Sanford Considered Resigning, But He Won't

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South Carolina Gov. Mark Sanford gestures as he talks outside his Sullivans Island home Sunday, June 28, 2009. (AP Photo/Mary Ann Chastain)

SULLIVANS ISLAND, S.C. — South Carolina Gov. Mark Sanford gave thought to quitting, retreating from public scrutiny to rebuild his life as the scandal of his extramarital affair with an Argentinian woman came out, he told The Associated Press Sunday.

Close spiritual and political associates urged him to instead fight to restore his constituents' _ and his family's _ trust and finish out the 18 months left in his last term.

"Resigning would be the easiest thing to do," he said he thought.

He's sticking it out and faces endless questions about the affair, whether he used public money to visit his lover and whether his 20-year marriage will continue. Add to it a barrage of criticism from South Carolina politicians who think the two-term Republican should step down.

"Part of walking humbly is you've got to listen to your critics out there," the 49-year-old Sanford said. "And all of us will have critics, and the higher you go, I suppose, the more critics you have."

Sanford spoke exclusively with The Associated Press outside his family's beach house on Sullivans Island. He, his wife, Jenny, and sons were in separate cars, headed to his family's farm _ where his 83-year-old mother lives _ in Beaufort, an hour south.

The governor admitted last week to a yearlong affair with the woman from Argentina whom he says he's known for about eight years. Later Sunday, 41-year-old former television reporter Maria Belen Chapur acknowledged in a statement that she had been having a relationship with the governor.

Sanford looked like a man of leisure in faded khaki shorts, T-shirt and bare feet. But behind the casual attire, he appeared contrite and spoke of falling from grace and rebuilding his life.

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"I am sorry," he said. "I apologize for letting everyone down."

The Sanfords say they will try to reconcile. One person they've sought help from is their spiritual counselor, Warren "Cubby" Culbertson, whom Mark Sanford thanked during the news conference in which he admitted his affair.

Reconciling with fellow lawmakers and constituents also lies ahead. Some lawmakers want his resignation because he secretly visited his mistress during a state-funded 2008 trip, and because he was out of touch with his staff during his recent weeklong visit to Argentina to see her. His staff had told the public he was hiking the Appalachian Trail before the real story of his mysterious absence came to light.

Sanford has agreed to reimburse the state for some of the more than $8,000 in taxpayer money spent on the Argentina leg of the economic development trip to South America last year. On Sunday, he repeatedly said he never used public money to see the woman.

Chapur, a divorced mother of two sons, said in a statement to news network C5n of Buenos Aires that said she will not talk about her private life, which has already been the focus of intense media scrutiny in the U.S. and Argentina.

Chapur, a graduate in political science from the Catholic University of Buenos Aires, said someone accessed her Hotmail account without permission late last year and leaked e-mail correspondence that described a relationship with Sanford to the South Carolina newspaper The State.

"I have decided to send this statement to clear up certain incorrect things that are being reported, and put an end to a matter that, as you imagine, is very painful to me, my two children, my entire family and close friends," she said in the statement addressed to anchor Eduardo Feinman, who read it on camera. Feinman was Chapur's editor when she worked briefly as a television reporter in 2001.

When it comes to his critics _ most notably Republican state Sen. Jake Knotts _ and their calls for him to step down, Sanford said he understands where they are coming from.

"I don't begrudge the Jakie Knottses of the world," Sanford said. "He's going to do what he's going to do. I gotta do my part."

The governor's efforts to stay in office appear, in the minds of some lawmakers, to hinge in part on his ability to salvage his marriage. While several critics wants a criminal probe and others want him to step down, reconciling with the first lady does have sway among legislators.

"That's almost become a proxy for how some are looking at this. They're looking at Jenny," said state Sen. Tom Davis, a Beaufort Republican and former Sanford chief of staff. "In large measure, it depends on how things work and how people see things are working out between the governor and first lady."

As far as his marriage, Sanford said he and his wife are working on it.

"If there wasn't healing going on, I wouldn't be here," he said, pointing to his beach house, where he had dinner with his family Saturday night and where he took a run at sunrise on the sand with one of his sons.

Sanford added that he has been overwhelmed by the support he's received.

"It's only in the hard times you get a sense of how blessed you really are," he said.

Regardless of what politicians in the Statehouse think, his Sullivans Island neighbors are supportive.

During Sunday's interview, several folks stopped to say hello as they strolled by on their morning walks. One man, driving a golf cart festooned with red-white-and-blue decorations, paused to invite Sanford and his family to a Fourth of July celebration.

"How are you?" the man asked Sanford.

"Considering the circumstances, all right," Sanford replied with a wan smile.

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Associated Press Writer Jim Davenport in Columbia and Eduardo Gallardo in Buenos Aries, Argentina, contributed to this report.

