McNair Funeral: Thousands Attend In Mississippi

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Tennessee Titans quarterback Vince Young, left, speaks during the funeral service for Steve McNair in Hattiesburg, Miss., Saturday, July 11, 2009. McNair, a former NFL quarterback with the Houston Oilers, Tennessee Titans, and Baltimore Ravens, was shot to death in Nashville on July 4. (AP Photo/George Clark, Pool)

HATTIESBURG, Miss. — Titans quarterback Vince Young didn't expect to speak Saturday during his mentor's funeral. He wound up summing up the emotional day with just a few words.

"Steve was like a hero to me, and heroes are not supposed to die," Young said before stopping to rub his eyes as he talked about the man he knew from football camps as a teenager and called "Pops" _ Steve McNair, his predecessor with the Titans.

McNair was shot and killed on the Fourth of July by his girlfriend, 20-year-old Sahel Kazemi, who then shot herself in the head.

Nearly 5,000 turned out to say goodbye to the 36-year-old during one of the biggest funerals in the recent history of Mississippi, McNair's home state.

Fans and old friends filed into the Reed Green Coliseum on the campus of the University of Southern Mississippi, and McNair's family rented buses to haul in people from his hometown of Mount Olive. Not far away sat men who competed against McNair or coached him on the field.

The high school football team McNair's son plays on wore their jerseys in honor of the man they often saw smiling from the sidelines.

"Mississippi has lost a tremendous legend," said Cardell Jones, McNair's college coach at Alcorn State.

The hearse carrying McNair's silvery-gray casket was escorted 30 miles down Highway 49 by nine police officers on motorcycles and several vehicles carried family members. After the two-hour service, the procession headed back down the road for a private burial at Griffith Cemetery, about 20 miles from Mount Olive.

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Police escorted McNair's wife, Mechelle, and his mother, Lucille, into the stadium beforehand. Near the end, a handful of people surrounded his mother and his sons, waving them with fans and programs and giving hugs.

Brett Favre, who had a home near McNair's here in Hattiesburg, sat a few rows behind the McNair family but did not speak. Titans coach Jeff Fisher, Baltimore linebacker Ray Lewis and Chicago quarterback Jay Cutler attended. Doug Williams, the first black quarterback to win the Super Bowl, also was on hand.

Young was added to the service late, and the quarterback drafted by Tennessee in 2006 to replace McNair remembered him as a father and mentor. Young said he felt selfish at times taking McNair away from his four sons to help him through his own life.

He then pointed at the Oak Grove High football team sitting in the stands and told them not to give up if they have someone who inspires them.

"Pay attention to that guy because every day you know I had to hear that guy's voice," Young said.

Lewis played against McNair and was his teammate the final two years of his NFL career. Lewis said he learned studying film and proper technique wouldn't help him beat a quarterback fueled by will, heart and sacrifice.

"I find myself in awe when I speak about a man like Steve McNair," Lewis said.

Dallas Cowboys owner Jerry Jones was among those who sent flowers. Titans owner Bud Adams attended a memorial service Thursday night in Nashville, where thousands more attended. Fisher was called up to speak from the audience, and he pulled Young over to the podium and led the audience in the Lord's Prayer just as he did during 11 seasons with McNair before every kickoff.

Bobby Hamilton, who played at Southern Miss and in the NFL with New England and Oakland, used to sleep on the floor of McNair's oldest brother, Fred, when he played at Alcorn State. He also cheered on McNair during his career and recalled how McNair rallied Alcorn State once by scoring two touchdowns with less than a minute left.

"It's very painful. We know he was a warrior. ... I can't even say the word how this warrior went down," an emotional Hamilton said.

The program included memories from McNair's mother, his wife and sons, brothers, and nieces and nephews. Photos were also displayed of the quarterback who played 13 NFL seasons with Tennessee and Baltimore before retiring in 2008.

Coach Nevil Barr brought the jersey-clad Oak Grove team to the service. Steve McNair Jr. attends Oak Grove, and his father joined Favre at a summer workout two weeks ago to play catch with the kids.

"He was on our sideline every Friday night supporting his son," Barr said. "He loved to come watch Steve Jr., and we loved having him there. He always had that smile."

Deloris Cagins of nearby Columbia wore the purple and gold of McNair's alma mater, Alcorn State, and had a pompom tied to her walker. She has relatives who eventually joined her beloved Braves, where McNair made a Heisman Trophy run and set a number of NCAA Division I-AA records before going third overall in the NFL draft in 1995 to the then-Houston Oilers.

"Alcornites to me are a different breed of people," she said. "It's like a family. If you do something, we'll support you."

HATTIESBURG, Miss. — Titans quarterback Vince Young didn't expect to speak Saturday during his mentor's funeral. He wound up summing up the emotional day with just a few words. "Steve was like ...
HATTIESBURG, Miss. — Titans quarterback Vince Young didn't expect to speak Saturday during his mentor's funeral. He wound up summing up the emotional day with just a few words. "Steve was like ...
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- edwarvir I'm a Fan of edwarvir 36 fans permalink

RIP Mr. Steve McNair.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 02:28 PM on 07/11/2009
- robXdion I'm a Fan of robXdion 186 fans permalink
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I guess my comment was too much truth, huh HP?

