Jade Goody, British Reality Star, Dying Of Cancer On TV

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JENNIFER QUINN | February 20, 2009 08:10 AM EST | AP

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British reality television personality Jade Goody , who is battling cancer, leaves her home in Upshire, England, Thursday Feb. 19, 2009, According to her publicist Max Clifford Goody, who plans to wed on Feb. 22, will have a special pouch concealed in her wedding dress to hold her painkillers.(AP Photo/Stefan Rousseau-pa)

LONDON — A brash British reality show star whose ups and downs captivated the nation is approaching her death the same way she has lived _ on television.

Dying of cervical cancer that has spread to her liver and bowels, 27-year-old Jade Goody sees no reason to turn the cameras off now.

Her first foray into the spotlight was in 2002, when she lost at strip poker on Britain's version of "Big Brother." She went on to write her autobiography, star in fitness videos, release a perfume and appear on "Celebrity Big Brother," where she was accused of racism and bullying a Bollywood star, Shilpa Shetty.

To make amends, she went to India last summer to star in its version of "Big Brother." It was there _ in a shocking diagnosis captured on television _ that she found out about her cancer.

Bald and pale from chemotherapy, pictures of Goody have since been daily fodder in the British press. She says the publicity and profits made from selling her story will help her sons, 4-year-old Freddie and 5-year-old Bobby Jack, and raise awareness of cervical cancer.

On Thursday, a television show documented the weeks before she learned she only has months to live. On Sunday, the cameras will roll at her wedding to 21-year-old boyfriend, Jack Tweed _ recently released from prison after serving time for assault and wearing an electronic monitor. Goody will take her vows in a designer dress donated by Harrods owner, Mohamed Al Fayed.

While neither are scheduled to air in the U.S., video clips of her wedding shopping spree and cancer battle _ including one where she breaks into sobs as she stares at her balding head in her bathroom mirror _ have been widely viewed on YouTube. Photos of the nuptials are to be printed in OK! magazine, which along with television deals are believed to have earned Goody $1.4 million.

Her actual death is not expected to be televised or photographed, her publicist said.

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"People will say I'm doing this for money," Goody told the Sun tabloid earlier this month. "And they're right. I am, but not to buy flash cars or big houses. It's for my sons' future."

Some have said Goody should spend time with her family rather than staying in the spotlight. But most have also praised her commitment to her sons and her effort to draw attention to the need for regular Pap smears, which can catch cervical cancer in its early, treatable stages.

"I may have questioned the wisdom of Jade treating the media as confidantes in her final days," wrote Allison Pearson in the conservative Daily Mail. "But I have nothing but respect for her decision to accumulate enough money for the boys to enjoy the very best education."

The media, who are now so firmly in Goody's corner, were not always so kind. She was ridiculed for being vulgar, uneducated and crass; even after her cancer diagnosis, it was suggested she was capitalizing on her illness to regain the public's affection.

From the beginning, Goody's tortured childhood provided kindling for reality TV. She grew up in a tough part of London, the daughter of drug users. Her father, who served time in prison, died from a drug overdose.

With her in-your-face attitude and willingness to share the tawdriest details of her life, the buxom brunette both fascinated and repelled Britain. Her lack of education sometimes made her an object of ridicule, such as when she asked where the English region of East Anglia _ less than a two-hour drive from London _ is located, and pronounced it "East Angular."

"She's a kind of product of our time," said her publicist Max Clifford. "I suppose, when I started out, it was all about talent, but Jade was the one who proved that you don't need to have talent to be someone in Britain today. She's famous for just being herself."

There was admiration, even from the prime minister, for Goody's sheer determination to make a better life for herself.

"It's very sad and indeed tragic that someone so young has got this deadly disease of cancer and it's very sad indeed that the treatment that has been given has not been successful," Gordon Brown said Wednesday at his monthly news conference.

"I think everyone has their own ways of dealing with these problems and her determination to help her family is something that we've got to applaud," he said. "I wish her well and I wish her family well and I think the whole country will be worried and anxious about her health."

The Guardian newspaper _ which appeals to the left-leaning intelligentsia _ weighed in on Goody's decision to publicize her impending death, praising her for confronting her mortality.

"The ostentatious rituals of mourning and public graveyards of earlier eras are not part of modern life," it said in an editorial. "Today, mortality is as finite as before, but has somehow been marginalized."

In Bermondsey, the neighborhood near London Bridge where Goody grew up, residents still consider her one of their own. Nearly all support her choice to stay in the spotlight.

"She's like one of us. We all feel for her. It's not fair," said 40-year-old Janine Stacy, a special education teacher. "It's totally her choice."

Clifford said that Goody may consider doing other deals after the wedding. "We are in discussions to do a final documentary ... She's very keen to do it, providing she's well enough," he said.

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Associated Press Writer Dean Carson contributed to this report.

