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Fire Steals Possessions, Job, Security From Single Mother Of 6 Kids

HuffPost   Victoria Fine First Posted: 03/18/10 06:12 AM ET Updated: 05/25/11 04:00 PM ET

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Cruz Ayala was in her bedroom when her oldest child came in and told her that their apartment was on fire. "I came into the kitchen and didn't see any fire, so I went back to the bedroom. Then there was a big explosion," she described.

When Ayala came out of her bedroom again, the apartment was in flames and she rushed her oldest children out of the building. Then she went back in to get the rest of her six children, who were still sleeping in the burning building.

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Everyone got out safely but Ayala's family wasn't able to salvage anything from the October 18 blaze. "No, nothing, nothing at all, we lost everything," she said. "The people at the apartment complex office never told me exactly what happened. We were taken to their office. They told us they were going to put us into another apartment."

The apartment was bigger than the last one, but it was the only one available, the complex told her. The office had her sign a new contract for another year with the understanding, Ayala said, that she wouldn't have to pay more than $499 a month in rent, the same as her last apartment.

With relief, she moved her family into the new apartment and tried to put the pieces of her life back together. She called her supervisors at the cleaning services company, which employed her as a housekeeper at a university in Houston. "I asked for a week leave without pay and they let me take it. But the next Monday, when it was time to come back to work, I was still not feeling well enough and I called my supervisor to ask for an extra week. They told me that if I didn't come in on Monday I'd lose my job."

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The Ayala Family

She reminded them that she had never taken time off before, and that she always came in when she was needed. "I told them that I didn't have any clothing to go back to work and I needed more time to get in better shape, to buy shoes and socks, but they didn't want to give me more time."

So, one week after her home burned to the ground, Ayala lost her job.

No Resources, No Help

With no income and their most basic necessities lost in the fire, The mother of six wondered how she would provide for her family. Things went from bad to worse when Ayala, who only speaks Spanish, found out that the apartment contract she had signed actually obligated her to pay $699 in rent, more than a third more than the rent she was barely able to meet while she still worked full-time.

Impact attempted to clarify some of the details regarding Ayala's situation with the apartment complex's management. When contacted, the apartment manager, who identified herself as "Alma," said that the rent terms were clear when Ayala signed the new contract: "She knew what she was signing and now she's obligated to pay." The apartment manager also claimed the fire was caused by arson and that the complex was owned by a company called Notting Hill.

However, the manager's responses show some inconsistencies. The Houston Fire Department said the fire was ruled an accident. When Impact attempted to contact the apartment complex owners, the Texas Secretary of State confirmed that no such management company as Notting Hill exists in Texas.

Still In Need Of Basics

Ayala's family got their only break when one of the children's teachers caught word of their situation. The teacher was the wife of Giovanny Diaz, a board member with House of Amos, an affiliate of The Houston Food Bank. The Houston Food Bank feeds 80,000 people each week and works with 400 hunger relief agencies, like the House of Amos, in south Texas.

"When we realized the situation about the fire, we asked individuals to help her out," Diaz explained. "I took her to House of Amos and showed her how she was able to get some emergency pantry food. I introduced her to some of the board members. From that point, she was able to get Christmas toys, a Christmas tree, emergency food and some clothing."

However, the Ayalas' needs are still barely covered. Though they have enough food to keep going in the immediate future, the children lost all their school uniforms and have been re-wearing single sets of hand-me-downs until they can get more clothes and shoes.

Ayala's biggest worry is being able to cover the rent for the coming year. Even in the best of times in her previous apartment, she could barely cover the monthly bills and had little money left over for small luxuries. Now, with higher rent and no income, Ayala has no idea how she'll get back the life she had before the fire. "I'm not able to afford things for my children. They don't even have a computer anymore. I want to buy a computer for them, for school, but there's no way I'll be able to afford it."

In the meantime, she continues to search desperately for a new job. "It doesn't matter what, cleaning, working in a kitchen, cleaning houses, I just want to have a job," she explained dejectedly. The search for employment, paying her rent, getting life back to the way it used to be feels almost impossible to her right now. "Everything was burned. Everything was lost. Now I've lost my job," she said. "I feel so alone."