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 02:14 PM on 07/11/2009
- dct1999 I'm a Fan of dct1999 329 fans permalink
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I haven't been here in almost two weeks, their bulllsheeet is getting worse and worse.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 02:21 PM on 07/11/2009
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even though we have different opinions it seems, lol, i totally agree. i'm flabbergasted of some of the benign comments that don't get posted. it's mind boggeling.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 02:27 PM on 07/11/2009
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wah wah wah

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 02:55 PM on 07/11/2009
- robXdion I'm a Fan of robXdion 186 fans permalink
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Hey, look dct1999! It's our favorite stalker. He actually had the guts to post before the blog got cold.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 03:00 PM on 07/11/2009
- dct1999 I'm a Fan of dct1999 329 fans permalink
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Some of you are funny. When did it become OK to k.i.ll someone just because your feelings were hurt? There is a lot of sympathy for this mu.rder.er.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 02:04 PM on 07/11/2009
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if we aren't 'allowed' to judge mcnair for his actions, then we shouldn't be 'allowed' to judge kazemi for hers. you can't have it both ways.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 02:13 PM on 07/11/2009
- robXdion I'm a Fan of robXdion 186 fans permalink
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McNair's actions were physically murderous, were they?

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 02:15 PM on 07/11/2009
- anghiari I'm a Fan of anghiari 22 fans permalink

She was a time bomb waitng to happen... men too ofte make the very real mistake of thinking women aren't dangerous.­..unfortun­ately I am sure the lesson is still not learned. Bet he read the Sanford Story and never fell a twinge...e­verything gets told sooner or later...me­n bare that in mind.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 03:47 PM on 07/11/2009
- sugarfree I'm a Fan of sugarfree 4 fans permalink

Todays young people are so serious they claim ownership after several dates, you don't read about its because these people are not in the news.
Girls and Boys are killing each other because they say you are mind, i live in Memphis Tn., and it
happen almost every day, some people say its the times we are living in, who knows.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 01:50 PM on 07/11/2009
- HamletsMill I'm a Fan of HamletsMill 242 fans permalink
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True. People are lacking in perspective. Is it the educational system? Is it television? Everyone needs to learn how to take a punch in life and get up and go on. Everyone needs friends and mentors. Always try to help someone who needs help. Be kind to those who cross your path in life. Pray for everyone involved and affected by this terrible tragedy. RIP Steve McNair. May both families find strength.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 01:56 PM on 07/11/2009

It's so Sad that Steve McNair was killed and I hope at this time we remember that he was a great football player and really did his best to give back to his community. We are humans and have flaws and have skeletons in our closets. Let lay his body to rest and take time to grieve then we can explore the other things in his life. RIP Air McNair

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 01:39 PM on 07/11/2009
- kutkreata I'm a Fan of kutkreata 61 fans permalink
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Amen! He did alot for our community. Seems like there are alot of people living in glass houses these days.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 01:47 PM on 07/11/2009
- linton I'm a Fan of linton 6 fans permalink
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Agreed, I always admired his tenacity and strength on the field. May he Rest in Peace.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 01:49 PM on 07/11/2009

Sorry folks but it's a bit hard to comprehend that Mrs. McNair's husband was out all night several times a week and she didn't suspect a thing? If that was my husband, I would be questioning his nights out.
Plus he may have been leaving one woman for another. Definitely a character flaw in Steve McNair. Marriage is a commitment not just "going steady". Their children are the ones who will suffer. When you think with the little head, you hurt people.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 01:35 PM on 07/11/2009
- dct1999 I'm a Fan of dct1999 329 fans permalink
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Mrs. McNair is completely and totally innocent, as are her children. Those who seek to criticize her are self-righteous, sanctimonious cre.tins.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 01:38 PM on 07/11/2009
- mlr710 I'm a Fan of mlr710 5 fans permalink

Exactly

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 02:23 PM on 07/11/2009
- ywcachieve I'm a Fan of ywcachieve 110 fans permalink

The wife said she did not know. So, that is good enough for me. You don't know what went on.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 01:39 PM on 07/11/2009
- sugarfree I'm a Fan of sugarfree 4 fans permalink

I think Mrs McNair knew something were going on, but that he would not leave her and the boys for another woman.
This 20 year was a trouble young girl from IRAN, and to me she wanted him to leave his wife for her, orther wise why kill him, if your life is all mass-up than just kill your self.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 01:43 PM on 07/11/2009
- ywcachieve I'm a Fan of ywcachieve 110 fans permalink

Mechelle said she did not know about the woman. That is what I believe.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 01:48 PM on 07/11/2009

Why the emphasis on Iran? What has that got to do with anything???

