Jenny Sanford Launched Husband's Career

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JIM DAVENPORT | June 24, 2009 08:54 PM EST | AP

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FILE - In a Sunday, Feb. 22, 2009 file photo, South Carolina Gov. Mark Sanford, right, and his wife Jenny, left, arrive at the White House to attend a dinner hosted by President Obama, in Washington. (AP Photo/Pablo Martinez Monsivais, File)

COLUMBIA, S.C. — When South Carolina Gov. Mark Sanford cheated on his wife, he also betrayed his top political adviser.

First lady Jenny Sanford told the world in a statement Wednesday that she had sent her husband packing nearly 15 years after she launched his political career.

Mark Sanford apologized to her and their four sons at a tearful press conference where he admitted a yearlong affair with a friend in Argentina whom he had visited on a secret trip.

His wife said in her own statement later that she kicked him out of the house two weeks ago and asked him not to speak to her while she tried to come to grips with his infidelity.

It was an abrupt and stunning _ even if temporary _ split for a couple who helped shape the state's political landscape.

During Mark Sanford's first gubernatorial campaign in 2002, Jenny ran the show from the basement of their Sullivans Island beach house while he fretted as the wind blew his charts off of tripods during outdoor press conferences.

They are more thrifty than glamorous: She shops at Wal-Mart and he's been known to wear a frayed blue blazer.

She's reserved; he's mildly harried and sometimes stumbles over words. She stays mostly out of the spotlight; he doesn't much like the crowds it brings, slipping unnoticed into some of the state's biggest GOP gatherings.

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Jenny Sanford is a millionaire whose family fortune comes from the Skil Corp. power tool company. Through her husband's three U.S. House campaigns and first race for governor, she helped him pull a wagon he and the boys built on parade routes across the state.

Their sons had mostly outgrown it by the time Mark Sanford ran for a second and final term in as governor in 2006, and Jenny Sanford let him hire a professional consultant, although she still called most of the shots. Since Mark Sanford first took office in 2003, Jenny has been a regular at morning meetings with top staff.

Observers noted she hasn't been seen as much lately, but it was clear from Wednesday's developments that she has been managing her side of the house.

"When I found out about my husband's infidelity I worked immediately to first seek reconciliation through forgiveness, and then to work diligently to repair our marriage," she said in a release. "We reached a point where I felt it was important to look my sons in the eyes and maintain my dignity, self-respect, and my basic sense of right and wrong. I therefore asked my husband to leave two weeks ago."

She said she loves him and has tried to be the best wife she can during nearly 20 years of marriage.

Both started their careers on Wall Street, where Jenny Sanford was a vice president in mergers and acquisitions at Lazard Freres for six years. Mark Sanford set out to work at Goldman Sachs after earning a masters of business administration from the University of Virginia, but he didn't much like it.

They met in the Hamptons, got hitched, and headed South, where Mark Sanford first got into real estate and then politics.

He describes himself as libertarian-leaning Republican. In Congress, where he started in 1995, he was an outspoken Social Security reformer, a position that made him the lone "no" vote on a handful of bills and regularly had him bucking House GOP leadership.

But he also built a legend and friendships. He was known for returning his housing allowance and sleeping on a futon in his House office.

His 2002 election to the state's top post was heralded as South Carolina Republicans' first chance to hold both the Legislature and governor's office, but GOP leaders say it's been a far-from-productive tenure.

He has railed against the Republican-dominated Legislature, never more so than this year, as he tried to thwart efforts to take federal stimulus money for schools. He built a national reputation among fiscal conservatives, prompting talk of a possible 2012 presidential bid, but his position angered many at home.

He sued the legislature and lost, a battle that left him drained and complaining that the state's highest court was too beholden to legislators and governors were powerless.

Jenny Sanford appeared to tire of politics earlier, as the 2006 campaign wound down. She dampened talk that Sanford would run for president by saying it was time for him to focus on family.

Mark Sanford said he wants to reconcile with his wife. His spokesman said he has no plans to resign. And Jenny Sanford said Wednesday the couple still has a shot regardless of what happens to her husband's political career.

