George Sodini, Health Club Gunman, Went On Rampage Over Sexual Rejection

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JOE MANDAK and BEN DOBBIN | 08/ 6/09 08:16 PM | AP

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A candlelight vigil is held at the City-County Building in downtown Pittsburgh Thursday, Aug. 6, 2009 in memory of three women shot and killed while in an exercise class at LA Fitness in Bridgeville, Pa.. Police say a gunman opened fire after walking into the exercise class at the club Tuesday night Aug. 4, 2009. (AP Photo/Gene J. Puskar)

PITTSBURGH — Before opening fire on an aerobics class, George Sodini wrote about feeling lonely and rejected – yet those very characteristics put him in the company of other mass killers whose isolation helped create a murderous cocktail.

Sodini's deadly rampage at a suburban Pittsburgh health club shares threads with other massacres analyzed by psychiatrists and legal experts, who say the line between lonely and homicidal remains hard to place.

"These people get into a very self-centered, sometimes self-aggrandizing, often psychotic path that enables them, in their mind, to finally get the attention they crave," New York attorney Carolyn Wolf, whose firm specializes in mental health issues, told The Associated Press in a telephone interview Thursday.

The 48-year-old Sodini fatally shot himself after killing three women and wounding nine others attending a weekly Latin dance aerobics class in Collier Township on Tuesday night. He wore black workout gear and fumbled around in a duffel bag before producing three guns, firing indiscriminately after shutting off the lights.

Killed were Heidi Overmier, 46, of Carnegie, a sales manager at an amusement park; Jody Billingsley, 37, of Mount Lebanon, who worked for a medical-supply company; and Elizabeth Gannon, 49, of Pittsburgh, an X-ray technician at Allegheny General Hospital.

About 75 people turned out in downtown Pittsburgh for a vigil Thursday night to remember the victims, offering prayers, lighting candles and observing a moment of silence. Pittsburgh Mayor Luke Ravenstahl was among those who attended.

Funerals are planned Saturday for Gannon and Overmier and Wednesday for Billingsley.

Police say Sodini didn't know his victims. His scathing, 4,000-plus-word blog reads like a monthslong diary lamenting his wrongful rejection by "30 million" American women and alluding to his plans.

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When Virginia Tech gunman Seung-Hui Cho killed 32 people at Virginia Tech in 2007, then committed suicide, his "message" was a video tirade to NBC railing about being overlooked by "snobs" and rich "brats."

When Jiverly Wong killed 13 people and himself at a Binghamton, N.Y., immigration center in April, it was uncovered that unemployment, perceived police persecution, mockery for poor English skills and a dose of psychosis led him to kill.

While their grievances, lifestyles and mental states varied widely – Cho and Wong had documented mental problems, while, so far, there's no indication Sodini did – Wolf said their choice to kill others, and not just themselves, shows they had one thing in common.

"They're thinking, 'I want everyone to understand and appreciate why I'm doing this,' and the way to do that, in their mind, is to kill other people and not just themselves," Wolf said. "In their mind it sends a broader message."

Many mass murderers feel rejected by a "pseudo community" that may exist only in their minds, said Dr. James Knoll, a forensic psychiatrist at the State University of New York's Upstate Medical University in Syracuse. He spoke Thursday at a conference he organized to analyze the actions of Wong and Cho.

"He probably worked out at this gym, he was tanning and working out, trying to improve himself," Knoll said of Sodini. "These are things he thought would get him a relationship. It wasn't working."

Dr. Michael Welner is a forensic psychiatrist and associate professor at New York University and frequent expert witness in criminal matters, including two other mass shootings near Pittsburgh about nine years ago.

On March 1, 2000, a black man named Ronald Taylor killed three white men, including a handyman fixing his apartment door, and police later found a racist screed in his home. Less than two months later, Richard Baumhammers, a white unemployed immigration lawyer, killed five ethnic minorities after frequenting racist Web sites.

Neither man tried suicide, and both were convicted of murder. Yet both, Welner said, had something in common with Sodini: They were chronic failures with women and isolated loners who "diverted their masculinity to destructive episodes that make them significant and larger than life."

In his Web diary, Sodini wrote that his anger stemmed from unfulfilled desire: The women at his gym "look so beautiful as to not be human," he wrote.

Two undated videos apparently recorded by Sodini were posted on Starcasm.net showing him touring his home and talking about hiding his emotions and trying to "emotionally connect" with people.

He notes that a sofa and chair in his living room match and says, "women will really be impressed." He also focuses on reading material on a table that includes a book titled "Date Young Women."

Wong, the Binghamton shooter, sent a message – but it wasn't received until three days later, when a letter he wrote arrived at News 10 Now in Syracuse. In it, he repeated a psychotic fantasy he'd had for years about undercover police officers dogging him.

