Madonna, in Malawi, refuses to talk about adoption

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CELEAN JACOBSON | March 29, 2009 08:03 PM EST | AP

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U.S. pop star Madonna and her daughter Lourdes shake hands with residents in the village of Magwelo on the outskirts of Lilongwe, Malawi, Sunday March 29, 2009. Madonna toured an impoverished village and discussed plans Sunday for building a new school in Malawi, the central African nation where officials said she would begin proceedings this week to adopt a young girl. (AP Photo/Tsvangirayi Mukwazhi)

CHINKHOTA, Malawi — Madonna is expected to appear in court in Malawi's capital Monday to sign papers for the reported adoption of a second child from the country.

The pop star on Sunday visited an impoverished village to discuss a school she is planning to build, saying nothing to the hordes of reporters on her trail.

The singer, casually dressed in a white fedora, walked in Chinkhota, a village near the capital of this AIDS- and poverty-stricken southern African country, holding the hand of her 12-year-old daughter, Lourdes. Dozens of reporters looked on.

The 50-year-old Madonna refused to answer questions about reports that she was in Malawi to adopt a 4-year-old girl. She said it was "amazing" to be back in the country where she runs a charity organization and from where she adopted her son David, 3, last year.

Then she rushed away in a convoy of at least three sport utility vehicles, as crowds of shouting, waving children ran after her.

A security guard with the convoy said Madonna spoke to villagers about building a school, and she was seen looking at an artist's impression of the proposed building.

Madonna first traveled to Malawi in 2006 while doing charity work and filming a documentary on the devastating poverty and AIDS crisis here. Her Raising Malawi organization, founded in 2006, raises funds to fight poverty by providing food, shelter, education and health care for children here.

The U.N. estimates that half of the 1 million Malawian children with one or no parents was orphaned by AIDS, and that the virus that causes AIDS has infected 14 percent of adults here. Of the population of 13 million, 65 percent live below the poverty line, and most of those living in poverty are women. Madonna plans a special school for girls to increase opportunities for girls and young women in Malawi.

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It was not clear if the school she discussed Sunday was her proposed Raising Malawi Academy for Girls.

A Malawian welfare official and another person involved in the adoption proceedings have said the girl Madonna is hoping to adopt is about 4 years old and her unmarried mother died soon after she was born. The girl's father is believed to be alive but no other details were available. They spoke on condition of anonymity because the case is considered sensitive.

A U.S. government official has also confirmed that an adoption bid by Madonna, an American citizen, is under way.

Madonna has faced harsh criticism for years over David's adoption. Children's advocacy groups accused her of wielding her immense wealth and influence to circumvent Malawian law requiring an 18- to 24-month assessment period before adoption.

But locals were not so condemning.

Wilson Kalibwanji, a resident of Chinkhota, said he would willingly place his own son in her care to ensure the boy a better life.

"We are poor people," he said Sunday. "If a child's mother dies, it is hard for the man to bring the child up."

Austin Msowoya, legal researcher with Malawi's Law Commission, played down concerns that a second adoption by Madonna would violate any laws. He said the best interests of the child would be taken into account _ whether that was staying in an orphanage in Malawi or getting "an education with Madonna."

"When you look at these two options, then perhaps it becomes in the best interests of the child to allow the adoption if the parents and the guardians consent to it," he told Associated Press Television News on Saturday.

But Save the Children UK said the recently divorced superstar risked sending the wrong message by going through with the second adoption.

"International adoption can actually exacerbate the problem it hopes to solve," spokesman Dominic Nutt said Saturday. "The very existence of orphanages encourages poor parents to abandon children in the hope that they will have a better life."

Nutt said he was not suggesting that Madonna was doing anything wrong _ but he said the whole process of international adoptions was often flawed and sometimes linked to criminal activity.

He said, barring exceptional circumstances, children should be kept in the care of their extended families or within their communities.

Madonna's spokeswoman Liz Rosenberg in New York, who has not commented on the adoption reports, told The Associated Press the star would not respond to comments from Save the Children.

Madonna told Malawi's The Nation newspaper that she was considering another adoption but would only do it if she had "the support of the Malawian people and government."

If the adoption goes through, Madonna would become a single mother of four. She also has an 8-year-old son, Rocco, with former husband and British film director Guy Ritchie and her daughter Lourdes from a previous relationship.

She and Ritchie, who were married in 2000, obtained a preliminary divorce decree in November 2008.

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Associated Press Writer Raphael Tenthani in Lilongwe contributed to this report.

CHINKHOTA, Malawi — Madonna is expected to appear in court in Malawi's capital Monday to sign papers for the reported adoption of a second child from the country. The pop star on Sunday visited...
CHINKHOTA, Malawi — Madonna is expected to appear in court in Malawi's capital Monday to sign papers for the reported adoption of a second child from the country. The pop star on Sunday visited...
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- crayola 08 I'm a Fan of crayola 08 3 fans permalink
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hmmmm i wonder if she's going through menopause and is having a problem dealing with it? adopting these babies could be her way of not accepting it and sorta fooling herself into believing she's still young and fertile.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 12:06 AM on 03/30/2009
- lillibelle I'm a Fan of lillibelle 66 fans permalink
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Madonna grew up in a large family. Often, we try to recreate what we know and she is at the right place in her life to do so, regardless of estrogen levels.

