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First Lady Obama Tells Teens: "When You Get You Give Back" (SLIDESHOW)

Michelle Obama

First Posted: 03/14/09 06:12 AM ET Updated: 11/17/11 09:02 AM ET

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WASHINGTON — First lady Michelle Obama says it is important to think about where you've come from and how you can give back.

That's one of the messages she carried with her Tuesday on a visit to a local social services center, where she got down on the carpeted floor to read with toddlers and, separately, chatted up a group of teenagers who later said they were surprised to have received such a high-profile visitor.


Asked why she came to Mary's Center, Mrs. Obama said she was raised to believe that "what you get, you give back." She said she wants to do that in Washington, as she did when living in her native Chicago, now that the District of Columbia is her home.

She touched on her middle-class upbringing and told them how each of her successes helped her become a more confident person.

"I have in some way been where you are," she told the 13 teenagers who sat with her in chairs arranged in a circle. She said she thinks it's important for young kids "to see me, not the first lady, to see that there is no magic to me sitting here."

After public school in Chicago, Mrs. Obama graduated from Princeton and Harvard universities, became a corporate lawyer and most recently was an executive vice president at the University of Chicago Hospitals.

The students, all of whom participate in teen programs at the center, also asked what the government will do to improve schools and support families, what it's like to be first lady and about street violence. Mrs. Obama said they were lucky to have access to Mary's Center, which for more than 20 years has provided health care and educational and social services to families in the Adams Morgan neighborhood.

Since becoming first lady three weeks ago, Mrs. Obama has embarked on a listening tour through the federal bureaucracy. She has stopped by the departments of Education, Housing and Urban Development, and Interior to meet and thank the federal employees for their work.

Some of the teenagers said they didn't know she was coming, but were glad to see her when she walked in.

"She was very comfortable. She talked to everybody as if she knew them," Elizabeth Carballo, 16, said after the first lady had departed in her motorcade.

Marvin Hernandez, also 16, said the visit shows Mrs. Obama wants to take the initiative.

"She wants to hear from us. And that our voices will be heard," he said.

Before the give-and-take with the teenagers, Mrs. Obama abandoned her chair and sat down on a purple rug in the center's day-care room to read "Brown Bear, Brown Bear, What Do You See?" with a group of nine toddlers.

"Hello, little people. What's going on," she said as she entered the room. "First of all my name is Michelle and I'm married to the president of the United States. Do you know his name?"

"Barack Obama," shouted 5-year-old Anais Ngako.

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dustyoh
10:05 PM on 03/07/2009
This is what you call leading by example.
01:13 PM on 02/15/2009
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09:36 AM on 02/15/2009
Great photos. I recently blogged about Michelle Obama and her new role as First Lady. My post also features her vogue cover and some retrospective pics of Jackie O. Check it out if you're inclined...at

http://reddoorread.blogspot.com/2009/02/ladies-first.html
03:12 AM on 02/14/2009
Michelle looks natural and comfortable in these photos. She is a genuinely kind person.
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LaurieAnn
Charity is NOT a substitute for justice.
09:17 PM on 02/12/2009
You can tell from her smile that Michelle really loves children and enjoys being around them. I love how she's out and about in D.C. giving back to the greater community; showing that she's not just a temporary resident. To me she has it all: graciousness, class, intelligence, poise, humor. We really do have a President and first family to be proud of.
02:08 PM on 02/12/2009
How beautiful. She makes me proud. I just love that last picture it made my day. People we need to stop being jealous and hating when someone is trying their best to walk in the calling that the Lord has placed on their lives. Michelle is an excellent role model and is "for real" she is not a fake or a phony. I truly think she represents many of the women out here. Someone made a crack about her previous income level. Well...if you go to college and law school and PAY YOUR DUES maybe one day you too will be successful in life (whatever your definition of success is). Go on Michelle...we love you and the world is watching and learning!
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02:05 PM on 02/12/2009
I have every confidence that Mrs. Obama is going to be an incredible First Lady.

I think her statement; "what you get, you give back." says so much about her philosophy. What a refreshing change from the "birthright, entitlement, family name" mentality that seemed to shape many of our recent Presidential candidates/families.
01:26 PM on 02/12/2009
It's just nice to see someone like Michelle who clearly loves people and loves children.

It never ceases to amaze me just how much love and compassion the Obamas have. Last Sunday in church, my pastor was sharing about how to deal with trials and how the bible teaches us to NOT allow the root of bitterness to spring up within us when faced with tough times, because it only leads to more and more negative effects (discouragement, anger, blame, denial.....hmm.....sounds like a certain right wing radio talk show host......)

I think to have to go thru so much hatred and vitriol from the hard core Right wingers and still be able to smile and give back to the community says a lot about where the Obamas are in terms of their faith in God.
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retroredux
10:54 AM on 02/12/2009
I love how she got right down on the floor with the kidlets, like any mom would!

Seems she also has the "vibe" Barack has and kids tend to naturally gravitate to them. And when all the lil uns just flung themselves around her neck-so adorable:)

I am growing even more impressed by Michelle every day!
10:44 AM on 02/12/2009
What a breath of fresh air this beautiful lady is. Thank you Mrs. Obama.
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luciadulu
09:23 AM on 02/12/2009
That last photo is a good tonic for chronic stress and worry. We all need a hug...
02:48 AM on 02/12/2009
Beautiful person in every way. Beautiful couple all around

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4QAvfXeISzI
12:01 AM on 02/12/2009
a tear is forming...Chelly Chell love the kids! (Martin throwback)
03:37 PM on 02/12/2009
Cute reference. Martin was one of my favorite shows.
10:41 PM on 02/11/2009
If I could be just half the person Michelle is, I think I could die happy.
10:39 PM on 02/11/2009
i have a lot of memories from when I was 3-4.