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JIM DAVENPORT | July 15, 2009 03:39 PM EST | AP

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FILE - In this Wednesday, June 24, 2009 file photo, South Carolina Gov. Mark Sanford tearfully admits to having an affair during a news conference in Columbia, S.C. Sanford has cleared his schedule this week to take a personal trip with his wife, three weeks after announcing his extramarital affair with an Argentine woman, his office announced Wednesday, July 15, 2009. (AP Photo/Mary Ann Chastain, File)

COLUMBIA, S.C. — South Carolina Gov. Mark Sanford headed out of state Wednesday for personal time with his wife, as the two try to reconcile, and skipped a meeting with a top economic adviser ahead of what's expected to be more bad economic news including rising joblessness.

Sanford spokesman Joel Sawyer refused to say where the Sanfords were headed or how they were getting there, but allowed they won't be traveling with their four sons. Sanford is in the midst of trying to reconcile with first lady Jenny Sanford after a tearful confession of an affair with an Argentine woman, Maria Belen Chapur.

"This trip is personal in nature, and we're not going to offer any further comment," Sawyer said. "The governor remains committed to repairing the damage he's done to his marriage, and so it shouldn't be any surprise that spending personal time with his wife is a part of that process."

Sawyer said meetings skipped this week will be rescheduled.

A month ago when the state's unemployment numbers came out and set a record, Sanford was with Chapur in Argentina. He later called her "the love of his life" and his "soul mate."

Sanford had no public schedule this week, but had private meetings planned, including one with John Rainey, the chairman of the state Board of Economic Advisors. That state revenue oversight board is expected to reduce its forecast Thursday and likely trigger across-the-board spending cuts at agencies. The state's spending has fallen by more than $1.2 billion in the past 12 months, or nearly a fifth.

On Friday, the state's unemployment numbers are expected. South Carolina's jobless rate in May was 12.1 percent, a record for the state and the nation's third highest behind Michigan and Oregon. That news broke a day after Sanford slipped his security detail and headed to Argentina.

Legislators aren't criticizing his effort to repair his marriage, but question his timing and ability to keep his eye on the state's affairs.

The reconciliation effort "doesn't negate the fact that we've got some serious, critical problems in the budget that is hemorrhaging every day because of the employment situation and the weak economy that requires our best efforts," said state Sen. Larry Martin, a Pickens Republican who has called on Sanford to resign.

"I think his preoccupation with his personal life right now is certainly expected but doesn't serve the state very well," Martin said.

Senate Minority Leader John Land is happy Sanford is working on his family problems, but noted the economy's ills demand his attention, too. "I think he does need to be here to manage that and to do whatever he can to improve the unemployment rate and the decline in revenue we're suffering in the state," said the Manning Democrat.

Sanford, who said he intends to remain in office and repair the damage he's caused, has had virtually no public schedule since details of his affair emerged from extensive interviews with The Associated Press two weeks ago. The Republican chief executive tearfully described details of the Chapur affair and disclosed dalliances with other women without providing details beyond saying they stopped short of sex.

Sanford had disappeared for six days in June to visit Chapur even though first lady Jenny Sanford had told him not to see the woman again. She had discovered the affair in January and allowed her husband to visit Chapur in New York City to break off the relationship. The Sanfords would later go through weeks of sessions with other couples to save their marriage.

COLUMBIA, S.C. — South Carolina Gov. Mark Sanford headed out of state Wednesday for personal time with his wife, as the two try to reconcile, and skipped a meeting with a top economic adviser ah...
COLUMBIA, S.C. — South Carolina Gov. Mark Sanford headed out of state Wednesday for personal time with his wife, as the two try to reconcile, and skipped a meeting with a top economic adviser ah...
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I wonder if his spiritual advisor is with them.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 08:38 PM on 07/15/2009
- MamaBird62 I'm a Fan of MamaBird62 85 fans permalink

I'm sure Jenny has some advice for his "spirit."

