'Farrah's Story' Screens To Tears, 'Heavily Medicated' Fawcett Stays Home

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LYNN ELBER | May 14, 2009 07:01 AM EST | AP

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Alana Stewart, left, producer of "Farrah's Story," and actress Farrah Fawcett's longtime companion Ryan O'Neal arrive for the world premiere screening of the NBC documentary in Beverly Hills, Calif., Wednesday, May 13, 2009. The feature-length documentary chronicles Fawcett's two-and-a-half-year battle with cancer. (AP Photo/Chris Pizzello)

BEVERLY HILLS, Calif. — "Farrah's Story," an unvarnished look at Farrah Fawcett's struggle to overcome cancer with her dignity intact, was shown to a somber audience that included longtime companion Ryan O'Neal.

"This is truly Farrah's evening. She wasn't up to making it, but she's here in spirit," Alana Stewart, a close friend, said in introducing the video diary Wednesday at the Paley Center for Media.

Stewart was a producer on the project, which airs Friday on NBC, and filmed Fawcett as she endured chemotherapy and other grueling treatment. Fawcett was diagnosed in 2006 with anal cancer that has spread to her liver.

Fawcett is doing "OK," a guarded O'Neal said. He's shown in the documentary as a steady presence as the actress goes through highs and lows, although the two ended their long romantic relationship in the late 1990s.

Asked if the former "Charlie's Angels" star was aware of the concern about her, he replied, "I'm gonna tell her."

Jacqueline Bisset, Melanie Griffith and Paul Le Mat, who starred with Fawcett in the 1984 TV movie, "The Burning Bed," attended the screening that drew applause and tears.

In an interview earlier Wednesday, O'Neal said he planned to watch Friday's broadcast (9 p.m.-11 p.m. EDT) with Fawcett at her Los Angeles home.

"She's heavily medicated," O'Neal, 68, said. "We're going to take some of these medications down so she's lucid and sharp to watch herself. I think she'll take great pride in this."

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Fawcett, 62, is in a "very rocky place," O'Neal said. "We put on a brave front, always, when we're with her. She doesn't know how scared we are."

In the film, he expresses concern about how the loss of Fawcett would affect their son, Redmond O'Neal, 24, just admitted into a court-ordered drug program.

The documentary is unsparing but infused with Fawcett's grit and good humor as she faces pain, setbacks and, as the treatments grow harsher, the loss of her trademark lush blond locks.

"If you liked her, you're gonna love her" after seeing the film, said O'Neal.

Fawcett shares intimate thoughts in the documentary about her illness, the tabloid that stripped away her privacy and the paparazzi that bedevil her.

"I do not want to die of this disease. So I say to God, `It is seriously time for a miracle,'" Fawcett says.

The actress, so identified with glamorous Hollywood make-believe in her frothy 1970s TV show, is bringing the cold slap of true reality to TV. But fiction and fact can't help but mingle.

At one point, when German doctors seem to have made a breakthrough for Fawcett, a tearful, smiling O'Neal says, "I thought I was in another `Love Story' movie" _ a reference to the 1970 film in which he plays a young husband who loses his wife to illness.

"Farrah's Story" started out as a personal record, intended as a "success story" for family viewing, O'Neal said, and to keep track of her treatment.

Although a private person, Fawcett realized her experience could inspire others, Stewart said in an interview.

"Farrah's Story" will show her "incredible strength," Stewart said. "Her big message to people is don't give up, no matter what they say to you, keep fighting."

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BEVERLY HILLS, Calif. — "Farrah's Story," an unvarnished look at Farrah Fawcett's struggle to overcome cancer with her dignity intact, was shown to a somber audience that included longtime compa...
BEVERLY HILLS, Calif. — "Farrah's Story," an unvarnished look at Farrah Fawcett's struggle to overcome cancer with her dignity intact, was shown to a somber audience that included longtime compa...
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- THISTLE I'm a Fan of THISTLE 61 fans permalink

What a beautfiul extraordinary person she is, her courage and fighting spirit are
remarkable. Ryan O'Neal has also shown what a loving and giving person he
is. I am confident everyone hopes for the miracle Farrah has asked for.
God bless her and all those caring for her.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 05:33 PM on 05/14/2009
- JennieB I'm a Fan of JennieB 11 fans permalink

This is so incredibly sad, I would love to see Farrah get her miracle!

