappropriate behavior" referred to the man who was the volunteer involved with Haggard. After Haggard's fall, another church staff member resigned after admitting to what was described as "sexual misconduct."

Boyd said the church will not take action against the man if he tells his story in the press.

"We have legal standing to do that, but not the desire to," he said.

Boyd said he had spoken to the man once and came away with the impression that he was speaking out because of the documentary. "I think what caused this young man to be a bit aggravated was Ted being seen as a victim, when he himself had experienced a great deal of hurt," Boyd said. "I seriously doubt this man would have come forward if the documentary had not been made."

A spokeswoman for the documentary, "The Trials of Ted Haggard," declined to comment Friday.

David Clohessy, national director of SNAP, the Survivors Network of those Abused by Priests _ which has largely focused on the Catholic sexual abuse scandal but also speaks out on cases involving Protestant clergy _ said the new disclosures about Haggard are more disturbing because they involves a church volunteer.

"Technically, legally, they were both adults," Clohessy said. "Psychologically and emotionally, Haggard was dramatically more powerful. ... By definition, any sexual contact between a congregant and minister is inherently abusive and manipulative."

In an AP interview this month before an appearance in front of TV critics in California, Haggard described his sexuality as complex and something that can't be put into "stereotypical boxes."

DENVER — Disgraced evangelical leader Ted Haggard's former church disclosed Friday that the gay sex scandal that caused his downfall extends to a young male church volunteer who reported having ...
DENVER — Disgraced evangelical leader Ted Haggard's former church disclosed Friday that the gay sex scandal that caused his downfall extends to a young male church volunteer who reported having ...
 
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Why do so many born again Christians love gay sex? I don't get it, aren't they taught that it is a sin?

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 06:28 PM on 01/25/2009
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For one thing, gay sex is not a sin, but yes, they are taught that. It could be the people you refer to who engage in gay sex like it because they're....GAY. If they'd stop denying how God made them, stop heeding a book that also said you can't eat shellfish nor shave, and start accepting themselves, maybe they wouldn't carry so much shame and self-hatred.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 07:55 PM on 01/25/2009

How do you know this neocon6716? Observation? Personal experience? Thru the neo-con grapevine?

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 08:03 PM on 01/25/2009

Born again Christians often use the strict discipline of their faith to curtail their real desires. It happens often if you reflect on what I've said.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 08:09 PM on 01/25/2009
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It looks like you're of the belief that the love of gay sex is a choice. Let's begin with the premise that it is not, and go on from there.

If you apply statistics, and figure that three to five percent of the population is gay, and then figure out the number of born again Christians in the world, and do the math, you'd come up with a rather large number.

Of course, you should also then realize that there are a rather large number of Jewish people, Muslim people, atheists, etc. who "love gay sex".

The real question you should be asking yourself is why are born again Christians still being taught that being gay is a sin.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 12:15 AM on 01/26/2009

Why do so many born again Christians love gay sex?
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Because, as a group they are no different than the rest of the world. A certain percentage of the human race is always going to be homosexual or bi-sexual in their erotic disposition. It's the same for the fundies as for the rest of us and has nothing to do with what they may believe about God. They are no more and no less homosexual as a group than any other part of the general population.

But religious fundamentalists have a rigid belief system that shuns gay sex and preaches vehemently against it. So when their leaders turn out to be gay after publically condeming others for the same thing, it makes big news and the media jumps all over it. On the other hand, the media gives not a crap when it's you or me.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 12:15 AM on 01/26/2009

When Mr. Haggard admits that he's a homosexual ;that day he will cease being a pervert.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 06:25 PM on 01/25/2009
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So true. Why doesn't he just embarce who he is and live his life as a gay man. If that causes him to have to leave his ministry, then so be it, but at least he won't be living a lie. This kind of back closet behavior continues to cast a light of perversion over the LGBT community.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 06:53 PM on 01/25/2009
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You're right, of course....but for the many who supported CA's Prop 8, and those who think like those supporters of this ridiculous law, the day that Haggard admits he is gay is the day he's considered a pervert...in their eyes.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 07:51 PM on 01/25/2009

Regarding the reverend's wife, could it be that she loves him for better and for the obvious worse? I f so, this gay writer says" congratulations, and let's leave them alone".

