Madonna, in Malawi, refuses to talk about adoption

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CELEAN JACOBSON | March 29, 2009 08:03 PM EST | AP

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U.S. pop star Madonna and her daughter Lourdes shake hands with residents in the village of Magwelo on the outskirts of Lilongwe, Malawi, Sunday March 29, 2009. Madonna toured an impoverished village and discussed plans Sunday for building a new school in Malawi, the central African nation where officials said she would begin proceedings this week to adopt a young girl. (AP Photo/Tsvangirayi Mukwazhi)

CHINKHOTA, Malawi — Madonna is expected to appear in court in Malawi's capital Monday to sign papers for the reported adoption of a second child from the country.

The pop star on Sunday visited an impoverished village to discuss a school she is planning to build, saying nothing to the hordes of reporters on her trail.

The singer, casually dressed in a white fedora, walked in Chinkhota, a village near the capital of this AIDS- and poverty-stricken southern African country, holding the hand of her 12-year-old daughter, Lourdes. Dozens of reporters looked on.

The 50-year-old Madonna refused to answer questions about reports that she was in Malawi to adopt a 4-year-old girl. She said it was "amazing" to be back in the country where she runs a charity organization and from where she adopted her son David, 3, last year.

Then she rushed away in a convoy of at least three sport utility vehicles, as crowds of shouting, waving children ran after her.

A security guard with the convoy said Madonna spoke to villagers about building a school, and she was seen looking at an artist's impression of the proposed building.

Madonna first traveled to Malawi in 2006 while doing charity work and filming a documentary on the devastating poverty and AIDS crisis here. Her Raising Malawi organization, founded in 2006, raises funds to fight poverty by providing food, shelter, education and health care for children here.

The U.N. estimates that half of the 1 million Malawian children with one or no parents was orphaned by AIDS, and that the virus that causes AIDS has infected 14 percent of adults here. Of the population of 13 million, 65 percent live below the poverty line, and most of those living in poverty are women. Madonna plans a special school for girls to increase opportunities for girls and young women in Malawi.

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It was not clear if the school she discussed Sunday was her proposed Raising Malawi Academy for Girls.

A Malawian welfare official and another person involved in the adoption proceedings have said the girl Madonna is hoping to adopt is about 4 years old and her unmarried mother died soon after she was born. The girl's father is believed to be alive but no other details were available. They spoke on condition of anonymity because the case is considered sensitive.

A U.S. government official has also confirmed that an adoption bid by Madonna, an American citizen, is under way.

Madonna has faced harsh criticism for years over David's adoption. Children's advocacy groups accused her of wielding her immense wealth and influence to circumvent Malawian law requiring an 18- to 24-month assessment period before adoption.

But locals were not so condemning.

Wilson Kalibwanji, a resident of Chinkhota, said he would willingly place his own son in her care to ensure the boy a better life.

"We are poor people," he said Sunday. "If a child's mother dies, it is hard for the man to bring the child up."

Austin Msowoya, legal researcher with Malawi's Law Commission, played down concerns that a second adoption by Madonna would violate any laws. He said the best interests of the child would be taken into account _ whether that was staying in an orphanage in Malawi or getting "an education with Madonna."

"When you look at these two options, then perhaps it becomes in the best interests of the child to allow the adoption if the parents and the guardians consent to it," he told Associated Press Television News on Saturday.

But Save the Children UK said the recently divorced superstar risked sending the wrong message by going through with the second adoption.

"International adoption can actually exacerbate the problem it hopes to solve," spokesman Dominic Nutt said Saturday. "The very existence of orphanages encourages poor parents to abandon children in the hope that they will have a better life."

Nutt said he was not suggesting that Madonna was doing anything wrong _ but he said the whole process of international adoptions was often flawed and sometimes linked to criminal activity.

He said, barring exceptional circumstances, children should be kept in the care of their extended families or within their communities.

Madonna's spokeswoman Liz Rosenberg in New York, who has not commented on the adoption reports, told The Associated Press the star would not respond to comments from Save the Children.

Madonna told Malawi's The Nation newspaper that she was considering another adoption but would only do it if she had "the support of the Malawian people and government."

If the adoption goes through, Madonna would become a single mother of four. She also has an 8-year-old son, Rocco, with former husband and British film director Guy Ritchie and her daughter Lourdes from a previous relationship.

She and Ritchie, who were married in 2000, obtained a preliminary divorce decree in November 2008.

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Associated Press Writer Raphael Tenthani in Lilongwe contributed to this report.

