Stephanie Santoro, Jon Gosselin's Nanny, Describes Love Affair And Rates The Sex

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Ever since Jon and Kate Gosselin filed for divorce, rumors have swirled about Jon's increasingly wild lifestyle. Though Jon insists he's been faithful to his girlfriend, Hailey Glassman, 22, stories continue to circulate about late nights of partying and hot hookups. And now, In Touch can exclusively report explosive new allegations. Former waitress and single mom Stephanie Santoro, 23, claims that during the month she spent employed as Jon's nanny, she had a passionate affair with the Jon & Kate Plus 8 star in the family home -- and saw a side of Jon that's bound to shock even his most devoted fans. Here, Stephanie describes for In Touch her "genuine" romance with Jon -- and how it came to a bitter end.

How did you first meet Jon?

I had met Jon and Kate a few years back at a twins convention when they had Cara and Mady [now 8]. Jon and I became friends when I was working at [Pennsylvania bar] Legends, and he came in sometimes. After they filed for divorce, he started hanging out there a lot, and we started talking more.

When did you get intimate?

We were talking on the phone one night, and the kids were all at home, and he was like, "What are you doing tonight?" and I didn't have plans. So he goes, "Let's hang out. We can go hang out in the hot tub and talk more about everything." So I went over, and we were talking. He asked me if I could give a back massage, and I was like, "Okay, whatever." So I gave him one and then he was like, "my turn." While we were sitting there, he said, "Well, I guess we can kiss just once." At one point he said, "Whatever you do, don't fall in love with me, because it's going to be impossible for me not to fall in love with you."


During your relationship, how many times did you sleep together?

Nine times.

How would you rate the sex?

On the romantic end, it was a nine. I wasn't looking for the pleasure part of it. If you care about someone, it's not about how good they are in bed. It wasn't terrible, but it wasn't the best I ever had.

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How close would you say you were?

Very close. We would lie in bed and talk about the future. He would say how he wanted to make sure my daughter and I would always be okay, and how he would take care of me. There was no talk about marriage, but we did talk about being together.

Was he seeing Hailey when you first got together?

I don't think he has ever been apart from Hailey, but he has cheated on Hailey. I know they've broken up before. I didn't know their current status. We talked about it, and he had told me that things were very weird and strange and he would explain it to me, but he didn't want to hurt me in the process.

For the full exclusive interview with Stephanie, check out this week's issue of In Touch Weekly, on newsstands now.

Comments

[clearpepsi]

After they filed for divorce, he started hanging out there a lot, and we started talking more.

is this even an affair if he had filed for devorse when they had hooked up?

[iplaw]

A nanny sounds like a great idea. Do I need kids before I can get a nanny?

[S Cooper]

The earrings, the younger girls, the motorcycle, the too-young clothes, the hair replacement, the public oversharing - this guy is having the world's most classic, public and pathetic mid-life crisis in history.

[clearpepsi]

all good points and you may want to include - moving to NYC (when his eight kids are very far away), the tanning, the no job, the post modern hawaiian shirts, the devorce, the smoking, the bitter ex-wife.

[POSC]

Go Jon!!

[beyondliberal]

How will Octomom be able to compete with this soap opera?

[stayinsouth1981]

Anything for a buck.

[Katf]

I have watched the show religiously since the beginning. Jon was not all for having another baby after the twins. Kate insisted and he caved. As the show progressed, Kate was increasingly abusive, rude, demanding to him. She made fun of the way he said things, even though she is seriously lacking in proper english herself. She wanted him to quit his job and stay home, she yelled at him in public, she humiliated him in public. She never bothered to find out what he was doing before she yelled at him to stop and take care of his kids, which many times is what he was trying to do. I recall Jon trying to discipline Aaden and Kate telling Aaden to ignore Daddy because he is mean. She controlled every aspect of his life. How can anyone not blame Kate for what has happened. Now she is trying to be supermom and put Jon down even more. But she sure is trying to get an awful lot of media attention on her own without her kids. Jon is trying to be the Jon he used to be. I watch the show because the kids are so adorable and smart, but I want to watch the kids experience new and different things like has been done in the past, not Kate learning how to shoot a gun. They, mostly Kate, need to grow up. I am getting sick of it. The kids also need family which Kate does not allow.

