Miley Cyrus Defends: Nothing 'Weird' About 'Cuddly' Relationship With Dad

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HILLEL ITALIE | February 20, 2009 05:19 PM EST | AP

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This Aug. 14, 2007 file photo shows singer Billy Ray Cyrus, left, and his daughter Miley Cyrus, pose together at the premiere of Disney Channel's "High School Musical 2" in Anaheim, Calif. The teen sensation writes in her memoir, "Miles to Go," that negative reactions to her bond with her father and "Hannah Montana" co-star hurt her feelings. She finds nothing "weird" about their relationship and believes some people are simply "full of anger, hatred and bitterness." (AP Photo/Chris Pizzello, file)

NEW YORK — Miley Cyrus doesn't like to admit it, but she's bothered by people who think there's something wrong with the bond between her and her dad, singer Billy Ray Cyrus.

"The media has said some stuff about my dad and me being too close and too cuddly for a father and a daughter," the 16-year-old actress-singer writes in "Miles to Go," a new memoir. "For me and my dad it's not weird at all."

Cyrus' memoir, written with Hilary Liftin, will be published next month by Disney-Hyperion Books. The Associated Press purchased a copy put on sale early.

She doesn't directly mention last year's photo shoot for Vanity Fair, when she is shown reclining against her father, his arm around her shoulder, both of them somber and bare-armed _ an image many found suggestive. But she does write that she loves her father (who co-stars on her "Hannah Montana" show), isn't afraid to show it, and "we don't let other people tell us what expressions we're supposed to have on our faces when we take a picture together!"

Acknowledging that fame inevitably attracts criticism, she writes of being hurt by comments posted about her on the Internet and concludes that some people are "so full of anger, hatred and bitterness."

Referring to the media, she regrets that people make profits off her troubles, and wishes they instead would profit from her "achievements."

Cyrus' records have sold millions of copies and her "I Thought I Lost You," featured in the movie "Bolt," was a Golden Globe nominee for best song. A film version of "Hannah Montana" comes out in April.

"In Miles to Go," Cyrus writes of her down-then-up relationship with another "Hannah Montana" star, Emily Osment. And she reflects on a certain ex-boyfriend, apparently fellow teen idol Nick Jonas of the Jonas Brothers, mentioned not by name, but as "Prince Charming."

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She tells of falling for him immediately at an AIDS benefit in 2006, of reuniting with him at a White House Easter Egg Roll during a time they had split up, and of the final parting, in December 2007.

Cyrus says it was the worst day of her life, and inspiration for her hit song "7 Things I Hate About You."

"It's hard to imagine that our love is a story with an end," she writes. "But you know, at least I'm getting some really good songs out of it."

The 266-page book was written for young people, her core audience, with photos, notes scrawled in the margins and plenty of lists. Cyrus advocates family, friendship and pursuing one's dreams, but also mentions the price _ not just the loss of privacy, but the loss of self.

Toward the end of the second season of "Hannah Montana," she fell into despair; "self-hatred" that started with a common affliction, acne, and developed into something greater. She had turned Hollywood, become a "brat," forgotten her own identity.

The blues blew away thanks to Vanessa, a 9-year-old with cystic fibrosis whom Cyrus met at a Los Angeles hospital and instantly connected with.

"I'd been praying to God to take away my vanity and self-centeredness," she writes. "When I met Vanessa, all the superficial obsession over my skin, and all the darkness I'd been feeling, fell away."

NEW YORK — Miley Cyrus doesn't like to admit it, but she's bothered by people who think there's something wrong with the bond between her and her dad, singer Billy Ray Cyrus. "The media has sai...
NEW YORK — Miley Cyrus doesn't like to admit it, but she's bothered by people who think there's something wrong with the bond between her and her dad, singer Billy Ray Cyrus. "The media has sai...
 
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- Rubyredman I'm a Fan of Rubyredman 7 fans permalink

What' wrong with her cuddling her dad? She will eventually grow out of it, and as a father I bet he'll miss those days of being the protector and "cuddle-bear".

I think it's disgusting for the media to suggest anything improper in their relationship. Kids and parents should never feel bad about being physically demonstrative with one another. What's wrong with showing love for the people in your life that really matter, anyways?