LONDON — A brash British reality show star whose ups and downs captivated the nation is approaching her death the same way she has lived _ on television. Dying of cervical cancer that has sprea...
LONDON — A brash British reality show star whose ups and downs captivated the nation is approaching her death the same way she has lived _ on television. Dying of cervical cancer that has sprea...
 
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- SenecaV I'm a Fan of SenecaV 2 fans permalink


Why is death to be feared. I wish I knew when I was going to die. Two weeks from now or 20 years from now.

Death is inevitable. Only cowards would fear death. IT doesn't mean you do not fight disease or you go jump off of a building. But if it comes... you know you are going on a nice sleep.

So get with it people. Babies are being born every day...and so death is the checking out so these babies can check in.

Get over it!

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 03:41 PM on 02/21/2009

how sad some people are we all face death ,from the moment we are born we expect to live a long happy life too wich would you choose ? im sure it wouldnt be death so dont try to make us except death ,as part of life .death is the end .to say you wish you knew when you was to die is just rubbish ,talk about it if and when you find out see if you feel different then .

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 04:56 PM on 03/09/2009
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I believe death is like sleep. Each night we do it but awake. It is a sad story but hopefully her sons will be able to look back and be proud of what their mom did to make sure they were taken care of a little financially. May the journey be peaceful. RIP.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 09:58 AM on 02/21/2009
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It is GOD that takes the souls (of men) at death; and those that die not (He takes) during their sleep: those on whom He has passed the decree of death, He keeps back (from returning to life), but the rest He sends (to their bodies) for a term appointed verily in this are Signs for those who reflect.

039.042 (Az-Zumar [

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 11:31 AM on 02/21/2009
- hootie1fan I'm a Fan of hootie1fan 12 fans permalink

Chav Forever!!!­!!!!!!!!!!­!

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 09:22 AM on 02/21/2009

Such a sad story, my thoughts and prayers goes out to this very brave woman and her family and friends, she is so young, life just isn't fair sometimes, I lost a 5 year old Grandson to Brain cancer that had spread all through his little body, he suffered so bad, it hurt him to be gently touched by his Mother's hand, or the family even talking at a normal tone of voice at his bedside nothing above a whisper, at one point he was cancer free and 3 months later the cancer spread all through his little body before his death, he was on the strongest Morphine they could give him for his severe pain, he died cradled in my sons lap on his parents wedding anniversary, so I know the sorrow and grief this ladies family is going through now and what they will go through for a long time after her death, so they all need all the prayers they can get to help them get through this loss of this brave lady.
God Bless them all

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 07:44 AM on 02/21/2009
- sepiasiren I'm a Fan of sepiasiren 122 fans permalink
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I am so sorry for your loss--I cannot begin to imagine and words cannot express...bless you and yours...

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 07:02 PM on 02/21/2009
- deschl I'm a Fan of deschl 11 fans permalink

so sad

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 05:13 AM on 02/21/2009
- adzeman I'm a Fan of adzeman 22 fans permalink
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It's like a script out of the past from Paddy Chayevsky. Howard Beale we need you.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 11:30 PM on 02/20/2009
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I don't have a problem with it.

It is only our weird cultural hangups about death that cause people to have an issue with it.

Death is as much a part of life as birth, and we have seen plenty of footage of live births so what is the difference? It's all about choice. She is choosing to do it and people can choose whether or not they want to watch. No issue here, it is a natural process of life.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 08:29 PM on 02/20/2009
- FZliveson I'm a Fan of FZliveson 82 fans permalink
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Most of us will have to choose how to face our ultimate exit from life. Some, like my recently departed mother, will pass peacefully­-medicated in hospice care. Others may have accidents or quick heart attacks. Others, who know their passing will be prolonged will have to deal with the psychology of facing death, facing families and making decisions on personal conduct. I admire this Ms. Goody for stepping out of selfish preoccupations and for making "it" about a bigger cause. If the average terminal patient could make money for his/her family by putting on a great game face, it would transform the whole death experience for them into different paradigm altogether.
I am in awe of this gracious woman and I hope her time shall pass like a dream and that she transitions painlessly, feeling the love coming from her family as she radiates hers for them.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 07:32 PM on 02/20/2009
- hotseat I'm a Fan of hotseat 19 fans permalink
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What a wonderful and insightful comment. Thanks for posting this.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 08:04 PM on 02/20/2009
- SwingVoter I'm a Fan of SwingVoter 19 fans permalink
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I wish her family the best. I would recommend she cease from Chemo--it causes much more pain (physical and emotional) than the cancer itself. Spend lots of time with the kids and family. Each and every one of us will go someday. God bless her children.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 07:13 PM on 02/20/2009
- liberal54 I'm a Fan of liberal54 2 fans permalink

I know you mean well, but I'm a cancer survivor who was told (7 years ago) she had a fast growing/fast recurring breast cancer. I went through the rigors of 12 cycles of chemo and 6 weeks of daily radiation (which in some ways was harder than chemo). Wasn't easy, but I'd do it all over again if it gave me a few more minutes to spend with my husband and kids; most of the people I've known who have gone through cancer would do the same. Yes, there does come a time, I guess, but I think you should do whatever treatment you want to do for as long as you want to do it.