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04:31 PM on 12/22/2009
While it was probably not a wise idea for her to not go back to work when it was requested (most people would also find it pretty near impossible to go back in that situation, let's all be honest), I'm amazed that so many people started out thinking that she had six kids on her own from the start. Isn't it possible that, hey, maybe this woman WAS married before she had these kids, and maybe - just maybe - her husband walked out on them? These things have been known to happen to a lot of families of all walks of life. She is from a culture in which big families are not uncommon. There was nothing wrong with this woman until she needed real help. Catholic/private school costs money, and the family had a computer and seemed to have had what they needed before the fire, so either she had a decent income or the older kids are helping too.
One other thing I can't believe no one has mentioned (I apologize if I missed any comments related to this): the apartment management is obviously shady and has now been caught in two blatant lies. Shouldn't there be some recourse for Ms. Ayala to get out from under this obviously predatory lease? And isn't it possible that yes, they did take advantage of her and lie to her as well?
12:53 PM on 12/22/2009
joyf1: "And your taxes went up recently?? Federal taxes?? I don't think so. No one's taxes have gone up. That's all your group screams about is how much you pay in taxes. If you make that much money to be in a higher tax bracket, which is still low, you shouldn't be griping." .......................................We already pay more than enough in taxes, crack down on wasteful spending, useless Gov programs, and eliminate irreverent pork piggybacked onto bills and this country would have a huge surplus!
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SteveDenver
Progressive and liberal, just like Jesus Christ.
04:24 AM on 12/22/2009
Dang i have bad math. Wish I could edit.
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SteveDenver
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04:23 AM on 12/22/2009
People keep asking why she has six kids. Well, it works this way: she had sex and got pregnant six times and delivered six children.

What should she do? Kill two and feed them to the other three? What use is that comment or question? Women don't get pregnant alone, but she's raising the kids alone. She has it hard.

Back to the story: In Denver, we're lucky to have St. Vincent DePaul Thrift Stores. I'm not religious, but SVDP allows people in need who are referred by churches and social services, or whose need is learned of through news reports, to "shop" for free. Anything they need they come and get. That's where ALL my used items go, even if I think someone can't use a great pot because I broke the glass lid, it goes. Someone can use it.
06:55 PM on 12/21/2009
thanks for all admin
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sikiÅŸ izle
06:51 PM on 12/21/2009
"The mother of six wondered how she would provide for her family"

Why does this woman have six kids to begin with?
06:54 PM on 12/21/2009
Cause she had 6 kids. Didn't know there was a limit. Arsehole.
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Phoebe917
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08:26 PM on 12/21/2009
but it's okay for the duggars to have 20. and get paid for it by some phony christian group.
08:54 PM on 12/21/2009
Obviously there is no limit. It just sucks for the kids that their mom is not prepared to take care of all of them. Babies are cute, but even one costs a lot of money. This is the 21st century, it's not that hard to find decent birth control these days.
06:46 PM on 12/21/2009
So she bailed on her job when she knew she was a single mother tight on money. Come on. She wasn't fired, she quit.

Looking at that picture with Santa I see three adults who could be working.
03:15 AM on 12/22/2009
She didn't have anything to wear to work. (Did you read the part about losing EVERYTHING and going back into the fire to rescue the kids?) She'd just lost her home. She was sick.

And as for the older kids, maybe they have disabilities. Maybe they do work- the story doesn't give details. And, oh yeah, remember the bad economy and how tons of people can't find work because there's not enough to go around?

You are so quick to judge, so quick to criticize. It's sad. I normally put things more diplomatically, but there's nothing else I can say here.
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Breni
05:17 AM on 12/22/2009
Tons of children, but NO husband(s). And only speaks "Spanish"? Apparently, a poor woman yet has SIX children - she's VERY responsible, isn't she??? Sarcasim intended.
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TXfemmom
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05:26 PM on 12/21/2009
I am a very liberal person, but for God's sake, why did this woman have six children when her earning power and abiity to care for them is not very good, and where is the father of these children?
05:33 PM on 12/21/2009
Babies are fun.
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DallasDon
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05:35 PM on 12/21/2009
Well, at least making them sure is.
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0334231
05:42 PM on 12/21/2009
How many kids this woman has or don't have is irrelevant to her situation. You thumb your dignified nose down someone else's problems and you judge.

Based upon all your problems and issues and we all do have them. if we were to sit down and talk , I'm quite sure I can ask you some of the same questions....WHY ???
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06:07 PM on 12/21/2009
It is not irrelevant at all. The woman has no education, no stability. She was irresponsible in having all of these children. I feel bad for them, but not for her.
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TXfemmom
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11:31 AM on 12/22/2009
Being responsible in life requires that if you are going to bring children into the world, then you should be prepared to care for them. I do not mean that she shouldn't have had children, but have them to the ability for you to be able to provide love, nourishment, clothing and housing. I feel for the children and think they deserve all the assistance they can get, but this woman is irresponsible.
02:39 PM on 12/21/2009
I honestly don't get it. Why is it that the African Americans featured never reach $1000 in donations but every other race exceeds it? I'm truly baffled and saddened by all of you supposed liberals.
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Howard Williams
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04:10 PM on 12/21/2009
easiest answer? blacks have been here longer then most minority groups and the majority of the populace sees us as ungrateful. she gets more sympathy because english isn't her 1st language, while a black person would be assumed to not be literate to read the contract.

