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Madonna, in Malawi, refuses to talk about adoption

CELEAN JACOBSON   03/29/09 09:03 PM ET   AP

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CHINKHOTA, Malawi — Madonna is expected to appear in court in Malawi's capital Monday to sign papers for the reported adoption of a second child from the country.

The pop star on Sunday visited an impoverished village to discuss a school she is planning to build, saying nothing to the hordes of reporters on her trail.

The singer, casually dressed in a white fedora, walked in Chinkhota, a village near the capital of this AIDS- and poverty-stricken southern African country, holding the hand of her 12-year-old daughter, Lourdes. Dozens of reporters looked on.

The 50-year-old Madonna refused to answer questions about reports that she was in Malawi to adopt a 4-year-old girl. She said it was "amazing" to be back in the country where she runs a charity organization and from where she adopted her son David, 3, last year.

Then she rushed away in a convoy of at least three sport utility vehicles, as crowds of shouting, waving children ran after her.

A security guard with the convoy said Madonna spoke to villagers about building a school, and she was seen looking at an artist's impression of the proposed building.

Madonna first traveled to Malawi in 2006 while doing charity work and filming a documentary on the devastating poverty and AIDS crisis here. Her Raising Malawi organization, founded in 2006, raises funds to fight poverty by providing food, shelter, education and health care for children here.

The U.N. estimates that half of the 1 million Malawian children with one or no parents was orphaned by AIDS, and that the virus that causes AIDS has infected 14 percent of adults here. Of the population of 13 million, 65 percent live below the poverty line, and most of those living in poverty are women. Madonna plans a special school for girls to increase opportunities for girls and young women in Malawi.

It was not clear if the school she discussed Sunday was her proposed Raising Malawi Academy for Girls.

A Malawian welfare official and another person involved in the adoption proceedings have said the girl Madonna is hoping to adopt is about 4 years old and her unmarried mother died soon after she was born. The girl's father is believed to be alive but no other details were available. They spoke on condition of anonymity because the case is considered sensitive.

A U.S. government official has also confirmed that an adoption bid by Madonna, an American citizen, is under way.

Madonna has faced harsh criticism for years over David's adoption. Children's advocacy groups accused her of wielding her immense wealth and influence to circumvent Malawian law requiring an 18- to 24-month assessment period before adoption.

But locals were not so condemning.

Wilson Kalibwanji, a resident of Chinkhota, said he would willingly place his own son in her care to ensure the boy a better life.

"We are poor people," he said Sunday. "If a child's mother dies, it is hard for the man to bring the child up."

Austin Msowoya, legal researcher with Malawi's Law Commission, played down concerns that a second adoption by Madonna would violate any laws. He said the best interests of the child would be taken into account _ whether that was staying in an orphanage in Malawi or getting "an education with Madonna."

"When you look at these two options, then perhaps it becomes in the best interests of the child to allow the adoption if the parents and the guardians consent to it," he told Associated Press Television News on Saturday.

But Save the Children UK said the recently divorced superstar risked sending the wrong message by going through with the second adoption.

"International adoption can actually exacerbate the problem it hopes to solve," spokesman Dominic Nutt said Saturday. "The very existence of orphanages encourages poor parents to abandon children in the hope that they will have a better life."

Nutt said he was not suggesting that Madonna was doing anything wrong _ but he said the whole process of international adoptions was often flawed and sometimes linked to criminal activity.

He said, barring exceptional circumstances, children should be kept in the care of their extended families or within their communities.

Madonna's spokeswoman Liz Rosenberg in New York, who has not commented on the adoption reports, told The Associated Press the star would not respond to comments from Save the Children.

Madonna told Malawi's The Nation newspaper that she was considering another adoption but would only do it if she had "the support of the Malawian people and government."

If the adoption goes through, Madonna would become a single mother of four. She also has an 8-year-old son, Rocco, with former husband and British film director Guy Ritchie and her daughter Lourdes from a previous relationship.

She and Ritchie, who were married in 2000, obtained a preliminary divorce decree in November 2008.

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Associated Press Writer Raphael Tenthani in Lilongwe contributed to this report.

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redsongia
is not Chicago
01:37 PM on 04/20/2009
Look out! Lourdes is about to grow up! Georgeous!
10:46 AM on 03/30/2009
The secrecy is because Madonna is actually adopting an alien baby!

http://weeklyworldnews.com/celebs/7201/madonnas-adoption/
09:20 AM on 03/30/2009
Wow! Lourdes has grown into a pretty young lady. She is a stunner from now.
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06:25 PM on 03/30/2009
I was going to make the same comment. A brunette Madonna at that age.
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PhilipB
07:31 PM on 03/30/2009
I thought the same thing. She is a remarkable looking person. Lourdes has a personal style, and an expressive face. I am glad mother and daughter can be together.
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AbeMartin
The best person fer a job is never a candidate
09:11 AM on 03/30/2009
What goes to Malawi should stay in Malawi.
08:36 AM on 03/30/2009
i couldn't even read the article because i'm so excited at the possibility that lourdes finally plucked her eyebrows.
08:29 AM on 03/30/2009
I thought it was a rumor, I don't think it quit right . She does have the means to secure a future for the children. Only for the sake of a child, good luck.
06:50 AM on 03/30/2009
Chris Hansen needs to watch some of you people.