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 11:17 AM on 02/22/2009
- JEP I'm a Fan of JEP permalink
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In a society where parents and their children are considered opposite ends of a cultural divide, some common, old-fashioned simple affection between Miley and her dad is refreshing. And only provocative if your mind is in the gutter in the first place.

Lots of repressed hostility coming out here. Maybe if people were more affectionate towards their families and loved-ones, we would have fewer bitterheaded comments from so many unhappy bloggers.

And, only slightly OT, as someone who used the term "redneck" recklessly for many years, I have to add it was Billy Ray's West Virginia TV special that set me straight. Rednecks were a bunch of courageous WV union workers who were wearing red neckerchiefs when they fought off the Corporate thugs hired to murder the leaders of the union movement.

So, thanks to Billy Ray for helping me understand our culture better, and shame on all of you who use the term "redneck" as an insult, you need some serious history lessons.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 09:37 AM on 02/22/2009
- Faxus I'm a Fan of Faxus 12 fans permalink
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Cyrus is attempting the difficult transition from child perform to adult performer. Considering her incredible success up to this point I don't think there's any question that she has a dedicated fan base that will support her. However, eventually she has to sex-it-up and stories like this one are nothing but expertly contrived media exposure opportunities. Soon she'll be a full blown woman making movies with overt sexual content. People need to get over it. She's not having nookie with her dad. With that hunk of a boyfriend, why would she?

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 08:42 AM on 02/22/2009
- kesiac I'm a Fan of kesiac 10 fans permalink
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"She's not having nookie with her dad. With that hunk of a boyfriend, why would she?"
Your comments are disturbing.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 10:25 AM on 02/22/2009
- lmt27 I'm a Fan of lmt27 4 fans permalink

Its not her relationship with her father that bothers me; it is her dating and having a live in 20 yr old boyfriend and she is just 16 yrs old. I cannot believe that the media has reported little or nothing negative about this situation. It is a felony in all 50 states. Every magazine this week has a story on the Rihanna/C Brown situation yet the one story I saw about Miley and her live in was headlined "Miley's underwear model hunk" goes on to say 'he reports that he walks around the house in his underwear. I could not believe it. Where is CPS? This 'man' is 20 y/o and she is a 16 y/o child--are we expected to believe that they live in the same home without any physical relationship? Even if they kiss this would be carnal knowledge which is a felony sex offense; her parents should be charged with contributing to the deliquency of a minor. I just don't understand why people are not in an uproar about this. I don't understand how the media can report this story as 'Miley' and her hunk boyfriend without public outrage.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 10:45 PM on 02/21/2009

The media can't afford to ruin her career just yet. Paricites never kill the host right away.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 12:29 AM on 02/22/2009
- liberalbug I'm a Fan of liberalbug 45 fans permalink
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16 is the age of consent in many states. Biology would have most women doing it at 13-15 and most men at 14-18, which, shockingly enough, is when most of us did it for the first time. No big deal with the 20 y.o. boyfriend. If there is any sexual exploitation of Miley going on, it is by her washed up father and the disney network, but I am sure none mind so long as the millions continue to pour in.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 01:25 AM on 02/23/2009
- T Pol I'm a Fan of T Pol 13 fans permalink

After reading the full story about her Vanity Fair pictures and the number of adults, including her father, who saw the digital photos before they went to press, my sympathies lie with photographer Annie Liebovitz, who has taken some of the most remarkable photos ever that embrace the beauty of the human body.

Methinks Cyrus & Co. protesteth too much after getting flak from Disney and dropped back to punt with an apology to ensure her contract would continue.

The one with the blanket is NOT viewed as having a sexual context by kids her age and younger, and as I look at it without the "noise," there is a tremendous innocence in it. The one of her and dad together, well, daughters put their heads in daddies laps all the time. If she didn't want to promote the idea of "weird" relationship, then she and Billy Ray could have insisted she wear a shirt that covered her midriff.