P.S. Women are still young and fertile at 50.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 12:25 AM on 03/30/2009
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She' s not fertile at 50. Young yes! Fertile no.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 01:11 AM on 03/30/2009
- Bariis I'm a Fan of Bariis 10 fans permalink
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Madonna has a handful of people caring for the 3 she already has; how is she going to handle a fourth?

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 11:45 PM on 03/29/2009
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I think you answered your own question. She has help caring for the 3 she already has. What's one more?

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 12:19 AM on 03/30/2009
- Bariis I'm a Fan of Bariis 10 fans permalink
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hahaha, I miswrote the point I was making. What I meant to say was what good does it do for her to keep bringing children into her life when she obviously pays so many people to look after them? I know she cares for them. but If you want that many kids, slow down with whatever it is you're doing with your life and just be there for them. Simple.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 01:19 AM on 03/30/2009
- Bariis I'm a Fan of Bariis 10 fans permalink
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Give it up already!

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 11:44 PM on 03/29/2009
- jrandy I'm a Fan of jrandy 3 fans permalink

The greatest performer of this (and last, and any) century

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5H7I2M_mXbE&eurl

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 11:23 PM on 03/29/2009
- The Lorax I'm a Fan of The Lorax 8 fans permalink

OMg Lourdes is such a doll.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 10:32 PM on 03/29/2009
- UncleJimbo I'm a Fan of UncleJimbo 253 fans permalink
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I was thinking the same thing! A beautiful young lady!

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 10:49 PM on 03/29/2009
- JZ735 I'm a Fan of JZ735 22 fans permalink

OK, you pervs, DOWN!

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 01:30 AM on 03/30/2009
- jerrypl I'm a Fan of jerrypl 63 fans permalink
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Madonna, a person with no talent will do anything to keep her name and face in the tabloids. She knows how to play the business card.

http://eye-on-washington.blogspot.com

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 10:22 PM on 03/29/2009

You can argue about her motives, but to say she has no talent is plain ridiculous. I saw her in concert here in LA (with 50,000 others during an awful recession) and the woman is amazing on stage.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 10:36 PM on 03/29/2009
- JZ735 I'm a Fan of JZ735 22 fans permalink

It doesn't take a lot of talent to sing to a pre-recorded track...her dancing, as some of those who knew her back in the day, leaves much to be desired...

Where she DOES have talent is as a businesswoman...such as making it impossible for people to get access to her music via download for the longest time until she had to realize that being so overprotective of licensing of her music was not only financially stupid but bad business practice.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 01:35 AM on 03/30/2009
- jimme I'm a Fan of jimme 11 fans permalink

What a ridiculous statement to make. She's been at the top of the charts for a very long time.
You don't stay there without talent.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 11:17 PM on 03/29/2009
- JZ735 I'm a Fan of JZ735 22 fans permalink

It wasn't talent that got her where she is now...Madonna did the "casting couch" routine when she was young...not exactly a role model for young women...if anyone got her in her way, they were stepped on, trampled and discarded. Even family members were tossed aside like yesterday's trash if they somehow interfered with her plans.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 01:32 AM on 03/30/2009

So who here has never done anything wrong? ( don't worry i'll wait). Whether you approve of her life her not she is using her riches to help those less fortunate AND adopt! I dont see why everyone feels the need to put her life on trial. no one is perfect.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 09:57 PM on 03/29/2009
- The Lorax I'm a Fan of The Lorax 8 fans permalink

Somehow I trust her even though she is often nutty. Look at her little girl who is now bug and smiling (many 12 year olds take on the "I hate my life" look). My kids looked like that at 12 and tell me I didn't do so bad. Look at the kids she already has, like Lourdes (DOLL!!!- and happy) and that's where I think she could do good for more kids. She isn't parading a tribe of small kids collecting more. She has raised her own and is taking on more who might need some relief. Call me biased, but Madonna is ok in my book.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 10:36 PM on 03/29/2009

I was an adopted child, and I have also adopted a child. I am so apalled that people are turning this situation into a political issue, or a racist issue, or any other issue based on their personal preferences. Where a child is from, or what a child's race is, should have no bearing whatsoever when someone wants to provide a home for that child! If a parent or parents has the desire to adopt, and the means to do so, it is a wonderful thing, and an opportunity for any orphan. Madonna clearly has fallen in love with this child. To love another's child as your own is very special; not everyone is able to do it. Shame on anyone who is criticizing Madonna for this. She has done a lot for Malawi. She clearly wants to do well by this child, and frankly, that is ALL that matters.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 09:19 PM on 03/29/2009
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H@teful people think h@teful thoughts.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 09:23 PM on 03/29/2009
- JZ735 I'm a Fan of JZ735 22 fans permalink