Sodini spoke to his mother by cell phone shortly before entering the fitness club, said Charles Moffatt, Allegheny County police superintendent. He wouldn't say what they discussed.

It's unclear when Sodini posted his screeds and videos and whether they were meant as warnings. Dr. Alan Manevitz, a psychiatrist at New York Presbyterian/Weill Cornell hospital, said the timing of such messages means everything.

"Someone who puts it out in advance may have ambivalence; they may want to be stopped," Manevitz said. "The guy who does it after the fact is leaving the explanation, the diary of what it is that they're hoping will be understood in their very irrational mind."

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Ben Dobbin reported from Syracuse, N.Y.

PITTSBURGH — Before opening fire on an aerobics class, George Sodini wrote about feeling lonely and rejected – yet those very characteristics put him in the company of other mass killers w...
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And now they're even making music videos about george sodini. Is it too early for this?? http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gO4ONBR09b4

It seems to take the side of ridiculing sodini, calling him a coward and sexual failure. It's called 30 million can't be wrong.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 03:54 PM on 08/26/2009

Limbaugh, Pawlenty, Jindal, Sodini...Girlie men who can't get laid!!!

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 09:31 PM on 08/07/2009

So many of you people here think that George was self-centered or crazy ... and psychiatrists didn't spot his mental illness ... That seems to be the thrust of most of the messages here.

But what about the hard reality of UNDISCUSSABILITY ? I have been banned from a few onloine chat rooms for bringing up the subject of sexual deprivation. And in any in-person gathering of frinds any mention of sexual deprivation leads to immediately becoming an outcast.

My guess is that George Sodini wasn't motivated by selfishness. His experience of chronic rejection, combined with the above-mentioned UNDISCUSSABILITY was just too much to endure.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 11:25 PM on 08/08/2009

Limbaugh/Sodini 2012!!!

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 09:27 PM on 08/07/2009
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This guy’s life was ruined because he believed that male and female roles in the dating game have switched since “leave it to beaver” times – he believed all that is marketed and shown on TV, movies, magazines — the idea that “women pursue men” aggressively nowadays vs say the 1950’s – so he waited and waited for that special girl to come along and choose him - – problem is, thats only the "image" we have been sold with women’s lib, sex and the city, etc – its still largely up to a man to choose and pursue a woman, man is the aggressor in the mating game , always has been, always will be – its just how we are wired – this guy hoped and prayed that girls would go out of their way to pursue him, as many guys do, its a dangerous idea that will leave you out in the cold ,perpetually in the friend zone, lonely and utterly miserable

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 08:33 AM on 08/07/2009

I don't think he was waiting for women to pursue him at all. I think he tried and wasn't successful pursuing women. On Sex and the City, the women wait, they make themselves accessible to men, but they usually do not initiate. The messages society still sends strongly is that women wait, men pursue - as a female I do not know where you would find this scenario.

As far as being 'wired' to do this, this is a problem I see with much of the thinking regarding male and female roles. In actuality, we are wired to do little at birth, we are conditioned by society to assume certain roles.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 09:16 PM on 08/07/2009

My wife and I have found insight from "The Gift of Fear: Survival Signals" by Gavin De Becker. The theme of the book is how to keep yourself safe. Also protecting your employees etc. The single biggest point is, Listen to your instincts.

One point of De Becker is that these types don't "just snap", that trouble develops in stages. This guy, for instance, had been building up to this for months. If you can recognize the earlier stages of trouble brewing, you may be able to avoid the person, or to find ways to de-fuse the situation before the guy packs a gun. Note that to the victims of this shooting, the build-up was invisible. It was much too late for the victims of this shooting.

The book doesn't say anything about "curing" the person. Nor about the pros and cons of self-defense courses or of arming oneself. Those things are outside the scope of this book.

Note that I am NOT implying that the victims of this shooting could have protected themselves. As a survivor of assault, I understand that it's important to keep one thing straight: It was HIS responsibility. They arrived at the gym, and it was already too late for them to save themselves.

There is also an excellent sequel about how to protect your kids.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 04:59 AM on 08/07/2009
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What a freak. I know all about loneliness, I get suicidal because of it. I have been out of work a long time but I have heaps of great female friends. We meet often as we are involved in human rights issues. Sounds like this guy could not find female company. I mean he had a job! I get rejected as I have no job. I love women. Did he?

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 10:50 PM on 08/06/2009
- Chaimirija I'm a Fan of Chaimirija 56 fans permalink
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No.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 09:19 AM on 08/07/2009

So theoretically, how would a government law or regulation have changed this situation? I'm not being sarcastic-- I'm genuinely curious because what I understand about background checks it wouldn't have included finding the guy's blog. Don't they only look up past criminal records and things like that? If this guy had a clean police record and seemed like a 'nice guy' (dangerous phrase apparently, but I mean it in the context that the gun store owner didn't deem him as an immediate threat), would he have not gotten a gun still? If people were required to undergo more checks before purchasing a gun, how far would be necessary in your opinion?