CHINKHOTA, Malawi — Madonna is expected to appear in court in Malawi's capital Monday to sign papers for the reported adoption of a second child from the country. The pop star on Sunday visited...
CHINKHOTA, Malawi — Madonna is expected to appear in court in Malawi's capital Monday to sign papers for the reported adoption of a second child from the country. The pop star on Sunday visited...
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- AngusC I'm a Fan of AngusC 20 fans permalink
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Why didn't she and Angelina just chip in and buy some of Octo Mom's children?

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 07:15 PM on 03/29/2009
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LOL!!

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 07:40 PM on 03/29/2009
- ywcachieve I'm a Fan of ywcachieve 120 fans permalink

Adoption is not buying a child. It's giving a child a parent or parents, they do not have.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 08:27 PM on 03/29/2009
- ywcachieve I'm a Fan of ywcachieve 120 fans permalink

I like what Brad and Angie, and Madonna is doing. And all the other rich people who open up their hearts and homes to children.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 08:28 PM on 03/29/2009
- Pleneras I'm a Fan of Pleneras 71 fans permalink
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lol

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 08:29 PM on 03/29/2009
- christieZ I'm a Fan of christieZ 6 fans permalink

Anyone who has seen Madonna's documentary, "I Am Because We Are," which outlines the severely impoverished state of Malawi, would not be criticizing her efforts to adopt another child from the country. The movie is on hulu and is very informative. To Madonna's critics: What are YOU doing to improve the living conditions of children in poor countries, besides forgetting that they exist?

Watch the movie:

http://www.hulu.com/watch/64450/i-am-because-we-are

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 06:58 PM on 03/29/2009
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I agree, Good on her.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 07:51 PM on 03/29/2009

Thanks for not talking out of your behind like so many of the commenting people on this site.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 08:43 PM on 03/29/2009
- JZ735 I'm a Fan of JZ735 22 fans permalink

Many of us can barely keep ourselves financially solvent...Madonna has a privilege with her money that many Americans do not have...I do not fault her for trying to help...but as I said elsewhere her behavior of late, cavorting with a man half her age and hanging with a disgraced baseball star don't exactly bode well for the authorities in Malawi who aren't too pleased with her morals...

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 01:48 AM on 03/30/2009
- firewmn I'm a Fan of firewmn 63 fans permalink
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Building the school will help the villagers...

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 06:58 PM on 03/29/2009
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The food bank near my house has people--families with children--waiting in line for the church to open. The poverty I see around me is grim. A house near here had childrens items all over the yard and a foreclosed lock and sticker. Obviously, the parents had to get out quickly and had to just move their kid's stuff into the yard until they could afford to find a way to move it--if the family even had a place to go.

There are people in the United States living in tents with no running water. I think I heard that one in ten children is in poverty now in the U.S. And the poverty line is very low.

And I see only ONE celebrity doing anything at all here in the U.S. and that is Rosanne Barr. Maybe I'm wrong.

I really think it would be good to see come people with money trying to help out with food banks around the country. Or help with Appalachian poverty, which is really severe. Or schools for poor students.

There is a health care event that provides dental and medical services for uninsured people and the lines now when they come to town are long. People wait over night in bad weather. There is a doctor who donates all his time to uninsured workers who would love to have some celebrity support or a little appreciation or money.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 06:55 PM on 03/29/2009
- deadalus I'm a Fan of deadalus 4 fans permalink
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Honey, I do not where to begin. I honestly don't. I worked for a number of years as a legal aid attorney in your neck of the years and always the news when I woke up in the morning was heartbreaking. If kids have the opportunity to be loved without being beaten---in my mind maybe that's a noble goal.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 07:03 PM on 03/29/2009
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I'm not trying to divide. I'm just astonished at the crushing poverty I'm encountering daily.

I sometimes think America is a worse place to be poor, because of the religious-based philosophy that if you are rich, you are being blessed by God, and if you are poor, God is punishing you.
There is also a disparity of wealth. It's been proven that people feel even worse when they see a way of life that is closed to them.

Werner Hertzog did a great film "Strosek" (misspelled, I'm sure) about a European guy, Bruno, who moves to America to try to make something of his life.
He sinks deeply into debt, lives in a trailer, and basically disappears as a human being---he becomes one of the invisible poor.

In one of Dostoevsky's novels "Letters from the Underground", there is a man who wants to run into people--push against them on the street---to show that he isn't completely invisible. That he does exist. Even if people are angry---it is reassuring to him.