"I believe Mark has earned a chance to resurrect our marriage," she said.

COLUMBIA, S.C. — When South Carolina Gov. Mark Sanford cheated on his wife, he also betrayed his top political adviser. First lady Jenny Sanford told the world in a statement Wednesday that she...
COLUMBIA, S.C. — When South Carolina Gov. Mark Sanford cheated on his wife, he also betrayed his top political adviser. First lady Jenny Sanford told the world in a statement Wednesday that she...
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- Chaimirija I'm a Fan of Chaimirija 56 fans permalink
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What is rushbo saying about this? When Edwards cheated, rushie said it was his wife's fault for not being orally talented...

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 10:41 AM on 06/26/2009
- ARTIST50 I'm a Fan of ARTIST50 8 fans permalink

Those emails may make it more difficult for Jenny to take him back. But why are people so eager to break up this family. It will destroy their 4 young boys, they should try their best to keep their family together. I think Jenny has handled herself with class. She's been humiliated in front of the whole world.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 05:13 PM on 06/25/2009
- Chaimirija I'm a Fan of Chaimirija 56 fans permalink
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I do not think it will detroy their family. It will teach those boys that they do not have to be faithful. That if just say you are sorry, all is forgiven. Enough of this. If you cannot trust your spouse 100%, what is the point?

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 10:33 AM on 06/26/2009
- Chaimirija I'm a Fan of Chaimirija 56 fans permalink
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on second thought....the family is already destroyed...and he did it

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 11:00 AM on 06/26/2009
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Mark Sanford doesn't realize how fortunate he is to have a wife like Jenny.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 04:18 PM on 06/25/2009
- Whatashame I'm a Fan of Whatashame 19 fans permalink
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And this is how he thanked her. Narcisistic.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 04:04 PM on 06/25/2009
- pericles21 I'm a Fan of pericles21 5 fans permalink

Tho I feel his pain, hope Sanford will not relapse from his newly found liberation and become another Rethug, McCain-clone loser...sorry, user...sorry, just sorry. Aaah! Sad. Sincerely hope the family, especially the kids, come out of this ok.

Sanford, himself? Hope he holds on to empathy and a new soul and finds happiness....maybe write poetry. Again, hope he doesn't follow McCain's path and simply refine his selfish, gold-digging, power-worshipping, hide-behin­d-the-holy book, sanctimonious gaming. Geeez, got to rise above my emotional ambivalence over this issue.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 03:32 PM on 06/25/2009
- lydiajean I'm a Fan of lydiajean 5 fans permalink

why do these women stay with these men?? Do they love abuse??

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 02:56 PM on 06/25/2009
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Breaking a marriage isn't always the best solution.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 04:19 PM on 06/25/2009
- Chaimirija I'm a Fan of Chaimirija 56 fans permalink
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Then he should not have committed adultry...that broke the marriage...divorce would be the legal aspect

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 11:02 AM on 06/26/2009
- Chaimirija I'm a Fan of Chaimirija 56 fans permalink
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Religion. If you don't forgive, they turn it on you. I know of situations where married men were quite attracted to other women, but they did NOT cheat. Why? Because they thought about what it would do to their family.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 10:35 AM on 06/26/2009
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I'm amazed at the generosity of President and Mrs. Obama, letting morally bankrupt trash like this into the White House...

Seriously, though, I stopped by Townhall to see if the mental midgets over there had anything original or insightful to add about the Sandford thing.

As usual, it's the standard BS about "Well, at least we Conservatives HAVE Family Values, which is why this is SUCH an aberration. Liberals don't even TRY to have Family Values, so they have no right to criticize Sanford."

Not true, not backed up by statistics, and just more evidence of the delusions of the Right., especially the Religious Right.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 02:30 PM on 06/25/2009
- samilli3 I'm a Fan of samilli3 64 fans permalink
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The wife of South Carolina Governor Mark Sanford told her husband to leave, one thing I can't figure out.....if they live in the Governor's mansion,how can she make him move?