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 01:59 PM on 07/11/2009

The betrayal Mechelle must be going through right now is unbelievable. If you've ever been cheated on you'll understand the pain. I feel for her and all the children. He made his bed.... Married men, zip it up... women, stop dating married men. Most times, they don't leave their wives.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 01:30 PM on 07/11/2009
- dct1999 I'm a Fan of dct1999 329 fans permalink
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This chick wasn't a victim, she was a mur.der.er who thankfully took her own life.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 01:27 PM on 07/11/2009
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funny I read that McNair had even met with her parents and expressed his intentions of marrying her,
if you think that's not a problem, when you are married, and have no intention of ever doing such a thing then salute don Corleone

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 03:35 PM on 07/11/2009
- dct1999 I'm a Fan of dct1999 329 fans permalink
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Even if that's accurate, how does it make her a victim? People make those types of decisions all the time, how many of them end up mu. rde. red?

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 03:57 PM on 07/11/2009
- JFaye I'm a Fan of JFaye 34 fans permalink

Please stop disrespecting his WIFE... This woman was one of his mistresses. Girlfriends, or girlfriend implies he was not married.

My heart goes out to his wife, Mrs. McNair and their precious children. Her now deceased husband's lack of character and commitment to his family has victimized and made vulnerable those he supposedly loved the most. I pray for her strength and wisdom to get through this as well hopefully he had a monster-size insurance policy and they are the beneficiaries. Perhaps now she will have some peace and clarity in her life.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 01:07 PM on 07/11/2009
- jbs902 I'm a Fan of jbs902 5 fans permalink

Agree!!!! Why doesn't the media stop with the disrespect for marriage? Not only in this story but in others the press has said that the married man was dating someone etc. Call is what it is adultery. I feel for his family and my prayers go out to his wife also.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 01:22 PM on 07/11/2009

I can't agree more. The victims here are McNair's family, and let's remember Ms. Kazemi's family. No one deserves to be murdered, and of course all of us live complicated lives. But in our rush to further idolize athletes, we condone the very kind of destructive behavior that led to this tragic outcome. McNair may have done many good things, on and off the field, but he was no hero. Ask his wife; ask Ms. Kazemi's family.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 01:30 PM on 07/11/2009
- roshni I'm a Fan of roshni 169 fans permalink

Agree. The wife does not deserve disrespect. He was the one who behaved badly.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 05:34 PM on 07/11/2009
- elcojonu I'm a Fan of elcojonu 28 fans permalink

Moral of the story: Pick right.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 12:49 PM on 07/11/2009
- ywcachieve I'm a Fan of ywcachieve 110 fans permalink

Moral of the story: Don't cheat.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 12:50 PM on 07/11/2009
- elcojonu I'm a Fan of elcojonu 28 fans permalink

Gotta be realistic about life.
One is easier to accomplish than the other.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 12:53 PM on 07/11/2009
- elcojonu I'm a Fan of elcojonu 28 fans permalink

Bother picked a Psycho to have an affair with.
Gotta pickem right.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 12:43 PM on 07/11/2009
- dj5850 I'm a Fan of dj5850 14 fans permalink

elcojonu: Word.....b­ut they don't hear you tho

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 01:49 PM on 07/11/2009
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It is sexist and ageist to call Kazemi a "vulnerable young girl". The last time I checked, 20-year-olds are adults. I just turned 24 and would be furious if someone claimed that I am somehow not old enough to make my own decisions. We also don't afford the same sympathies to 20-year-old black men who shoot people.

You guys are saying that McNair should have never stepped out on his wife to begin with. (I agree with this.) Why are none of you saying that Kazemi shouldn't have been sleeping with a married man to begin with? Yes she was burned, but most 20-year-olds get burned at some point or another. It's called life. If every 20-year-old would shoot someone that they decided on their own volition to sleep with who ended up being a jerk there would be no humans left. She was not raped or forced to have sex with him.

What McNair did was wrong but he was no more wrong than the fast majority (75%) of married adults in this country. To vilify someone who was shot 4 times in their sleep is beyond low. Kazemi made the CHOICE to murder McNair and take her own life.

RIP Steve McNair!

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 12:36 PM on 07/11/2009
- 1PALady I'm a Fan of 1PALady 2 fans permalink
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I feel most sorry for McNair's children. I suspect, but cannot say for sure, that the wife must have known or felt her husband was creeping. But, the kids are innocent, and now look what they have to live with and know. There are 4 innocent children involved.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 12:26 PM on 07/11/2009
- ywcachieve I'm a Fan of ywcachieve 110 fans permalink

I find it strange how the wife gets no sympathy from you. For your information, his wife said she did not know about this woman until the murder/suicide.

My heart goes out to he wife and the children.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 12:47 PM on 07/11/2009
- SMAckley I'm a Fan of SMAckley 14 fans permalink

She must have known about the others, or the pattern, just not this particular one!

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 03:01 PM on 07/11/2009
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What a mess he made... and now they are both gone - leaving unanswered questions for Mechelle..­.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 12:17 PM on 07/11/2009
- ywcachieve I'm a Fan of ywcachieve 110 fans permalink

I really feel for Mechelle. May God give her peace. This is a hard pill to swallow for any wife.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 12:48 PM on 07/11/2009
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"Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned". Steve McNair learned this out the hard way.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 11:52 AM on 07/11/2009
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Yeah, but most scorned women don't go around giving that kind of lesson.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 12:07 PM on 07/11/2009
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