KENNEDY MEMOIR: Chappaquiddick "Inexcusable"

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FILE--In a July 25, 1969 file photo Sen. Edward Kennedy is escorted by troopers as he leaves court in Edgartown, Mass., after pleading guilty to a charge of leaving the scene of the accident which killed aide Mary Jo Kopechne. Kennedy has died after battling a brain tumor his family announced early Wednesday Aug. 26, 2009. In a posthumous memoir, Massachusetts Sen. Edward M. Kennedy writes of fear and remorse surrounding the fateful events on Chappaquiddick Island in 1969, when his car accident left a woman dead, and says he accepted the finding that a lone gunman assassinated his brother President John F. Kennedy. (AP Photo/File)

WASHINGTON — Sen. Edward M. Kennedy said in a new book that he was not romantically involved with young Mary Jo Kopechne and that he never escaped the despair he felt after she died in the 1969 car crash that has been seared into the national consciousness as "Chappaquiddick."

He acknowledged that he enjoyed women and drink – sometimes too much so – but said reports of wild Kennedy excesses were exaggerated. He said he always has accepted the conclusion that a lone assassin killed his brother John and that Kennedy family members had worried about the emotional health of his brother Robert following John's death in Dallas in 1963. He said it "veered close to being a tragedy within a tragedy."

Yet it was the specter of Chappaquiddick that Edward Kennedy, the youngest brother, never could shake.

"That night on Chappaquiddick Island ended in a horrible tragedy that haunts me every day of my life," Kennedy wrote in a memoir, "True Compass," to be published posthumously on Sept. 14. The Massachusetts senator died last week at 77 following a yearlong battle with brain cancer.

Kennedy said his Catholic faith helped sustain him as he wrestled with guilt over the events of July 18, 1969, when he drove a car off a bridge into a pond on the tiny island. His own anguish, he said, paled in comparison with the suffering endured by Kopechne's family.

"Atonement is a process that never ends," he wrote.

The book offers an intimate look at the personal failings, tragedies and triumphs of the famed Kennedy family's last surviving brother. He said he agreed that Lee Harvey Oswald acted alone when he gunned down John F. Kennedy.

He also recounted how his other assassinated brother, former Attorney General Robert F. Kennedy, asked then-President Lyndon Johnson to make him an envoy to try to broker a peace deal to end the Vietnam War. If Johnson had agreed, Edward Kennedy speculated, Robert Kennedy might have not have run for president in the 1968 campaign when he was shot to death.

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Amid the regrets, Kennedy asserted his zest for what he considered to be the good life, but he mocked the exaggerated reports of his personal excesses.

"I have enjoyed the company of women," he wrote. "I have enjoyed a stiff drink or two or three, and I've relished the smooth taste of a good wine. At times, I've enjoyed these pleasures too much. I've heard the tales about my exploits as a hell-raiser – some accurate, some with a wisp of truth to them and some so outrageous that I can't imagine how anyone could really believe them."

The memoir is to be published by Twelve, a division of the Hachette book group. The 532-page book was obtained early by The New York Times and the New York Daily News.

In it, Kennedy said his actions on Chappaquiddick on July 18, 1969, were "inexcusable." He said he was afraid and "made terrible decisions" and had to live with the guilt for more than four decades.

Kennedy drove off a bridge into a pond. He swam to safety, leaving Kopechne in the car.

Kopechne, 28, a former worker with Robert Kennedy's campaign, was found dead in the submerged car's back seat 10 hours later. Kennedy, then 37, pleaded guilty to leaving the scene of an accident and got a suspended sentence and probation.

He wrote that he had no romantic relationship with Kopechne, and he hardly knew her. He said they were both getting emotional about his brother's death and decided to leave the party that was hosted by Robert Kennedy's former staffers. He made similar statements in the days following the crash

He said he had a full briefing by Earl Warren, the chief justice on the commission that investigated the Nov. 22, 1963, shooting of JFK in Dallas. He said he was convinced the Warren Commission got it right about Oswald and he was "satisfied then, and satisfied now."