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 09:10 PM on 07/15/2009

this guy have trouble sleeping with women in his own state or something?

he's gotta leave to do everything apparently

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 08:36 PM on 07/15/2009

Maybe it was Colonel Mustard in the library with a lead pipe?

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 08:36 PM on 07/15/2009
- LibKitty I'm a Fan of LibKitty 19 fans permalink
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I was just thinking....if my husband was living at the C Street house, I think I would hire a PI to find out what he was up to. It just seems that those guys are up to no good and are covering for each other.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 08:35 PM on 07/15/2009
- roads I'm a Fan of roads 7 fans permalink

BINGO !!

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 08:41 PM on 07/15/2009
- Oonagh I'm a Fan of Oonagh 30 fans permalink

I would think so.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 09:14 PM on 07/15/2009
- roshni I'm a Fan of roshni 164 fans permalink

absolutely. It's the sanctimonious religious bunch who need to be watched extra carefully.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 09:18 PM on 07/15/2009
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Frat pack

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 09:24 PM on 07/15/2009
- weatherwaxx I'm a Fan of weatherwaxx 255 fans permalink

How long do you think a woman would stay Governor if she ran out of town to reconcile with Hubby after cheating?

I don't count Quitter of Alaska... I mean real women governors.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 08:30 PM on 07/15/2009
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Depends on which spouse the whip.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 08:33 PM on 07/15/2009
- faithnj I'm a Fan of faithnj 4 fans permalink
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good point.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 08:33 PM on 07/15/2009
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Woman would not be able to get away with it...nor for that matter any Democrat.

THat Sanford is a complete sap....had higher hopes for the wife.What does it mean to reconcile when your husband has babbled ad nauseum about his soulmate? Yuck.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 08:38 PM on 07/15/2009
- roshni I'm a Fan of roshni 164 fans permalink

Honestly, I don't think a lot of men would put up with this degree of infidelity - soul mate and all.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 09:19 PM on 07/15/2009
- springsm I'm a Fan of springsm 51 fans permalink

As weak as I think he is...he did NOT "skip town". They know where he will be even though he will be out of contact a lot. He is trying, I suppose to forget his lover and patch it with his wife. Unfortunately it will probably not work. He needs to talk her in to divorcing him for alienation of affection so she can keep her very strong pride ego and let him quit and run off to Argentian...if SHE will have him.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 08:29 PM on 07/15/2009
- roshni I'm a Fan of roshni 164 fans permalink

Is he attending to state's business? Apparently he is missing in action while unemployment figures come out. Doesn't seem as though he cares too much about his job right now.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 09:20 PM on 07/15/2009

This man seems a little off> Shouldn't he resign and let someone else with less personal problems be the Governor of SC?

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 08:29 PM on 07/15/2009
- fedupinfla I'm a Fan of fedupinfla 48 fans permalink
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Absolutely!!! Someone that doesn't have to leave town to either fix his marriage or ruin it...

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 08:47 PM on 07/15/2009
- ohio4obama I'm a Fan of ohio4obama 16 fans permalink

"Little"??? The size of this man's ego is nauseating.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 09:40 PM on 07/15/2009

Gov. Sanford better be careful. I have a funny feeling if they're on a cruise ship or hiking in the mountains, he might end up being pushed overboard or off a cliff.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 08:27 PM on 07/15/2009
- roshni I'm a Fan of roshni 164 fans permalink

I would have more respect for his wife if that were true.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 09:20 PM on 07/15/2009
- jugganaut I'm a Fan of jugganaut 12 fans permalink

One thing we know for sure, he's DEFINITELY not getting any booty on THIS trip.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 08:21 PM on 07/15/2009
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It's his duty to chase that booty.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 08:27 PM on 07/15/2009
- roshni I'm a Fan of roshni 164 fans permalink

he is "working hard to fall back in love" with the former booty.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 09:21 PM on 07/15/2009
- Rinehart I'm a Fan of Rinehart 7 fans permalink

Not so fast. Jenny may have packed a couple of wigs, a couple of Barry White CDs, she may be ready to recapture her inner freak, Mark better be ready. She probably need it more than he does.

