McNair Funeral: Thousands Attend In Mississippi

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Tennessee Titans quarterback Vince Young, left, speaks during the funeral service for Steve McNair in Hattiesburg, Miss., Saturday, July 11, 2009. McNair, a former NFL quarterback with the Houston Oilers, Tennessee Titans, and Baltimore Ravens, was shot to death in Nashville on July 4. (AP Photo/George Clark, Pool)

HATTIESBURG, Miss. — Titans quarterback Vince Young didn't expect to speak Saturday during his mentor's funeral. He wound up summing up the emotional day with just a few words.

"Steve was like a hero to me, and heroes are not supposed to die," Young said before stopping to rub his eyes as he talked about the man he knew from football camps as a teenager and called "Pops" _ Steve McNair, his predecessor with the Titans.

McNair was shot and killed on the Fourth of July by his girlfriend, 20-year-old Sahel Kazemi, who then shot herself in the head.

Nearly 5,000 turned out to say goodbye to the 36-year-old during one of the biggest funerals in the recent history of Mississippi, McNair's home state.

Fans and old friends filed into the Reed Green Coliseum on the campus of the University of Southern Mississippi, and McNair's family rented buses to haul in people from his hometown of Mount Olive. Not far away sat men who competed against McNair or coached him on the field.

The high school football team McNair's son plays on wore their jerseys in honor of the man they often saw smiling from the sidelines.

"Mississippi has lost a tremendous legend," said Cardell Jones, McNair's college coach at Alcorn State.

The hearse carrying McNair's silvery-gray casket was escorted 30 miles down Highway 49 by nine police officers on motorcycles and several vehicles carried family members. After the two-hour service, the procession headed back down the road for a private burial at Griffith Cemetery, about 20 miles from Mount Olive.

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Police escorted McNair's wife, Mechelle, and his mother, Lucille, into the stadium beforehand. Near the end, a handful of people surrounded his mother and his sons, waving them with fans and programs and giving hugs.

Brett Favre, who had a home near McNair's here in Hattiesburg, sat a few rows behind the McNair family but did not speak. Titans coach Jeff Fisher, Baltimore linebacker Ray Lewis and Chicago quarterback Jay Cutler attended. Doug Williams, the first black quarterback to win the Super Bowl, also was on hand.

Young was added to the service late, and the quarterback drafted by Tennessee in 2006 to replace McNair remembered him as a father and mentor. Young said he felt selfish at times taking McNair away from his four sons to help him through his own life.

He then pointed at the Oak Grove High football team sitting in the stands and told them not to give up if they have someone who inspires them.

"Pay attention to that guy because every day you know I had to hear that guy's voice," Young said.

Lewis played against McNair and was his teammate the final two years of his NFL career. Lewis said he learned studying film and proper technique wouldn't help him beat a quarterback fueled by will, heart and sacrifice.

"I find myself in awe when I speak about a man like Steve McNair," Lewis said.

Dallas Cowboys owner Jerry Jones was among those who sent flowers. Titans owner Bud Adams attended a memorial service Thursday night in Nashville, where thousands more attended. Fisher was called up to speak from the audience, and he pulled Young over to the podium and led the audience in the Lord's Prayer just as he did during 11 seasons with McNair before every kickoff.

Bobby Hamilton, who played at Southern Miss and in the NFL with New England and Oakland, used to sleep on the floor of McNair's oldest brother, Fred, when he played at Alcorn State. He also cheered on McNair during his career and recalled how McNair rallied Alcorn State once by scoring two touchdowns with less than a minute left.

"It's very painful. We know he was a warrior. ... I can't even say the word how this warrior went down," an emotional Hamilton said.

The program included memories from McNair's mother, his wife and sons, brothers, and nieces and nephews. Photos were also displayed of the quarterback who played 13 NFL seasons with Tennessee and Baltimore before retiring in 2008.

Coach Nevil Barr brought the jersey-clad Oak Grove team to the service. Steve McNair Jr. attends Oak Grove, and his father joined Favre at a summer workout two weeks ago to play catch with the kids.

"He was on our sideline every Friday night supporting his son," Barr said. "He loved to come watch Steve Jr., and we loved having him there. He always had that smile."

Deloris Cagins of nearby Columbia wore the purple and gold of McNair's alma mater, Alcorn State, and had a pompom tied to her walker. She has relatives who eventually joined her beloved Braves, where McNair made a Heisman Trophy run and set a number of NCAA Division I-AA records before going third overall in the NFL draft in 1995 to the then-Houston Oilers.

"Alcornites to me are a different breed of people," she said. "It's like a family. If you do something, we'll support you."

