Ted Haggard New Gay Sex Allegations

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ERIC GORSKI | January 24, 2009 01:23 AM EST | AP

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This image taken from video, supplied by Magnolia Pictures, shows the Rev. Ted Haggard preaching in the documentary film "Jesus Camp". Disgraced evangelical leader Ted Haggard's former church disclosed Friday that the gay sex scandal that caused his downfall extends to a young male church volunteer who reported having a sexual relationship with Haggard _ a revelation that comes as Haggard tries to repair his public image. (AP Photo/Magnolia Pictures,File)

DENVER — Disgraced evangelical leader Ted Haggard's former church disclosed Friday that the gay sex scandal that caused his downfall extends to a young male church volunteer who reported having a sexual relationship with Haggard _ a revelation that comes as Haggard tries to repair his public image.

Brady Boyd, who succeeded Haggard as senior pastor of the 10,000-member New Life Church in Colorado Springs, told The Associated Press that the man came forward to church officials in late 2006 shortly after a Denver male prostitute claimed to have had a three-year cash-for-sex relationship with Haggard.

Boyd said an "overwhelming pool of evidence" pointed to an "inappropriate, consensual sexual relationship" that "went on for a long period of time ... it wasn't a one-time act." Boyd said the man was in his early 20s at the time. He said he was certain the man was of legal age when it began.

Reached Friday night, Haggard declined to comment and said all interviews would have to be arranged through a publicist for HBO, which is airing a documentary about him this month.

Boyd said the church reached a legal settlement to pay the man for counseling and college tuition, with one condition being that none of the parties involved discuss the matter publicly.

Boyd said a Colorado Springs TV station reached him Thursday to say the young man was planning to provide a detailed report of his relationship with Haggard to the station. Boyd said the church preferred to keep the matter private, but it was the man's decision to go public.

The disclosure comes as Haggard, 52, is about to give a series of high-profile interviews to promote the cable documentary about his time in exile. He is scheduled to appear on CNN's Larry King Live on Thursday, the date of the documentary's premiere, and already has taped "The Oprah Winfrey Show."

In early 2007, New Life Church disclosed that an investigation uncovered new evidence that Haggard engaged in "sordid conversation" and "improper relationships" _ but didn't go into detail. Earlier, a church board member had said there was no evidence that Haggard had sexual relations with anyone but Mike Jones, the former male prostitute.

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Haggard confessed to undisclosed "sexual immorality" after Jones' allegations and resigned as president of the National Association of Evangelicals and from New Life Church, where he faced being fired.

Anticipating criticism of the settlement with the former church volunteer, Boyd said Friday that it was in the best interests of all involved. He would not name the volunteer or the settlement amount.

"It wasn't at all a settlement to make him be quiet or not tell his story," Boyd said. "Our desire was to help him. Here was a young man who wanted to get on with his life. We considered it more compassionate assistance _ certainly not hush money. I know what's what everyone will want to say because that's the most salacious thing to say, but that's not at all what it was."

He said that "secondarily, it's not great for our church either" that the story be told. Boyd said Haggard knew about the settlement two years ago.

In a letter e-mailed Friday to New Life Church members, Boyd said of the settlement and agreement not to talk: "This decision was made not as an attempt to conceal wrongdoings, but to protect him from those who would seek to exploit him. His actions now suggest that he has changed his mind."

The letter said the church "received reports of a number of incidents of inappropriate behavior" after Haggard's fall. "In each case, we have tried our very best to do the right thing each time, including disciplinary action when appropriate."

Boyd said the "inappropriate behavior" referred to the man who was the volunteer involved with Haggard. After Haggard's fall, another church staff member resigned after admitting to what was described as "sexual misconduct."

Boyd said the church will not take action against the man if he tells his story in the press.

"We have legal standing to do that, but not the desire to," he said.

Boyd said he had spoken to the man once and came away with the impression that he was speaking out because of the documentary. "I think what caused this young man to be a bit aggravated was Ted being seen as a victim, when he himself had experienced a great deal of hurt," Boyd said. "I seriously doubt this man would have come forward if the documentary had not been made."