I wish her well and God speed.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 09:31 PM on 02/20/2009
- bettydavis I'm a Fan of bettydavis 5 fans permalink
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You know what's really sad: millions of people glued to their screen to watch her d i e.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 04:05 PM on 02/20/2009
- Takae I'm a Fan of Takae 10 fans permalink

According to the article: "Her actual death is not expected to be televised or photographed, her publicist said," so I doubt that would happen.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 07:53 PM on 02/20/2009

Yeah, and doesn't anybody else find exploiting your own death for cash disgusting?
This, and the baby-faced 13 tear old dad that knocked up his girlfriend who stands to make millions! It's all so sick, sick, sick...

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 06:33 AM on 02/22/2009

Yeah, and doesn't anybody else find it disgusting to exploit your own death for cash? This, and also the baby-faced 13 year old boy who got his girlfriend pregnant and who stands to make millions from it. It's so sick, sick, sick.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 08:06 AM on 02/22/2009
- bettydavis I'm a Fan of bettydavis 5 fans permalink
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You know what's really sad: millions of people glued to their screen to watch her die.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 04:05 PM on 02/20/2009
- FZliveson I'm a Fan of FZliveson 82 fans permalink
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Bettydavis....that is your perception. Many of those people are looking to learn about the death process and how a person faces it with courage and dignity. Many of those watching do so to project their love and compassion to her, as she progresses. This raises the consciousness of the world and provides her with additional strength. No one can tell you to see it otherwise, but you may learn to see that human compassion is an unmeasurable force that does manifest great good.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 07:39 PM on 02/20/2009
- Antacid I'm a Fan of Antacid 8 fans permalink

The death process, lol. I hope she filled in the correct application form.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 04:48 AM on 02/21/2009
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This is such a sad story, but as an obstetric nurse my sincere hope is that women in particular will take her story to heart and take care of your body.

I know that the ranks of the uninsured are increasing, but every state has some form of lower-cost health coverage that includes basic gynecological screenings for women. Even going to planned parenthood for a pap smear and HPV screening won't set you back too much.

Your health is valuable to not only you but the people you love. Do them all a favor and GET YOUR PAP SMEARS! DO YOUR SELF BREAST EXAMS or if you have a partner...teach them how to do it for you! (really....I've had at least 2 patients come into my clinic with benign breast lumps that their romantic partner noticed!)

Just do your part to take care of yourself!! If not for yourself do it for me, your friendly neighborhood OB in Denver Colorado!

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 03:13 PM on 02/20/2009

Well thanks to ex-Governor Blagojevich, women in Illinois have access to free cervical and breast cancer screening and treatment.
http://cancerscreening.illinois.gov/aboutIBCCP.cfm

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 04:00 PM on 02/20/2009
- jbs902 I'm a Fan of jbs902 5 fans permalink

How wonderful...love him or hate him he was at least in tune with what people wanted.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 05:26 PM on 02/20/2009
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LEGGO MY BLAGO!!!

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 01:39 AM on 02/21/2009
- ruffmama I'm a Fan of ruffmama 24 fans permalink
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great post! Thanks!

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 06:02 PM on 02/20/2009
- mommadona I'm a Fan of mommadona 160 fans permalink
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As a cancer survivor myself, my heart goes out to the gutsy young woman.

No life should be cut so short.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 02:47 PM on 02/20/2009
- 1stTsar I'm a Fan of 1stTsar 2 fans permalink

unless of course it was the chimp

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 04:00 PM on 02/20/2009

or Mann Coulter.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 05:16 PM on 02/20/2009
- jbs902 I'm a Fan of jbs902 5 fans permalink

This is not funny. This is a human being a lady dying. I am not thrilled that people will watch dispassionately it is a sad sign of our times. My thoughts and prayers are with her. It is so sad Uterine cancer can be detected easily with a PAP. I am recovering from successful breast cancer surgery so like mommadona my heart goes out to her

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 05:17 PM on 02/20/2009
- mimspoot I'm a Fan of mimspoot 5 fans permalink

I wish her a painless death and may she have freedom in the afterlife.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 02:42 PM on 02/20/2009
- bmwracer I'm a Fan of bmwracer 2 fans permalink

Sick.

Public executions can't be far behind.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 02:39 PM on 02/20/2009
- happycat I'm a Fan of happycat 113 fans permalink
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I agree. It makes me sick too.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 03:03 PM on 02/20/2009
- mssreader I'm a Fan of mssreader 8 fans permalink

I agree. It's pathetic to hype this story for every last penny she can make of it. I've got lots of problems with this and I watched my son die of cancer holding him in my arms as he died so that seeing this media circus is very, very sad. Is this really what we've come to in life! I don't think she's a role model or at least I hope not.

And it's listed under "entertainment"!

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 05:48 PM on 02/21/2009
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