SULLIVANS ISLAND, S.C. — South Carolina Gov. Mark Sanford gave thought to quitting, retreating from public scrutiny to rebuild his life as the scandal of his extramarital affair with an Argentin...
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- AnnfromCA I'm a Fan of AnnfromCA 219 fans permalink

Whew*....it's getting knee-high in bs now.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 08:57 AM on 06/29/2009

I agree with Sanford on this one he should stay and continue to screw the people who elected him since they truly deserve everything they get.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 08:55 AM on 06/29/2009

spiritual associates! pahleeeeeeeeeeeeze! get the hypocrite out of office NOW

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 08:34 AM on 06/29/2009
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Uh, Sanford didnt mind taking the easy way out and having an affair. The hard thing to do would be staying faithful to your wife.

Sanford likes taking whatever route benefits HIM.

Whether its the easy way or not.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 02:49 AM on 06/29/2009

He stole government funds and went AWOL without telling his constituents and he doesn't think he is going to get in trouble? If he was in the military, he would have been court marshalled and thrown in jail. Politicians should be held to the same standards as military personal. They work for the government too and they get payed a hell of a lot more money.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 02:25 AM on 06/29/2009
- Scar1 I'm a Fan of Scar1 7 fans permalink
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So, GOP would stay in a marriage with such a guy just to rally the party-wow, they really would do anything. But, President no. What happens if we are really in a jam-would anyone trust him to be there?

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 02:11 AM on 06/29/2009
- TaxDayMan I'm a Fan of TaxDayMan 11 fans permalink

Duke University sex scandles is at again and once you read the article you unstand Lib media "hypocrisy" and why the lib media "will" NOT cover this one! Media will itensify coverage of Sanford to avoid this one at Duke!

http://townhall.com/columnists/MikeAdams/2009/06/28/little_boy_blue_devil

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 02:08 AM on 06/29/2009
- TaxDayMan I'm a Fan of TaxDayMan 11 fans permalink

Oh, YES! Trust me! O'Reilly has been alerted!

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 03:16 AM on 06/29/2009
- Itsmyland2 I'm a Fan of Itsmyland2 11 fans permalink
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Your comment and link have nothing to do with the story being discussed here.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 08:37 AM on 06/29/2009
- Scar1 I'm a Fan of Scar1 7 fans permalink
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There are not many people who really care. I just pray for your wife and sons. So when you get what you want politically are you dumping wife again. And what about the hurt you caused to so many? Oh, cannot believe Sanford is so bold and so flip about things.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 02:08 AM on 06/29/2009
- andhakari I'm a Fan of andhakari 7 fans permalink

Sanford is right. Resigning is the easy way out.
It's much better that he be impeached and imprisoned for conversion of public funds.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 02:05 AM on 06/29/2009
- KLordsha I'm a Fan of KLordsha 39 fans permalink
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It definitely was not as easy as sitting in an Atlanta airport while waiting for your connecting flight to Argentina...

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 02:00 AM on 06/29/2009
- alice09 I'm a Fan of alice09 23 fans permalink

He is revealing a narcissism that is off the charts. It's all about his personal journey now.
We're all invited into his personal journey of humility, blah blah blah, his wife and sons included. He has zero regard for how his public sharing is affecting anyone.
His poor boys. Dad vanished for Father's Day. If he was capable of thinking of their needs at all, instead of his own, he would have shown up.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 01:40 AM on 06/29/2009

Maybe he could resign his post in exchange for being named the South Carolina ambassador to Argentina. Truly a win-win situation...

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 01:12 AM on 06/29/2009
- Anare I'm a Fan of Anare 4 fans permalink

Has Sanford offered one single explanation as to why he thought it was ok to take off, leave the country, and not tell his staff how he could be reached? C'mon! That in and of itself should be reason to step down. He is completely irresponsible and if he wants healing and reconciliation he should go away and quietly do that on his own time. He needs to take a page from Elliot Spitzer's play book on how to rehab one's reputation.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 01:08 AM on 06/29/2009
- gatogato I'm a Fan of gatogato 59 fans permalink
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He left the state unprotected while he went on this tryst. By the guys own words he is unstable. Why doesn't he join Blago's wife on a reality show and leave governing to the adults.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 12:57 AM on 06/29/2009
- SiberianRat I'm a Fan of SiberianRat 139 fans permalink
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Good grief--the governor's mansion is not the place to be working out private hangups--that state deserves a real governor. What a crock.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 11:58 PM on 06/28/2009
- nana4g I'm a Fan of nana4g 112 fans permalink

And, while going through the motions of this marital therapy group, begging wife for permission to go and visit his mistress.....I say, let the mistress have him. She was having a relationship with still another man while seeing him 3 times in one year and exchanging those emails. I hope his wife has had herself tested for STDs.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 11:53 AM on 06/30/2009
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