Why do people wait till after the fact, why weren't these weekend getaways a regular thing?

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 08:29 PM on 07/15/2009
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........because raising 4 sons probably means your weekend getaways are at the soccer/bas­eball/foot­ball field, until they are grown and move out of your house.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 08:35 PM on 07/15/2009
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how (or why, for that matter) do you save a marriage if you are not married to the person you publicly declare as the love of your life? why do you go to the trouble of running for public office when you obviously have more important things to do than go to work and do your job?

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 08:13 PM on 07/15/2009
- faithnj I'm a Fan of faithnj 4 fans permalink
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why??? It's his responsiblity to figure out how to stay with the women he made a promise to, and raise his 4 kids with her. i don't care what religion you follow, or even if you don't have a religion-- we all know if you make a promise, you're supposed to keep your word, regardless of how you feel. nobody is happy with people who break commitments just because they say "I don't feel like it." jmo.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 08:41 PM on 07/15/2009
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one doesnt owe a marriage commitment to someone with whom the situation is over except the raising of the kids. only a control freak would think that way. kids are happier and better off having good relationship with both divorced parents than suffering thru the phony unity-because-of a-long-ago-promise crap in a marriage full of phoniness.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 08:52 PM on 07/15/2009
- LibKitty I'm a Fan of LibKitty 19 fans permalink
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Do you really think staying in a loveless marriage is better for the children? Do you really think Skippy is setting a good example for his sons? Do you really think Jenny is setting a good example by staying with a man who doesn't love or respect her? By staying with a man who humiliates her on national TV, Jenny is telling her sons that they don't need to love or respect women. Sorry, it's time for both of them to move on, for the sake of the children.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 09:00 PM on 07/15/2009
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So the "love story" with the mistress is over?

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 08:12 PM on 07/15/2009
- roads I'm a Fan of roads 7 fans permalink

I'm betting....NO. Stay tuned...

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 08:13 PM on 07/15/2009
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It cracks me up when men cheat on their wives with a younger looking version of their wives. I looked up Maria Belen Chapur, and she's basically Jenny Sanford minus 10 years plus an accent. And for what? To lose everything he has? I hope it was worth it, but I doubt it.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 08:12 PM on 07/15/2009
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But....but....it wasn't just a fling.....it was "a love story". Don'tcha know.....

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 08:17 PM on 07/15/2009
- blues101 I'm a Fan of blues101 37 fans permalink
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He just isn't into his wife. Looks aren't everything, he did mention "soulmate" as if his wife couldn't be that.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 09:16 PM on 07/15/2009
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Relationship advice to all you guys out there...

If you want to make up with the wife do not go on national television to call the other woman your 'soul mate' and 'the love of your life'. Compounding infidelity with national humiliation is not wise.

This marriage is over. What is going to occur is a negotiation where they will pretend to not get a divorce so that Sanford's political career might remain salvageable.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 08:08 PM on 07/15/2009
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thanks for taking the words out of my mouth!

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 08:13 PM on 07/15/2009
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Palin/Sanford or Sanford/Palin in 2012? What fun!

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 08:28 PM on 07/15/2009
- blues101 I'm a Fan of blues101 37 fans permalink
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I wonder which Sanford!

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 09:17 PM on 07/15/2009
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This sounds like a bad trailer for some steamy Southern gothic-noir seductress flick. I can see him in a white tank top, smoking a cigarette in the window while she writhes in the satin sheets.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 08:08 PM on 07/15/2009

Tapper probably knows where Sanford is since he has been known to carry water for him

http://www.dailykos.com/story/2009/7/15/753658/-ABCs-Jake-Tapper-officially-revealed-as-right-wing-tool.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 08:08 PM on 07/15/2009
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