McNair Funeral: Thousands Attend In Mississippi

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Tennessee Titans quarterback Vince Young, left, speaks during the funeral service for Steve McNair in Hattiesburg, Miss., Saturday, July 11, 2009. McNair, a former NFL quarterback with the Houston Oilers, Tennessee Titans, and Baltimore Ravens, was shot to death in Nashville on July 4. (AP Photo/George Clark, Pool)

HATTIESBURG, Miss. — Titans quarterback Vince Young didn't expect to speak Saturday during his mentor's funeral. He wound up summing up the emotional day with just a few words.

"Steve was like a hero to me, and heroes are not supposed to die," Young said before stopping to rub his eyes as he talked about the man he knew from football camps as a teenager and called "Pops" _ Steve McNair, his predecessor with the Titans.

McNair was shot and killed on the Fourth of July by his girlfriend, 20-year-old Sahel Kazemi, who then shot herself in the head.

Nearly 5,000 turned out to say goodbye to the 36-year-old during one of the biggest funerals in the recent history of Mississippi, McNair's home state.

Fans and old friends filed into the Reed Green Coliseum on the campus of the University of Southern Mississippi, and McNair's family rented buses to haul in people from his hometown of Mount Olive. Not far away sat men who competed against McNair or coached him on the field.

The high school football team McNair's son plays on wore their jerseys in honor of the man they often saw smiling from the sidelines.

"Mississippi has lost a tremendous legend," said Cardell Jones, McNair's college coach at Alcorn State.

The hearse carrying McNair's silvery-gray casket was escorted 30 miles down Highway 49 by nine police officers on motorcycles and several vehicles carried family members. After the two-hour service, the procession headed back down the road for a private burial at Griffith Cemetery, about 20 miles from Mount Olive.

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Police escorted McNair's wife, Mechelle, and his mother, Lucille, into the stadium beforehand. Near the end, a handful of people surrounded his mother and his sons, waving them with fans and programs and giving hugs.

Brett Favre, who had a home near McNair's here in Hattiesburg, sat a few rows behind the McNair family but did not speak. Titans coach Jeff Fisher, Baltimore linebacker Ray Lewis and Chicago quarterback Jay Cutler attended. Doug Williams, the first black quarterback to win the Super Bowl, also was on hand.

Young was added to the service late, and the quarterback drafted by Tennessee in 2006 to replace McNair remembered him as a father and mentor. Young said he felt selfish at times taking McNair away from his four sons to help him through his own life.

He then pointed at the Oak Grove High football team sitting in the stands and told them not to give up if they have someone who inspires them.

"Pay attention to that guy because every day you know I had to hear that guy's voice," Young said.

Lewis played against McNair and was his teammate the final two years of his NFL career. Lewis said he learned studying film and proper technique wouldn't help him beat a quarterback fueled by will, heart and sacrifice.

"I find myself in awe when I speak about a man like Steve McNair," Lewis said.

Dallas Cowboys owner Jerry Jones was among those who sent flowers. Titans owner Bud Adams attended a memorial service Thursday night in Nashville, where thousands more attended. Fisher was called up to speak from the audience, and he pulled Young over to the podium and led the audience in the Lord's Prayer just as he did during 11 seasons with McNair before every kickoff.

Bobby Hamilton, who played at Southern Miss and in the NFL with New England and Oakland, used to sleep on the floor of McNair's oldest brother, Fred, when he played at Alcorn State. He also cheered on McNair during his career and recalled how McNair rallied Alcorn State once by scoring two touchdowns with less than a minute left.

"It's very painful. We know he was a warrior. ... I can't even say the word how this warrior went down," an emotional Hamilton said.

The program included memories from McNair's mother, his wife and sons, brothers, and nieces and nephews. Photos were also displayed of the quarterback who played 13 NFL seasons with Tennessee and Baltimore before retiring in 2008.

Coach Nevil Barr brought the jersey-clad Oak Grove team to the service. Steve McNair Jr. attends Oak Grove, and his father joined Favre at a summer workout two weeks ago to play catch with the kids.

"He was on our sideline every Friday night supporting his son," Barr said. "He loved to come watch Steve Jr., and we loved having him there. He always had that smile."

Deloris Cagins of nearby Columbia wore the purple and gold of McNair's alma mater, Alcorn State, and had a pompom tied to her walker. She has relatives who eventually joined her beloved Braves, where McNair made a Heisman Trophy run and set a number of NCAA Division I-AA records before going third overall in the NFL draft in 1995 to the then-Houston Oilers.

"Alcornites to me are a different breed of people," she said. "It's like a family. If you do something, we'll support you."