HATTIESBURG, Miss. — Titans quarterback Vince Young didn't expect to speak Saturday during his mentor's funeral. He wound up summing up the emotional day with just a few words. "Steve was like ...
HATTIESBURG, Miss. — Titans quarterback Vince Young didn't expect to speak Saturday during his mentor's funeral. He wound up summing up the emotional day with just a few words. "Steve was like ...
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- silvatopp I'm a Fan of silvatopp 2 fans permalink

All his friends who are saying that was not him, they are liying through their teeth, and they are hoping that their misstresses that they are creeping with does not do the same to them.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 11:51 AM on 07/11/2009
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yup - I agree... they are probably eyeballing their 'boos' a little more closely. But I highly doubt this will change the way some people view stepping out on their marriage...

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 12:18 PM on 07/11/2009
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And we see a certain segment of a community pull together again this week to celebrate one of their own freaks because they're too afraid to cull the losers from their family tree--which would make it stronger, not weaker.
Yes, I'm talking about Michael Jackson...and the Republican Party, too. Get rid of the deadwood in your own group if you ever want your own group to flourish.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 11:47 AM on 07/11/2009

euripedes923
you need to defnitely get rid of the deadwood in your group, because that is the reason the great US of A is in such a disa trous shape

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 05:55 PM on 07/11/2009

Why does the news keep calling her his "girlfriend"? Shouldn't she be his mistress?

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 11:37 AM on 07/11/2009
- VoodooDoll I'm a Fan of VoodooDoll 18 fans permalink
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She should be called "One of his girlfriends"

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 11:47 AM on 07/11/2009
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You said it right... "one' of this girlfriends... because I know she wasn't the first... but she was the last....

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 12:19 PM on 07/11/2009
- ywcachieve I'm a Fan of ywcachieve 127 fans permalink

Yep, mistress is the right word.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 12:54 PM on 07/11/2009

He was a great man?? The wife may have a different opinion.......sad

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 11:27 AM on 07/11/2009
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exactly. i'll go with, he was a great athlete.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 11:37 AM on 07/11/2009
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I think terms like "great" and "genius" are often over used, that being said:

75% of married adults have affairs. I am not saying that it is right or excusable but just because you have an affair doesn't mean that you don't take care of your children, love your spouse, etc. Humans are flawed and contradictory creatures.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 11:50 AM on 07/11/2009
- LLisaLL I'm a Fan of LLisaLL 11 fans permalink
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I don't know where you're getting your figure but you've inflated it by over 200% - statistics indicate that approx. 25% of married men have affairs and it is less for married women. Don't believe me? Do a little googling...

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 01:27 PM on 07/11/2009

Cheating on your spouse is an odd way to "love your spouse." I'm guessing that most who cheat aren't really loving their spouses.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 01:51 PM on 07/11/2009
- maryyooch I'm a Fan of maryyooch 29 fans permalink
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McNair WAS a great person. He loved his family, regardless of him having a mistress. Maybe he was going through a midlife crisis. Who knows? But to put him down because he was murdered, isn't that like blaming the victim?
McNair has done a lot of good things for his community. I know, I live here in Nashville. Nobody should be doggin him in death. They should remember his wife and four young sons who have to live with this tradgedy.
All of the posters who want to put McNair down........you need to look at your own lives before you judge others. When it comes to someones personal life, you never know what goes on behind closed doors.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 01:18 PM on 07/11/2009
- dct1999 I'm a Fan of dct1999 410 fans permalink
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He used poor judgment, he wasn't a great husband and he is going to be criticized for his actions.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 01:39 PM on 07/11/2009
- JDRNYC I'm a Fan of JDRNYC 32 fans permalink

What a great man, he obviously did a lot to uphold the sacred sanctity of marriage. I wonder what kind of response you would have gotten if you would have asked any of the mourners there what their opinion of same sex marriage was.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 11:25 AM on 07/11/2009
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Why do you care? Most married people cheat. I am not saying that it is right.

And as a cocktail waitress I had plenty of professional, suburban, republican white men ask me to have sex with them. And statistically speaking, more women cheat then men. I am sure their wives were doing the pool boy or lawn care man. Very few Americans give a ^^^^ about the sanctity of marriage. So what's your point?

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 12:09 PM on 07/11/2009
- JDRNYC I'm a Fan of JDRNYC 32 fans permalink

My point is to highlight the extreme hypocracy of all the self rightous religious people (and I'm sure there were tons of them at a black, southern memorial). They consistently vote against the rights of same sex marriage based on the fact that it would "destroy the sanctity of marriage" that all of you heteros seem to be keeping in such high esteem. And your post just supports my ascertion that the state of marriage has already been turned into a joke. That's my point, cocktail waitress.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 01:43 PM on 07/11/2009
- Okieborn I'm a Fan of Okieborn 75 fans permalink

Did his wife attend ???

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 11:22 AM on 07/11/2009
- cyndeewi I'm a Fan of cyndeewi 24 fans permalink
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Ask her!