Belize, Spain, Portugal, Sweden produce exotic looks, most really popular femal black performer have some other race not two or 3 generation removed.

life, aint it a beach?
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RachelMc
05:25 PM on 12/21/2009
Wow
05:51 PM on 12/21/2009
Race could be a factor but I was not moved by her story and am black. Fourteen grandkids between her 4 kids in their early 20s means a lot of irresponsibility. Wouldn't give them a dime.
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Andman0121
04:16 PM on 12/21/2009
Pft, and how much did YOU contribute? You conservatives are the heartless ones in that you give NOTHING. Soooooo....
02:32 PM on 12/21/2009
I can't believe nobody pointed them to the Red Cross. This exact situation is one of the primary tasks of the Red Cross. They respond the day of a fire and will set a family up with a couple of changes of clothing, food, and temporary shelter. They could have helped them find a place with a comparable rent.
07:24 PM on 12/21/2009
The whole thing sounds sketchy.
12:16 AM on 12/22/2009
I don't know that there is anything "sketchy" about it. This type of thing happens all the time. People with no money and no insurance lose all of their possessions in an apartment fire.

I worked many fires for the Red Cross, and I saw this same story multiple times. They would have put the family up in a hotel and given them vouchers to buy food and clothes and any other necessitiies (like prescriptions). It is part of their disaster relief service. They would have covered everything that is being asked for in the above story.
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TXfemmom
Grandma with eye on the future
11:35 AM on 12/22/2009
The Red Cross answers every fire in the apartment community here in Houston. The news people cover the fires at apartment complexes and they invariably mention that the Red Cross is there with vouchers for bedding, dishes and cookware, food, and basic clothing needs for the family. With children this young, this woman would be eligible for WIC and some other things for the younger ones.

Some of the charities are having a very difficult time this year meeting increased demands, however. We normally fund two Christmas food packages which provide food for Christmas and a three week supply of food for a family. This year, they called me back and asked if we could possibly fund one or two more because they were falling far short on the demand, and we did it.
01:49 PM on 12/21/2009
She only speaks Spanish. Immediately everyone is thinking that taxpayers are going to bail out an illegal. My family spoke only Spanish at home, so I started school speaking only Spanish. Mind you, I was born in the US, as were my parents, my Grandparents, my Great-Grandparents, I can trace my family here in the US back to the 1600's. My Grandmother never learned to speak English in the 89 years she was alive. We spoke Spanish at home. I learned English later. Amazing how you can jump to a conclusion and not know at all if it's accurate. Everyone has their own story.
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RachelMc
02:37 PM on 12/21/2009
And no one in your family learned how to speak english in their own lives even though they were born in america? Funny how only spanish speaking ppl can get away with that. Everyone else like asians and africans, middle easterners learn to speak english well enough to get them around but then they have to learn spanish too to communicate with ppl who refuse to learn english even though they were born in america. I worked with a lot of middle easterners at macys and a lot of spanish speaking ppl would come in and ask them to speak spanish. Just funny how none of my coworkers were born here yet took it upon themslves to learn english but other folks are so selfish that they want them to learn their language too just so they won't have to learn english.
04:43 PM on 12/21/2009
Once again, jump to the conclusion. First of all, I happen to agree with you. If you live in this country, speak English. Period. No excuses. If you want to keep your native language at home, by all means, do so. It's to anybody's credit to have a mastery of more than one language. I did not, however, at any time, note that "nobody" in my family spoke English. I said my Grandmother never did. She also never associated with "gringos" and had no reason to learn. My Grandfather, who did have to, spoke English, Spanish and Southern Ute. (The reservation was close by.) The rest of my family spoke English outside the home, Spanish inside the home. My point was that, perhaps, this woman was just getting out in the world and just now having to learn Spanish. We don't know her situation.

As for other cultures, that's bogus. In every culture, there are folks who just don't, or can't, or for whatever reason, won't learn English. If you've ever been in Chinatown (in any city), you'll see that. How many English speaking people think everyone needs to learn English to speak to them, have you ever traveled abroad and seen how Americans act over there?
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TXfemmom
Grandma with eye on the future
05:30 PM on 12/21/2009
I am sorry but I find it extremely disturbing that your family lived here and never thought it important enough to improve their English skills?

I would like to point out to you tha in TX, 60% of Hispanic children DROP OUT OF HIGH SCHOOL. They are going to be a burden on society and they are going to be the majority her in TX in just ten years. If their disgusting and appalling failure to take appropriate steps to see that their children graduate FROM FREE SCHOOLS, continues, then that means that TX will be like Mexico.

As for this woman, I am sorry for her plight, but no one should continue to have children for whom they cannot provide more security.
06:48 PM on 12/21/2009
Obviously I learned English far better than you did. What country are you from? You have so many typos in your post, it's pathetic.