"Lourdes told me she was eighteen. I just came here to talk, really."
07:24 AM on 03/30/2009
Yeah. "I always carry around condoms, alcohol and candy".
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YLS2007
God didn't make man; man made gods
05:55 AM on 03/30/2009
Too bad she just can't adopt some class for once in her life...
08:55 AM on 03/30/2009
no matter how rich she gets, she'll never be able to afford class.
03:17 AM on 03/30/2009
I don't believe anything she does is for the right reasons.
She wouldn't talk to the press, then why were they all there?
Who leaked the story when she would be going to Malawi??
Her PR!! She thinks she is Evita now, and is trying to get
all these kids into Kabalah. Convert them. She didn't even
let the father of her son hear from him until she returned for
another kid. The father was distraught saying "She promised!"
Then, she let him visit with him for 2 HOURS. That's it. She is
foul. If anyone thinks living with madonna is a stable life, you've
got swiss cheese for brains. I can think of 10 ways just recently
she has proven she doesn't care for the welfare of children.
Starting with the way she dresses and her stage performance.
Not letting a child talk to his real father for 6 months after taking
him away...is just unbelievably apathetic. But from what I've
seen, she is trying to build a good will personae to fight the reality
of who she really is.
07:27 AM on 03/30/2009
She also fired the little boy's nanny very suddenly. The girl had put in her notice and Madonna got angry she was leaving and said basically "go now".
If someone were caring for my young child, I would want to ease them away from their caretaker a bit. Especially a child who had been taken away from everything they had ever known.
It would have been kinder to the child to gradually introduce him to someone else. The nanny, who must have bonded with the little boy, was trying to give him that time.
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FZliveson
Beating the Conundrum
12:35 PM on 03/30/2009
Pickwickianmom: Part of what you said caught my attention: "If someone were caring for my young child..."
Children are not OURS. They are not possessions. They are not assets or liabilities.
We are entrusted to bring them into adulthood as INDEPENDENT and SECURE beings, not little legacy-units we intentionally shape in our images.

I know this is not what you were implying or even how you see child-rearing. It is a point that many people should read and consider because there's a whole lot of people who look at children as possessions and/or interferences between them and the life they "really" wanted instead. Thanks
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JScott
John Galt's last name is McGuffin-Smithee
02:05 AM on 03/30/2009
Wow that's her daughter jeez how time flies looks like she's all grown up now.
01:24 AM on 03/30/2009
People should stop complaining about Madonna adopting. Children are being used as human sex slaves throughout the world and all the complainers do nothing about that. So, Madonna wants to love some needy child without the wait caused by underfunding children's adoptions in the U.S.

We as a country only have ourselves to blame because we do not prioritize our children. Go for it Madonna.
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redsongia
is not Chicago
01:39 PM on 04/20/2009
Or sold for 200,000 lbs after their big hollywood movie is a hit.
01:24 AM on 03/30/2009
What's the hate for? Madonna's children are well taken care of and will be able to pursue any of their dreams, thanks to massive funding.
Madonna herself is fit and able to handle a bunch of kids, she came from a large family.

What is controversial about adopting children from Africa?
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kotexbarbie
01:07 AM on 03/30/2009
What the he// is Madonna feeding that kid ? Is 12 the new 24?
01:21 AM on 03/30/2009
She's a pre-teen let's not forget. They act like they're when they're at that age.
01:29 AM on 03/30/2009
Lourdes does look awfully mature for 12, but then again, the age when girls mature has changed over the years...she's looking more and more like her Mom...
01:22 AM on 03/30/2009
She's a pre-teen let's not forget. They act like they're 24 when they're at that age.
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kotexbarbie
01:42 AM on 03/30/2009
Thats not what I meant. I thought Madonna was a vegetarian and ate a plant based diet . Puberty at twelve happens when kids eat very poorly at the top of the food chain. I worked in my fathers office and he was a Pediatrician for 35 years . That kid is gonna get wider not taller.
12:44 AM on 03/30/2009
Adoption is great.
All her pictures galleries:

http://celeb9.com/celeb/Madonna/photo_album/list
12:14 AM on 03/30/2009
Her daughter Lourdes will be a stunner when she grows up.
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kotexbarbie
01:25 AM on 03/30/2009
Um, I think she already did grow up.
07:29 AM on 03/30/2009
I think that means "when she's of age for it to be appropriate for me to say that".
01:29 AM on 03/30/2009
I have my issues with Madonna's adoption, but let's not start trashing Lourdes...
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maggiee
08:49 AM on 03/30/2009
"Stunner" as in "stunningly pretty" I think.