Madonna, in Malawi, refuses to talk about adoption

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CELEAN JACOBSON | March 29, 2009 08:03 PM EST | AP

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U.S. pop star Madonna and her daughter Lourdes shake hands with residents in the village of Magwelo on the outskirts of Lilongwe, Malawi, Sunday March 29, 2009. Madonna toured an impoverished village and discussed plans Sunday for building a new school in Malawi, the central African nation where officials said she would begin proceedings this week to adopt a young girl. (AP Photo/Tsvangirayi Mukwazhi)

CHINKHOTA, Malawi — Madonna is expected to appear in court in Malawi's capital Monday to sign papers for the reported adoption of a second child from the country.

The pop star on Sunday visited an impoverished village to discuss a school she is planning to build, saying nothing to the hordes of reporters on her trail.

The singer, casually dressed in a white fedora, walked in Chinkhota, a village near the capital of this AIDS- and poverty-stricken southern African country, holding the hand of her 12-year-old daughter, Lourdes. Dozens of reporters looked on.

The 50-year-old Madonna refused to answer questions about reports that she was in Malawi to adopt a 4-year-old girl. She said it was "amazing" to be back in the country where she runs a charity organization and from where she adopted her son David, 3, last year.

Then she rushed away in a convoy of at least three sport utility vehicles, as crowds of shouting, waving children ran after her.

A security guard with the convoy said Madonna spoke to villagers about building a school, and she was seen looking at an artist's impression of the proposed building.

Madonna first traveled to Malawi in 2006 while doing charity work and filming a documentary on the devastating poverty and AIDS crisis here. Her Raising Malawi organization, founded in 2006, raises funds to fight poverty by providing food, shelter, education and health care for children here.

The U.N. estimates that half of the 1 million Malawian children with one or no parents was orphaned by AIDS, and that the virus that causes AIDS has infected 14 percent of adults here. Of the population of 13 million, 65 percent live below the poverty line, and most of those living in poverty are women. Madonna plans a special school for girls to increase opportunities for girls and young women in Malawi.

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It was not clear if the school she discussed Sunday was her proposed Raising Malawi Academy for Girls.

A Malawian welfare official and another person involved in the adoption proceedings have said the girl Madonna is hoping to adopt is about 4 years old and her unmarried mother died soon after she was born. The girl's father is believed to be alive but no other details were available. They spoke on condition of anonymity because the case is considered sensitive.

A U.S. government official has also confirmed that an adoption bid by Madonna, an American citizen, is under way.

Madonna has faced harsh criticism for years over David's adoption. Children's advocacy groups accused her of wielding her immense wealth and influence to circumvent Malawian law requiring an 18- to 24-month assessment period before adoption.

But locals were not so condemning.

Wilson Kalibwanji, a resident of Chinkhota, said he would willingly place his own son in her care to ensure the boy a better life.

"We are poor people," he said Sunday. "If a child's mother dies, it is hard for the man to bring the child up."

Austin Msowoya, legal researcher with Malawi's Law Commission, played down concerns that a second adoption by Madonna would violate any laws. He said the best interests of the child would be taken into account _ whether that was staying in an orphanage in Malawi or getting "an education with Madonna."

"When you look at these two options, then perhaps it becomes in the best interests of the child to allow the adoption if the parents and the guardians consent to it," he told Associated Press Television News on Saturday.

But Save the Children UK said the recently divorced superstar risked sending the wrong message by going through with the second adoption.

"International adoption can actually exacerbate the problem it hopes to solve," spokesman Dominic Nutt said Saturday. "The very existence of orphanages encourages poor parents to abandon children in the hope that they will have a better life."

Nutt said he was not suggesting that Madonna was doing anything wrong _ but he said the whole process of international adoptions was often flawed and sometimes linked to criminal activity.

He said, barring exceptional circumstances, children should be kept in the care of their extended families or within their communities.

Madonna's spokeswoman Liz Rosenberg in New York, who has not commented on the adoption reports, told The Associated Press the star would not respond to comments from Save the Children.

Madonna told Malawi's The Nation newspaper that she was considering another adoption but would only do it if she had "the support of the Malawian people and government."

