Sanford Considered Resigning, But He Won't

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South Carolina Gov. Mark Sanford gestures as he talks outside his Sullivans Island home Sunday, June 28, 2009. (AP Photo/Mary Ann Chastain)

SULLIVANS ISLAND, S.C. — South Carolina Gov. Mark Sanford gave thought to quitting, retreating from public scrutiny to rebuild his life as the scandal of his extramarital affair with an Argentinian woman came out, he told The Associated Press Sunday.

Close spiritual and political associates urged him to instead fight to restore his constituents' _ and his family's _ trust and finish out the 18 months left in his last term.

"Resigning would be the easiest thing to do," he said he thought.

He's sticking it out and faces endless questions about the affair, whether he used public money to visit his lover and whether his 20-year marriage will continue. Add to it a barrage of criticism from South Carolina politicians who think the two-term Republican should step down.

"Part of walking humbly is you've got to listen to your critics out there," the 49-year-old Sanford said. "And all of us will have critics, and the higher you go, I suppose, the more critics you have."

Sanford spoke exclusively with The Associated Press outside his family's beach house on Sullivans Island. He, his wife, Jenny, and sons were in separate cars, headed to his family's farm _ where his 83-year-old mother lives _ in Beaufort, an hour south.

The governor admitted last week to a yearlong affair with the woman from Argentina whom he says he's known for about eight years. Later Sunday, 41-year-old former television reporter Maria Belen Chapur acknowledged in a statement that she had been having a relationship with the governor.

Sanford looked like a man of leisure in faded khaki shorts, T-shirt and bare feet. But behind the casual attire, he appeared contrite and spoke of falling from grace and rebuilding his life.

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"I am sorry," he said. "I apologize for letting everyone down."

The Sanfords say they will try to reconcile. One person they've sought help from is their spiritual counselor, Warren "Cubby" Culbertson, whom Mark Sanford thanked during the news conference in which he admitted his affair.

Reconciling with fellow lawmakers and constituents also lies ahead. Some lawmakers want his resignation because he secretly visited his mistress during a state-funded 2008 trip, and because he was out of touch with his staff during his recent weeklong visit to Argentina to see her. His staff had told the public he was hiking the Appalachian Trail before the real story of his mysterious absence came to light.

Sanford has agreed to reimburse the state for some of the more than $8,000 in taxpayer money spent on the Argentina leg of the economic development trip to South America last year. On Sunday, he repeatedly said he never used public money to see the woman.

Chapur, a divorced mother of two sons, said in a statement to news network C5n of Buenos Aires that said she will not talk about her private life, which has already been the focus of intense media scrutiny in the U.S. and Argentina.

Chapur, a graduate in political science from the Catholic University of Buenos Aires, said someone accessed her Hotmail account without permission late last year and leaked e-mail correspondence that described a relationship with Sanford to the South Carolina newspaper The State.

"I have decided to send this statement to clear up certain incorrect things that are being reported, and put an end to a matter that, as you imagine, is very painful to me, my two children, my entire family and close friends," she said in the statement addressed to anchor Eduardo Feinman, who read it on camera. Feinman was Chapur's editor when she worked briefly as a television reporter in 2001.

When it comes to his critics _ most notably Republican state Sen. Jake Knotts _ and their calls for him to step down, Sanford said he understands where they are coming from.

"I don't begrudge the Jakie Knottses of the world," Sanford said. "He's going to do what he's going to do. I gotta do my part."

The governor's efforts to stay in office appear, in the minds of some lawmakers, to hinge in part on his ability to salvage his marriage. While several critics wants a criminal probe and others want him to step down, reconciling with the first lady does have sway among legislators.

"That's almost become a proxy for how some are looking at this. They're looking at Jenny," said state Sen. Tom Davis, a Beaufort Republican and former Sanford chief of staff. "In large measure, it depends on how things work and how people see things are working out between the governor and first lady."

As far as his marriage, Sanford said he and his wife are working on it.

"If there wasn't healing going on, I wouldn't be here," he said, pointing to his beach house, where he had dinner with his family Saturday night and where he took a run at sunrise on the sand with one of his sons.

Sanford added that he has been overwhelmed by the support he's received.

"It's only in the hard times you get a sense of how blessed you really are," he said.

Regardless of what politicians in the Statehouse think, his Sullivans Island neighbors are supportive.

During Sunday's interview, several folks stopped to say hello as they strolled by on their morning walks. One man, driving a golf cart festooned with red-white-and-blue decorations, paused to invite Sanford and his family to a Fourth of July celebration.

"How are you?" the man asked Sanford.

"Considering the circumstances, all right," Sanford replied with a wan smile.

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Associated Press Writer Jim Davenport in Columbia and Eduardo Gallardo in Buenos Aries, Argentina, contributed to this report.