HATTIESBURG, Miss. — Titans quarterback Vince Young didn't expect to speak Saturday during his mentor's funeral. He wound up summing up the emotional day with just a few words. "Steve was like ...
HATTIESBURG, Miss. — Titans quarterback Vince Young didn't expect to speak Saturday during his mentor's funeral. He wound up summing up the emotional day with just a few words. "Steve was like ...
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WHO is this "girlfriend" they keep talking about? The term "girlfriend" implies that he wasn't married. How disrespectful to his wife can the media continue to be. They're trying to give this girl a better title than what she really was...a homewrecking (fill in the blank). You will never hear them call Mark Sanford's other WOMEN a girlfriend. Every article and I mean EVERY article calls them his mistress or mistresses.

SIGH...I can't help but wonder if there's some kind of racial undertone with the reporting on this case because I have yet to hear them report on a married politician with a "girlfriend."

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 03:40 PM on 07/12/2009
- dct1999 I'm a Fan of dct1999 324 fans permalink
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Just like the Katrina survivors were called refugees.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 04:30 PM on 07/12/2009
- Maka I'm a Fan of Maka 11 fans permalink

I hope all of you who come in here to cluck judgmentally about how he was a cheater and that somehow makes it pathetic for his family and friends to honor him, never have to suffer through the murder of a loved one.

Jebus, you're a cold bunch.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 10:20 AM on 07/12/2009
- lisakaz2 I'm a Fan of lisakaz2 82 fans permalink
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I don't know if it's cold but they have ignored (do they have another choice? I don't know) the very ignominious circumstances of his death. Some might feel it's like tacitly endorsing the perogatives of male pro athletes to chase tail or something. The person I feel for is his widow. She has a double if not triple burden. She has to be strong for her kids, she has to cope with her loss of husband AND she has to cope with the personal affront to her related to the fact he was cheating -- which all of them know and none of them wil openly acknowledge. She dedicated her life to this man and she never gets a chance to confront him. She has to wonder if she lived a lie. His actions have pretty much tainted her whole life with him and yet who is going to help her cope with this?

She has to be goig thru hades and then some. Is it any wonder she hasn't spoken? What can she say? She's got a lot to sort through. She might have been left a nice nestegg but at what cost to her esteem and peace of mind?

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 11:56 AM on 07/12/2009
- dct1999 I'm a Fan of dct1999 324 fans permalink
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One of the best posts on this board.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 02:00 PM on 07/12/2009
- cloudmaker I'm a Fan of cloudmaker 63 fans permalink
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It's very tragic what happened to McNair, even moreso what his wife must live with from now
on. But a true tragedy is that we have become a country that no longer honors actual heroes,
which is to say heroic, honorable and altruistic people, but men who can play a sport real well or
talented entertainers.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 08:38 AM on 07/12/2009

What about talented entertainers that are honorable and altruistic, do they count? You make it sound as if they are mutually exclusive.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 11:31 AM on 07/12/2009
- cloudmaker I'm a Fan of cloudmaker 63 fans permalink
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Obviously we should honor all people that give something of value to society,whether
they are sportsmen or any other field. My point was that we shouldn't honor people
just because their good at sports. Someone like Alonzo Mourning is, of course,
praiseworthy,

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 10:46 AM on 07/13/2009
- Bude I'm a Fan of Bude 165 fans permalink
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This "role model" concept is backasswards. We should be the role models for the professional athletes and politicians.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 08:14 AM on 07/12/2009
- MindyM I'm a Fan of MindyM 7 fans permalink

I am really shocked at some of the comments here. Nobody is perfect, people make mistakes and do things that are wrong. But this man did not deserve to die for having an affair. If every mistress killed their married lover and then committed suicide, there would be a lot of people dying every day. Like it or not, cheating happens. It's not right, but it exists. To act holier than thou and even to say that McNair deserved to die for it, is absolutely ridiculous.

We should stop being so judgemental of others and take a good look in the mirror every morning. Keep an eye on your own life and stop judging others.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 04:53 AM on 07/12/2009
- Bude I'm a Fan of Bude 165 fans permalink
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You're right. The penalty was unusually severe. Unfortunately, If he had been faithful, he would still be alive. Although it is commonplace, cheating on your spouse may be one of the nastiest things you can do to another human being. I'm still not sure if it's a mental disorder or a complete absence of ethics. I just don't know.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 08:09 AM on 07/12/2009
- jjj1951 I'm a Fan of jjj1951 4 fans permalink

"We should stop being so judgemental of others and take a good look in the mirror every morning. Keep an eye on your own life and stop judging others."