With as much adult supervision as she and her career have, to assert that Liebovitz or Vanity Fair exploited her to sell magazines (Disney's claim likely to placate Cyrus' fundamentalist fans) is purely ludicrous. Disney provides a plateful of children's programming full of smart-mouthed kids (e.g., Hannah Montana, Suite Life) whose whole existence is to "get over" on their parents, who are often portrayed as bumbling idiots. When we cut our kids off from Disney channel, it was amazing how they returned to their old mellow, sensible selves.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 10:19 PM on 02/21/2009
- blaharumph I'm a Fan of blaharumph 14 fans permalink
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"daughters put their heads in daddies laps all the time"
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    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 03:39 PM on 02/22/2009

If I had to live my life in showbiz I would need to cuddle my dad a whole lot, too.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 10:06 PM on 02/21/2009
- jeffobix I'm a Fan of jeffobix 3 fans permalink
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When it comes to weird relationships, the deep south never disappoints.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 09:04 PM on 02/21/2009
- JEP I'm a Fan of JEP permalink
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Jeffobix, The Mileys are from West Virginia, NOT the DEEP SOUTH! West Virginia was CREATED as a state specifically to defy Deep South sentiments, in the first place. Our nationally geographical error of making all of Appalachia some sort of suburb of the Deep South is glaringly apparent in your comment.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 10:30 AM on 02/22/2009
- blaharumph I'm a Fan of blaharumph 14 fans permalink
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real west virginia!

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 03:38 PM on 02/22/2009
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She's writing a memoir? WHY?

Give me the memoirs of someone abused as a child, real abuse, survived, worked hard, and prospered, instead of this teeniebopper sensationalistic thumbsucking GARBAGE.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 06:14 PM on 02/21/2009
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Wow; talk about hat e filled...who are you to tell people what they should read, write, publish or sell? what hubris. if you donn't like it don't buy it...I fit your criteria; and I would just rahre forget it.
Teens are going to relate to her; if she send a positive message; they will listen; that is just how it is.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 07:19 PM on 02/21/2009

franklin, tenn. one of the wealthiest cities in the u.s. pleeeeeeeease, get real.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 05:50 PM on 02/21/2009
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Dollywood must be a triving industry

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 08:29 AM on 03/14/2009
- andj I'm a Fan of andj 12 fans permalink

i dont think there is anything weird going in their relationship. They obviously are close and that is nice to see.

however the photos do sometimes look a bit too suggestive.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 05:18 PM on 02/21/2009
- LeeVing I'm a Fan of LeeVing 12 fans permalink

True, and since I don't really care one way or another to investigate further, the photos are the first thing that leap to my attention and they appear bizarre.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 05:46 PM on 02/21/2009

A father loves his daughter, strange in America I guess. More a comment on us than them.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 07:00 PM on 02/21/2009
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I agree; the fear of pedophilia has kept many father from being affectionate with his daughter. That is so sad; gone are the days that a teen daughter could sit in fathers lap and hig his neck without someone calling child protective services... (same with teachers; no more hugs for kids)

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 07:24 PM on 02/21/2009

I love when my daughter higs my neck

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 08:42 PM on 02/21/2009
- gemzenith I'm a Fan of gemzenith 2 fans permalink
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anyone for an Electra complex?

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 05:08 PM on 02/21/2009
- The Ghost I'm a Fan of The Ghost 47 fans permalink
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She'd hardly be the first girl with a crush on daddy.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 05:54 PM on 02/21/2009
- KillBillV2 I'm a Fan of KillBillV2 90 fans permalink
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Eww..freak!

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 03:29 AM on 02/22/2009
- carnelld I'm a Fan of carnelld 10 fans permalink

With Billy Ray at Miley's side, you get the a double dose of entertainment.

The kids see Hannah Montana. The parents see Billy Ray Cyrus "Achey-Brakey -Heart.

It's a great public relations and marketing strategy. It has earned them millions of dollars.

Millions.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 05:01 PM on 02/21/2009
- daedelus I'm a Fan of daedelus 36 fans permalink
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When I see the two of them together I feel like I'm in a dream.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 08:09 PM on 02/21/2009
- FrancescaM I'm a Fan of FrancescaM 4 fans permalink
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Nothing weird or nothing but weird? And I'm not even touching the father-daugher relationship.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 04:01 PM on 02/21/2009
- TallyLass I'm a Fan of TallyLass 5 fans permalink
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I had a favorite uncle when I was a child and I hugged him al the time and he hugged me back. NEVER, did he touch me inappropiately. Girls are suppose to be close to their dads. Human beings are supposed to be affectionate. We over analyze everything, some of us.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 03:52 PM on 02/21/2009
- The Ghost I'm a Fan of The Ghost 47 fans permalink
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People are such vicious monkeys.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 02:51 PM on 02/21/2009
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