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 06:21 PM on 01/25/2009
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anytime someone screams from the mountaintop "H O MOS E XUALITY IS WRONG"
9x's out of 10 they're afraid to unlock their 'closet' and step out.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 05:10 PM on 01/25/2009
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Yes, Haggard's wife should SO step out of the closet he has shoved her into and scream HOMOSEXUALITY IS WRONG at the top of her voice. I am thinking quite a few other females
in her position (oh yeah, now you're all going to get hot over the use of that word) would totally
join her. But wait, that's not the kind of screaming you want, is it ? Oh no, the females have to be
SO understanding and loving and forgiving and . . . never mind that you cleaned out the bank account to buy drugs to have gay sex behind my back and brought home MRSA (the new AIDS)
to me and the kids and are role modeling degenerate anal behaviors to our teenagers, that's all
just fine and dandy, I so understand and it's really my fault in the first place so let me apologize . . .

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 05:33 PM on 01/25/2009
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no one has said anything about the Mrs. she is, however, delusional if she thinks he can "change". she should high tail it outta there asap.

oh, and MRSA is a common bacterial skin infection that can be acquired at the gym, on the bus, in a hospital or anywhere else. it's the overuse of antibiotics in our society that has made it multi- resistant.

the lesson in all of this is to always be true to yourself and those around you.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 05:58 PM on 01/25/2009
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Screaming "HOMOSEXUALITY IS WRONG" is exactly what causes some gay people inevitably to lead dishonest lives and feel compelled to marry people of the opposite sex. The more our society screams that, the more Ted Haggards and Larry Craigs our society will produce.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 05:58 PM on 01/25/2009
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hey, she's free to leave him if she wants. who's stopping her?

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 07:58 PM on 01/25/2009
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Perhaps Mrs. Haggard should step out of her closet....or not. It's her call. Mr. Haggard wouldn't have put a wife and family if he hadn't lived a lurid hyporicitcal life. This has nothing to do with homosexual behavior being wrong. It has to do with lying, cheating, getting involved in drugs and prostitution. How would Mr. Haggards lifestyle be less degenerate if his actions had been heterosexual?
I feel for Mrs. Haggard and the position Mr. Haggard has put her in. She probably took her wedding vows seriously while Mr. Haggard did not. Although it is Biblically possible for her to seek divorce perhaps she loves him despite his character. Who knows? Cheating on a spouse is a terrible thing, and it destroys families whether those affairs are heterosexual or homosexual. Both can effect the health of all involved....physical and mental.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 08:04 PM on 01/25/2009
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"...Haggard described his sexuality as complex and something that can't be put into 'stereotypical boxes.'"

Ted, Ted... trust us. While it's true that not long ago we might have been baffled by the complexity of your hypocritical opportunism, given so much experience with your political and spiritual predecessors, we're really quite sophisticated now.

For example, I have a box here labeled "Elmer Gantry meets Roy Cohn" that's just perfect for you.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 05:05 PM on 01/25/2009
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anytime someone screams from the mountaintop "HOMOSEXUALITY IS WRONG"
9x's out of 10 they're afraid to unlock their 'closet' and step out.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 05:03 PM on 01/25/2009
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Too funny.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 04:57 PM on 01/25/2009
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A non-issue made into an issue, by pretending its not an issue unless he makes it an issue.

Gotta love people who cannot love unless you meet their definition of love.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 03:48 PM on 01/25/2009
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One thing the Haggard scandal makes clear - evangelicals don't actually believe their own nonsense that being homosexual is a choice. After the scandal broke his church supposedly "cured" him and declared that he was now "100% heterosexual" yet he has remained ostracized ever since. This make no sense unless they know that sexual orientation is innate and that no amount of "repentance" or "godly counseling" changes anything. No "love the sinner, hate sin" stuff for Ted.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 03:42 PM on 01/25/2009
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That's not a given. He very possibly hates himself and believes that an evil presence is driving him to do "evil" acts. Someone who cares about him should get him into a hospital before he hurts himself. Someone who cares about him should help him understand who he is, and that it's okay to be him. He needs help.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 05:17 PM on 01/25/2009
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Time for exorcism? Or maybe electroshock therapy? There's gotta be some way for gays to come to terms with themselves without simply admitting they're gay - because there's nothing worse than that.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 06:35 PM on 01/25/2009
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JohnJames wrote: "One thing the Haggard scandal makes clear - evangelicals don't actually believe their own nonsense that being homosexual is a choice."