Nice to hear your input...but you do know that Malawi officials are not too keen on her morals now, don't you? Hooking up with a young man half her age or cavorting with a steroid-addled, call girl buying baseball player (who very well could spread HIV to Madonna with his track record of sleeping around with women) isn't exactly a role model for adopting children, no matter the philanthropic motives she might have.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 01:39 AM on 03/30/2009
- mirage2008 I'm a Fan of mirage2008 5 fans permalink

Madonna's daugther is hawt.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 09:05 PM on 03/29/2009
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she's a lovely young lady.
She's also twelve years old.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 11:22 PM on 03/29/2009
- Charity I'm a Fan of Charity 22 fans permalink
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how cute is she - look at that cute little heart shaped face. god, i hope the kid is growing up grounded. she sees her dad really frequently, if we can believe the tabs.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 12:03 AM on 03/30/2009
- mirage2008 I'm a Fan of mirage2008 5 fans permalink

:-O

Woops... i thought she was at least 16...

Im not a pedo.

_>

I swear!

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 01:05 AM on 03/30/2009
- JZ735 I'm a Fan of JZ735 22 fans permalink

God, you pervs are really off the wall...

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 01:40 AM on 03/30/2009
- mirage2008 I'm a Fan of mirage2008 5 fans permalink

shu*t up

NOW

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 07:24 PM on 03/30/2009

Reply to etcetc...Uh, Malawi IS in Africa.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 08:51 PM on 03/29/2009

Save the Children should be ashamed! They and other chicken eating preachers spend the entire late night TV schedule "USING IMAGES of 'starving' African kids to steal 'eh raise money to pay for their mcmansions and airplanes. Where is all the outrage about Russian, Bosnian, Serbian, Chinese ...kids? What is it about African kids that have a possibility of a better life instead of being a fund raising tool that raise the "righteous indignation" of so many closet racists!

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 08:36 PM on 03/29/2009
- ZimboChick I'm a Fan of ZimboChick 95 fans permalink
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amen! I always say that but people are too blind to see it

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 08:52 PM on 03/29/2009
- Mattie I'm a Fan of Mattie 54 fans permalink

very good point, I never thought about it that way, but you're right. They are exploiting those kids to get money.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 09:23 PM on 03/29/2009
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Adoption is great. Why not adopt a black kid from the U.S?

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 08:06 PM on 03/29/2009
- etcetc I'm a Fan of etcetc 5 fans permalink

why not adopt a black kid from Africa?

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 08:36 PM on 03/29/2009
- ywcachieve I'm a Fan of ywcachieve 127 fans permalink

People say some silly things, don't they?

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 08:37 PM on 03/29/2009

Maybe because thats in our own backyard and would be nice that if you are going to do it, help the country you live in.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 08:52 PM on 03/29/2009
- ZimboChick I'm a Fan of ZimboChick 95 fans permalink
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okkk

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 08:52 PM on 03/29/2009

Good idea! I hope that you are the first in line to adopt and set a good example for the rest of these bozos.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 08:40 PM on 03/29/2009
- Paxhope I'm a Fan of Paxhope 9 fans permalink
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OOPs, sorry, I didn't know Lourdes was only 12 - reserve comment for years future.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 07:50 PM on 03/29/2009
- crayola 08 I'm a Fan of crayola 08 3 fans permalink
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gee Lourdes is as tall as her mom now, and is the spitting image of her too.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 07:49 PM on 03/29/2009
- Ramus I'm a Fan of Ramus 31 fans permalink

I think she's taller than her mother. And yes she's very beautiful. People should leave the kid alone.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 10:38 PM on 03/29/2009
- JZ735 I'm a Fan of JZ735 22 fans permalink

Yes, the creeps calling her "hot" should get a life...I have been very critical of Madonna...I use to be one of her biggest fans, but she lost me a long time ago when it became clear she cares more about herself than anybody...I am glad that she wants to adopt children from Africa, but I don't think officials from Malawi are as keen on the idea of rich white Americans coming over there to seek out their children so as to make those Americans feel good about their largesse. Yes, Madonna can offer these African children much they will never have, and that is good, but there is almost a colonialist tinge to this whole thing that makes me uncomfortable...

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 01:44 AM on 03/30/2009
- Paxhope I'm a Fan of Paxhope 9 fans permalink
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Excuse me for being superficial, but hasn't Lourdes grown up beautifully! ?

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 07:48 PM on 03/29/2009
- Pleneras I'm a Fan of Pleneras 90 fans permalink
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She looks very very pretty. Money does help anyone who is not a natural beauty. Mom got rid of her unibrow. My point? Many average or funny looking girls would look what many call beauiful if they had the money for the right care.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 08:29 PM on 03/29/2009
- Mattie I'm a Fan of Mattie 54 fans permalink

true, but plucking your unibrow is free, I keep meaning to mention it to my boss, but I don't know how she would take it. She also has a nice mustache going, there are products for that too. What you going to do Pleneras, some people just won't work with what god gave them....LOL! By the way, I was probably funny looking at twelve, probably still am at 49!

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 09:27 PM on 03/29/2009
- JZ735 I'm a Fan of JZ735 22 fans permalink

Lourdes has indeed become a very attractive young lady...she does look like her Mother...what do others think?

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 01:45 AM on 03/30/2009
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