If the adoption goes through, Madonna would become a single mother of four. She also has an 8-year-old son, Rocco, with former husband and British film director Guy Ritchie and her daughter Lourdes from a previous relationship.

She and Ritchie, who were married in 2000, obtained a preliminary divorce decree in November 2008.

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Associated Press Writer Raphael Tenthani in Lilongwe contributed to this report.

CHINKHOTA, Malawi — Madonna is expected to appear in court in Malawi's capital Monday to sign papers for the reported adoption of a second child from the country. The pop star on Sunday visited...
CHINKHOTA, Malawi — Madonna is expected to appear in court in Malawi's capital Monday to sign papers for the reported adoption of a second child from the country. The pop star on Sunday visited...
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some sad pathetic posters here. It's so easy to criticize someone for doing good behind your laptops when you are uneducated about the situation in Malawi.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 12:49 PM on 03/29/2009
- mizzou66 I'm a Fan of mizzou66 2 fans permalink

Doing "good" in this case would seem to be a subjective concept. If she thinks the children of Malawi need rescuing, then why does she not do something on a larger scale that would consistently benefit many, not just one? As I've said before....­with her money, time, and celebrity she could be helping to push for social, educational, and health initiatives and reforms there that would benefit the whole bloody country.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 01:12 PM on 03/29/2009

She's building schools, orphanages, etc. People completely seem to ignore this.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 01:16 PM on 03/29/2009
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Because Madonna doesn't do charitable work for publicity, you would obviously be shocked at the efforts of Madonna for the orphans of Malawi. Throughout her career, Madonna has been generous with her time and money for different causes. She just doesn't send out press releases touting her work.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 01:18 PM on 03/29/2009
- Flavor I'm a Fan of Flavor 82 fans permalink

Mizzou66, Wht don't you do something that would help the wholecountry, you don't have to be a millionaire to make a change. You seem like a very smart person,aperson who can get people attention young and old. All it takes is the drive to do it, I mean you got me to comment on your comment. I think your right for as social, education, and health initiatives are important. Madonna, is doing her calling, these issues Mizzou66 might have your name on them. Consider. It is what it is.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 03:24 PM on 03/29/2009
- lynnn I'm a Fan of lynnn 42 fans permalink

Why don't you do something other than complaining? And just whom do the Children of Malawi need rescuing from?

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 05:13 PM on 03/29/2009
- JoDeeVa I'm a Fan of JoDeeVa 18 fans permalink
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Educate yourself, mizzou 66..Madonn­a is doing something! What good are you doing?

http://www.hulu.com/watch/64450/i-am-because-we-are

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 10:28 PM on 03/29/2009

Totally off-topic, but why isn't Lourdes in school? Is this a vacation period for private schools?

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 12:47 PM on 03/29/2009
- andvoodoo2 I'm a Fan of andvoodoo2 122 fans permalink
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Do you really believe she goes to a conventional school? Her mother is one of the most recognizable people in the world. She is also very wealthy.

When I was young, my parents took me out of school to travel. I learned a lot more visiting foreign countries than I did sitting in a classroom. And, I still went on to get an advanced degree (JD).

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 12:53 PM on 03/29/2009

Geez, was just asking a simple question.

I'm glad you have an advanced degree - good for you.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 01:03 PM on 03/29/2009
- deadalus I'm a Fan of deadalus 4 fans permalink
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You forgot to mention that you are also an award-winning playwright and stage director, counselor.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 02:50 PM on 03/29/2009
- FZliveson I'm a Fan of FZliveson 87 fans permalink
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All this full-spectrum benevolence looked a little more tolerable when the mad-doña was married and it looked like the little one she was "saving" from his plight in Malawi would get a better life.
Considering the divorce and all the Jetsetting and controversy the vamp creates, the little boy will be left in the care of nannies and coaches. Is this better for the child? I don't know. Somehow I suspect he will become a material object placed in evidence of a supposed legacy that Madonna will use when she runs for elected office or he will be on an album cover with an old tire or something.
The whole thing reeks with Madonna vanity to me. Poor little boy in so many ways!