We know that just because something is illegal or regulated it doesn't mean someone won't still do whatever that is illegally and cause harm. If a lonely and depressed person snaps, would they not simply pick an alternative method? It seems to me that a person wanting to kill others and then himself wouldn't just cancel his plans at that point.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 09:18 PM on 08/06/2009
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I clicked on the link for his blog, and it only showed pics of a trip he took to LA, a car he had for sale, and a meme for "life and death". I'm not surprised his "blog" was deleted.

From all I did read of the blog (on other sources), it seemed that he didn't want to do it. He could had done it in January, but didn't. He started bodybuilding and seemed to like the results. But apparently a blog entry describing his fears of unemployment seemed to be the final nail on his coffin, if you will. The final failure.

It's interesting that his victims were in their thirties and forties, though he apparently liked younger women. I know he didn't know the women he shot; it's an observation on my part.

All I can say is that we know that he didn't have to do what he did, and it's obvious his blog was a cry for help. But like most men, he didn't know how to ask for help. Nor, it seems, did he know how to approach a woman for friendship and romance. It was his own delusional, self-defeating thoughts that created the negative vibe around him and ultimately did him and the three women in. This is truly tragic, and it won't do the memories of the women he killed to comment negatively on this horrible act.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 07:14 PM on 08/06/2009
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He said "look so beautiful as to not be human". Psychopaths always dehumanize the victims.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 06:36 PM on 08/06/2009
- lkim65 I'm a Fan of lkim65 17 fans permalink

Did it ever occur to him that women weren't attracted to him because he was whacko?!

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 05:17 PM on 08/06/2009

That gets my vote. Therapy would have been far more help than books or matching furniture.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 06:55 PM on 08/06/2009
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Has no one commented on the presence of the large black punching bag in this guy's basement ?

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 05:13 PM on 08/06/2009
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Roid rage?

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 05:31 PM on 08/06/2009
- jasev01 I'm a Fan of jasev01 10 fans permalink

They say women drive men to do crazy things.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 04:49 PM on 08/06/2009

women don't say that... at least none I've ever met

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 06:56 PM on 08/06/2009
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Remove the murdering people part and there's several thousand of this guy on match.com, eHarmony, et al right now. Normal blokes with average incomes and average lives who want to connect with a woman who'll make them believe they're actually 10 or 20 years younger than they are. That's sad enough.

I'm surprised people are buying into the 'he was lonely', 'why couldn't he connect with women' theme. Remember that was HIS assessment. From the same brain that decided shooting up an aerobics class was a really good idea.

The guy's crazy. Not a metaphor for Life In These United States. Just crazy.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 04:47 PM on 08/06/2009
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He's wasn't really unattractive, his must have have a slimy personality. My heart goes out to the family and friends of the women he killed and the others that were injured.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 04:15 PM on 08/06/2009
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By focusing on the fittest women who were 20 years younger, he wasn't increasing his odds. If you want to be accepted for who you are, you have to be accepting of others. He might have had a shot at women who were "in his league" if he weren't a complete narcissistic whack job.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 04:42 PM on 08/06/2009
- Skiwee I'm a Fan of Skiwee 13 fans permalink
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So true!

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 05:04 PM on 08/06/2009

Advice for other narcissistic whack jobs out there who have been chrinacally rejected:

1) If you form a good relationship with someone in your league, then you might feel some twinge of desire for those who are more attractive; but you'll be surprised at how easy it is to cope with. That has worked for me.

2) I have, for years and years been rejected even by women who were my age and older, and even in a single's cluf where I was one of the youngest ones there and the ratio couldn't be more favorable. And even one of the elderly and unattractive ones said to me, "Oh, you just want to study medicine. I don't need anybody's services!"

If the second is your problem, then try a libido reduction medication; it has worked for me. Befrore taking it, I usually couldn't think about anything but sex and wanting reledf from my suffering. After taking it, I felt SO LIBERATED! Now I can go for considerable periods without any affection from any woman and still not feel that sex is the most important thing in life.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 12:40 PM on 08/11/2009

"pencil-head", "earser-head" deeek head are just a few adjectives one might use to describe this objectionable human blob.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 04:12 PM on 08/06/2009
- nootrope I'm a Fan of nootrope 9 fans permalink
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Congratulations - that's probably exactly what people like you called him when he was a kid that screwed him up to begin with. ::rolleyes::

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 04:15 PM on 08/06/2009
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This guy was a fruitcake. Plenty of people are tormented as children but they don't choose to blow random people away when they are near half a century.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 04:38 PM on 08/06/2009
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