Kirby Brown: Sweat Lodge Victim's Family Says She Was Fit

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FELICIA FONSECA | 10/10/09 09:45 PM | AP

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PRESCOTT, Ariz. — A 38-year-old New York woman who died after sitting in a sauna-like sweat lodge at a scenic Arizona resort was an avid surfer and hiker who was "in top shape," took self-improvement seriously and had a passion for art, a family spokesman said.

Kirby Brown of Westtown, N.Y., was one of two people who died Thursday evening after being overcome in the crudely built hut during a spiritual cleansing ceremony. Authorities on Saturday identified the other victim as 40-year-old James Shore of Milwaukee, who served as director of business development at an Internet marketing company in his hometown.

Nineteen other people were taken to hospitals, suffering from burns, dehydration, respiratory arrest, kidney failure or elevated body temperature. Most were soon released, but one remained in critical condition Saturday.

Brown had no pre-existing health conditions that would have kept her from participating in an otherwise safe activity, said cousin and family spokesman Tom McFeeley. That two people died and 19 others became ill at the Angel Valley Retreat Center indicates that "something went horribly wrong."

"Our only thought is shock, sadness and surprise," McFeeley said. "There will be plenty of time to react to the truth of what happened here, but we believe it is pointless to be angry or to place blame or to make assumptions before we understand what occurred here."

Matt Collins, who knew Shore since seventh grade, described his friend as a wonderful husband and father whose life revolved around his three kids. "Everybody who got to know him absolutely loved him," Collins told The Associated Press.

Collins said he was stunned to hear of Shore's death, and the family remained in shock.

"Right now we're trying to focus on making sure that his wife, his children are comforted during this time," he said.

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Autopsies on Brown and Shore were conducted Friday, but the results weren't disclosed pending additional tests. Authorities have ruled out carbon monoxide poising as the cause.

Yavapai County Sheriff Steve Waugh said Saturday that his detectives were focusing on self-help expert and author James Arthur Ray and his staff as they try to determine if criminal negligence played a role. Waugh said Ray refused to speak with authorities and has since left the state.

"We will continue this investigation down every road that is possible to find out if there is culpability on anybody relative to the deaths of these individuals," Waugh said. He said it could be three to four weeks before they knew if criminal charges would be filed.

Ray's recent postings on his Twitter account said he was "shocked and saddened" by the tragedy.

"My deep heartfelt condolences to family and friends of those who lost their lives," he wrote. "I am spending the weekend in prayer and meditation for all involved in this difficult time; and I ask you to join me in doing the same."

Ray's company, James Ray International, is based in Carlsbad, Calif. Ray's publicist, Howard Bragman, expressed condolences in a statement Friday but declined to speak about the deaths. Bragman didn't return a call for additional comment Saturday.

The Angel Valley Retreat Center is owned by Michael and Amayra Hamilton, who rented it to Ray for a five-day "Spiritual Warrior" retreat that promised to "absolutely change your life."

On Saturday, Amayra Hamilton said Ray has held the event at the resort for seven years, and there never have been any problems.

Hamilton said the resort remains closed to the public. The sweat lodge has been dismantled and a ceremony was conducted for those affected by Thursday's incident.

"The whole situation is very traumatizing for everybody," she said.

The people at Ray's retreat, whose ages ranged from 30 to the 60s, paid between $9,000 and $10,000 to attend.

Ray and his staff constructed the temporary sweat lodge with a wood frame and covered it with layers of tarps and blankets, Waugh said. The sweat lodge – a structure commonly used by American Indian tribes to cleanse the body and prepare for hunts, ceremonies and other events – was 53 inches high at the center and about 30 inches high around the outer edges.

Between 55 and 65 people were crowded into the 415-square-foot space during a two-hour period that included various spiritual exercises led by Ray, Waugh said. Every 15 minutes, a flap was raised to allow more volcanic rocks the size of cantaloupes to be brought inside.

Authorities said participants were highly encouraged but not forced to remain in the sweat lodge for the entire time.

