CNN Says 84-Year-Old Woman Fortunate To Be Waiting Tables

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April 9, 2009 at 01:53 PM

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One thing I've tried to make abundantly clear is that this time of great economic storm and stress is exposing just how structurally insufficient the current media practices are, as far as covering the economy. The Jon Stewart/Jim Cramer battle went a long way to demonstrating how badly the typical Wall Street coverage is misaligned -- a playing field that favors the self-interested pronouncements of financial sector titans over news that we laymen can use -- but the problem is more fundamental than that. The poor practices are revealed in the way the media relays information -- arcana goes unexplained and predictions go unprobed -- and forms correlative links, such as the frequently unchallenged contention that the Dow Jones is tied specifically to political minutiae.

And yet, even these examples aren't fundamental enough. The bottom line is that the people who are reporting this crisis are often revealed to be completely out of touch with the people most affected. And I couldn't be more grateful for an example of this pulled by Digby and Crooks and Liars earlier this week. Check out this seemingly run-of-the-mill story that tries to take a ground level view of our economic times. Thelma Gutierrez introduces us to Mildred Copeland, an 84-year old woman still working as a waitress to earn a living.

[WATCH.]

You wouldn't think that finding yourself needing to wait tables at the age of 84 would be a fortunate set of circumstances. But, according to Ali Velshi and Gutierrez, you'd be wrong!

VELSHI: That woman who you had in your story, the woman who'd been a waitress, I almost wonder whether people who live close to the edge, but don't carry a lot of debt are not as affected by this recession. They've sort of been living in that state for a while. There's not a lot of room they've had to fall.


GUTIERREZ: Ali, you're absolutely right. I think that's the lesson here. You look at somebody like Mildred, she's 84 years old. She's still waiting tables, but she's doing it to supplement her social security income. The most important thing here is that she has no mortgage..

VELSHI: Right ..

GUTIERREZ: She doesn't have the monkey on her back that we all have and so she doesn't have to worry. She feels that she can move through this crisis because she lives simply, she was able to pay off her house, and she doesn't have the big worry so many people out there have, which is a mortgage.

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VELSHI: We hear a lot of people talking about their grandparents who experienced the recession, or the depression and how they learned the value of a dollar. That might be the silver lining to this thing. We might have a new generation who knows how to stretch a dollar and how to stay clear of as much debt as we've gotten ourselves into.

GUTIERREZ: Absolutely. And that's Mildred's point. You have to learn from this crisis. You have to take it to the future, you have to learn to live within your means, and make sure that you pay off that house and that you buy a house you can afford. She says that that's really the way that she's able to sleep at night.

As Digby says:

Lucky, lucky Mildred. After all, she could be out of a job and then where would she be? I guess if we all play our cards right we too can be waiting tables when we're 84. As long as we live prudently, of course, and make sure we don't have any housing expenses at that age. Otherwise, it could get dicey --- and we'd only have ourselves to blame.

I'll go further, and ask: just how out-of-touch with reality do you have to be to report news in this country? These two news professionals have gone and reported out this story of a woman twenty-years past the typical retirement age still waiting tables, and instead of recognizing how powerfully unfortunate that is, they conclude the following:

1. "People who live close to the edge, but don't carry a lot of debt are not as affected by this recession."

2. "...the lesson here...The most important thing here is that she has no mortgage."

That is ASININE. ASININE! You don't think an 84-year old waitress is going to be affected by the recession? It's almost as if they don't understand that people spend DISCRETIONARY INCOME AT RESTAURANTS, and that waitresses are PAID IN TIPS, and that if MORE PEOPLE have LESS MONEY, our 84-year old waitress is going to be affected by the recession.

Oh, and I'd have to say that the "important thing here" is that THIS WOMAN IS EIGHTY-FOUR. How much longer is she going to endure, waiting tables!

It's just implausible that anyone could examine this woman's plight and come away with these blinded-by-the-brightside conclusions, and suggest that it's good news that she isn't carrying a mortgage! Great! Rick Santelli won't be yelling at her, I guess! But that's precisely what these two media professionals conclude. Mildred Copeland is a WINNER, in this economy. FEEL GOOD FOR HER. BE RELIEVED!

These two could not be more out of touch with the world. This means they probably have no idea why anyone could watch this segment and not get angry. But like Ted Leo sang: "You didn't think they could hate you, now did you?" But they do.

