CNN Says 84-Year-Old Woman Fortunate To Be Waiting Tables

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April 9, 2009 at 01:53 PM

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One thing I've tried to make abundantly clear is that this time of great economic storm and stress is exposing just how structurally insufficient the current media practices are, as far as covering the economy. The Jon Stewart/Jim Cramer battle went a long way to demonstrating how badly the typical Wall Street coverage is misaligned -- a playing field that favors the self-interested pronouncements of financial sector titans over news that we laymen can use -- but the problem is more fundamental than that. The poor practices are revealed in the way the media relays information -- arcana goes unexplained and predictions go unprobed -- and forms correlative links, such as the frequently unchallenged contention that the Dow Jones is tied specifically to political minutiae.

And yet, even these examples aren't fundamental enough. The bottom line is that the people who are reporting this crisis are often revealed to be completely out of touch with the people most affected. And I couldn't be more grateful for an example of this pulled by Digby and Crooks and Liars earlier this week. Check out this seemingly run-of-the-mill story that tries to take a ground level view of our economic times. Thelma Gutierrez introduces us to Mildred Copeland, an 84-year old woman still working as a waitress to earn a living.

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You wouldn't think that finding yourself needing to wait tables at the age of 84 would be a fortunate set of circumstances. But, according to Ali Velshi and Gutierrez, you'd be wrong!

VELSHI: That woman who you had in your story, the woman who'd been a waitress, I almost wonder whether people who live close to the edge, but don't carry a lot of debt are not as affected by this recession. They've sort of been living in that state for a while. There's not a lot of room they've had to fall.


GUTIERREZ: Ali, you're absolutely right. I think that's the lesson here. You look at somebody like Mildred, she's 84 years old. She's still waiting tables, but she's doing it to supplement her social security income. The most important thing here is that she has no mortgage..

VELSHI: Right ..

GUTIERREZ: She doesn't have the monkey on her back that we all have and so she doesn't have to worry. She feels that she can move through this crisis because she lives simply, she was able to pay off her house, and she doesn't have the big worry so many people out there have, which is a mortgage.

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VELSHI: We hear a lot of people talking about their grandparents who experienced the recession, or the depression and how they learned the value of a dollar. That might be the silver lining to this thing. We might have a new generation who knows how to stretch a dollar and how to stay clear of as much debt as we've gotten ourselves into.

GUTIERREZ: Absolutely. And that's Mildred's point. You have to learn from this crisis. You have to take it to the future, you have to learn to live within your means, and make sure that you pay off that house and that you buy a house you can afford. She says that that's really the way that she's able to sleep at night.

As Digby says:

Lucky, lucky Mildred. After all, she could be out of a job and then where would she be? I guess if we all play our cards right we too can be waiting tables when we're 84. As long as we live prudently, of course, and make sure we don't have any housing expenses at that age. Otherwise, it could get dicey --- and we'd only have ourselves to blame.

I'll go further, and ask: just how out-of-touch with reality do you have to be to report news in this country? These two news professionals have gone and reported out this story of a woman twenty-years past the typical retirement age still waiting tables, and instead of recognizing how powerfully unfortunate that is, they conclude the following:

1. "People who live close to the edge, but don't carry a lot of debt are not as affected by this recession."

2. "...the lesson here...The most important thing here is that she has no mortgage."

That is ASININE. ASININE! You don't think an 84-year old waitress is going to be affected by the recession? It's almost as if they don't understand that people spend DISCRETIONARY INCOME AT RESTAURANTS, and that waitresses are PAID IN TIPS, and that if MORE PEOPLE have LESS MONEY, our 84-year old waitress is going to be affected by the recession.

Oh, and I'd have to say that the "important thing here" is that THIS WOMAN IS EIGHTY-FOUR. How much longer is she going to endure, waiting tables!

It's just implausible that anyone could examine this woman's plight and come away with these blinded-by-the-brightside conclusions, and suggest that it's good news that she isn't carrying a mortgage! Great! Rick Santelli won't be yelling at her, I guess! But that's precisely what these two media professionals conclude. Mildred Copeland is a WINNER, in this economy. FEEL GOOD FOR HER. BE RELIEVED!

These two could not be more out of touch with the world. This means they probably have no idea why anyone could watch this segment and not get angry. But like Ted Leo sang: "You didn't think they could hate you, now did you?" But they do.