In the book, Kennedy wrote candidly about his battle with brain cancer and his "self-destructive drinking," especially after the 1968 death of his brother Robert.

After his brothers' assassinations, Kennedy said he was easily startled at loud sounds, and would hit the deck whenever a car backfired.

He expressed regret over getting drinks with nephew William K. Smith in Palm Beach in 1991, after which Smith was charged with rape. He was later acquitted.

He also explained why he decided to run for the presidency in 1980, saying he was motivated in part by his differences with then-President Jimmy Carter. He criticized Carter's go-slow approach to providing universal health care.

As a 9-year-old boy at the Riverdale Country School in New York, Kennedy said he would hide under his bed, petrified of a dorm master he thought was sexually abusive.

The book was written with the help of a collaborator and was based on contemporaneous notes taken by Kennedy throughout his life and hours of recordings for an oral history project.

WASHINGTON — Sen. Edward M. Kennedy said in a new book that he was not romantically involved with young Mary Jo Kopechne and that he never escaped the despair he felt after she died in the 1969 ...
WASHINGTON — Sen. Edward M. Kennedy said in a new book that he was not romantically involved with young Mary Jo Kopechne and that he never escaped the despair he felt after she died in the 1969 ...
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Kennedy seemed to be very clear about what he himself describes as the "inexcusable" actions that he took that night, he describes his daily regret for it, and spent his life atoning for it. He took actions that directly saved many peoples' lives, and actions that vastly improved the lives of millions of others, acting on our collective behalfs again and again.

For my sake and the sake of so many others that he helped, I am very happy that he was not sent to pointlessly rot in jail somewhere for an indeterminate amount of time. I also know better than to cast stones. I believe that we all have to answer for our lives and I am not at all worried about the conversation that Ted Kennedy had with his creator. He could have used it as an excuse to leave politics, but he stayed and worked hard for us and accomplished a great deal.

I am considerably more concerned about what I am doing to fulfill the responsibilities that I have for my life here on earth. My personal contributions were looking pretty good to me, until I started to read about just a fraction of the things that Ted Kennedy did in the course of his life, many of them unknown to the public until now. I am feeling pretty humbled by him and taking a second look at my agenda. It's looking more than a little bit shallow to me now.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 10:55 PM on 09/03/2009
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I used to think I was flawed, but I was mistaken.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 05:46 PM on 09/03/2009
- Zeroes I'm a Fan of Zeroes 6 fans permalink

I know some people that had suffered more for less. Elephant going through the eye of a needle.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 05:21 PM on 09/03/2009
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I think you mean "camel through the eye of a needle." And that phrase applies to all rich people.

Jesus said "It is easier for a camel to pass through the eye of a needle than for a rich man to enter the kingdom of heaven." Of course this makes it seem that rich people are doomed. However with God's intervention and salvation, it's possible. Given the original passage, who do think God would grant salvation to. Would it be the rich person who used their wealth and energies to help the poor, the afflicted, and the downtrodden, or would it be the rich person who used their time and effort to get
more money.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 10:32 PM on 09/03/2009
- poster1122 I'm a Fan of poster1122 27 fans permalink

I think the people posting here fall generally into one of 3 categories:

People who loved him/his family (their image of it). These folks are willing to forgive what he did all those years ago.

Then there are those people who don't like him as much or more out of partisanship as out of any real concern about the events at Chappaquiddick.

But there's a third group that has a really hard time forgiving him for what he did. The accident happened around 11pm. He didn't report it until 10am the next day. The divers that found the poor girl pressed up against where an air bubble would have formed and think she might have been alive as much as 2 hours after the accident. His protestations about being overly distraught about the accident are a little tough to swallow in light of the fact that he had the nerve to complain to the hotel manager at 3am about some nearby party-goers disturbing his rest.