The poor in this country are told that God is punishing them. They are denied health care. They have trouble buying food. And they are despised or ignored by most people.

I hope you people are right that there are famous people out there lending their names and talents to these Americans that have fallen through the cracks.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 11:37 PM on 03/29/2009
- lillibelle I'm a Fan of lillibelle 64 fans permalink
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Pickwickianmom, with tent cities cropping up all over the place, maybe more concerned celebrities will go public. ? I would like to think donations are being made discreetly.

In my hometown, schools, churches, temples, and so forth are always requesting food and clothing donations. The response remains a generous one. Thank you for reminding us all of the hardships our own neighbors face. It is such an uncertain, tumultuous time.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 07:42 PM on 03/29/2009

Don't waste your valuable time and good heart pitting one group of poor folks against another. This has been Corporate 'tax stealing' America's way forever. "Divide them and we get to steal the Treasury while their bickering continues." There are loads of celebrities that do an awful lot. Brad Pitt is building homes in the neglected poor areas in New Orleans, Diane Sawyer just profiled her home area of Appalachia and shamed Pepsico (the rotten tooth king and producer of the favorite drink of babies-Pepsi) into helping with health care and food.

Use your intelligence for uniting, not dividing, and insist that help and long term empowerment..healthcare, education, jobs, support for strong family ... come your areas' way. Then your friends and community members can have a good life.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 09:01 PM on 03/29/2009
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The reason most 50 year old women can no longer get pregnant naturally is not without purpose.

If Madonna or any older woman adpots a young child at their age how old is she going to be when that child is a teenager? Too old is the answer. Most of my friends who are parents to teenagers describe it as exhausting with all the stress and strain that goes with parenting kids through the teenage years. Who wants to be doing that in your mid-sixties. It is certainly not fair on any child who at the still young age of say twenty has a 70 year old mother or father. Stop being selfish all you older women and think of the kids you may not be there to raise!

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 05:54 PM on 03/29/2009
- lillibelle I'm a Fan of lillibelle 64 fans permalink
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It is difficult to make sense of your post. Someone who has been working for years to adopt a child from a country that has over 1,000,000 orphans as a result of the AIDS epidemic is selfish?

Raising teenagers is stressful to parents of all ages. Madonna is more than up to the challenge. It also sounds as though you believe most 50 year old women should sit in a corner and wither away.

Analysis is in order.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 06:33 PM on 03/29/2009
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I don't really believe that Madonna raises her children---so all this is a moot point. She pays people to raise them.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 06:57 PM on 03/29/2009
- lillibelle I'm a Fan of lillibelle 64 fans permalink
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Perhaps she pays people to help raise them?

I never thought I'd see the day when I would be defending Madonna. First of all, she is such a tough broad that does anyone really think she needs defending? Next, I remember when my niece started emulating her in the early 80s and I was absolutely horrified. Yet, she strikes me as a smart, capable, caring mother.

While I do not agree with many of Madonna's choices, I still hope Mercy James finds a way to her.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 07:49 PM on 03/29/2009
- Mattie I'm a Fan of Mattie 52 fans permalink

how do we know who raises her kids, my sister has a nanny, but that's for help. A parent is different than a nanny or baby sitter, don't be so judgemental. We will never know what goes on in her home, it's not our business to know. Her daughter seems beautiful and well adjusted, I think that speaks louder than any tabloid.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 09:31 PM on 03/29/2009
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Do you realize who's raising a huge number of kids in this country today? Their grandparents!!! Take a look at history, grandparents have been raising their grandkids as a matter of course. Let Madonna decide for herself how she'll take care of them. She appears to be doing just fine.

Until you've raised kids, you don't know what you're talking about. I have a teenage son and have many friends and relatives with teenagers, and they're great kids and have great relationships with their families. Love can do wonders. I know many grandparents raising their grandkids and they're doing OK. It's not perfect, but they're doing it for a reason and that's that their own kids might not do it very well at all, younger though they are.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 07:53 PM on 03/29/2009
- fulanita I'm a Fan of fulanita 5 fans permalink

Very well said. Thanks.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 07:59 PM on 03/29/2009
- Pleneras I'm a Fan of Pleneras 71 fans permalink
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What are you talking about? How many unfortunate people die young and leave their children behind? Millions. What's your point? Kids grow up in 18 years and a hopefully gone! Madonna is only 50 not 80.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 08:32 PM on 03/29/2009
- JZ735 I'm a Fan of JZ735 22 fans permalink