God bless.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 05:20 PM on 05/14/2009
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I would not wish her suffering on anyone and I keep good thoughts for her. However, it's no secret how she treated the O'Neal kids (Tatum, Griffin, and Patrick). Though it is tragic that cancer has riddled her beautiful body, I don't remember much sympathy for the O'Neal kids when Fawcett demanded O'Neal's undivided attention. The entire saga is very, very sad.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 04:57 PM on 05/14/2009
- lillibelle I'm a Fan of lillibelle 59 fans permalink
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Although I did not read Tatum's autobiography, I was under the impression (from various articles) that she & Farrah were on good terms, no?

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 05:16 PM on 05/14/2009

Wow, those are some good thoughts!

Ms. Fawcett, Charlie's Angel's was my favorite TV show when I was a kid, and I thank you for those times I enjoyed watching that show. My heart goes out to you during your time of suffering. I wish you peace and a painless journey.

Cancer is so horrible.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 05:21 PM on 05/14/2009

but.....how do you know that? from tatum's book? everyone has a point of view but, really, what does anything in the past matter? someone's excrutiatingly painful death is always terrible and i'm sure farrah has more regrets than there are comments on huffpo.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 05:35 PM on 05/14/2009

It's good to see that Ryan O'Neal's finally being a bit more restrained in his comments about Farrah. After all, if you were fighting cancer, would you want everyone to know:
your hair has fallen out
you can't speak in complete sentences
you've asked your partner "am I going to make it?"
your partner is lying to you about your son being in jail
your partner is lying to your father about your condition.

All this and much more has been revealed by Ryan as he did the interview circuit. Farrah's showing quiet dignity, he should too. Interesting that Alana Stewart has now come out and said that Farrah is annoyed and feisty about some of the things being circulated about her currently. But it's Ryan who's been disclosing all this stuff. Farrah is still offering signed, personalised pix of herself on her website, so if she can do that, she can't be as incoherent as Ryan has made out. We wish you all the best Farrah.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 04:39 PM on 05/14/2009

Just a couple of things for the folks making a big deal of this....

Farrah Fawsett has my prayers and hope that she will get better but I know realistically she probably wont and I hope that she makes peace with everyone in her life.

That said, she is probably making money on this little love fest.

It would have been more productive and shown more compassion to, instead of making this about her terrible ordeal, having to deal with this in the lap of luxury. It should have been made about the countless others in this country dealing with the same or similar cancers, who can't get treatment because they have no insurance and community hospitals are cutting free care for the poor or who can't get treatment because they're homeless or who can't get treatment because they have absolutely no one with a car or time to spare to take them to treatments. Come on people wake up.
Farrah Fawsett doesn't give a damn about you all or anyone else right now. She's got her own problems and this was self serving and one last chance for the spotlight.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 04:06 PM on 05/14/2009
- KimberleyC I'm a Fan of KimberleyC 5 fans permalink
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"...she is probably making money ont his little love fest."

I'm sure someone in her condition is worried about making more money. Imagine all of that money in the afterlife. Wow. How insensitive.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 04:58 PM on 05/14/2009

I agree

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 05:25 PM on 05/14/2009

really. c'mon, people, show some empathy and some class.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 05:35 PM on 05/14/2009

Bless her heart. My prayers are for her well-being, whatever that entails.

I have seen no mention of her ex-husband, actor Lee Majors. Since they were married for nine years ('73-'82), I wonder what his feelings are about her condition.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 03:31 PM on 05/14/2009
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I know that Farrah had the glory of the fame and fortune that comes with a career as a star.....but I think it is absolutely horrible that she (and others in simular situations) aren't given privacy in this trying time of her life .

This woman is struggling with the acceptence of her illness, the treatments (which aren't a walk in the park) and now apparently her impending death from this terrible desease.

Please leave her and her family alone. Let this woman die with PRIVACY, respect and dignity.

God Bless Farrah and her family.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 03:15 PM on 05/14/2009
- JRsNana I'm a Fan of JRsNana 19 fans permalink

This project is one that Farrah chose to do. She wanted to tell her story.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 03:37 PM on 05/14/2009
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Yes....I know.....and she is an inspiration.

But the thing she wanted the most.....and never got....was privacy.

I wished people would let her die in peace.....everyone deserves that.