Disagree. The one thing it proves is that Evangelicals believe that homsexuality IS a choice. Nearly all Evangelicals, including Ted Haggard, believes that he made a choice. He sucummed to his own lust and chose to engage in homosexual sex. The one other thing this proves is that sexuality occurs on a continuum. In Haggard's case, you have a man whose dominant sexual preference is heterosexuality. But, he chose to use his platform and his influence to exploit the vulnerabilities of a church volunteer and a massage therapist to fulfill his own lustful desires.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 05:55 PM on 01/25/2009
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That makes a lot of sense. Why the lustful desires toward other men if he's primarily heterosexual? Would anyone really risk what he was risking by engaging in sex with other men if it weren't an overwhelming desire? I think not. The man lives a lie. It's as simple as that. People don't choose their sexual orientation - homosexual or heterosexual. But people do choose to live honestly in accordance with it. It's exactly your mentality that guarantees that many homosexuals in homophobic Christian circles will continue to lead warped dishonest lives like Ted Haggard.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 07:33 PM on 01/25/2009

Very astute observation and dead on. What is clearly a choice is Homophobia.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 06:57 PM on 01/25/2009

I love you Ted Haggard. Please, please, please stay in the limelight forever. Will you be endorsing any Republican candidates in the 2010 and 2012 elections?

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 03:34 PM on 01/25/2009
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The ONLY thing scandalous about this is his DENIAL. Otherwise it is a ruse to discredit the homosexual community and marginalize them as some sort of 'deviants'. Business as usual at the Republican psyop campaign.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 02:57 PM on 01/25/2009
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honey, we were marginalized long before haggard showed up.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 05:58 PM on 01/25/2009
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Why am I not surprised? What does amaze me, is that Haggard would try to mount a comeback . . . . I guess it's the addiction to fame. The hypocrisy of the situation is so mind-boggling, it defies explanation or rational analysis. If Haggard would simply "own" his gayness, he could move forward. His church would have to come to some resolution about their acceptance (or not) of him. And we, the public, might be spared the humiliating future installments of Haggard's soap opera of a life.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 02:50 PM on 01/25/2009
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"Haggard would try to mount a comeback . . . " what a visual!

financing those comebacks are as easy as a sermon or two at the mega church.
those collection plates must be steel clad and lo-jacked with all the haul they get, I'll just bet

one of teddy's problems is that with each comeback, he does the obligatory public service, and that's exactly when he sees that new face in the crowd that merits his special attention.

revolving door, guaranteed to being him back into the spotlight on a cyclical nature.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 04:32 PM on 01/25/2009
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JHKH,
I can't think of a televangelist that isn't a meglomaniac. Perhaps Haggard's personal psychological pay-off is his continuing public denial that he is NOT homosexual. He can't just admit it. If he did he would have sunk off the radar long ago.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 08:09 PM on 01/25/2009
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happy days are here to stay

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 02:29 PM on 01/25/2009
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Observing these evangelicals reminds me of observing my cats. They have their own little social order with their own little rules, their own little customs. If this man was of legal age, and it was consensual, why is this even news? Well, other than the "Christians don't do that" silliness, this is a non-event. Now the fact he is getting money for it is an odd twist, I mean who would think that consensual sex among adults deserves a financial settlement?

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 02:20 PM on 01/25/2009

It is my belief that when people are paying for Sex, directly or indirectly, they really aren't paying for the actual Sex Acts, they are paying for the implied Silence. These Hypocrites protest way too much and always "Sweeten The Forbidden Fruit"- no pun intended., so the story gets way sweetened each time this Passion Play get it's production going.

Each time this story gets told, those who can think rationally,add more credence to mind set, that Homosexuality is a set trait that is hardened into one's being. No amount of projection, sublimation, Shell Games or Shadow Boxing of your Fears will it morph into Heterosexuality, ever. When they bark out their fears of Homosexuality, their Freudian Slips is showing.

One just can't underestimate the entertainment quality of these comedies/ tragedies. The line between the two get too blurred where we don't know weather to Laugh or Cry.

Another Day in Paradise?

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 03:49 PM on 01/25/2009
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Great blog.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 04:29 PM on 01/25/2009
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this re-inforces my belief that commercialized religions - all of them - are DRAMA, hence, the Happy/Sad faces that represent the theatre arts. Bittersweet pain throughout your life, with the promise of the big finish at the end.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 04:37 PM on 01/25/2009
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Jerry, you are right about that. I don't pay women to have sex with me. I pay them to go home afterward.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 05:14 PM on 01/25/2009
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I'm appalled by the way you've just slandered cats.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 04:54 PM on 01/25/2009
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