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 01:29 PM on 06/25/2009
- Eykis I'm a Fan of Eykis 282 fans permalink

Same way Guiliani's wife did - HE WAS CHEATING.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 03:45 PM on 06/25/2009
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I wonder if Jenny Sanford didn't have her eyes on a bigger mansion in Washintgon, DC.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 11:33 AM on 06/25/2009

really

she pushed him

please

Jenny Sanford is a millionaire whose family fortune comes from the Skil Corp. power tool company.

he married the $$$$

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 12:45 PM on 06/25/2009
- LDS50 I'm a Fan of LDS50 9 fans permalink

Sounds a lot like McCain.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 03:15 PM on 06/25/2009
- Chaimirija I'm a Fan of Chaimirija 56 fans permalink
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seems so. he used her

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 10:36 AM on 06/26/2009

Jenny should just go out and BUY herself a real man!

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 11:26 AM on 06/25/2009
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Sanford and Sex? This guy never met a tan line he didn't like.
I sincerely hope this is the final nail in his political coffin. It couldn't happen to a nicer hypocrite.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 10:54 AM on 06/25/2009
- dbg2 I'm a Fan of dbg2 3 fans permalink

Go back to Argentina Jenny loves power not you Mark you are a pawn.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 10:52 AM on 06/25/2009
- Ellyllon I'm a Fan of Ellyllon 82 fans permalink
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She let him use her money to satisfy his ambitions, so naturally, it's her fault. There are people who can make a victim out of ANYONE.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 01:54 PM on 06/25/2009
- Chaimirija I'm a Fan of Chaimirija 56 fans permalink
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She probably did love him. That is why she kicked him out.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 10:38 AM on 06/26/2009
- AdamX I'm a Fan of AdamX 12 fans permalink

His sex life is not our business.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 10:42 AM on 06/25/2009
- CR46 I'm a Fan of CR46 222 fans permalink

When the state pays for him to travel to see his lover and he disregards SOP for when he is "unavailable" to run the state it IS public business.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 10:45 AM on 06/25/2009

When he says that what makes him the best candidate is his superior morals, it IS our business.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 10:58 AM on 06/25/2009

Your sex like is his politics.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 11:27 AM on 06/25/2009
- Colmore I'm a Fan of Colmore 45 fans permalink

Clinton's wasn't either, however the hypocritical GOP (the biggest adulterers) made it the world's business. What goes around comes around. Remember how much THAT cost taxpayers?

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 12:21 PM on 06/25/2009
- Chaimirija I'm a Fan of Chaimirija 56 fans permalink
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and all the tripe about HRC for sticking it out...they just never let up---but, when a republican's wife stands by her man, she is a good christian woman

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 10:39 AM on 06/26/2009

I say the family needs time to heal and decide where they are headed as man and wife. Sanford appeared to be very high schoolish in his speaking from the heart. He didn't prepare an apology speech and sounded like a "boy" in love and torn between two different worlds. Maybe he never wanted to go the route of being Gov. and it was all his wife's ambitions. As some said in these comments: "Let his wife take his place as Gov. She seems to be taking the high road out of the mess he placed his family.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 10:08 AM on 06/25/2009
- CR46 I'm a Fan of CR46 222 fans permalink

She kicked him out 2 weeks ago, and good for her!! She made a statement that she tried but could not continue and keep her self-respect nor raise her boysin a respectable way if she let the cheater stay . I admire her for moving on with her life.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 10:43 AM on 06/25/2009
- prabbit I'm a Fan of prabbit 10 fans permalink

I'm not so sure that you are correct...

---And Jenny Sanford said Wednesday the couple still has a shot regardless of what happens to her husband's political career.

"I believe Mark has earned a chance to resurrect our marriage," she said.===

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 11:28 AM on 06/25/2009
- Whinger I'm a Fan of Whinger 46 fans permalink
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Jenny, you can trust a thief, but you can't trust a rat, kick him clear out of your life!

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 10:04 AM on 06/25/2009
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