DENIED! Madonna's Malawi Adoption Request Rejected By Court

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RAPHAEL TENTHANI | April 3, 2009 09:26 PM EST | AP

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US pop star Madonna during her visit to Salaza village near Lilongwe, Malawi, Friday April 3 2009. In a surprise move, a judge on Friday rejected Madonna's request to adopt a second child from Malawi and said it would set a dangerous precedent to bend rules requiring that prospective parents live here for some period.(AP Photo/Tsvangirayi Mukwazhi)

LILONGWE, Malawi — Wealthy, famous, fabulous at 50 _ but not a mother of four. Pop star extraordinaire Madonna lost a bid Friday to adopt a second child from Malawi, rejected by a judge who said she would not bend the country's strict residency rules even for a wealthy celebrity.

The decision came as a surprise since Malawi's child welfare minister came out Thursday in support of the singer's application to adopt 3-year-old Chifundo "Mercy" James.

And it was a rare setback for the material girl who has projected an image of being able to attain whatever she sets her sights on, be it personal or professional.

Madonna was not present in the courtroom for the ruling, and there was no immediate comment from her spokeswoman in New York. The pop star's lawyer filed notice he would appeal, but no hearing date was set.

In a lengthy ruling, Judge Esme Chombo sided with critics who have said exceptions should not be made for pop superstar, who has set up a major development project for this impoverished, AIDS-stricken southern African country.

Noting that Madonna had last visited Malawi in 2008, the judge said the pop star "jetted into the country during the weekend just days prior to the hearing of this application."

"In my opinion, this would completely remove (Madonna) from the definition of `resident,'" the judge said.

Malawi requires prospective parents to live in the country for 18 to 24 months while child welfare authorities assess their suitability _ a rule that was bent when Madonna was allowed to take her now 3-year-old son David to London in 2006 before his adoption was finalized two years later. Madonna has two other children, Lourdes, 12, and Rocco, 8.

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Chombo said other foreigners have adopted in Malawi, but Madonna's was the only case in which residency was waived, and she indicated concern that doing so again could set a precedent that might jeopardize children.

"It is necessary that we look beyond the petitioner ... and consider the consequences of opening the doors too wide," the judge said. "By removing the very safeguard that is supposed to protect our children, the courts ... could actually facilitate trafficking of children by some unscrupulous individuals."

The judge also made clear she was not questioning Madonna's intentions, and even praised the "noble" work the singer's charity has done to feed, educate and provide medical care for some of Malawi's more than 1 million orphans, half of whom have lost parents to AIDS.

It is "my prayer" that Mercy would benefit from such programs, Chombo said.

She noted the girl was receiving "suitable" care in an orphanage and contrasted that with David's situation in 2006, when the boy was about to be returned to his father, who had been struggling to care for him.

After Friday's ruling, journalists saw Madonna, chic in black and looking relaxed and at times even cheerful, as she toured an area where she is building a school near Malawi's capital, Lilongwe. Wherever she went, she was surrounded by media and curious villagers.

Madonna first traveled to Malawi in 2006 while filming a documentary on its devastating poverty and AIDS crisis, and later decided to adopt there.

In an interview with The Associated Press last year, Madonna spoke of being drawn to the people of Malawi, particularly the children.

"I saw that people with so little had so much appreciation for life and so much joy. It gave me a real sense of appreciation for what I have and ... it put things in perspective for me," she said.

"We have so much and we can often get caught up in our little stupid problems. (In Malawi) the kids have nothing to play with."

Madonna also noted the difficulties in adopting from Malawi, saying: "They are still trying to finesse the laws."

Chombo acknowledged the country's rules for foreigners were vague: The 18-to-24-month residency requirement has been assumed to apply to them, though legislation has been proposed to shorten the period to a year for non-citizens.

The 2006 waiver that allowed Madonna to take David out of the country was issued by a different judge, and the singer has since divorced her husband, Guy Ritchie. Chombo is known to be conservative, according to lawyers who said she might have frowned on the pop star's sexy image and the liaisons that have made her the subject of tabloid gossip. The lawyers spoke on condition of anonymity in discussing a judge likely to hear their cases.

Ritchie called Madonna "a great mum" and said he was "saddened" her adoption application was denied. "She is motivated only by being a caring parent who seeks to share some of the advantages and opportunities that her life has given her," he said, according to a statement in The Daily Telegraph of London.

Celebrity watchers agreed.

"Madonna usually gets what she wants, doesn't she?" said Us Weekly magazine senior editor Ian Drew. "She's Madonna, the one and only. She's a deity to people in many ways, in a pop culture sense. People do feel ... there's nothing Madonna can't have."

But Drew said that may have led to unfair criticism about the adoption.

"She's invested so much in Malawi and had really identified this girl as being someone she really wanted to take under her wing," he said. "It's probably devastating to her, but she'll definitely use all of her legal juice to get it reversed somehow if she can."

