Elizabeth Edwards' Interview Condition: Don't ID Rielle Hunter

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DAVID BAUDER | May 13, 2009 10:21 PM EST | AP

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Elizabeth Edwards is interviewed on the NBC "Today" television program in New York Monday, May 11, 2009. (AP Photo/Richard Drew)

NEW YORK — Elizabeth Edwards set an unusual condition before agreeing to interviews about her new book: She would only talk if the media outlet agreed not to mention the name of her husband John's former mistress.

The wife of the former presidential candidate and U.S. senator has appeared with Oprah Winfrey, Larry King and Matt Lauer within the past week to discuss her book, "Resilience," in which she writes about the affair and her battle with terminal cancer.

The idea of setting ground rules for an interview is hardly unusual in the celebrity world. Sometimes the interviewers, whether with an entertainment or news organization, agree. Sometimes they overlook the restriction. Sometimes it's a deal-breaker.

Winfrey, who had the first interview with Edwards, agreed not to identify videographer Rielle Hunter, but asked on the air why it was requested.

"Somebody wants to stand in the light that shines on John, that's one thing," Edwards said. "If they, somehow, you know, work at destroying my family and my home in order to get in that light, I'm really not interested in them being in the light too much. It's not about this woman. It's about this family."

The Associated Press would not agree to the demand and was twice turned down for interviews with Edwards.

"It's simple," said Michael Oreskes, vice president and senior managing editor of the AP. "We don't let other people edit our wire."

He said the request was puzzling considering that Hunter's name was in the news and had been widely distributed. The AP did report Edwards' quotes from the Winfrey interview about her husband's 2006 affair in a story, and used Hunter's name.

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Negotiations to publish excerpts of Edwards' book in People magazine broke off because People would not agree to Edwards' demand that Hunter's name or picture not be included in any accompanying story, said Betsy Gleick, the magazine's executive editor.

"We just felt like the name was out there," she said. "It was news. We didn't want to be bound by a condition like that in case there was other news surrounding the issue that week."

On the "Today" show, Lauer said Edwards had asked "out of consideration" that NBC not use Hunter's name. "We're a news show," he said while interviewing Edwards, "but, and out of consideration, I won't use the name."

"Thank you," Edwards replied.

Jim Bell, executive producer of "Today," said the Edwards interview had been booked without this request being made. If it was done as a demand, "Today" would not have done the interview.

Still, the request had the same effect.

Given the interview's subject matter _ Edwards' battle with cancer, the loss of a son and her husband's affair _ "it was a courtesy, not a condition," Bell said.

In a "Larry King Live" interview on CNN Tuesday, Hunter's name was not mentioned. King talked about the affair at some length, even asking Edwards whether she was curious about "the woman" and wanted to meet her. ("I don't think that's a very useful experience," Edwards replied.)

King said Edwards had requested Hunter not be named "out of consideration," and CNN agreed.

Edwards' attorney, Bob Barnett, referred questions about the interview requests to David Drake, publicity director for publisher Broadway Books. Drake did not immediately return telephone and e-mail messages.

The taste for celebrity news, and the competition for it, can sometimes tip the balance in favor of celebrities _ or at least make them feel it has. Actress Angelina Jolie recently asked that reporters sign a promise not to ask questions about her family. Reality TV star Kate Gosselin, facing rumors that she and her "Jon & Kate Plus 8" husband were cheating on each other, is trying to publicize a book without having reporters ask about her marriage.

Comic Sacha Baron Cohen once demanded questions be submitted several days before an interview, to help him come up with Borat-like responses. The trend is present in sports, too, when publicists say "baseball questions only" in a clubhouse to avoid embarrassing stories.

Sometimes it can get truly bizarre: Billy Bob Thornton, talking about his rock band with CBC Radio in Canada, grew angry when his interviewer introduced him as an "Oscar-winning screenwriter, actor and director." Thornton said, "You were instructed not to talk about ... that."

These are difficult questions for news organizations in tough financial times, too: Do you reject a potentially marketable interview for journalistic principles?

Kelly McBride, ethics group leader at the Poynter Institute media think tank, said readers come to news organizations expecting that their journalists are making decisions on their behalf, not at the behest of their interview subjects.

"The name of the woman is relevant to the story and the decision about whether to name the woman or not should be made by the editors and reporters doing the story," she said.

NEW YORK — Elizabeth Edwards set an unusual condition before agreeing to interviews about her new book: She would only talk if the media outlet agreed not to mention the name of her husband John...
NEW YORK — Elizabeth Edwards set an unusual condition before agreeing to interviews about her new book: She would only talk if the media outlet agreed not to mention the name of her husband John...
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I can see honoring her request on a talk show but in print, Rielle is already known. How would it look for People not to mention her name with EE when they've already done a story on RH?

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 11:07 PM on 05/17/2009
- Okieborn I'm a Fan of Okieborn 63 fans permalink

Hey John !!!
What the he** were you thinking !!!