A spokeswoman for the documentary, "The Trials of Ted Haggard," declined to comment Friday.

David Clohessy, national director of SNAP, the Survivors Network of those Abused by Priests _ which has largely focused on the Catholic sexual abuse scandal but also speaks out on cases involving Protestant clergy _ said the new disclosures about Haggard are more disturbing because they involves a church volunteer.

"Technically, legally, they were both adults," Clohessy said. "Psychologically and emotionally, Haggard was dramatically more powerful. ... By definition, any sexual contact between a congregant and minister is inherently abusive and manipulative."

In an AP interview this month before an appearance in front of TV critics in California, Haggard described his sexuality as complex and something that can't be put into "stereotypical boxes."

DENVER — Disgraced evangelical leader Ted Haggard's former church disclosed Friday that the gay sex scandal that caused his downfall extends to a young male church volunteer who reported having ...
DENVER — Disgraced evangelical leader Ted Haggard's former church disclosed Friday that the gay sex scandal that caused his downfall extends to a young male church volunteer who reported having ...
 
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This is very juicy news. Back it up please!

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 01:46 PM on 01/25/2009
- phlashba I'm a Fan of phlashba 14 fans permalink

Why the hell does a man in his 20s who engaged in consensual adult behavior need "counseling"? Sorry...re­ally could not get past that part.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 01:42 PM on 01/25/2009
- JDJase I'm a Fan of JDJase 6 fans permalink

Anyone watch "Prayers for Bobby" on Lifetime last night?

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 01:37 PM on 01/25/2009
- ZimboChick I'm a Fan of ZimboChick 92 fans permalink
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not I. What was it about?

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 02:40 PM on 01/25/2009
- chronic I'm a Fan of chronic 71 fans permalink
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A mother and her g ay son.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 06:58 PM on 01/25/2009
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I hate I missed that.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 06:58 PM on 01/25/2009

God doesn't exist. But if he did, then Ted Haggard would be him mocking anti-gay evangelicals.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 01:31 PM on 01/25/2009
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I'm beginning to think that religion produces gays. Or more correctly, I'm beginning to think that gays go into religion because it is such a fertile place for them. They also know that the church that claims to hate gays will protect them from the law.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 01:27 PM on 01/25/2009
- klandish I'm a Fan of klandish 78 fans permalink
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I hope you mean unhealthy Gay people, who are that because of a lot of unhealthy social conditioning that produces self hate where self acceptance should be the norm.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 03:58 PM on 01/25/2009
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I wonder how many lives have been ruined by "the church"! If it were not for the bible-thumping hypoocritical judges of everyone's behavior, this man might have been able to come out years ago to lead a productive life working for gay rights. What the organized church does to people is truly horrific!

I am straight, female and had a child out of wedlock. I remember how I was snubbed by those who would tell us all how to live our lives. I loved and wanted my son, and he has grown into a wonderful, loving kind man who makes me proud every day of my life.

Mr. Haggard's problem is not in being gay....it is that he is still unable to face up to the Christian "judges"! I say to him, do not be afraid! Go and live your life on your own terms in peace!

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 01:19 PM on 01/25/2009

It's one thing to tell someone how they should live their life but to snub someone making a mistake like being a single mother is not being a Christian. The Bible is a tool for how we should live and yes people make mistakes. I've made some myself. However, just look at our society today. We're in utter chaos for not following the guide we've been given.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 10:45 PM on 01/25/2009

This getting attention just proves how totally backwards america is in so many, many ways.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 01:17 PM on 01/25/2009
- knerd I'm a Fan of knerd 20 fans permalink
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Some things never change. As Goethe said, everything has been thought of before, but the problem is to think of it again.

"If you bring forth what is within you, what you have will save you. If you do not have that within you, what you do not have within you [will] kill you." --the Gospel of Thomas, thought to be one of the earliest compilations of the sayings of Jesus.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 01:14 PM on 01/25/2009
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He who thumps the Bible loudest, has the most to hide!

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 01:08 PM on 01/25/2009
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Now ain't that the truth, the last refuge of a scoundrel, religion and patriotism, the USA was becoming more like Iran and the other theocracies every day, one nation under a God?