Critics had accused Madonna of using her fame and money to fast-track the adoption, but the singer said she followed standard procedures.

Mavuto Bamusi, an official with Malawi's Human Rights Consultative Committee, called Friday's ruling "a defining moment for child protection."

"We sympathize with children like Mercy who find themselves in orphanhood," Bamusi said. "But the Malawi authorities should take this as a moment of reflection. The laws of Malawi should now be strengthened so that no celebrity, no family that is trying to adopt should be seen as taking advantage of our weak laws."

In court papers made public Friday, Madonna said Mercy's grandmother was unable to care for her. The grandmother had initially opposed the adoption but later changed her mind, according to local media reports.

The girl's mother died at age 14, not long after Mercy was born on Jan. 22, 2006; there was no mention of the father in the affidavit. The mother's brother was listed as having consented to the adoption.

Malawi's child welfare minister, Anna Kachikho, had endorsed Madonna's adoption bid, telling the AP on Thursday: "If people like Madonna adopt even one such orphan, it's one mouth less we have to feed."

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Associated Press Music Writer Nekesa Mumbi Moody in New York contributed to this report.

LILONGWE, Malawi — Wealthy, famous, fabulous at 50 _ but not a mother of four. Pop star extraordinaire Madonna lost a bid Friday to adopt a second child from Malawi, rejected by a judge who said...
LILONGWE, Malawi — Wealthy, famous, fabulous at 50 _ but not a mother of four. Pop star extraordinaire Madonna lost a bid Friday to adopt a second child from Malawi, rejected by a judge who said...
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Mercy just may hold this against her dad when she is old enough to realize what happened....she could have been one of the richest kids in the world!!! read www.whatsablog.com

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 12:20 AM on 05/03/2009

for a very different view on what Mercy might think 10 yrs from now, read www.whatsablog.com......her dad may be very sorry he made this decision

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 12:18 AM on 05/03/2009
- LolaP I'm a Fan of LolaP 13 fans permalink
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"If people like Madonna adopt even one such orphan, it's one mouth less we have to feed."

It's obvious. She'd be giving a child a better life - what's the problem? maybe the judge is hoping to be bribed...

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 08:40 AM on 04/05/2009
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She loves the child so much she couldn't be bothered to show up for the hearing?!

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 09:31 AM on 04/05/2009
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Wow, the Madonna/Celebrity hatred here on Hu.ff.Po borders on psychotic.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 08:05 AM on 04/05/2009
- Aranxa I'm a Fan of Aranxa 6 fans permalink
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This little girl has a living grandmother who loves her and wants to raise her. That in itself should be grounds to deny the adoption petition. Blood is thicker than money!

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 01:01 AM on 04/05/2009
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If Madonna gives up all her wealth,
and lives on the streets of Malawi
for 2 years, I'll start to believe
anything she says. =-)

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 07:35 PM on 04/04/2009
- joeyfoto I'm a Fan of joeyfoto 57 fans permalink
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Anyone posting here, on a rich American woman's adoption plans, know anything about A-F-R-I-C-A?

This is Malawi poker. The ante, to get in the game, just went up. This is international news? Please report when the deal is reached and Madonna and her new daughter are on the plane home.

As to African adoption being "a fashion" so what? If the children of Africa benefit from this trend to star-adoption, what right does anyone have to criticize it? Why? Because you don't like movie stars? Because you think they should spend all of their wealth on boy-toys, booze, fast cars and cocaine? Or because they resent it when someone, who has had all that, seeks the simpler satisfaction of finding a child to love and parent? I think people, who have never lived life-in-the-fast-lane, are simply so jealous, that they can not see that there is life after life-in-the-fast-lane. Otherwise, how could they fail to see this opportunity for the good thing that it potentially is. Sometimes a trend is not just a "fad." Sometimes, resentment leads to ugly judgments of decent people attempting to do good things.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 06:58 PM on 04/04/2009
- 4peace I'm a Fan of 4peace 9 fans permalink

I agree, if the child will have a better life, then why not? Often the "law" trumps common sense.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 10:51 PM on 04/04/2009
- messy I'm a Fan of messy 38 fans permalink
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The simple fact is, is that the law is the law, even in Mawali. The kid's reletives don't want it, and they should have the last word, unless they are deemed unfit, in which case ALL women in Mawali are unfit.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 06:41 PM on 04/04/2009
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it's not that they don't want 'it' as you referred to the child, they cannot afford to
take care of her. Often times they place children in these care homes, hoping
someone close by can take them in, and they can still see them. African families
are very close. Where did this rumor start that the family didn't want her? They
said they didn't want Madonna to adopt her, but Madge is like a steamroller when
she wants something. She probably promised that they could see the child
often, like she did David's father, who she never gave contact info to, and didn't
hear from them for like 6 months. They will probably trust her and get the result
of Madonna promises -

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 06:46 PM on 04/04/2009
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anabelle, stop making shlt up... how about you truly educate yourself on the specifics of Malawi and the 500 orphans (!) in its ONE orphanage!
Watch the entire hour and 40 minutes and listen closely to the statistics mentioned about # of orphans, # of adults left in the entire village, # of people with HIV/ AIDs etc.

http://www.hulu.com/watch/64450/i-am-because-we-are

And when you are done watching it maybe you'll know more than you have read about in gossip rags and in blogs by bitter wenches like Diane Francis...