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One thing I've tried to make abundantly clear is that this time of great economic storm and stress is exposing just how structurally insufficient the current media practices are, as far as covering th...
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- jezzabella I'm a Fan of jezzabella 9 fans permalink

She doesn't have a monkey on her back? She is 84 and hobbling along as a waitress to make ends meet. She has always been close to the edge so it is OK? She doesn't feel the pain like all those people who make over $250K - those poor people really FEEL IT. Those deemed less than don't feel it because they are just numb to it all - having been there so long. Hey! They know how to live poor. Those people at the upper end of the socioeconomic scale aren't used to it and it is really painful for them.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 07:37 PM on 04/09/2009
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If she WANTS to, that's fine and more power to her. Since she HAS to, that's NOT OK.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 07:22 PM on 04/09/2009
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The sad fact is the media does not see anything wrong in a country where an 84 year old woman has wo wait tables to survive because social security does not cut it.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 07:14 PM on 04/09/2009

You are absolutely right!! It is also sad that the Americans who voted for Bush the past 2 elections have not noticed anything wrong with a retired person waiting tables either.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 07:29 PM on 04/09/2009
- Budokan I'm a Fan of Budokan 202 fans permalink
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What else do you expect from the Conservative News Network? Remember how Bush said working more than one job as "American"? So this woman is working her fingers to the bone at at 87. What is that to Republikans?

http://kennethmarkhoover.com

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 07:11 PM on 04/09/2009
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The US should be ashamed.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 06:57 PM on 04/09/2009
- Aranxa I'm a Fan of Aranxa 5 fans permalink

Yes, I'm ashamed for all of us. It's disgusting.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 08:44 PM on 04/09/2009

Living within her means is what she learned from the depression. I've always lived the way she does. If I want something, I save for it. I don't have a mortgage or credit cards because that is just fictitious money. I only believe in the money that I make through work. If you have 200 million people spending money they haven't yet made and buying houses that are bigger than they can afford, for which they haven't yet made the money to pay for them, it's a fictional economy and it is bound to fail. A few months ago, someone blogged that we are all to blame. I could honestly answer back: Speak for yourself! I lived within my means and don't need to re-learn the lessons of the Depression because I never forgot them. BTW, I'm 37, and never actually lived through the Depression. I just respect the lessons my grandparents taught me.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 06:46 PM on 04/09/2009
- csavage I'm a Fan of csavage 80 fans permalink
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Ammmm...th­e population of the US is 300 million people, so 200 million people did not flop on their mortgage. You must be single, because with 3 kids, I'd be hard pressed to find a house I could buy with cash and I'm a physician. So I have a mortgage. And I had to buy a new A/C unit 2 days ago and I put it on my charge card because, geez, I just didn't have $6500 laying around the house. So, I guess that qualifies me as a dead beat. So, Mr. 37 y/o with no mortgage and no credit card, the fact remains that if you have a significantly high foreclosure rate in your neighbor it does affect you, if will lower the value of the house you do have, although I suspect, it's your parents' house.....

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 07:45 PM on 04/09/2009
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Not everyone thinks that a house has to look like it came from House Beautiful or that each member of the household needs 600 sq feet of private living space. Perhaps JoeThePauper bought a cheap little house that met his needs, accepts sharing one bathroom among multiple family members, and has decided that air conditioning is not the end all and be all of suburban life.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 09:03 PM on 04/09/2009

I waited tables for a while, and it is one of the most challenging, energetic, frustrating, and thankless jobs I know of. They make $2.13 per hour plus tips. The tips are lousier the more the economy dives. I was in my early 20's and after a shift (especially a split shift), I could barely walk, but was too mentally wound-up to sleep. Multitasking in other jobs is nothing compared to multitasking as a waiter/waitress. A person in that line of work walks constantly. They can walk ten miles in a single shift easily. Bless her heart for doing it, but I wish she could just retire in dignity playing shuffleboard with the rich retirees in Florida. Maybe she just does it because she wants to be active, but I doubt it.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 06:46 PM on 04/09/2009
- grasyknol I'm a Fan of grasyknol 22 fans permalink
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I'm confused by the reporters' comments at the end of the clip. For 5 straight years, my wife and I saved about 15% of our income in either 401 K or IRA retirement savings investing in growth stocks which makes sence based on advice of our investment advisor and age.

Now, all that hard work and savings leaves us with half of what we originally started with. I'm unemployed and my wife worries her job at the bank may be exported to India.

What was the CNN reporters advice again? What have I learned?

