Mother Says School Aide 'Waterboarded' Her 14-Year-Old Autistic Son (VIDEO)

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First Posted: 10-22-09 07:05 PM   |   Updated: 10-22-09 07:36 PM

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The mother of a 14-year-old autistic boy has accused a school aide of 'waterboarding' her son by forcing his head under a running faucet. A fellow student has also claimed that the boy was also forced to eat his own vomit. Two teacher's aides have been charged with abusing the boy and other special needs children. Five families have filed charges and they believe that their children's disabilities prevented them from reporting the abuse.

The two school aides have resigned and are said to be giving the investigation their full cooperation.

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The mother of a 14-year-old autistic boy has accused a school aide of 'waterboarding' her son by forcing his head under a running faucet. A fellow student has also claimed that the boy was also force...
The mother of a 14-year-old autistic boy has accused a school aide of 'waterboarding' her son by forcing his head under a running faucet. A fellow student has also claimed that the boy was also force...
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For the past 2 years we have been collecting and publicly posting news articles about abuse along with a "list" of the names of places where abuse has allegedly occurred. A list that started with 6 locations in 3 states now has the names of over 375 locations in 38 states. At least one new name is added every day. The list can be found at http:// tcfpbis. blogspot. com. If anyone has had a child abused anywhere or knows of a location not on the list that should be, could you please email gmail.commail.com? We only publish the name of the location of alleged abuse, and reason why the location was added; we do not indicate who reported the location to us, because we're all too familiar with retaliation. Thanks for the help, and thanks to HuffPost for covering this story!

    Reply    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 03:48 AM on 10/25/2009

Thanks so much for covering this! My daughter was physically and verbally abused in a public school in Pennsylvania in 2006. She has been diagnosed with autism, epilepsy, and numerous other disorders. She was 7 years old at the time of the abuse (and tiny at that) and had been a straight A student in a regular ed classroom full-time the year before, but in 2006 she didn't have a teacher who understood her or her needs - instead I recently learned the teacher told my daughter daily she was too stupid to learn. She was also physically restrained while in seclusion at least once that we know of. We tried to find some agency that would help us fight to stop the abuse, but kept running into dead ends. Protection & Advocacy turned us away, lawmakers turned us away, the Dept of Ed & Office for Civil Rights closed all our complaints without any investigation, the state police refused to take our statement, mediation with the district failed, and our due process case was tossed out. We eventually pulled her out to homeschool her so she'd be safe.

    Reply    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 03:45 AM on 10/25/2009
- pxlpsh I'm a Fan of pxlpsh 8 fans permalink

I didnt know Cheney started a school.

    Reply    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 08:39 AM on 10/24/2009
- Kim Stagliano - Huffpost Blogger I'm a Fan of Kim Stagliano 160 fans permalink

And this is why we work so hard to "cure" (help) our children. So they can come home and at least say, "Hurt, Mama." I have three beautiful girls (2 are teens) with autism. What fresh hell do you think THEY face as attractive females with autism when their father and I die? This is why we rail in the media for treatment, vaccine research and any step we can take toward recovery. Awareness is not enough. Acceptance is not enough. Thank you. Kim

    Reply    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 06:58 PM on 10/23/2009
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Right on Kim. You send your kid off to school in the hope that the staff is compassionate and competent. This is every parent's worst fear. I would love to believe that there's a special place in hell for such people.

    Reply    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 10:06 PM on 10/23/2009
- Matt7 I'm a Fan of Matt7 241 fans permalink

Saw VI seems a pretty poor and insensitive commercial film choice for this story.

    Reply    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 12:58 PM on 10/23/2009

Everyone who interacts with someone with autism needs specialized autism safety education and training. That means families, caregivers, school teachers administrators and staff, first responders, etc. Autism Speaks created a website to link to critical safety resources. Education and training are the key to stopping the ourageous abuse (and worse) of disabled citizens. Please take a look.
http://www.autismsafetyproject.org/site/c.kuIVKgMZIxF/b.5058283/k.BE40/Home.htm

    Reply    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 11:53 AM on 10/23/2009
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My late mother was epileptic. On her very first day of first grade, she had a seizure. The "teacher " responded by making her spend the remainder of the day under the teacher's desk in a cardbord box . I can remember weeping for my mother when she used that experience to explain why I could never let anyone know I had a learning disability (dyslexia). I can't even imagine how children with autism must view this world in which supposed caregivers are their torturers. It's disturbing to know that people who hate children are given so much access to all of our children - especially those who are too young and/or lack the communication skills to help us protect them from harm.