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- skantea I'm a Fan of skantea 12 fans permalink
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More proof that this country hates it's poor.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 05:28 PM on 04/09/2009

This lady may want to work, so I will not comment unless I spoke with her myself; (there are a few people who like to stay busy and socialize - not me I would like to retire when I am 72 - 75). But the issue at hand that is making so many people so angry is the fact that there is an ever widening gap between the elite few and the average worker. We must do something about this.

CEO's and Executives are getting paid 400x the average worker. They are not worth it, so I don't want to hear the tiring old story of they worked hard and deserve that type of pay. I want to do something about it, and one way I can do that is pass along information.

If you are interested in creating pay caps, do something. There is a commoncause.org site that you can go to, at the top there is a blue tab that says Take Action (click on it), and then choose find your Elected Official, get their address and phone number, start a petition. Also send it to as many other elected officials as possible. America is not really a true capitalist country, nor a socialist country but we are a DEMOCRACY and we should be heard.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 05:26 PM on 04/09/2009

What would make you think she didn't want to retire at 72-75? She said she would like to "slow down"

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 06:05 PM on 04/09/2009
- BBackSoon I'm a Fan of BBackSoon 39 fans permalink
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Well as the Right Wingnuts would say, ‘She should have gotten an education and then she could have made more money through out her life.’

That just pi$$ed me off to type it.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 05:23 PM on 04/09/2009
- dandypuddin I'm a Fan of dandypuddin 177 fans permalink
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And she should have invested her life savings in Wall St.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 05:28 PM on 04/09/2009
- drumz I'm a Fan of drumz 57 fans permalink
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you cannot be serious

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 07:11 PM on 04/09/2009
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The thought of working to make ends meet @ 84 scares the sh*t out of me

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 05:16 PM on 04/09/2009
- KOisGod I'm a Fan of KOisGod 325 fans permalink
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yep. we've told our daughter that she will be helping us in our old age. She said, greatttttt.....

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 05:26 PM on 04/09/2009
- dandypuddin I'm a Fan of dandypuddin 177 fans permalink
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According to Ali Velshi, poor people are better off now than rich people because they did not lose as much money as rich people and did not "fall as far."

As GWBush's mommy said, the folk after Katrina were better off sleeping in the Astrodome, you know, considering where they came from. It wasn't that bad to go from your own little bedroom in your own little house in your own neighborhood with friends as say it would have been for a Bernie Maddoff type to be sleeping on a cot in a sports arena.

Forgot, he is sleeping on a cot.

And the homeless are so much better off in this mortgage meltdown because they don't have a THING to worry about.

And the hungry are best off of all, because have you seen the price of food lately? Their lucky they don't buy much food!!!

The logic is just, well, numbingly mindblowing.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 05:16 PM on 04/09/2009
- KOisGod I'm a Fan of KOisGod 325 fans permalink
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The infotainment class are souless, vapid, compassionless republican's. What do we expect? Empathy?

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 05:27 PM on 04/09/2009
- acudoc I'm a Fan of acudoc 28 fans permalink
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What do you expect in a debt-based money system run by a central bank in cahoots with the international banking scene? The value of our currency goes down steadily as the government gets bigger and the Federal Reserve creates gobs of money----all of it paying interest to the 10% in the world who collect 90% of the interest.

Americans! Can you get any stupider?

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 05:15 PM on 04/09/2009
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It's just the GOP owned state media trying to put the best possible spin on the disaster that was Reaganomics and fundamental deregulation.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 05:14 PM on 04/09/2009
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From the article above:

"...they conclude the following:

1. "People who live close to the edge, but don't carry a lot of debt are not as affected by this recession."

2. "...the lesson here...The most important thing here is that she has no mortgage."

My personal observation:
1. I have very little personal debt, but the cost of groceries, clothing, utilities, and gasoline have affected me QUITE a bit. My 401 k has virtually disappeared before my eyes. Many of my peers are experiencing the same things.

2. I am more than a little sure that the reason "SHE HAS NO MORTGAGE" is the fact that she made enough money over the last few decades to actually be able to PAY IT OFF!!!!!!! I do have a mortgage but, compared to most people it is very small ($700 per month).

I know it makes me sound like a big ol' lazy wart hog, but I don't WANT to have to work until I am 100 years old! I especially do not want to have to work as hard as waitresses have to work when I am in my 80's.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 05:12 PM on 04/09/2009

Isn't it more likely that she has no mortgage because she never could afford to purchase her own home?

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 05:24 PM on 04/09/2009
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It says in the article that she paid off her home.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 05:40 PM on 04/09/2009
- poster1122 I'm a Fan of poster1122 26 fans permalink

There seems to be a lot of information missing here for me to pass judgment.