Joseph Bruchac, author of "The Native American Sweat Lodge: History and Legends," called the number of participants in the lodge "appalling."

"If you put people in a restrictive, airtight structure, you are going to use up all oxygen," he said by phone Saturday from his home in Saratoga Springs, N.Y. "And if you're doing a sweat, you're going to use it up that much faster."

American Indian sweat lodges typically hold about 12 people and are covered with blankets made of natural materials, such as cotton or wool, and the air flow isn't restricted, he said.

"I don't see how the person running that lodge could have been aware of the health and well-being of that many people," he said.

The participants had fasted for 36 hours as part of a personal and spiritual quest in the wilderness, then ate a breakfast buffet Thursday morning. After various seminars, they entered the sweat lodge lightly dressed at 3 p.m.

Two hours later, a woman dialed 911 to say that two people, whom Waugh identified as Brown and Shore, did not have a pulse and weren't breathing.

A nurse hired by Ray was directing rescue efforts including CPR when emergency crews arrived, Waugh said. Shore and Brown were pronounced dead when they arrived at a hospital.

Sheriff's Lt. David Rhodes said authorities were checking whether there was a lag time between the first signs of medical distress and the emergency call.

McFeeley said Brown had attended similar retreats, although he wasn't certain whether any were hosted by Ray. He said Brown, who grew up in Brooklyn and Westtown and spent time in Mexico, saw the outing as a chance to continue on a positive path in life.

Brown, a graduate of the State University of New York at Geneseo, had two sisters who recently got married, two new nephews and a focus on "making the world more beautiful for someone, not only with her art but with her heart," McFeeley said. Although the family is saddened by her death, he said Brown created a roadmap by which others should live.

"She was the least selfish, kindest person I knew," he said.

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Associated Press Writer Dinesh Ramde in Milwaukee contributed to this report.

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PRESCOTT, Ariz. — A 38-year-old New York woman who died after sitting in a sauna-like sweat lodge at a scenic Arizona resort was an avid surfer and hiker who was "in top shape," took self-improv...
PRESCOTT, Ariz. — A 38-year-old New York woman who died after sitting in a sauna-like sweat lodge at a scenic Arizona resort was an avid surfer and hiker who was "in top shape," took self-improv...
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this is so wrong, there is no fact to spiritual cleansing
www.1wallmart.com

    Reply    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 10:30 AM on 11/03/2009

ok what ever.

    Reply    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 02:26 AM on 10/15/2009

anyways something really important you guys should know that probably noone knows about this case is that anything besides natural food and water would be a deadly combination to this sweating lodge. i know my grampa died of it. he used cuz he broke his leg and to get all that clot blood out he used it, he was told not to eat anyting dairy or spicy , medice, alcohol. but he had cheeses and a spicy jalapeno. he got out and sat, he said he was going to explode or something so they tried to save him cuz they found out he eat before he went in, but it was to late, his already weak kidney count handle it ,and he died. i wish i coud have meet my grampa.

    Reply    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 02:23 AM on 10/15/2009

About five years ago, Arvol Looking Horse (pipe carrier of the Sacred White Calf for the Lakota) and several other elders, medicine people and bundle carriers, decreed that Native ceremonies are for Native people only. This came about after some people died in Redding, Ca. under similar circumstances.

These ceremonies are for Native people. You may get invited to participate but it should be conducted by a Native person who has been trained by those doing ceremonies for their people over many years. It should also be conducted in the language of the Native people on whose ground you may be on.

Those of you who have gone to sweat lodges; would have been as willing and as comfortable going to confession and holy communion if it was being done by someone other than a priest? Especially if this person was charging you a fee for this?

Listen to the elders. Stop helping people steal traditions. It is not there for their own financial reward.

    Reply    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 07:41 PM on 10/12/2009
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How does that platitude go about a certain type of person being parted soon from their money? A most apropos saying in this respect.

