Sanford Considered Resigning, But He Won't

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South Carolina Gov. Mark Sanford gestures as he talks outside his Sullivans Island home Sunday, June 28, 2009. (AP Photo/Mary Ann Chastain)

SULLIVANS ISLAND, S.C. — South Carolina Gov. Mark Sanford gave thought to quitting, retreating from public scrutiny to rebuild his life as the scandal of his extramarital affair with an Argentinian woman came out, he told The Associated Press Sunday.

Close spiritual and political associates urged him to instead fight to restore his constituents' _ and his family's _ trust and finish out the 18 months left in his last term.

"Resigning would be the easiest thing to do," he said he thought.

He's sticking it out and faces endless questions about the affair, whether he used public money to visit his lover and whether his 20-year marriage will continue. Add to it a barrage of criticism from South Carolina politicians who think the two-term Republican should step down.

"Part of walking humbly is you've got to listen to your critics out there," the 49-year-old Sanford said. "And all of us will have critics, and the higher you go, I suppose, the more critics you have."

Sanford spoke exclusively with The Associated Press outside his family's beach house on Sullivans Island. He, his wife, Jenny, and sons were in separate cars, headed to his family's farm _ where his 83-year-old mother lives _ in Beaufort, an hour south.

The governor admitted last week to a yearlong affair with the woman from Argentina whom he says he's known for about eight years. Later Sunday, 41-year-old former television reporter Maria Belen Chapur acknowledged in a statement that she had been having a relationship with the governor.

Sanford looked like a man of leisure in faded khaki shorts, T-shirt and bare feet. But behind the casual attire, he appeared contrite and spoke of falling from grace and rebuilding his life.

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"I am sorry," he said. "I apologize for letting everyone down."

The Sanfords say they will try to reconcile. One person they've sought help from is their spiritual counselor, Warren "Cubby" Culbertson, whom Mark Sanford thanked during the news conference in which he admitted his affair.

Reconciling with fellow lawmakers and constituents also lies ahead. Some lawmakers want his resignation because he secretly visited his mistress during a state-funded 2008 trip, and because he was out of touch with his staff during his recent weeklong visit to Argentina to see her. His staff had told the public he was hiking the Appalachian Trail before the real story of his mysterious absence came to light.

Sanford has agreed to reimburse the state for some of the more than $8,000 in taxpayer money spent on the Argentina leg of the economic development trip to South America last year. On Sunday, he repeatedly said he never used public money to see the woman.

Chapur, a divorced mother of two sons, said in a statement to news network C5n of Buenos Aires that said she will not talk about her private life, which has already been the focus of intense media scrutiny in the U.S. and Argentina.

Chapur, a graduate in political science from the Catholic University of Buenos Aires, said someone accessed her Hotmail account without permission late last year and leaked e-mail correspondence that described a relationship with Sanford to the South Carolina newspaper The State.

"I have decided to send this statement to clear up certain incorrect things that are being reported, and put an end to a matter that, as you imagine, is very painful to me, my two children, my entire family and close friends," she said in the statement addressed to anchor Eduardo Feinman, who read it on camera. Feinman was Chapur's editor when she worked briefly as a television reporter in 2001.

When it comes to his critics _ most notably Republican state Sen. Jake Knotts _ and their calls for him to step down, Sanford said he understands where they are coming from.

"I don't begrudge the Jakie Knottses of the world," Sanford said. "He's going to do what he's going to do. I gotta do my part."

The governor's efforts to stay in office appear, in the minds of some lawmakers, to hinge in part on his ability to salvage his marriage. While several critics wants a criminal probe and others want him to step down, reconciling with the first lady does have sway among legislators.

"That's almost become a proxy for how some are looking at this. They're looking at Jenny," said state Sen. Tom Davis, a Beaufort Republican and former Sanford chief of staff. "In large measure, it depends on how things work and how people see things are working out between the governor and first lady."

As far as his marriage, Sanford said he and his wife are working on it.

"If there wasn't healing going on, I wouldn't be here," he said, pointing to his beach house, where he had dinner with his family Saturday night and where he took a run at sunrise on the sand with one of his sons.

Sanford added that he has been overwhelmed by the support he's received.

"It's only in the hard times you get a sense of how blessed you really are," he said.

Regardless of what politicians in the Statehouse think, his Sullivans Island neighbors are supportive.

During Sunday's interview, several folks stopped to say hello as they strolled by on their morning walks. One man, driving a golf cart festooned with red-white-and-blue decorations, paused to invite Sanford and his family to a Fourth of July celebration.

"How are you?" the man asked Sanford.

"Considering the circumstances, all right," Sanford replied with a wan smile.

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Associated Press Writer Jim Davenport in Columbia and Eduardo Gallardo in Buenos Aries, Argentina, contributed to this report.