First, I'm not sure what working to supplement her discretionary income means. I don't know how much she gets from social security, so is the supplement a needed supplement or something to do to earn a couple of extra bucks. That's a key distinction.

I know a few people in their 70s who tried being retired and decided to go back to work even before this recession-­-nominally to supplement their incomes but just so they wouldn't be retired. I'm the I'll-rest-­when-I'm-d­ead type of personality, so I'll probably end up being one of those people who's retirement lasts about a month before I'm bored out of my mind.

Retirement isn't for everyone; Some folks work because they like the feeling of being a part of something, of feeling useful. Here's a morbid statistic: People who retire relatively young (at 50) live to around 86 years. People who retire at 65 tend to die within 2 years of retirement (66.8).

Certainly, there are certainly folks who *need* to work because they can't live on what they get from SS. But I often think we forget how much working and being useful is to our sense of self-identity. Think about it. When asked to talk about yourself, isn't it usually name, age, occupation that comes out first?

So the question is, which one of these applies to Mildred?

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 05:05 PM on 04/09/2009
- CitizenJ I'm a Fan of CitizenJ 8 fans permalink

Democracy depends on a well informed citizenry. With the media in its current National Enquirer state (and getting worse), we will not improve this country. Period. Especially when you have governors turning down money for education because they think it will help their election chances. We have slowly been becoming an oligarchy, and unless the media gets its act together, nothing will change.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 05:02 PM on 04/09/2009

If they wanted to make the point that living within your means brings peace, they could have said that she would have been in really bad shape had she not paid off her mortgage or had she taken out a subprime loan on her paid off house and spent it in Vegas or whatever. But they should only say so AFTER saying that she has it hard enough as it is.

But then, who feels sorry for lucky people like old women who have to carry trays full of heavy dishes day in and day out even with a paid off house and frugal living? We should feel much sorrier for the Wall Street guys. It's so much more horrible to lose when you have so much more to lose, don't you know! Poor babies! We should have put the old woman's social security money into stocks so Wall Street didn't have to have such a huge standard of living drop. She has to wait tables anyway, so losing her Social Security wouldn't change her lifestyle much, right? This country has become messed up, I don't know if even the new populist, progressive majority will be able to make much of a dent, but at least we need to try.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 05:00 PM on 04/09/2009
- Mike949 I'm a Fan of Mike949 7 fans permalink

Perhaps what is really offending people is this is an individual who came from a generation that did not look to government to resolve issues. It would be ideal if, especially at 84, if the woman didn't have to work.
For the Greatest Generation government was a last resort for the current generation government is the first resort.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 05:00 PM on 04/09/2009
- MelRoy I'm a Fan of MelRoy 58 fans permalink
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Listen, I am a firm believer in providing for those who provided for us. Not just adequately, but generously. But I also believe that is a senior wants to work because they like the social interaction, we should not force them into retirement.

I know of companies who retire people at 50, and all I can say about them is they are STUPID STUPID STUPID.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 05:12 PM on 04/09/2009
- dandypuddin I'm a Fan of dandypuddin 177 fans permalink
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Companies don't "retire" people at 50. They fire them. It's called age discrimination.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 05:25 PM on 04/09/2009
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Mildred stated that she would like to cut back, relax a little bit and not WORRY!!!!! She is worried at 84 years old. When is this something to be proud of?

“A test of a people is how it behaves toward the old. It is easy to love children. Even tyrants and dictators make a point of being fond of children. But the affection and care for the old, the incurable, the helpless are the true gold mines of a culture.”

Abraham J. Heschel

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 05:32 PM on 04/09/2009
- SethBLiNK I'm a Fan of SethBLiNK 37 fans permalink

This is the state of journalism these days. Take an anecdote and try and turn it into a lesson. If this 84 year old woman wants to work because it keeps her active, that's wonderful. If she HAS to work and even has to worry that business might get slow and she may not be able to support herself on Social Security, it's not wonderful at all.

How dare these comfortable reporters try to tell us there is a lesson here when they don't even understand what they're reporting.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 04:58 PM on 04/09/2009
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God help us. Mildred has a great attitude and being poor leaves one no choice.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 04:55 PM on 04/09/2009
- KOisGod I'm a Fan of KOisGod 325 fans permalink
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Aren't we glad the republican's didn't get their greedy fingers on Social Security? Can you imagine? We'd be stepping over the elderly on the way into StarBucks -

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 04:48 PM on 04/09/2009
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