    Reply    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 06:10 PM on 10/12/2009
- twofish I'm a Fan of twofish 18 fans permalink

Religion + money = poison

I have no problem with a community supporting their spiritual leaders so they don't have to have a "day job." (Not the way Rajneesh was supported by his followers -- how many Rolls Royces did the guy have? Not to mention the number of girls he shagged. Remember Lenny Bruce's rule of thumb: any preacher with two suits is a hustler.

I don't even object to people paying for a seminar as long as they understand they are going to get a lecture, maybe some structured exercises or experiences designed to teach them something, something to chew on and integrate over time. But you've got to have some common sense. Any group that lets someone just walk in cold on the basis of payment and claims to dish out spiritual growth -- man, run the other way.

Money attracts all the wrong types to religious or spiritual groups. Keep it poor, keep it pure.

    Reply    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 09:30 PM on 10/11/2009
- quindy I'm a Fan of quindy 30 fans permalink

Somebody willing and able to pay $9000-10 000 to attend "spiritual warrior" cleanse is probably not very stable mentally. Which war were they preparing to fight?

    Reply    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 08:31 PM on 10/11/2009
- ZellaBee I'm a Fan of ZellaBee 13 fans permalink

The whole thing is so sad. I've been to many retreats and seminars over the years and never ever paid that kind of money.
At first I wondered why these seminar participants did not pay attention to or evaluate the dangerous situation thy were in, then I thought.. were they thinking (at just about $2000/day)" I'd better participate completely to get my money's worth", rather than stopping themselves and using their common sense?

    Reply    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 07:09 PM on 10/11/2009
- ImissBush I'm a Fan of ImissBush 35 fans permalink
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mayb not in top shape mentally

    Reply    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 05:21 PM on 10/11/2009
- lungfish I'm a Fan of lungfish 106 fans permalink
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Ray refused to speak to authorities and left the state...

There is your guru.... Accountability, personal responsibility, compliance with the laws of the people... all take a back seat to the sociopaths driving the New Age movement.

I see variations on the theme everywhere. Michael Salla and Exopolitics is a great example of a man who believes that he is accountable to none while he sells new age nonsense via his "multi-dimensional telepath" wife....You can get a 2600 certificate from him that will qualify you to be an ambassador for the many alien races he claims are visiting Earth... Of course Science and facts are not tolerated... its all about his ego.. Just one example.

I live on the South Kona coast. You could call it the Sedona of the Pacific... I listen to New Age nonsense all the time about dolphins and the rest. They sell retreats to "swim with dolphins" and do all kinds of spiritual "work" which doesn't seem to be too much of anything at all, except expensive at any price. I just listen and keep my own counsel but its clear that many of these folks are frauds of the first magnitude... or deluded, or narcissistic...

    Reply    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 04:12 PM on 10/11/2009
- Sezin I'm a Fan of Sezin 11 fans permalink
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This story is tragic in the way that drug overdoses are tragic: You feel sad for the person who died and their surviving family, but at the same time there's that nagging feeling that ultimately they did it to themselves.

Anybody who would like to fast-track spiritual awakening through large sums of money, or anybody who charges the exorbitant sums noted above for sacred ceremonies will indeed pay a much larger karmic price, as we all read with horror above.

The "ceremonies" described above, as well as the fees charged for a disgraceful co-optation of sacred Native American traditions, are among the worst forms of spiritual and cultural disrespect. It is really no surprise that tragedy came from them. The universe is saying, "These things are not for you," and putting the abusers in their place.

I hope that other wannabe spiritualists will take a valuable lesson from this story, and that James Ray will be prosecuted for his criminal behaviour to the full extent of the law.

    Reply    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 12:05 PM on 10/11/2009

No Sezin. That "drug overdose" analogy is a really poor analogy and not remotely like this case.
First, drug overdose is entirely self-administered. This is a case of a con artist with a lot of charisma hustling people and convincing them that he is qualified to conduct practices that are medically safe when in fact he had no qualifications to be conducting such a thing. If as you put it, the universe if putting abusers in their place, then the only person that would lie dead would be James Arthur Ray as he is the source of the abuse. As someone part native american I believe you should back away as you seem to be a little judgemental yourself.