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 09:41 PM on 05/17/2009

Just refer to her as "HatchetFace". Woman could do serious damage with that chin!

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 05:49 PM on 05/17/2009

why does she need to spend her precious moments in all this mess? The only thing that came to my mind is that she wants to destroy 'the other woman''s chances of taking her place after her passing.

I admire her courage but is it not more convenient for her health to move on and focus in her health and family instead of this?

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 08:13 AM on 05/16/2009
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I did not watch much of the EE interviews. The idea of a terminal cancer patient with a philandering husband telling all on TV struck me a creepy. Why did she do it? Does she need the money?

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 03:29 PM on 05/17/2009

After all that's been said about this story over the last year, I don't blame EE one bit for talking. I'd talk until I was blue too to get my side out there. She's not at home crying about this, she's trying to deal with it plus her terminal illness.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 11:08 PM on 05/17/2009
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"As a psychologist who specializes in infidelity, I commend Elilzabeth Edwards for telling her story to OPRAH. All too often betrayed women have their self-esteem beat into the ground by their philandering husbands, and want to hide from the world. EE held her head high, and she is to be praised for doing so. By speaking publicly about the humiliation John's affair caused her, she will help millions of women who are also struggling with adultery and the resulting trust issues. Thank you, Elizabeth, for sharing your heartbreaking story of betrayal. And, a REALLY HOT MAN is one who respects his wife, remains faithful, and turns away skanky come-ons."

Exactly!

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 01:04 AM on 05/18/2009
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What does the psychologist think about the kids and their mother on national TV talking about these intimate issues in their family. I agree with "a REALLY HOT MAN is one who respects his wife, remains faithful, and turns away skanky come-ons." But maybe this is all just a bit more complicated than that. Maybe there are other victims besides EE. There may be another child involved. One that EE referred to as 'it' that will not benefit from her book or it's public flogging on TV. JE may not be husband of the year, but EE is no saint in all this either. She does not appear to be thinking of any of the children involved. And neither are you sweetie.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 11:33 AM on 05/19/2009
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I didn't get this at first but after listening to her talk about this position to Oprah I respect her for it. She has empowered herself to protect her family. An other woman hasn't earned the right to become a legitimate part of the picture, she is what happened not what Elizabeth has become.
And her verbalizing how dare a woman think she can move in and take the life that another woman has spent years building was brilliant.
I don't know that I would have the strength to stay in such a situation but if I did, I would want her strength.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 07:21 AM on 05/16/2009

And even though JE & RH are both guilty, RH is the primary culprit because she KNEW he was married and didn't have to approach him. As Steve Harvey says, men cheat because there are so many women willing to do it.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 11:11 PM on 05/17/2009
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You'd be amazed what women can and do put up with.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 12:09 AM on 05/18/2009
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In the tag for this story, HufPo shows Mrs. Edwards' pic side by side with Ms. Hunter's. Isn't this worse than not mentioning her name?

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 02:04 AM on 05/16/2009
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I thought it was tabloid poor taste.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 01:15 AM on 05/17/2009

And they choose a picture that makes EE look like a raging fishwife.
And, of course, the considerate Mr. Bauder put the name in his headline. Guess that'll show her who's in charge.
The one thing I do not expect here is to see the media mind rise above its own slimy sense of entitlements.
I heard EE on Fresh Air, and she explained very persuasively why "the other woman" should not be getting a share of the public notice accorded the book. She also answered the critics who call her "complict" in her husband's deception of the voting public.
Frankly, i suggest that the self-important media whores ignore Mrs. Edwards if they can't treat her with decency and respect. I really don't think she'll mind; I don't need you mediating between me and reality, and neither does she.
To much to expect, of course. Decency and respect haven't been part of the journalists' tool kit in a long time. We're talking people who'll shove a microphone in the face of a woman whose child is trapped in a burning building, after all.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 05:16 PM on 05/17/2009

As a cancer survivor, it's saddening that she's wasting her time, energy and health focusing on such a negative phase in her life. It's almost like she's dealing with her impending death by trying to control whatever she can grasp.

She should ditch John, disappear and spend the remainder of her life doing the joyful, pleasurable, and exciting things she's always wanted to do... fighting for control over John, Ms. Hunter, and the media is only going to make her last days stressful and bitter.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 11:11 PM on 05/15/2009

I totally understand and feel for EE. She is in a very vulnerable place right now and she is going through her own catharsis which she has every right to do in her own way and any news outlet that has problems with it can just get their information second hand.

All happily married people everywhere understand and support EE.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 12:06 AM on 05/16/2009
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35 years happily married and I do not understand EE at all.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 03:31 PM on 05/17/2009

Amen to all the above.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 05:17 PM on 05/17/2009
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"wasting her time". Really?