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 06:37 PM on 04/09/2009
- paixa3 I'm a Fan of paixa3 23 fans permalink

What a backward third world view.....g­eebus.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 06:36 PM on 04/09/2009

I am incensed! My own mother must work at 70 years because her Social Security doesn't cover the extremely high rents in Los Angeles. She lives in a modest 1 bedroom, but I won't have her move to the bad parts of town - thus I am supplementing her income.

These bozos honestly believe that Mildred wants to work as a waitress at 84 years old? What drugs are these people on? The lack of sensibility is not only astounding - it's disgusting.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 06:27 PM on 04/09/2009

This reminds me of what Barbara Bush said after Katrina. It was something like-- these people in the stadium were underprivileged anyway, and so the stadium was working out well for them.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 06:15 PM on 04/09/2009
- PunKinPai I'm a Fan of PunKinPai 22 fans permalink
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Oh, I do hope both of these clowns's elderly relatives end up working at 84. I'll bet it would be an entirely different story if it were one of their moms.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 05:55 PM on 04/09/2009
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I would not wish that on anyone. I do hope people who are as ignorant as these two seem to be stay far away from me.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 06:01 PM on 04/09/2009
- Aranxa I'm a Fan of Aranxa 5 fans permalink

Not their relatives - THEM!

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 08:45 PM on 04/09/2009
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The most revealing paragraph to me was from Velshi, it pretty much sums up their attitude completely:

"VELSHI: "That woman who you had in your story, the woman who'd been a waitress, I almost wonder whether people who live close to the edge, but don't carry a lot of debt are not as affected by this recession. They've sort of been living in that state for a while. There's not a lot of room they've had to fall."

In other words, the poorer you are, the luckier you are in the Bizzaro World these two clowns live in. Because, if you are already used to doing without, you don't know the angst and horror that rich people feel. Can you imagine the shame when they have to cut back from having their steak served to them by their staff and have to cook it and set the table themselves­??????????­???

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 05:51 PM on 04/09/2009
- jeburr24 I'm a Fan of jeburr24 8 fans permalink

I believe the Wall Street Journal editors would call such people "lucky duckies."

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Lucky_duckies

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 06:04 PM on 04/09/2009
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Thank you for that link.
I guess the population of "Bizzaro World" is higher than I could have imagined.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 06:08 PM on 04/09/2009
- dandypuddin I'm a Fan of dandypuddin 177 fans permalink
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That's exactly why Babs Bush said the poor displaced New Orleans folks were ok with sleeping on a cot in a sports arena. It was a good thing for these poor folks, you know.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 09:11 PM on 04/09/2009
- Brett1981 I'm a Fan of Brett1981 19 fans permalink

Why don't we congratulate all the Walmart Greeters while we're at it.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 05:33 PM on 04/09/2009
- Diogenis I'm a Fan of Diogenis 65 fans permalink

Brett, you have a lot of growing up to do. You will change your negative tune eventually.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 06:56 PM on 04/09/2009
- Brett1981 I'm a Fan of Brett1981 19 fans permalink

I was being sarcastic. As in - a lot of Walmart door greeters are seniors who shouldn't have to be working either.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 10:44 AM on 04/10/2009
- dandypuddin I'm a Fan of dandypuddin 177 fans permalink
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Would you rather pay more taxes so Mildred can retire or would you rather buy a video player for your SUV so your kids can watch tv? Just curious.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 05:33 PM on 04/09/2009
- Brett1981 I'm a Fan of Brett1981 19 fans permalink

Mildred just needs to "work hard" and "pull herself up by the bootstraps!" Then she can retire.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 06:02 PM on 04/09/2009
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She's to old to pull up her straps

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 06:16 PM on 04/09/2009

More taxes This is painful.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 06:04 PM on 04/09/2009
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Mildred--hands down. They don't need a freaking video player -- there's a whole world going by to look at!

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 06:10 PM on 04/09/2009
- Diana I'm a Fan of Diana 13 fans permalink

If the wealthy/co­rporations paid their fair share of taxes--and we lived in a society that respected quality of life--then your question becomes moot.

As it stands now, however, I wouldn't mind in the least paying more taxes for Mildred. Just as long as my taxes went to Mildred and weren't siphoned off by the Masters of the Universe at Goldman Sachs.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 06:30 PM on 04/09/2009
- Shaddup I'm a Fan of Shaddup 11 fans permalink
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Easy, Mildred. I would never own a SUV, and I could never afford to have kids.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 06:51 PM on 04/09/2009
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