    Reply    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 02:11 PM on 10/11/2009
- Sezin I'm a Fan of Sezin 11 fans permalink
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All of the people involved made a *choice* to put themselves in the hands of a quack as well as to get into a "sweatlodge" that, from the description above, was not constructed safely nor properly. They also *chose* to pay thousands of dollars to a white man for Native American-type "healing", something that is inappropriate for sacred ceremonies right from the get-go.

I will stand by my drug overdose analogy, because all of those people should have known better. As someone who is part Native American, then you must already know that many Elders say *anybody* who abuses these rituals, be they the people who put on sham ceremonies or those who participate in them, will have to pay a price for that disrespect.

    Reply    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 05:03 AM on 10/12/2009
- Danchi I'm a Fan of Danchi 3 fans permalink

Part 1: What's missing in people who pay the obscene prices for these retreats is Critical Thinking. Critical Thinking is never talked about or encouraged by the Spiritual-New Age communities. They hit you with that "you have not faith" bomb. This is designed to stop the conversation & embarrass the person who brings it up. I learned this after a few years of going to events & being presented the same teaching over & over. Just repackaged. One of the reasons I love the Buddhist teaching is it tells you to use your brain & encourages debates & critical thing. His Holiness the Dalai Lama, one of if not the highest spiritual personality has never charged 9 grand for a weekend of his teaching.

    Reply    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 10:41 AM on 10/11/2009
- Danchi I'm a Fan of Danchi 3 fans permalink

Part 2: I've developed a strategy for taking any classes, seminars or retreats. I always pay with a check on the last day of the event. I scrutinize the agenda for the day to see if what was offered was a new concept/teaching. If I don't feel it was I cancel the check at my bank. I write a letter to the presenter explaining why the check was canceled. If I get nothing out of the experience I don't pay them anything. If I got something I may offer them a small donation. I've pissed off some people but hey, you told me at the beginning of the seminar, lecture or retreat I would go away with specifics and I didn't. To me that's false advertising. People who do this for a living depend on participants to not use critical thinking or to be too spiritual not to pay up.

    Reply    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 10:41 AM on 10/11/2009
- hasheville I'm a Fan of hasheville 15 fans permalink

This James Ray should be held on criminal charges and sued for damages. James Bruhac will be one of many to discredit Ray: "If you put people in a restrictive, airtight structure, you are going to use up all oxygen," he said by phone Saturday from his home in Saratoga Springs, N.Y. "And if you're doing a sweat, you're going to use it up that much faster." He must be some salesman to charge such money.

    Reply    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 09:41 AM on 10/11/2009
- 8journey8 I'm a Fan of 8journey8 2 fans permalink

Right, and they entered this airtight space after a 36 hour "fast". They paid $9,000.00 each and didn't even get fabulous catered meals. Nine thousand dollars to live like Spartans and be handed your death at the end!! James Ray should be charged.

    Reply    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 10:30 AM on 10/11/2009
- quindy I'm a Fan of quindy 30 fans permalink

He should be charged, but at the same time he is the salesman of the year. Who can top this?

    Reply    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 09:16 AM on 10/12/2009

Snake oil has been around forever and apparently the demand will never go away. Snake oil has one purpose - to separate a person from their wallet. At best, a minority of the time, it has a placebo effect. But as this horrible outcome illustrates, it can easily be deadly. One of the most powerful snake oil sales buzzwords is "cleanse." Next to sexual potency, people are most neurotically anxious about so-called toxins in their bodies, mostly intestinal toxins. In this regard, snake oil sellers prey on ignorance of our biological systems (liver, kidneys and digestive tract) that have evolved for millions of years to cleanse the waste products of metabolism so that we are naturally toxin-free. Here we have highly educated, successful and physically conditioned people who undertook a completely unnecessary and deadly dangerous program (it was not a ritual) because someone made them afraid of toxins that did not exist. So sad in many ways.

    Reply    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 09:02 AM on 10/11/2009
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