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Memo to Mark Sanford:

Please take the easy way out. Spare us your troubled love life.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 04:03 PM on 06/28/2009

Sanford has shown himself to be a stupid self centered political opportunistic hypocrite . . . why would he CHANGE now that he is also facing EMBEZZLEMENT of public funds????

I'm sure from his actions he could care LESS how much embarrassment his FAMILY will have to endure while he prances around the public stage . . .

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 04:00 PM on 06/28/2009
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Resignation is not the easy way out, it's the expedient way out.

It is also the only option to retain the less than thimble load of dignity he might still have left in him. However dignity is not part of the GOP platform so Sanford will decline a personal resignation and instead will try to stay burrowed in his Gov seat like a S. Carolina tick burrowed in the neck of its victim.

S. Carolina, if you have dignity then expel this lying hypocrite from office!

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 03:56 PM on 06/28/2009
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Please Mark Sanford please take the easy way out at least your replacement will be able to do the Governor's job instead of answering questions about that other woman.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 03:50 PM on 06/28/2009
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I'm no Biblical scholar, so I looked up the simple lesson this maroon sought to use as a comparison. According to this, he still has some work to do.

Lesson Text
As David walked on the roof of his house one evening, he saw a beautiful woman taking a bath. Someone told him she was Bathsheba, the wife of Uriah, a Hittite soldier off fighting with David"s army. David should have put Bathsheba out of his mind when he heard she was married, but he didn"t.
Read the entire lesson text...

In this lesson, David makes his worst mistake yet. He takes his neighbor's wife, and tries to cover it up. He kills the woman's husband when he can't conceal the error. But God knows the truth. Can we hide from God? No. Can we cover up our sin? No - it just leads to more sin.

http://www.ebibleteacher.com/children/lessons/OT/unitedkingdom/Bathsheba.htm

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 03:45 PM on 06/28/2009
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Sanford has had a series of personal and professional decisions to make based on black and white choices, that we know about. After considering those choices, he made decisions that appear to have been disastrous in each instance. Now he has another choice to make. He has considered the alternatives and made a decision; perhaps risky based on his recent fortunes. Apparently he has put his trust in the "blind squirrel theory"...­probably safer than waiting for a sign from God.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 03:43 PM on 06/28/2009
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OK, just using their own standards, Sanford should resign. When Clinton had an affair, they were all over him and questioned his morality, and said he should resign, and they tried to impeach him.

Larry Craig, did NOT resign. He rode out his term.
Vitter did NOT resign.
Ensign did NOT resign.
And Sanford has NOT resigned.

Shouldn't the Repubs hold their leaders up to the same standard they espouse? Repubs are the biggest hypocrites. They talk about family values and follow the likes of McCain, cheated on his first wife, Gingrich, thrice married and cheated on his second wife, and Limbaugh, thrice married, and thrice divorced.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 03:36 PM on 06/28/2009
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resigning would be the honorable thing

otherwise he is a hypocrite

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 03:28 PM on 06/28/2009
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"The easy way out?"

Why do American politicians, more often Republicans, think they are above it all and that they shouldn't be held to the same standards as anyone else? Actually, to be fair this goes across the board to business, financial, academic, sports and religious leaders as well. We are awash in a sea of no accountability.

I'll say this for the Brits and most of "Old Europe." At least if they get caught, most of the time they fall on the sword. Not so for us Americans. The reign of arrogance and entitlement continues more strongly than ever...

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 03:25 PM on 06/28/2009
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"Resigning would be the easiest thing to do,"


No, the EASIEST thing to do would have been to keep your pants zipped and not violate your wedding vows. See, now wouldn't that have been easy?

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 03:20 PM on 06/28/2009
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That's because his close spiritual advisors don't want to lose another puppet/mole in the political structure of this country. It would weaken their progress toward a theocracy.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 03:05 PM on 06/28/2009
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Please cry for the US and South Carolina..­.Argentina­.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 03:03 PM on 06/28/2009
- johnie2xs I'm a Fan of johnie2xs 61 fans permalink
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Hey bud! Do your family a favor. Take that easy way out.

You're just prolonging their agony, otherwise.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 02:57 PM on 06/28/2009

Mark Sanford - another "do as I say, not as I do" conservative Republican.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 02:54 PM on 06/28/2009
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So, Sanford would rather be impeached I guess.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 02:52 PM on 06/28/2009
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Right! He'd rather throw his state legislature into a messy impeachment fight, waste money, time and energy on this rather than do the right thing and step down. Oh, and have his wife and family exposed to more embarrassing news coverage.

You'd think he would have learned something from watching the Blago mess.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 02:59 PM on 06/28/2009
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