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 08:40 AM on 04/05/2009
- mew-too I'm a Fan of mew-too 13 fans permalink
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Nadia Suleyman can manipulate the doctors to implant fourteen children she can't afford without media frenzy and manipulation. Madonna fails in her attempt to adopt an African child in great need. What a strange world we live in.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 06:40 PM on 04/04/2009
- mew-too I'm a Fan of mew-too 13 fans permalink
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Red tape, bureaucracy, defeat. This is sorry news.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 06:37 PM on 04/04/2009
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Perhaps the "powers that be" in Malawi got their hands on "Mad-Dogga's" NE%KED BOOK! Where she was photographed walking down a street NE%KED, showing off her (ewwwwwwww, YUK) EVERYTHING! Or, did they find out about HOW and WHY Lourdes came to exist? Oh yeah, "Like a Virg%in!" my ___!"

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 06:36 PM on 04/04/2009
- doug108 I'm a Fan of doug108 19 fans permalink

Seems like Madonna's fame and previous adoption of a child from that country should be enough to wave the residency requirement. I mean really now.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 06:34 PM on 04/04/2009
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Just plain dumb, so the child will continue to live in poverty.

MADONNA CAN ADOPT ME!

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 05:37 PM on 04/04/2009

me too!

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 12:01 AM on 04/05/2009
- Phoebe917 I'm a Fan of Phoebe917 55 fans permalink
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nothing against madonna; i don't know her. however, she would have absolutely no problem heading to the social service department offices in manhattan and they would hook her up with any number of about ten thousand kids, in that city alone, waiting to be adopted and currently living in foster homes. cheap, easy, and for lack of a better word, more "patriotic". but perhaps, as some have alluded, not as flashy. :)

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 05:34 PM on 04/04/2009

problem is, those kids are american aka dumb/loud/rude/spoiled/entitled/arrogant/opportunistic

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 12:02 AM on 04/05/2009
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hummm...kinda sorta sounds like Madonna

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 07:24 AM on 04/05/2009
- treegirl I'm a Fan of treegirl 5 fans permalink

If I read one more comment that states the only reason someone adopts a child is "because they want a fashion accessory" or "because they like to collect children" or "because it is trendy" to adopt from a certain country, I believe I will hurl. A child is not a handbag that you can bring home and then set on a shelf when you are tired of it. I have adopted three times: a son from the US foster care system, and two daughters from China. Parenting them is the absolute hardest thing I have done in my life. Parenting is hard work, whether your children are biological OR adopted. It is a huge and lifelong responsibility. And thankless much of the time, as most parents can attest. Whoever makes these stupid statements about children as "fashion accessories" are completely ignorant, and obviously childless. No one in their right mind would subject themselves to so much time, work and responsibility if their only objective was to have a pretty little child to dangle from their arm.

I'm sorry that it is so hard to believe, but there are actually people out there, celebrities and commoners alike who have a sincere desire to do something meaningful with their lives. You idiots should quit being so judgmental.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 03:40 PM on 04/04/2009
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Thanks for that Treegirl. And many blessings for you and your family.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 05:33 PM on 04/04/2009
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Well, maybe not your case, but Madonna like many celebrities can affort to just step aside and let the babysitter take care of the child, 24/7, helloooo!!!

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 06:00 PM on 04/04/2009
- anabelle I'm a Fan of anabelle 3 fans permalink
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they're not saying you, they are saying Madonna, because everything she
does coincides with the current trend, think back, uh huh - keep going...
see?!

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 06:48 PM on 04/04/2009
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what are you 12, anabelle??

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 07:40 PM on 04/04/2009
- treegirl I'm a Fan of treegirl 5 fans permalink

Well, they are saying me, because I have heard the "trendy thing to do" and "fashion accessory" comment about international adoption many times, and much of the time not just in reference to celebrities, but to everyday, normal adoptive parents like me. Believe me, most adoptive parents are the farthest thing from being fashionistas that you can imagine.

And while I'm on a roll, I am sick of people accusing us of "buying babies". It seems it is perfectly fine for the average middle class family to purchase a new mini-van. No one blinks an eye. But if someone spends the same amount of money on adoption expenses to adopt a child, well "oh my goodness, that is just outragous and unethical". (And for the record, we do not hand over 15K when we receive our child. The money is paid to many different agencies for many different purposes during the period of 1-3 years that it takes to adopt).

I guess that says something for our society when it is OK to be materialistic and self-indulgent, but not OK to want to give a better life to a child.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 10:16 PM on 04/04/2009
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