The folks in my family who never had to interact with non-Spanish speaking individuals didn't learn. Back in those times, the majority of the residents in the New Mexico area spoke Spanish and the "Anglos," or "gringos," if you will, were a small minority. Those in my family who did have to interact, did learn English - which I explained in my previous post. I was merely trying to point out that we don't have sufficient information on this woman. These articles never give you all the background information. And yes, perhaps she should have only had children she could afford, but are we going to punish those children for the mother's mistake? Would Jon & Kate be on welfare now if they hadn't landed a posh gig?
01:15 PM on 12/21/2009
Don't worry, this illegal alien will find plenty of jobs and taxpayer handouts.
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01:21 PM on 12/21/2009
RefreshingTaste said : Don't worry, this illegal alien will find plenty of jobs and taxpayer handouts


Just like Wall Street and Corporate Bankers, yep, taxpayers handouts......
01:22 PM on 12/21/2009
Thank Obama for that.
04:44 PM on 12/21/2009
You're right. This woman's bailout from the consequences of her irresponsibility is EXACTLY like the bailout of corporate bankers.
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01:55 PM on 12/21/2009
Are there no prisons? Are there no workhouses?

“Earth provides enough to satisfy every man's need, but not every man's greed." - Mohandas K. Ghandi
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01:08 PM on 12/21/2009
I just saw the links to where people can help - thank you.
12:35 PM on 12/21/2009
We should probably not blame the woman for having so many children. Most likely she is the victim of a religion that still espouses the "Be fruitful and multiply" mantra without regard to world population.
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01:00 PM on 12/21/2009
So, are you saying women should be victims of religion or men and not responsible for their own bodies? That is so condescending.
03:23 AM on 12/22/2009
It's not condescending. It's saying it happens. Many societies and religions tell women they should have many children- in fact, that it's all they're good for. Those attitudes are the condescending ones toward women- not "flatus" for pointing it out. Of course, there are many possible reasons why this woman has six kids, but patriarchal religion/society is a pretty common one.
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01:11 PM on 12/21/2009
My persoanl opinion, the world is big enough to hold us all. That's why we die and are born, that's why we have wars and death. The planet can take care if itself.......The law of seed time and harvest is just as real as everything happen in time....
12:59 PM on 12/22/2009
True enough. It's just a matter of time before we all start killing each other for scarce resources with fresh water expected to be the first. That is, if new microorganisms spawned in the filth of our overcrowded condition don't kill us first.
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12:12 PM on 12/21/2009
The judgmentalism in this thread is sad.

In my novel about Islam, "Mother of the Believers," I describe an incident where Prophet Muhammad's wife Aisha expressed annoyance that able-bodied men who should have been looking for work were always standing in front of the Prophet's house begging for charity.

The Prophet turned to her and explained gently that such people exist so that we can experience true compassion -- giving to others without expectation or judgment.

Merry Christmas from your Muslim brothers and sisters.
12:24 PM on 12/21/2009
Thank you. And, actually, I don't think any religion requires a means test or assessment of relative worth or possible laziness when considering charity, just that the poor should be helped.
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12:49 PM on 12/21/2009
Or help people who needs help..You must define poor. Who is poor and what is it poor?

Poor because you can't afford health insurance or a home or a car.....What is poor ? Poor you can't save enough for college or your kids college. What is poor ? Poor enough you can't afford life insurance. What is poor ? Poor enough you can't afford to get a warranty on your car or gas for the car.. What is POOR ?
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Breni
05:38 AM on 12/22/2009
Helping the poor is fine as long as they TRY to help themselves and that includes NOT HAVING CHILDREN - SIX!!!! - THAT THEY CANNOT AFFORD and especially have no husband/partner to help you financially!

There are PLENTY of people in this country alone who would have LOVED to had more than their 1 or 2 children, but were concerned that they couldn't afford any more Why should an UNMARRIED women with a brood of children (and probably ILLEGAL to boot) get off scot free without being criticized for her wrecklessness, carelessness and irresponsibility and TAX PAYER COST that she's putting on the backs of other working people?????
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05:26 PM on 12/21/2009
You sir, have some nerve decrying the judgmentalism (sic) on this thread while that sentiment is a mainstay of your religion.

While you're describing events in the 1st century as if you actually know, why don't you enlighten us and describe your experience during the events leading up to the Big Bang.

Merry Christmas from your American brothers and sisters.
12:51 AM on 12/22/2009
Perhaps you should know more about Islam before you claim what are the mainstays of that religion. For example, the Prophet Muhammed did not live in the 1st century. He lived several hundred years later.

By the way, you imply that the person to which you are replying is not American. You might want to read his bio.