"As an infidelity expert who has been researching infidelity for the past 15 years, I am frequently called on by the media to comment on high profile infidelity and popular infidelity issues in the news. I think it is commendable for Elizabeth Edwards to share her intimate thoughts about her husband’s affair and its effect on her, and to speak so candidly about it in her interview with Oprah today. By doing so, she has performed a valuable service to betrayed wives and other women with cheating mates. Usually the media coverage of high profile infidelity is all about the cheater -- who he is, why he did it, how he got caught, what it will mean to his career. The betrayed wife’s voice is seldom heard. Elizabeth has shown the public a side of infidelity that is seldom seen. Betrayed wives need to know that they are not alone in what they are feeling or experiencing. Men who are cheating, or who have cheated on their wives need to see and hear firsthand the hurt, humiliation and heartbreak they inflict when they get involved in extramarital affairs. I feel that Elizabeth’s book and her interview with Oprah will help focus attention on aspects of infidelity that usually go unnoticed or ignored. Further comments and insights based on portions of the book that have been leaked to the public thus far, are posted on my blogs at http://infidelitynewsandviews.blogspot.com and www.InfidelityAdvice.com"

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 01:57 AM on 05/18/2009
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Who speaks for the 'betrayed' children? Do they need their mother on Oprah talking about this? And what about the new baby? JE stepped off the stage. EE should spend her time healing herself and her children and if her heart is big enough she should be considerate of the new baby as well.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 11:39 AM on 05/19/2009
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If Elizabeth Edwarads doesn't want to be reminded of Rielle Hunter then she can divorce John Edwards. Until then, the media is irresponsible to interview her and not mention Rielle Hunter.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 07:20 PM on 05/15/2009

Speak for yourself. As far as I'm concerned, I couldn't care less about the name. What was that totally irrelevant name again???

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 12:11 AM on 05/16/2009
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Perhaps Elizabeth Edwards who is possibly dying of cancer, or at least fighting for her life...is thinking of her children. Why divorce someone if you are dying? And why put the children through the loss of a family, a divorce and then the death of their mother.
I pray she survives her battle with cancer. I wish her and her husband and family healing in all areas.
As far as the election was concerned.­.I think it was for the best. If this had come out sooner..th­e media would have focused, once again, on sex and scandal..a­nd ignored the greater debate.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 03:55 AM on 05/16/2009
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You said "Why divorce someone if you are dying? And why put the children through the loss of a family, a divorce and then the death of their mother." Answer me this; Why go on TV and repeatedly drag her family through this mud?

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 03:33 PM on 05/17/2009

Stay with him Elizabeth and make his life MISERABLE!!!!!!!!

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 06:22 PM on 05/15/2009
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it's all about MEEEE.

psssttt... don't mention that biotchs name.

why are these people news.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 04:08 PM on 05/15/2009
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Gee, if only the AP had suffered journalistic principles when mainstream media entities like the AP and the NYTimes' Judith Miller joined forces with the Drudge-Limbaugh-FOX Noose echo network to help the Bush administration promulgate falsified evidence, fabricated intelligence, and fear-mongering over totally BOGUS WMD --- the mythological weapons that the NIE and repeated teams of inspectors told us DIDN'T even exist.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 02:26 PM on 05/15/2009

Hearing them cite "journalistic principles" is a bit like listening to a woman John E cheated with talking about the sanctity of marriage.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 05:19 PM on 05/17/2009
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Isn't that like closing the barn door after the horse has bolted?

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 02:10 PM on 05/15/2009
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Although to some extent it's a symbiotic relationship, the media outlet is also doing HER a favor by publicizing her book. It seems like a pretty silly condition.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 11:37 AM on 05/15/2009
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I watched the Larry King interview and didn't even notice that they never mentioned Rielle's name. Larry asked her several questions about the affair, it didn't seem to be an issue. I don't believe "not saying her name" is a big deal. It's not like Elizabeth told them the entire subject was off limits.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 11:24 AM on 05/15/2009

Why do we always blam the other woman? It is time to hold men accountable for their actions. He was the married one and the one with everything to lose, he should have made better decisions. I do not like the way that she is making him out to be the saint he wants us to think he is.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 10:17 AM on 05/15/2009
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Oh please. the guy's name is mud. Of course, he's being held accountable. He's a political pariah. When was the last time you heard his political point of view being taken seriously.­.. being taken at all. The guy's in the doghouse..­. no offense to dogs.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 02:31 PM on 05/15/2009
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All three of them have something to account for e.g., John Edwards for scamming the electorate and by betraying his wife where's there's also the possibility of pay-off money to his mistress and whatever deal he made with Hunter so she wouldn't agree to a paternity test, Elizabeth for going along with his deception during the campaign and Hunter for opening her legs to married man who was running for the presidency. John Edwards and Hunter are the worst of the lot. Ther reckless affair could have brought the democratic party down in flames. It's more than disgusting that Edwards is against Gay marriage yet put out the image of heterosexual marriage as one of sanctity and all that bull. these politicians make you sick to your stomach.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 07:31 PM on 05/15/2009
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