Miley Cyrus Defends: Nothing 'Weird' About 'Cuddly' Relationship With Dad

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HILLEL ITALIE | February 20, 2009 05:19 PM EST | AP

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This Aug. 14, 2007 file photo shows singer Billy Ray Cyrus, left, and his daughter Miley Cyrus, pose together at the premiere of Disney Channel's "High School Musical 2" in Anaheim, Calif. The teen sensation writes in her memoir, "Miles to Go," that negative reactions to her bond with her father and "Hannah Montana" co-star hurt her feelings. She finds nothing "weird" about their relationship and believes some people are simply "full of anger, hatred and bitterness." (AP Photo/Chris Pizzello, file)

NEW YORK — Miley Cyrus doesn't like to admit it, but she's bothered by people who think there's something wrong with the bond between her and her dad, singer Billy Ray Cyrus.

"The media has said some stuff about my dad and me being too close and too cuddly for a father and a daughter," the 16-year-old actress-singer writes in "Miles to Go," a new memoir. "For me and my dad it's not weird at all."

Cyrus' memoir, written with Hilary Liftin, will be published next month by Disney-Hyperion Books. The Associated Press purchased a copy put on sale early.

She doesn't directly mention last year's photo shoot for Vanity Fair, when she is shown reclining against her father, his arm around her shoulder, both of them somber and bare-armed _ an image many found suggestive. But she does write that she loves her father (who co-stars on her "Hannah Montana" show), isn't afraid to show it, and "we don't let other people tell us what expressions we're supposed to have on our faces when we take a picture together!"

Acknowledging that fame inevitably attracts criticism, she writes of being hurt by comments posted about her on the Internet and concludes that some people are "so full of anger, hatred and bitterness."

Referring to the media, she regrets that people make profits off her troubles, and wishes they instead would profit from her "achievements."

Cyrus' records have sold millions of copies and her "I Thought I Lost You," featured in the movie "Bolt," was a Golden Globe nominee for best song. A film version of "Hannah Montana" comes out in April.

"In Miles to Go," Cyrus writes of her down-then-up relationship with another "Hannah Montana" star, Emily Osment. And she reflects on a certain ex-boyfriend, apparently fellow teen idol Nick Jonas of the Jonas Brothers, mentioned not by name, but as "Prince Charming."

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She tells of falling for him immediately at an AIDS benefit in 2006, of reuniting with him at a White House Easter Egg Roll during a time they had split up, and of the final parting, in December 2007.

Cyrus says it was the worst day of her life, and inspiration for her hit song "7 Things I Hate About You."

"It's hard to imagine that our love is a story with an end," she writes. "But you know, at least I'm getting some really good songs out of it."

The 266-page book was written for young people, her core audience, with photos, notes scrawled in the margins and plenty of lists. Cyrus advocates family, friendship and pursuing one's dreams, but also mentions the price _ not just the loss of privacy, but the loss of self.

Toward the end of the second season of "Hannah Montana," she fell into despair; "self-hatred" that started with a common affliction, acne, and developed into something greater. She had turned Hollywood, become a "brat," forgotten her own identity.

The blues blew away thanks to Vanessa, a 9-year-old with cystic fibrosis whom Cyrus met at a Los Angeles hospital and instantly connected with.

"I'd been praying to God to take away my vanity and self-centeredness," she writes. "When I met Vanessa, all the superficial obsession over my skin, and all the darkness I'd been feeling, fell away."

NEW YORK — Miley Cyrus doesn't like to admit it, but she's bothered by people who think there's something wrong with the bond between her and her dad, singer Billy Ray Cyrus. "The media has sai...
NEW YORK — Miley Cyrus doesn't like to admit it, but she's bothered by people who think there's something wrong with the bond between her and her dad, singer Billy Ray Cyrus. "The media has sai...
 
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- jukesgrrl I'm a Fan of jukesgrrl 74 fans permalink
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The mere fact that she needs to discuss the topic means that something is not normal.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 05:04 PM on 02/20/2009

I heard you liked to have sexx with animals. If you feel the need to deny it then it must be true.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 05:12 PM on 02/20/2009
- DaisyDooks I'm a Fan of DaisyDooks 30 fans permalink
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That was mean, but you got your point across. hehehe

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 05:28 PM on 02/20/2009
- 113 I'm a Fan of 113 7 fans permalink

Very well put, I hate that now common assessment that when someone denies something controversial that means they are guilty. Setting the record straight doesn't make you guilty of anything.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 06:21 PM on 02/20/2009
- queotic I'm a Fan of queotic 5 fans permalink
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I could not have responded better!