    Reply    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 11:39 AM on 10/23/2009
- LaurieAnn I'm a Fan of LaurieAnn 112 fans permalink
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I too have a child on the autism spectrum. I can relate to so much of what has already been posted here. One thing I have noticed is that many people have an unconscious attitude that if given enough discipline, i.e. punishment an autistic person will become less autistic. In other words; "I can beat the autism out of them." One of the very subtle forms of this is what many parents experience on first enrolling their children in school only to have school personnel insist that the child's behaviors must be the result of a parenting problem.

I am glad to see this article here on HP and hope that it has a wide distribution throughout the nation. More people need to understand what our special needs individuals are subject too. The only way this will happen is to shine the light of day on a dark place in our society.

    Reply    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 11:32 AM on 10/23/2009
- kimbutgar I'm a Fan of kimbutgar 7 fans permalink

My son is 17 and also autistic. In his first year at middle school he was placed in class with low functioning kids. My son is verbal and high functioned but not quite aspergers. He acted out daily due to his needs not being met. All he did was work sheets all day long. Not a week went back that they didn't call me to come get him. He was suspended numerous times. But the final nail was he had a meltdown and they took him down on a concrete floor and pounded on him. He had a swollen forehead and fat lip when I picked him up. I knew then and there I had a lawsuit against the district and they knew I did also. I was able to use it to get him in a private school where he is today but I feel for parents who don't have school districts willing to admit their mistakes. We have this large school age population of kids with autism and very few teachers and aides. This large group will also be entering adult hood with few resources awaiting them. Another crisis I have to look forward to.

    Reply    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 10:59 AM on 10/23/2009
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As a parent of a 16 year old severely developmentally disabled child (nonverbal .. functions at about an 18 month old level) .. one of the things I have learned that frightens my deeply is that very few people actual they consider my son as "a person" .. even many of his teachers and caregivers ... they may not abuse him (although he has been abused in the past at school) .. but they consider him much more as "a thing" .. than a "he" ... even if they treat him well .. there is the underlying attitude .. it is this attitude .. and the strain of dealing with these difficult issues day by day .. with training measured in hours not in credit hours .. working with people who can't speak out .. that makes these instances all too common.

    Reply    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 10:58 AM on 10/23/2009
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I think either the school needs to be shut down. Or at the bare minimum placed on probationary status and closely monitored. If the school district won't or can't do it, then the parents need to band together and schedule their time so that there is a parent in every classroom during every hour of operation. And those parents should be given the power of evaluating those teachers and their support staff, and those evaluations should have weight in whether or not those employees continue in the employ of the school.

    Reply    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 10:24 AM on 10/23/2009
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You got that right!

    Reply    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 02:24 PM on 10/23/2009

Such pain and sorrow.

Dear God, what are you waiting for. Send your Son back. We need to be judged and go into a new world.

    Reply    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 09:48 AM on 10/23/2009
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What a nightmare. I work with Autistic children and find this story outrageous. I hope the families pursue this outrage against their helpless, non-verbal children.

    Reply    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 09:20 AM on 10/23/2009
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Good God. Is nothing sacred?! This is a HORROR!!! >:{

    Reply    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 08:56 AM on 10/23/2009
- Matt7 I'm a Fan of Matt7 241 fans permalink

If people don't consider God Himself sacred, nothing else has much of a chance.

I get your point, though.

    Reply    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 12:56 PM on 10/23/2009
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If you are suggesting I take his name in vain, then I question your notion of the term, vanity. If you are agreeing with me that godliness is not what we've made it to be, then you have my agreement.

    Reply    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 01:59 PM on 10/23/2009
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What state did this take place in?

    Reply    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 08:16 AM on 10/23/2009
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Montana, here is the update: http://www.kfbb.com/news/local/64775712.html

    Reply    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 08:41 AM on 10/23/2009

Great Falls, MT. Am very shocked. I lived there for about a year. It's not a big city. I so surprised and I best the parents there are extremely shocked.

    Reply    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 09:26 AM on 10/23/2009
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