She is a lovely lady and this is so sad.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 03:46 PM on 05/14/2009
- PaceSetter I'm a Fan of PaceSetter 38 fans permalink
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"Fawcett realized her experience could inspire others".

I certainly hope so. I nursed my mom quietly at home until she died of cancer on Mothers' Day, three years ago. When all of your instincts compel you to "save" someone you love and to keep them alive, it is very difficult to do nothing but just "be" tell them you love them and allow them to die. But it is also a great education and wonderful gift to help someone you love die, as they wish, with dignity.

Accepting one's own mortality does not make one "courageous". We are all born to die. Our fear of death causes us to rail mightily and to deny its approach. Death is not necessarily pretty, but it is inevitable. I very much believe dying at home, quietly, surrounded by friends and family, is something for which we should all wish. With all the pain and suffering in this world, you can't ask for better than that.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 03:01 PM on 05/14/2009
- vandegrasse I'm a Fan of vandegrasse 195 fans permalink
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Lord knows how many cases of cancer can be attributed to corporate irresponsible. Just another little gift corporate greed has brought us. You see you really can't soil your own nest without nature attempting to rid itself of you. Unfortunately we have to breathe the air and drink the water and most of us have to eat contaminated food. Mother Earth will up our act if we don't. Meanwhile, countless innocent souls will suffer!

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 02:48 PM on 05/14/2009
- vandegrasse I'm a Fan of vandegrasse 195 fans permalink
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Ryan O'Neal's a good man. A lot of people don't give a damn about sick ex-spouses, let alone girlfriends. Hats off to a good man and blessing on Farrah, who though I didn't much care for at the time has shown he grace under fire.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 02:41 PM on 05/14/2009
- conniedogs I'm a Fan of conniedogs 13 fans permalink

I agree

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 09:00 PM on 05/14/2009
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Farrah - You rock! I hope I'm even half as brave as you should I ever face such a challenge.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 02:36 PM on 05/14/2009
- vandegrasse I'm a Fan of vandegrasse 195 fans permalink
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You mean, when you face it.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 02:43 PM on 05/14/2009
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I saw a clip of this on one of the entertainment shows and it literally brought me to tears. I have to give Ryan O'Neal a big thumbs up too...he has really been there for her which i think is great.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 02:24 PM on 05/14/2009

Thank you, Farrah, for your courage.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 02:06 PM on 05/14/2009

God bless Farrah Fawcett

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 01:43 PM on 05/14/2009
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Yes.....and she is a true inspiration.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 03:22 PM on 05/14/2009

"NBC is owned by General Electric Co."...one of the largest manufacturers of cancer causing chemicals in the world. The entire Hudson Valley has been poisoned by the PCBs that they manufactured in New York. The American Cancer Society's motto is "early detection is the best prevention..." Bullshit. How about "Prevention is best". The list goes on and on...
http://www.breastcancerfund.org/site/c.kwKXLdPaE/b.3959137/k.8B25/Mixtures_Matter.htm
• Two different weak estrogenic pesticides—dieldrin and toxophene—showed either additive or synergistic effects, depending on the doses used and the particular conditions of the experiments.
• Combinations of very low doses of common chemical surfactants (used to solubilize or disperse other chemicals) and herbicides led to highly synergistic effects in a natural wildlife fish model that, like human breast tissue, is sensitive to estradiol and related estrogenic compounds….

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 01:40 PM on 05/14/2009

An ah huh moment!

Replace "early detection is the best prevention" with "prevention is best."

But "early detection is best" is in the interests of the American Cancer Society and all the other cancer societies.

Cancer has become big business. The status quo is in the best interests of this industry. How many jobs would be lost if a cure were to be found?

It is time for an industry shakeout; time to redirect cancer funds towards scientific research and prevention and from cancer treatments. Period.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 02:12 PM on 05/14/2009
- bluerednot I'm a Fan of bluerednot 5 fans permalink

Sadly, the ability to eradicate cancer once it has progressed has been elusive - many billions have been spent on "promising" approaches that turn out to have no real statistical significance. For a great number of cancers, once it has metastasized, you are screwed. Now, it is also true that if you can catch it early - before it has moved beyond being "local", you can have a fighting chance. Cancer is proving to be one ugly opponent .

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 04:48 PM on 05/14/2009
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