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Japan: 2-D Romances With Comic Book Characters A Thriving Subculture Phenomenon

Huffington Post   First Posted: 08/24/09 06:12 AM ET Updated: 05/25/11 02:45 PM ET

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The New York Times magazine has an interesting story this week by Lisa Katayama on what is described as a "thriving subculture" whereby comic book fans publicly date fictional characters, printed on a 2-D surface such as a pillowcase, which they carry around on dates, vacations, shopping and basically anywhere they go. The story centers on one comic fanatic in particular, referred to simply as Nisan, who has for three years dated Nemutan, a character from an x-rated computer game (printed on a pillowcase). From the Times:

Nisan is part of a thriving subculture of men and women in Japan who indulge in real relationships with imaginary characters. These 2-D lovers, as they are called, are a subset of otaku culture-- the obsessive fandom that has surrounded anime, manga and video games in Japan in the last decade. It's impossible to say exactly what portion of otaku are 2-D lovers, because the distinction between the two can be blurry. Like most otaku, the majority of 2-D lovers go to work, pay rent, hang out with friends (some are even married). Unlike most otaku, though, they have real romantic feelings for their toys. The less extreme might have a hidden collection of figurines based on anime characters that they go on "dates" with during off hours. A more serious 2-D lover, like Nisan, actually believes that a lumpy pillow with a drawing of a prepubescent anime character on it is his girlfriend.

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In Japan the fetishistic love for two-dimensional characters is enough of a phenomenon to have earned its own slang word, moe, homonymous with the Japanese words for "burning" or "budding." In an ideal moe relationship, a man frees himself from the expectations of an ordinary human relationship and expresses his passion for a chosen character, without fear of being judged or rejected.


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The New York Times magazine has an interesting story this week by Lisa Katayama on what is described as a "thriving subculture" whereby comic book fans publicly date fictional characters, printed on a...
The New York Times magazine has an interesting story this week by Lisa Katayama on what is described as a "thriving subculture" whereby comic book fans publicly date fictional characters, printed on a...
 
 
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11:16 PM on 07/24/2009
Attention: All of this is ONE WAY.
I know the article makes it SOUND like it is evenly across the sexes but I know for a fact that the majority of this is male sided. For all you American guys who love Asian girls this means that a ton of Japanese girls are being ignored.

Silly repressed Japanese men.
08:13 PM on 07/24/2009
2 words: Anime RealDolls.

Once they invent that, game over.
08:35 PM on 07/24/2009
They have those.
08:04 PM on 07/24/2009
I'm guessing only the people doing this would refer to it as "dating". To spectators, it's "hey look at the loser"
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07:24 PM on 07/24/2009
Mmmm..... baby.... your 600/inch thread count... so fine

Oooooo... I just love it what you use bleach....
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07:26 PM on 07/24/2009
*when
07:21 PM on 07/24/2009
What's the difference between that and being in love with someone you've only met on FaceBook?
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07:26 PM on 07/24/2009
Well, at least the people on facebook are REAL imposters.
07:40 PM on 07/24/2009
Or an avatar in a MMORPG? I witnessed a relationship crumble over a friends infatuation with a woman he met playing Everquest. She led him on, until he finally decided to throw his real relationship away and meet her. She quit the game, disappeared and destroyed (with his help, of course) his life.

I'd like to see a comic character pull that off.
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07:18 PM on 07/24/2009
Uh... Mom... Dad... this is the pillowcase I'm going to marry.
06:01 PM on 07/24/2009
Sorry to be clueless, but I do not get it. I understand "Otaku" is basically Japanese for "nerd" or "geek" -- but with a heavy techno flavor. Fine.

But I do not see how one can have a relationship with an imaginary character. Pls explain. And pls to it in gaming terms, like "noob" and "pwn". Ty.
09:37 PM on 07/24/2009
Well Otaku means more along the lines of someone who is obsessed with a particular subject/hobby (anime, photography, garage kits, etc.) to the point where it makes them a social outcast or looked down upon by society in general. It is a lot "meaner" term than nerd or geek.

As far as how someone can have a relationship with an imaginary character, I look at it no differently than someone having a crush on an actress. The whole going out on dates with inanimate objects is just a logical progression for someone who can't cope with societal norms and fears rejection.

In gamer terms, "These noobs got pwned by a chixor and now play solo campaigns."
05:52 PM on 07/24/2009
I find it kind of refreshing that 'moe' is not judged or rejected in Japan. An American would not fare so well. We are judged on every aspect of our existence.
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07:17 PM on 07/24/2009
it is judged and rejected by many in Japan, and has prompted the police to pay close attention to members of the community whom they believe may be involved in sexually motivated crimes. it has also sparked public demand for firmer restrictions on sexually explicit comic book, video games, and such. terminology related to this "extreme fanatic" subculture is considered by many in Japan to be insulting - i.e., most Japanese people would feel insulted to be referred to as "moe" or "otaku" or any of the related terms.

there's nothing "refreshing" about this story. it speaks to potential psychological problems in adults who believe themselves to be involved in romantic relationships with drawing of fictional characters. this behavior is by no means the "norm" in Japanese culture, nor should it be considered as such.
07:34 PM on 07/24/2009
Well, if that's the case, then I misinterpreted the article, or the article is purposely misleading. Either way, your reply points out Japan's inability to stay the hell out of their citizens personal lives. If these people are doing no harm to others, what's the problem?

And nowhere in this article, or my comment is there even the slightest hint that this is the 'norm', so please don't imply it.
05:37 PM on 07/24/2009
Just in time for Comicon! But it's an odd term - here in the West, we just call our 2-D lovers - porn!
06:01 PM on 07/24/2009
Too funny.
04:44 PM on 07/24/2009
creepy
03:24 PM on 07/24/2009
I've spent time in Japan. Very repressed people everywhere.
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Don't Ask, Don't Tell is better suited to religion
02:49 PM on 07/24/2009
I guess "Insane" is relative.
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02:46 PM on 07/24/2009
Finally, someone RepubliKans can connect with.
03:24 PM on 07/24/2009
...errr..that's spelled: Republiklans. =D
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OceanSize
Don't Ask, Don't Tell is better suited to religion
06:05 PM on 07/27/2009
I prefer "al-Qaipublicans" as the correct spelling. They are only interested in destroying, no interest in building.
05:18 PM on 07/24/2009
Unless you are knowledgeable about the situation and why people do this don't dare insult them by comparing them with Republicans. No should be compared to Republicans.
02:20 PM on 07/24/2009
I am loathe to judge... and I may be, but... what does this say about the state of man today in the year 2009 AD?
Someday we'll lose all desire for human contact ... and extinctivise (I just made that up) ourselves.
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05:16 PM on 07/24/2009
Dude they're Japanese. They've always been like this. Don't worry, you'll never find an Italian, Frenchman, Spaniard, or Romanian ever love their pillow. If the rest of you fail, we will continue carrying the passion of life as we have done for thousands of years.
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Fear a Blank Planet
05:25 PM on 07/24/2009
Right. There are NO otaku anywhere besides Japan.
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06:12 PM on 07/24/2009
u must be Romanian