Fight Or Flight: How Emotional Distance Ruins Marriage

03/19/2009 05:12 am ET | Updated Nov 17, 2011
  • David Code news.yahoo.com

Today's couples are quick to squelch the urge to argue with each other. But just because you seldom argue doesn't mean your marriage is strong. The real silent killer of marriage is distancing yourself from your partner.

The solution? Don't worry so much about your fight response — that instinct to duke it out verbally. Instead, focus on your flight response — the instinct to avoid your partner. If we can learn to spot the distancing pattern in our relationships, we can help prevent family problems and divorce.

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