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 11:33 AM on 07/11/2009
- jaschrod I'm a Fan of jaschrod 24 fans permalink

He was such a loving person, that he could not stop passing the love around. Just a shame that he did not love his family enough not to hurt them.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 11:22 AM on 07/11/2009
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Jack Nicholson once said "There are two people to whom one never lies ... your mistress and the police."

Two families are scarred for life and an impressionable, vulnerable twenty year old won't have one because an egotistical, rudderless jerk couldn't fill his life in a healthy manner...

Heartbreaking.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 11:19 AM on 07/11/2009
- cyndeewi I'm a Fan of cyndeewi 24 fans permalink
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Alison, you will be judged for your statement. Who you think you are? You don't know what happen. Now the man has to all these names because you don't like it. You should be ashamed of yourself.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 11:25 AM on 07/11/2009

Alison, I don't agree with Steve McNair's life style (Cheating), but to say thr 20 year old won't have one, no one told her to take her life, she made that decision. My heart goes out to both families. She could have walked away and moved on with her life, but SHE chose to do differently.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 12:18 PM on 07/11/2009
- mlr710 I'm a Fan of mlr710 5 fans permalink

Sympathies to the family and friends, and the residents of Olive for Air McNair.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 11:13 AM on 07/11/2009
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I think this guy was a selfish jerk. Not only has he ruined the life of his family, he destroyed the life of a vulernable young twenty year old girl. He was promising her that he was going to leave his wife for her, and in truth she was just his play toy. It looks like he played with the wrong person's feelings.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 11:06 AM on 07/11/2009
- mlr710 I'm a Fan of mlr710 5 fans permalink

He didnt destroy the life of a vulnerable young nothing...a psychopath killed him while he slept and then killed herself.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 11:13 AM on 07/11/2009
- cyndeewi I'm a Fan of cyndeewi 24 fans permalink
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I agree!

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 11:33 AM on 07/11/2009
- LLisaLL I'm a Fan of LLisaLL 11 fans permalink
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A crime of passion to be sure, but it was pre-meditated. She bought the gun and killed him in his sleep as opposed to grabbing a knife from the kitchen in the middle of an argument. If she were alive, she'd be facing the possiblity of the death penalty.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 01:44 PM on 07/11/2009

Um, I think what she did was much worse - SHE is the one who bought the gun, SHE is the one who murdered him. His adultery kind of pales in comparison.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 11:23 AM on 07/11/2009
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It's not a question of "who's worse". The point is he wasn't some knight in shining armor.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 12:00 PM on 07/11/2009
- dct1999 I'm a Fan of dct1999 410 fans permalink
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How did he "play with her feelings"?

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 11:34 AM on 07/11/2009
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20-year-olds are grown adults. We have 20-year-olds who go off to wars, own homes, and raise families. She was not a child. You are acting as if McNair was a pedophile. I am female and turned 24 last month. Her gender and age does not make her somehow more innocent and as a young female I am offended that you would describe her in such terms. 20-year-old WOMEN (not girls) know exactly what they are doing. Many young women are burned, it's called growing up and you chuck it up to a learning experience. Most don't become homicidal.

She was the one that bought the gun and decided to murder him. I am not saying that adultery is right but it's something that 75% of married individuals (mostly women) do. Cheating is wrong but murder is far worse. Couples can get over cheating, there is no getting over bullet wounds to the head.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 11:56 AM on 07/11/2009
- papapj I'm a Fan of papapj 29 fans permalink
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Excellent analysis.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 02:58 PM on 07/11/2009

Yes the young lady was vulnerable, yes he behaved selfishly, but no he did not deserve to die and she made the wrong decision. Playing with emotions is a serious matter, for men and women and this should teach people to be more humble and stop trying to fulfill a void in your life at the expense of someone else...you never know who you may break. His children do not deserve to be fatherless, nor does his mother deserve to bury her child. This young woman could've moved on with her life in some way...sad situation all around.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 01:13 PM on 07/11/2009

It's a shame the way he died but you can tell he certainly was adored by many.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 10:51 AM on 07/11/2009
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He wasn't "adored" by them--he entertained them with football. That's not the same thing.

The only people here who really adored him were his family--and he let them down, bigtime.

It's a tragedy the whole way around. May they both rest in peace.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 11:30 AM on 07/11/2009
- dct1999 I'm a Fan of dct1999 410 fans permalink
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He helped many people; he did more than entertain. Many people loved him, not just his family. He made mistakes, that doesn't negate the good he did.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 11:36 AM on 07/11/2009
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He did more than just play football. He helped his community.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 11:57 AM on 07/11/2009
- negbike I'm a Fan of negbike 2 fans permalink

wow! what a sad turn of events. Rest in Peace. whatever the case may be, he always seemed like a gentle person and i was very surpirised to learn of all this that has come out.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 10:44 AM on 07/11/2009
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