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 08:38 PM on 02/20/2009
- leeman79 I'm a Fan of leeman79 6 fans permalink

Billy Ray should go back to the mullet.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 04:59 PM on 02/20/2009
- ChristiB I'm a Fan of ChristiB 4 fans permalink

LEAVE HER ALONE!! MUST YOU TRASH EVERYONE??? She's just a kid, she has a good strong relationship with her dad, wish more people had healthy relationships with their fathers.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 04:58 PM on 02/20/2009
- RonPaulFan I'm a Fan of RonPaulFan 4 fans permalink

Scolber, you "hate these two losers"?

You might want to get out and enjoy life a little more. Hate is a strong word to use against a girl and a man you've never met. But to each his own I guess. Just seems rather depressing to live with such a negative attitude toward strangers.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 04:58 PM on 02/20/2009
- ibivi I'm a Fan of ibivi 12 fans permalink
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May be she needs to get away from her dad and become more aware of what she says and does. She seems rather naive.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 04:51 PM on 02/20/2009
- queotic I'm a Fan of queotic 5 fans permalink
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"She seems rather naive."

I think you're confusing "young" with "naive." She is, after all, 16 years old.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 09:26 PM on 02/20/2009
- Pleneras I'm a Fan of Pleneras 53 fans permalink
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America had entered an era of panic against men due to child abuse labeling honest and loving fathers, brothers, uncles, cousin "future sex abusers" thanks to the republican right-wing media and groups. I know many men who are good people walking around in fear of being left alone with a child for fear of branding. Shame on this pathetic society and the media who promotes such ugliness. Meanwhile there are many crazy/drun­ken/sexaho­lic women out there I would not leave with my son. For once a writer should not report the gossip and write in defense of MEN.

i'm a mother and I fear for my son in this world of branding. Reminds me of the Salem witch hunt days.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 04:29 PM on 02/20/2009
- queotic I'm a Fan of queotic 5 fans permalink
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Agreed.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 09:33 PM on 02/20/2009
- Eddy333 I'm a Fan of Eddy333 7 fans permalink
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Her father should thank his lucky starts everyday for his daughter. He was beyond washed up until her career came along.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 04:27 PM on 02/20/2009
- dnddays I'm a Fan of dnddays 6 fans permalink
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I predict one day she will breaky his achy heart.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 04:34 PM on 02/20/2009
- SColbert I'm a Fan of SColbert 13 fans permalink
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I hate both of these untalented losers, their 15 minutes of fame should be ending soon!

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 04:45 PM on 02/20/2009
- hemnebob I'm a Fan of hemnebob 2 fans permalink

the press needs to refocus their attention back on the ones who deserve
that kind of coverage..­.
like lindsey blohan...
now that is news.

leave poor miley alone.
she is a good kid and her parents love her.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 04:26 PM on 02/20/2009
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Yes, a good kid who has some very risque photos of herself online (regardless of the fact that someone else leaked them) and makes "goofy faces" as she and others who defend her call that expression she made. This same "good kid" is a role model, unfortunately.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 04:44 PM on 02/20/2009
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I wish the sickos out there who think this is unhealthy would just LEAVE. MILEY. ALONE!
It's great that she has a close relationship with her father - so get your minds out of the gutter!

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 04:13 PM on 02/20/2009
- DaisyDooks I'm a Fan of DaisyDooks 30 fans permalink
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Co-sign. They're probably fatherless, bald-headed step children who are just jealous. hehehe

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 05:30 PM on 02/20/2009
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LEAVE. MILEY. ALONE!

I wanna see your youtube rant. Please please, pretty please.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 07:52 PM on 02/20/2009

thankks, this made me giggle a lot. Good one!

:-p

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 08:51 AM on 02/21/2009
- bettydavis I'm a Fan of bettydavis 5 fans permalink
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So, that's what the "purity ring" is all about.

Eeeeww.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 04:02 PM on 02/20/2009
- texmike I'm a Fan of texmike 11 fans permalink

Good grief. A "memoir" from a teenybopper???

'My dad had one big hit and got famous.'

'People noticed my last name and I got famous.'

'The End.'

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 03:59 PM on 02/20/2009
- coco51 I'm a Fan of coco51 15 fans permalink

She finds nothing "weird" about their relationship and believes some people are simply "full of anger, hatred and bitterness­." E tu texmike?

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 04:06 PM on 02/20/2009
- dnddays I'm a Fan of dnddays 6 fans permalink
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I guess it will leave out the sordid relationship with an adult model (her current boyfriend), the suggestive pics she took, and the racism. That's for the memoir she writes after rehab four years from now.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 04:33 PM on 02/20/2009

>>>>She finds nothing "weird" about their relationship and believes some people are simply "full of anger, hatred and bitterness­."

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 03:51 PM on 02/20/2009
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