I hate to say it, I have seen it in relatives, including my own parents...they were older, and the last thing they wanted to deal with is teen age angst when they were in the late 60s...who would? Of course, what happens is one becomes too tired to go through the drama and becomes somewhat permissive...I loved my parents, but they did get that way with my sister and I, who were a lot younger than my older siblings, who resented the indulgences my parents gave us versus them...a natural response, but one that could be traced to both them being older and sick of being disciplinarians and also their financial situation (which was better later in their lives). Both of my parents readily admitted this to us.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 01:53 AM on 03/30/2009
- clsmithj I'm a Fan of clsmithj 10 fans permalink
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I almost forgot Madonna had a daughter, and wow she looks a lot like Madonna too.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 05:36 PM on 03/29/2009
- jamie461 I'm a Fan of jamie461 22 fans permalink

I'm really tired of celebrities using children as props and publicity stunts.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 05:31 PM on 03/29/2009
- ywcachieve I'm a Fan of ywcachieve 120 fans permalink

So celebrity are never supposed to adopt children?
What about their biological children are they using them as props and publicity stunts too?

So I guess it is fair to say, you don't think celebrities should be parents, period? Because they only want to be parents for publicity only.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 08:35 PM on 03/29/2009
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Can she help it if people take pictures of her? She is living her life. Why don't you quit watching her?

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 09:22 PM on 03/29/2009
- DeeW I'm a Fan of DeeW 26 fans permalink

Her daughter is lovely - looks a lot older than 12 though. Madonna should focus on the kids she has and stop being so selfish and adopting more like they're handbags or something.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 05:08 PM on 03/29/2009
- ywcachieve I'm a Fan of ywcachieve 120 fans permalink

Do you know how your statement sounds?

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 08:36 PM on 03/29/2009
- JZ735 I'm a Fan of JZ735 22 fans permalink

No, how does it sound? A child is not some object one acquires like a piece of property, and some celebrities seem to be doing this.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 01:58 AM on 03/30/2009
- FrankenPC I'm a Fan of FrankenPC 50 fans permalink

Her daughter is 12?

WHEN she turns 18, she is going to be beautiful. :-D

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 05:01 PM on 03/29/2009
- Bitsko I'm a Fan of Bitsko 549 fans permalink
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That's Lourdes? How time flies when you're getting old.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 04:57 PM on 03/29/2009
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I was just thinking the exact same thing.......every year passes quicker.....it's getting scary!!

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 05:45 PM on 03/29/2009
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The weeks fly by like nothing. It's so depressing, you have to laugh.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 07:57 PM on 03/29/2009
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I hope the Malawian the children and their parents are running for their lives.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 04:30 PM on 03/29/2009
- wndrwrthg I'm a Fan of wndrwrthg 40 fans permalink
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Perhaps there are deserving children in her own country that would like to have a parent. She should not be allowed to have these "trophy" children.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 04:08 PM on 03/29/2009
- lynnn I'm a Fan of lynnn 42 fans permalink

Okay practice what you preach then.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 05:07 PM on 03/29/2009
- mizzou66 I'm a Fan of mizzou66 2 fans permalink

For heaven's sake, all of your posts sound like slightly different versions of that old childrens nag mantra..."I know you are, but what am I?"

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 07:05 PM on 03/29/2009

Lourdes is becoming a hottie. Watch out, world!

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 03:24 PM on 03/29/2009
- lioness39 I'm a Fan of lioness39 49 fans permalink
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Lourdes is gorgeous! I am all for Madonna helping out in any way she can. You go, girl!

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 03:18 PM on 03/29/2009
- deadalus I'm a Fan of deadalus 4 fans permalink
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I know! While I do sympathize with the anti-colonialist sentiments expressed by some commenters, I also take one look at the poised and happy Lourdes and think, Well, Madonna seems to have done a bang-up job with the first daughter!

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 03:27 PM on 03/29/2009
- lioness39 I'm a Fan of lioness39 49 fans permalink
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Add that to the fact that she got pregnant with Lourdes because she wanted motherhood. It's not like Lourdes papa was some big deal for Madonna. So Madonna must get a kick out of that condition and her kids seem totally content. So much for the naysayers.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 04:04 PM on 03/29/2009
- Anonani I'm a Fan of Anonani 57 fans permalink
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Thankfully, Madonna does not wake up in the morning having her day determined by her critics.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 03:01 PM on 03/29/2009
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