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 09:49 PM on 01/25/2009

It'a always amazing to me how many republicans and evangelicals are secretly gay. And they do everything they can to make sure that gay couples can't get married. Are they worried that all the gay men will be in committed relationships and they won't be able to find someone to screw around in secret with?

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 12:54 PM on 01/25/2009
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I'd say the instance of homosexuality in the evangelical and republican communities is roughly the same as in the rest of the world. About 10%.

Denying it doesn't make it go away.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 01:21 PM on 01/25/2009
- JDJase I'm a Fan of JDJase 6 fans permalink

haha I love your point

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 01:33 PM on 01/25/2009
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I think someone in the MSM should be trying to interview Rick Warren about now..?

Does he condemn Teddy... or should he be forgiven..­.?
Please Mr. Warren... let your voice be heard.... Now.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 02:17 PM on 01/25/2009
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Let's not forget Paul Hipp's memorable song celebrating Rev. Haggard and other Crystal Methodists.

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/paul-hipp/meth-and-man-ass_b_33326.html.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 12:20 PM on 01/25/2009

Being gay isn't a problem, but being out of the spotlight must be for this guy. Put away the film crew, get a job where you are not conning people, give your wife the divorce she deserves and move on with your life.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 12:15 PM on 01/25/2009
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When science finally finds the "gay gene" or discovers a biological reason for homosexuality (10% of mammal population is same sex oriented) I wonder how these churches will deal with it. Will they continue to say gay people are sinners even though they did not choose to be gay? Or will they change their dogma to accept science over "old testament"? Remember, it took the cath o lic church 500 years to forgive Galileo for claiming the earth revolved around the sun. They don't like admitting to mistakes that caused people pain and suffering (and de ath) since it makes them look bad.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 11:55 AM on 01/25/2009

When science finally finds the "gay gene", I wouldn't be surprised if these churches will make an exception to their anti-abortion agenda, should the "gay gene" be detected in amniotic fluid.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 01:00 PM on 01/25/2009
- JDJase I'm a Fan of JDJase 6 fans permalink

EXACTLY

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 01:35 PM on 01/25/2009
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Sad to say, I agree with you.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 03:27 PM on 01/25/2009

Its not just that they did not choose to be gay, but rather that God made them gay, as he gave me brown eyes and made my brother bald. Vice President and Mrs. Cheney did not seduce their daughter to the lesbian side; she was likely born that way. Which means this was God's will. Which means the fundies are revolting against God's will. When that gene is found, the fundies will have a lot more to worry about than gays; they will have p%ss&d off God.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 01:06 PM on 01/25/2009
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Your imaginary friend did not have anything to do with making people gay, or anything else on this planet or any other. The only thing the imaginary friends have done is con many people into believing and putting money into the con plate.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 01:31 PM on 01/25/2009
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I love the bit about his "sexualtiy is too complex". Give me a break, he's gay and he needs to acknowledge that, instead of spinning it into some mysterious condition. Any gay person growing up in that environment is doomed to a life of self-loathing, denial and depression. It's so sad.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 11:49 AM on 01/25/2009
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The media love nothing more than blatant hypocrisy - except maybe big explosions, fires, or riots.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 01:30 PM on 01/25/2009
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re: sexuality too complex ?
He grew up in this heterosexual's-only society of his church, taking cues from his hetero parents, neighbors, teachers, etc.

Please explain how his sexuality is complex if you are brainwashed into thinking hetero is the only way to go? And why can't his church allow others to have "complex sexuality attitudes" when he can?

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 04:47 PM on 01/25/2009
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Why don't these born again hypocrites just accept people for who they are. Haggard didn't "turn" gay and
can't change who he is. He should not have to change who he is. Being gay is not a condition that needs fixing. Remember all God's children..­..

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 11:48 AM on 01/25/2009
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every tragedy or disaster comes down the pike, most churchies say "it's god's will"
when happy things happen "It's god's will"

Ask them:
why do they question god's plan? - isnt it possible that god planned for gays and straights alike - for each to learn love and acceptance of ALL god's children - who are they to question god's plan?

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 05:36 PM on 01/25/2009
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