[clearpepsi]

Katf - you are so right, it's all on video, he was right to leave and not done anything wrong.. she is still screwing with him, and he's still falling for it, he was talked into all those kids and I do feel sorry for him in part because he will have to live with this like ball player lives with error in the 7th game of the world series that costs the series for the rest of his life.... she is a dispicable person and it just teaches you that there are just some people that should not have kids and that you should never get married to no matter how much fun the first twelve weeks are.....

[SonyaInTx]

He should have had the 'sack' to realize she was not spousal material. But 10 years and 8 kids later, he cannot turn back. Now it's time for him to get a job and start putting food on the table.

[TLV]

I was going to post a comment about how amazingly interesting this is, but I have something in my teeth and that is sooo much more fascinating! Gotta go!

[Craftyone]

So glad I'm not Stephanie's mother. You go through pregnancy and birth, do what is necessary to keep em alive and nourished and this is what you get. Wow.

[Craftyone]

What some people won't do for their 15 minutes of fame is just amazing.

[justnana]

Grow up. Someday the Children are going to read this crap.

[Craftyone]

Clearly few of those who "care" for these children just don't care about that. Drug and alcohol addictions will follow in the not too distant future, but who cares!!! We're famous!

[ricmarc]

what kind of a woman has sex with a guy with a wife and 8 kids?

[newhouse1]

Over 1 million (1,000,000) kids are dropping out of high school every year. 1,000,000 is an astonishing number of young people whose breadth of life and educational experiences abruptly stops at, maybe, the 10th or 11th grade; maybe 16 or 17 years old. Obviously home life is not supportive or nurturing, or else dropping out of high school would not be a tolerable option.

So becoming a single mom, who then finds no qualms about sleeping with a gut with 8 (count 'em eight) kids, is consistent with not having learned enough to know that such behavior is wrong on so many levels.

And this is just a story receiving notice due to the celebrity of the parties involved. There's 999,999 other stories happening right now, this year, to join the other 5,000,000 shattered lives from the last 5 years of HS dropouts entering chronological adulthood. Jon is clearlt at fault for trolling for early 20-somethings and bottom feeding. But this episode is not unique.

[clearpepsi]

he had filled for divorce and she was a consenting adult (that was not drunk)... big deal - it sounds like they both enjoyed themselfs.­... I just can't believe a guy with eight kids does this (as you pointed out)..... speaking of education there is no way they have put any of this money aside for their higher edu needs....

[lilsoozieqwa]

a single one without morales

[honoursplendor]

Who's the chicken f*cker in this "romance"?

[pangursperson]

Why, oh why did I click on this story, LOL.

"It wasn't terrible, but it wasn't the best I ever had."

Translation: It sucked, but I don't want to be mean.

[Craftyone]

and not like a 23 yr. old isn't still so self involved and neurotic that she wouldn't have the slightest idea of what was good in the first place.

[Opus Loki]

LMAO__that's what's up!!!

[Malkin72]

Don't women have any shame these days?

She slept with a married man whose wife was paying her. Then she sold her tale of hoe to the highest bidder.

And she has the nerve to judge anyone?

[ancientmarinader]

And then insults the guys sexual performance. Classy. That's probably the one area where low rent celebrity men still have more dignity than low rent celebrity women. You never hear a guy in the tabloids say, "she was a dead fish and had a sloppy p*****, but eh, it was ok".

[chebontenitkee]

LOL!!

[S Cooper]

Untrue. Brandon Davis, one of the new nobodies Famous For Being Famous, is known nearly entirely for his tirade about Lindsay Lohan's genitalia.

[BlueTexasWoman]

Did you mean tail of ho? Or tale of woe? ;)

[clearpepsi]

he was divorced at the time (does it not count if your divorse papers are pending?) - is that still an immoral thing to do? I thought people who were seperated were like single? - maybe not?