SULLIVANS ISLAND, S.C. — South Carolina Gov. Mark Sanford gave thought to quitting, retreating from public scrutiny to rebuild his life as the scandal of his extramarital affair with an Argentin...
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- HLL I'm a Fan of HLL 76 fans permalink

You need to resign Governor:

You abandoned your state for 5 days and neither your aides nor family knew where you were or how to get in touch with you. You used state funds to pay for your visits to your mistress, which is theft. Forgetting the fact that you refused stimulus money because it was against your politics, placing your ego ahead of South Carolinians. You abandoned your state, stole and lied about it. Time to go.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 02:50 PM on 06/28/2009
- lungfish I'm a Fan of lungfish 106 fans permalink
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We laugh at the idea of extreme retribution but the reason for such thinking is based on the fact that It isn't a mistake if you knew it was wrong before you did it.
The idea that politicians "make mistakes" is really intellectually dishonest. To call infidelity a "mistake" is to absolve someone of willful disrespect and personal accountability for their actions.
In some cultures and ages the appropriate response woud be suicide or face a less pleasant execution because the effect on morale and control is greatly threatened by such behavior. In others it would be adequate to retreat to a monastary after giving up one's worldly goods. There was a time when one's word absolutely mattered.
Of course, some cultures make an art out of infidelity but America has no such traditions. We are essentially hung up on the idea that a promise is a promise and cheating and lying is cheating and lying. We don't like hypocrits as much as we don't like people who make promises and decide not to keep them. At the same time some of us are willing to accept the media placating spin "He made a mistake.".
A good man would recognize that he has violated oaths to God, to his constituents and the Gov, to his family and wife and the political affiliation he belongs to that seeks to enforce an intolerant morality on all of us. He shoud see hat he is a hypocrit and he should step down.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 02:50 PM on 06/28/2009
- larmarch5 I'm a Fan of larmarch5 39 fans permalink
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I suspect Mrs. Sanford has frozen their (her) assets and he needs the job.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 02:43 PM on 06/28/2009
- Mohanna I'm a Fan of Mohanna 4 fans permalink
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And a place to live. Gotta hang on to the Govs mansion (it's not really a mansion, actually quite small, doesn't even have a swimming pool, it's really hot in SC). Not to worry, Jenny Sanford's father is overseeing her affairs. I hope Jenny Sanford takes his dreams in the divorce.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 03:11 PM on 06/28/2009
- emcd I'm a Fan of emcd 9 fans permalink

What is up with this guy and his "(name here)'s of the world"???

Cubbie Culbertson's of the world
Tom Davises of the world
etc etc etc

I know one thing, he's got to be one of the all-time "horse's arses of the world"

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 02:42 PM on 06/28/2009
- Savanna I'm a Fan of Savanna 30 fans permalink

Sanford needs to quietly resign, take care of his family's needs and his own which must be great in view of his betrayl of his stated ethics.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 02:42 PM on 06/28/2009
- noaxe397 I'm a Fan of noaxe397 126 fans permalink

So add masocist to his list of personal failures.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 02:37 PM on 06/28/2009
- kimhoulian I'm a Fan of kimhoulian 6 fans permalink

But Sanford took the easy way out when he took on a mistress. I'm sure his wife would have appreciated this tone when it came to their marriage.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 02:37 PM on 06/28/2009
- nana4g I'm a Fan of nana4g 104 fans permalink

I think it safe to say now that all these men of all political persuasions, especially Republican, should stay out of the legislating of womens' uteri and pay more attention to the management and control of their own penises.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 02:33 PM on 06/28/2009
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The easy way out is hiding behind Bible stories and not facing up to reality.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 02:20 PM on 06/28/2009

No, Mark, you self-important hypocrite. Resigning would be the DECENT, honorable thing to do. No wonder you can't figure that out. Comparing yourself to King David on top of it...what a tool.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 02:20 PM on 06/28/2009
- MED1025 I'm a Fan of MED1025 12 fans permalink
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I predict he will be a regular on Fixed News by next year.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 02:38 PM on 06/28/2009
- johnie2xs I'm a Fan of johnie2xs 61 fans permalink
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I'm no Biblical scholar, so I looked up the simple lesson this goon sought to use as a comparison. According to this, he still has some work to do.

Lesson Text
As David walked on the roof of his house one evening, he saw a beautiful woman taking a bath. Someone told him she was Bathsheba, the wife of Uriah, a Hittite soldier off fighting with David’s army. David should have put Bathsheba out of his mind when he heard she was married, but he didn’t.
Read the entire lesson text...

In this lesson, David makes his worst mistake yet. He takes his neighbor's wife, and tries to cover it up. He kills the woman's husband when he can't conceal the error. But God knows the truth. Can we hide from God? No. Can we cover up our sin? No - it just leads to more sin.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 03:06 PM on 06/28/2009
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What a maroon!

Bless his heart.

You can say anything about anybody in the south so long as you end the comment with "Bless his/her heart."

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 02:07 PM on 06/28/2009
- Mohanna I'm a Fan of Mohanna 4 fans permalink
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Thats true.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 03:12 PM on 06/28/2009
- zest I'm a Fan of zest 14 fans permalink

It's always about Mark, isn't it.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 02:05 PM on 06/28/2009
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I hope he stays in office. We can never have enough high profile reminders of how much a joke the GOP has become.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 01:51 PM on 06/28/2009
- Beegood I'm a Fan of Beegood 33 fans permalink
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Come on, don't embarress those of us on the left with more selfish, childlish behavior. It isn't what the country needs now.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 01:56 PM on 06/28/2009
- RJII I'm a Fan of RJII 77 fans permalink
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He thinks his actions were a Godly challenge to his greatness. He compares his cheating on his wife and four young children, to the story of David and Goliath. His ego and hypocrisy know no boundaries.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 01:50 PM on 06/28/2009
- Beegood I'm a Fan of Beegood 33 fans permalink
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Yep, it's all about him and his needs.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 01:51 PM on 06/28/2009
- lovetolast I'm a Fan of lovetolast 52 fans permalink
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He wants a hard way out? Ok...let's give him hard.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 01:47 PM on 06/28/2009
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