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 11:43 AM on 03/29/2009
- andvoodoo2 I'm a Fan of andvoodoo2 122 fans permalink
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There are many single parents who are doing a fine job of raising their children. If the people of Malawi agree that a child is better off with Madonna than in an orphanage, why can't you see it?

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 12:50 PM on 03/29/2009
- FZliveson I'm a Fan of FZliveson 87 fans permalink
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Madonna as far as I am concerned is "Octave-mo­m."
To displace children from their own nations for her own vanity's sake is stupid.
She is not a single parent she is a travelling self-promotion tour, who, when it is convenient, finds the time to entertain herself kindly entertaining HER children. Children are not possessions, they are on loan from God. Madonna is doing a lot with her charities in Malawi, no doubt. But for her to pretend that by being a nanny provider that she is being a mother is outright dishonest.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 06:39 PM on 03/29/2009
- JZ735 I'm a Fan of JZ735 22 fans permalink

If she were not hanging out with young men half her age and call-girl loving baseball players, no one would care...but obviously Malawi officials do...

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 02:11 AM on 03/30/2009
- Mattie I'm a Fan of Mattie 52 fans permalink

so you don't think single parents are decent parents. Interesting

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 02:21 PM on 03/29/2009
- FZliveson I'm a Fan of FZliveson 87 fans permalink
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The worth of your egocentric sniping is directly proportional to your intellect.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 06:36 PM on 03/29/2009
- lynnn I'm a Fan of lynnn 42 fans permalink

Okay so you are saying this girl doesn't deserve a family? And what is anyone here doing to help any children?

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 05:17 PM on 03/29/2009
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Is there something wrong with babies born in the United States?

I don't understand why so many foreign adoptions take place when there are millions of adoptable children right here in the U.S..

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 11:36 AM on 03/29/2009
- mrskorn I'm a Fan of mrskorn 23 fans permalink

I agree. There are plenty of children in foster homes here. I think it is a status symbol for these stars to now adopt from other countries.

Also...the woman is 50. Does she really need another child at that age? It's Madonna denying her aging process.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 12:14 PM on 03/29/2009
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Does no one remember Mia Farrow? She's done a lot for this cause. And we have no right to tell anyone how or where to adopt a child. I just think Madonna does not reek of selfless mothering. Unless she intends to adopt that Brazilian hunk she's been "looking after".

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 02:21 PM on 03/29/2009
- reesetv I'm a Fan of reesetv 6 fans permalink

An orphan is an orphan no matter where they're born. One less in the world is a good thing.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 12:28 PM on 03/29/2009
- FZliveson I'm a Fan of FZliveson 87 fans permalink
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Yeah and a parent is a parent. Aparently Madonna thinks she can "parent" by throwing money and nannies at children while she struts her aging "Stuff" on stage for money.
For all intents and purposes Britney Spears is as good of a mother as Madonna.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 06:41 PM on 03/29/2009
- JodyMcg I'm a Fan of JodyMcg 12 fans permalink
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We are in the process of adopting from Africa. We live in the US. It would take 3 years to adopt from the US because parents don't relinquish their parental rights. There are NOT Millions of children available for adoption in the US. There are thousands in foster care without parental rights terminated. Those children cannot be adopted. Sometimes there are older children or special needs children in need of adopting here in the US. Occasionally there are birth Moms willing to give up their parental rights but they also have 90 days to change their minds leaving potential adoptive parents devastated and broke after having paid for her hospital bills and medical care while pregnant. Sometimes, although rarely adoptions in the US are overturned if the birth father is finally identified. Adoption in the US is a very difficult, long and sometimes heartbreaking process. International adoption is no easier. It takes years but it tends to be more permanent.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 01:03 PM on 03/29/2009
- max08 I'm a Fan of max08 50 fans permalink

But then the birth parents might come out of hiding and there could be protracted court cases going after her money. That's the celebrity fear. So they adopt out of their jurisdiction.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 01:30 PM on 03/29/2009
- Mattie I'm a Fan of Mattie 52 fans permalink

where do you get your millions of adobtable children in the US figure, it's not based in fact, I can tell you that. I have a friend who had a new born from day one, at 9 months the drug addicted mother wanted her back, and the courts ruled that back she went. Please don't say it's easy here in the US, it isn't. My friends were heartbroken, and will be forever knowing that little girl went to live with a drug addict, they fostered her through her addiction when she was born, yet had to give her back to this horrible woman who took drugs all through her pregnancy. That's how it works here, the courts favor the birth parents no matter what. They now have four little girls from Mexico, three sisters that they fosterd and went on to adopt, and another drug addicted baby they fostered, which they get to keep.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 02:27 PM on 03/29/2009
- Flavor I'm a Fan of Flavor 82 fans permalink