I don't know if Kennedy ever really felt sorry about what he did or not. But he did what he did. If people think he's repented and want to forgive him, that's their prerogative. But if people can't get that image of a girl trapped in a car with the water rising and struggling for air for as much as two hours, I don't blame them either. It must have been quite horrific for her in her last moments.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 04:37 PM on 09/03/2009
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This has to be the best passive aggressive slam post I have ever read. You alomost pulled me in with your reasoned analysis and great concern.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 10:47 PM on 09/03/2009
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If that was only that one thing that had happened but he had a pattern of bad behavior and getting in trouble. He broke a Federal Law by writing a letter directly to Soviet leader Andropov trying to work around some of Reagan's foreign policies which really could have pursued as a form of treason but wasn't.
The guy was no angle. The best thing his supporters can do for him is just let him fade on into history with the rest of our Political Scoundrels. He was no Lincoln, no Roosevelt, no JFK and No Reagan.

Question would you want your child to grow up to be Ted Kennedy?

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 06:37 PM on 09/06/2009
- edwarvir I'm a Fan of edwarvir 36 fans permalink

We have all made mistakes. Sen Kennedy admitted
to his, may he rest in peace.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 04:26 PM on 09/03/2009
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We need more of his kind in this world, may he rest in peace.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 04:21 PM on 09/03/2009
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Right! LOL

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 05:45 PM on 09/03/2009
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Ted Kennedy was not perfect and the fact is I don't know anyone who is. I will say that he was not a mean spirited person. He fought for the weak, the poor, and for ways to improve the lives of everyday Americans.

I tire of the mean spirited nature of many of my fellow countrymen. Nixon trying to pin the shooting of George Wallace on Kennedy followers. The continued killing of the Vietnamese for Nixon's political purposes. Bush Jr. attacking a country that never attacked us. The cheering of bar patrons I witnessed while the TV showed bombs raining down on Baghdad. (I think I was the only one weeping on the inside for those poor souls on the receiving end of those bombs). These are the actions of true sinners with no remorse or recognition of their wrongdoing.

Senator Kennedy was not perfect. Yet he recognized his shortcomings and suffered for them. His fight for civil rights, for universal health care and all the good he did for this country more than makes up for his faults in my humble opinion.

I feel fortunate to have had the opportunity to share my short time on earth with the likes of Ted Kennedy.

May he rest in peace.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 03:51 PM on 09/03/2009
- Cantab81 I'm a Fan of Cantab81 12 fans permalink

None of us can go back in time and change our mistakes. I think more of the man after reading this article

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 03:29 PM on 09/03/2009
- bellabeach I'm a Fan of bellabeach 13 fans permalink

I agree!

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 03:41 PM on 09/03/2009
- sticky29 I'm a Fan of sticky29 10 fans permalink

Mr. Kennedy, let him rest in peace. He was as flawed as everyone on this blog. The problem I have is in the system. If anyone on this blog did what Ted did at the pond, we would NOT have been given what he got. The priveliged get away with everyting, and we all know it. They know it.

Also, Mr. Kennedy said they left the party to get away. OK. Does anyone or no one beleive that.

I just want the rules, and we all need rules to apply to everyone. But, that will never happen. Not many have the $ the Kennedys have.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 03:23 PM on 09/03/2009
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If a person had a lifelong ambition to achieve something, say healthcare as an example, and was a Senator for over 40 years without accomplishing that, without bringing forth legislation to accomplish his dream, wouldn't that make him a failure?

