With men, don't be swayed by "cute": "Cute' good. But cute only lasts for so long, and then it's, Who are you as a person? Don't look at the bankbook or the title. Look at the heart. Look at the soul...When you're dating a man, you should always feel good...You shouldn't be in a relationship with somebody who doesn't make you completely happy and make you feel whole."
The First Lady's entire interview appears in our December issue, out next week; in it, she salutes the 11 other Women of the Year winners, who will be honored at Carnegie Hall November 9.