So I guess John Edward's excuse was he was feeling the tension of dealing with his wife's cancer. Or Mark Sanford's excuse was the pressures of being governor. We'll probably never know Steve's excuse. But those of us lesser beings who honor our marriage vows have reason to feel judgmental.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 10:16 AM on 07/12/2009
- cimbri I'm a Fan of cimbri 38 fans permalink
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McNair was a very good QB. He came the closest of any black qb to starting a season and winning the Super Bowl. He lost the title by 1 yard to the Rams. Heck of a game.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 03:17 AM on 07/12/2009

his wife is to be commended..because I certainly would not have sat there as a grieving widow knowing he was a cheater murdered by his mistress...for sure I would have let his mistress' family bury him.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 01:50 AM on 07/12/2009
- dct1999 I'm a Fan of dct1999 324 fans permalink
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What a poor mother she would be if she didn't attend the funeral. Her two young sons need their mother by their side as they begin dealing with this overwhelming loss.

Your statement is selfish, unthinking and unfeeling.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 09:18 AM on 07/12/2009
- jjj1951 I'm a Fan of jjj1951 4 fans permalink

If anyone was selfish in this whole sad affair it was Steve McNair.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 10:00 AM on 07/12/2009
- jamie461 I'm a Fan of jamie461 21 fans permalink

If you can't be a good example, you can at least be a terrible warning.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 01:47 AM on 07/12/2009
- PalmG I'm a Fan of PalmG 5 fans permalink

I've never heard this saying before. I like it. Might use it again.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 07:55 AM on 07/12/2009

RIP Steve

Thoughts and prayers to the McNair family

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 10:15 PM on 07/11/2009
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sorry but i find it hard to feel bad for him. his wife and son are the ones who deserve the sympathy.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 10:01 PM on 07/11/2009
- dct1999 I'm a Fan of dct1999 324 fans permalink
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Yeah, because every one who cheats on their spouse deserves to be mu....rd...ered.

Some of you people are bereft of common sense.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 10:07 PM on 07/11/2009
- WoodyCPM I'm a Fan of WoodyCPM 74 fans permalink

it isn't common sense they lack, it's compassion, mercy, reconciliation, forgiveness, peace and grace. These high minded, vengeful, moralizing nitwits on this thread turn my stomach. I want better countrymen.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 10:58 PM on 07/11/2009

Are you seriously equating adultery with murder? Seriously?! What planet are you from?

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 11:12 PM on 07/11/2009
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Black Republicrite claims Martin King was a Republicrite.

http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/21134540/vp/31866124#31866124

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 09:55 PM on 07/11/2009
- cimbri I'm a Fan of cimbri 38 fans permalink
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He voted for Eisenhower. He was a Republican and solid citizen.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 03:12 AM on 07/12/2009
- reno1190 I'm a Fan of reno1190 16 fans permalink
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DESPERATE RETHUGS

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 08:13 AM on 07/12/2009
- ToniaB I'm a Fan of ToniaB 23 fans permalink
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Yeah and I am sure he would be tickled pink to see how Racist the Republican party has become. Delusional much...?

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 09:58 AM on 07/12/2009
- memosyne I'm a Fan of memosyne 7 fans permalink

A relationship between a 38 year old man and a 20 year old woman is inherently unequal. All of us could benefit from understanding that unequal relationships are dangerous: usually emotionally, and,
in this case, criminally.
Think about it.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 09:35 PM on 07/11/2009
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RIP Steve. My thoughts and prayers are with his family and friends.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 08:40 PM on 07/11/2009
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Surprised they didn't have the service at Alcorn, his alma mater. RIP Steve, from a fellow Mississippian. Thanks for everything!

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 08:17 PM on 07/11/2009

My guess is that Lorman is further away from Mt. Olive than Hattiesburg is and the burial was at Mt. Olive. USM probably has a bigger facility, too. USM is where Steve had his football camps for kids. I am sure it was not a slight to Alcorn but just more convenient to be at USM. I, too, am a Mississippian and I thought the world of Steve McNair and I'll second what you said. Thanks for everything!

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 10:31 PM on 07/11/2009
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This is shameless..

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 07:57 PM on 07/11/2009
- robXdion I'm a Fan of robXdion 185 fans permalink
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Explain.

On 2nd thought, cancel that. You'd probably say these blacks should be wearing sackcloth with sandals and only a few family and friends should show. self-hater

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 09:08 PM on 07/11/2009
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Don't forget the bones in the nose...

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 11:58 PM on 07/12/2009
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