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 03:14 PM on 09/03/2009
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That would relegate every American president since Teddy Roosevelt to the "failure" pile.
Of course, I imagine your life is one of uninterrupted, unmitigated success
professionally, personally and politically.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 03:37 PM on 09/03/2009
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I've had some lifelong ambitions that I haven't achieved.
I AM A FAILURE

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 04:13 PM on 09/03/2009
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You need to look at the Kennedy-sponsored legislation that passed. Much of it was healthcare-related. A simple Google search will tell you what you need to know, and I'm surprised you didn't bother to do that before posting your comment.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 04:28 PM on 09/03/2009
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One word: BLOCKBUSTER

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 02:55 PM on 09/03/2009
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I have heard many people over the last week or so say very mean things. I have to remind them not to throw stones. No one is perfect. I do not defend what Ted did back when he was young, but remember the drunk driving laws were alot differant then, none, and things were looked at differantly back then. There was no MADD. There was almost no laws for it back then.
He has spent the later years trying to fight for the underdog.
He was a man who made some decisions that went wrong. I wish I could say I didn't understand any of that. Because I have made several decisions that I wish I could do diff. He was a human. He was flawed. He was NOT perfect.
I don't know of anyone who is.
So remember before you throw stones, you might want to make sure you have nothing in your yard.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 02:40 PM on 09/03/2009
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"No one is perfect. I do not defend what Ted did back when he was young, but remember the drunk driving laws were alot differant then, none, and things were looked at differantly back then. There was no MADD. There was almost no laws for it back then. "

All that above is just fine and dandy but it doesn't change the fact that he killed someone and then didn't report it for over ten hours while he called his lawyers and made sure to cover his own ass.

The laws concerning drunk driving and leaving the scene of an accident may have been different back then,but the way he acted was morally reprehensible then and is now as well.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 04:43 PM on 09/03/2009

Hi Didn't kill anybody. She drowned. As much as we would all like to think we would have acted differently, you have no idea what you would have done. I had a friend once years ago who was out on a boat with someone who was not her husband and he fell into the lake and drowned. She never talked to his wife and had several years of fighting bad dreams.
She didn't try to dive in or do anything. They both had been drinking.

Stop being so judgemental.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 09:31 PM on 09/03/2009
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Whatever Senator Kennedy did, and what he did in his playboy days that resulted in that lady's death, he atoned for it in the way he has tried to right injustices for the American people. He, many times over, fought the good fight for us and was one of the best Senators ever, maybe the best. I hope we get a great health bill in his name.

Those who can't forgive him and want to vilify his name are not of the faith of .....casting the first stone, and all that. I am not of any faith, but I do believe the good you do while residing on this planet far out weights the wrongs.

Before some of you speak of hatred, let me ask what have you done?

For myself, being imperfect, I have certainly not done enough.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 02:11 PM on 09/03/2009
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Does anyone here expect to read a book by George Bush
in twenty years or so in which he expresses deep regret
and a need to atone for being directly responsible for the
4250 Americans killed and the 30182 wounded to date
in his misguided and falsely hyped war in Iraq?

Will he admit it was "inexcusable"?

Will he have ever spent a single night in jail for his crimes?

No?
I didn't think so.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 02:10 PM on 09/03/2009
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Kennedy vote to go to war too.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 04:56 PM on 09/05/2009

Let's see if Bush talks candidly about his cocaine use, drinking, lying about his National Guard duty, starting the war in Iraq on lies, etc. in his biography -- Ted Kennedy faced his demons and won - to the betterment of many others; Clinton has raised millions of dollars to help the poor and sick all over the world; what will Bush or his family do - anything besides erecting libraries or jumping out of planes? here in Dallas all W has done so far is show up at class rooms (which as we know is unpopular with the Right) -- I wish Democrats would man up and throw some of this back at the Republicans -- the hypocrisy is ridiculous -- (e.g. the Mark Sanford "Clinton should be impeached but I don't have to step down because I'm doing what God wants me to" mentality

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 02:04 PM on 09/03/2009
- Cantab81 I'm a Fan of Cantab81 12 fans permalink

Is that the National Guard Duty story Dan Rather was fired for spreading?

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 02:44 PM on 09/03/2009
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Spreading, fabricating,...

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 04:44 PM on 09/03/2009
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Are you kidding me!!!

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 03:24 PM on 09/03/2009
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WOW!!!

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 03:32 PM on 09/03/2009
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