Thank You, Mattie because you are 100percent correct on that answer. You hit a home run. Visit the courts,and you will see that 5 days a week. Good people right hear raising the child, nurturing the child and loving the child and because the parent went to AA for 6 weeks, they give the child back and then the precious child ends up dead. It is what it is.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 04:44 PM on 03/29/2009
- lynnn I'm a Fan of lynnn 42 fans permalink

Thanks so much, my family tried to adopt, it our state you have to be a foster parent first. There are a lot of issues. We try to have the best of both worlds, w/respect to parents rights, and then the rights of the children.

I don't think we can do that anymore.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 05:21 PM on 03/29/2009
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I'll have the #3, and can I super size that for an extra school donation?

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 11:31 AM on 03/29/2009
- trinity I'm a Fan of trinity 11 fans permalink

Just curious if it would be just as easy for a non-celebrity couple to be able to jet over Malawi and adopt a child and jet back home with few hoops to jump through. Would the adoption agencies even look at an application from a non-celebrity single mom or dad looking to adopt?

I have heard horror stories from people who wanted so much to adopt and have waited years to sort through the red tape, whether it be domestic or internatio­nal... but yet one celebrity after another shows up with a new baby just like that as if all they had to do was order from a catalog.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 11:13 AM on 03/29/2009
- JodyMcg I'm a Fan of JodyMcg 12 fans permalink
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It's true that a regular US single Mom would have NO chance of adopting from Malawi. Malawi doesn't have an adoption program at least one with an agency. Maybe it's possible with an attorney but it is not a country like Sierra Leone or Ethiopia that have had longstanding, organized adoption programs. In her defense of which there is little, children sometimes do need a sibling and they do tend to at least have each other. Hopefully, her son and future daughter will bond. She is certainly not a role model or will win Mother of the year in my book.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 01:07 PM on 03/29/2009
- JZ735 I'm a Fan of JZ735 22 fans permalink

She is certainly not a role model or will win Mother of the year in my book.

I am glad if she has managed to raise the kids she has now well...but her behavior of late strikes me as a mid-life crisis...s­he needs to cut the catting around with young hot models and with sleazy baseball players...­it might be a TAD bit more appropiate for a woman of 50 to do if she wants to make a good impression on Malawi adoption services, no?

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 02:16 AM on 03/30/2009
- Badbone I'm a Fan of Badbone 11 fans permalink

Doesn't this bother anyone? A child being used as a fashion accessory? It's a human being!

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 10:59 AM on 03/29/2009
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To be fair, when have you ever seen Madonna use ANY of her children as an accessory. And you're right, the child is a human being. A human being that deserves a fair shot at mortality.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 01:15 PM on 03/29/2009
- mizzou66 I'm a Fan of mizzou66 2 fans permalink

Just out of curiosity, I googled 'Madonna + children'; didn't look at but perhaps the first 7 or 8 pages, but in only 2 pics out of all of those was she in what might be described as a loving, motherly situation.­...and those were posed, professional shots. In not one pic is she shown playing with any of her children, or hugging them.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 01:31 PM on 03/29/2009
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You mean a shot at Life right?

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 02:22 PM on 03/29/2009
- FZliveson I'm a Fan of FZliveson 87 fans permalink
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theJuanSta­r...are you talking adoption or abortion? (A shot at mortality???)

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 08:11 PM on 03/29/2009
- max08 I'm a Fan of max08 50 fans permalink

HOw do you know it isn't the kids asking for brothers and sisters?

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 01:31 PM on 03/29/2009
- mizzou66 I'm a Fan of mizzou66 2 fans permalink

I know I always only added to my family when my children would beg for new pets...and siblings..­..

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 01:50 PM on 03/29/2009
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