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Jacob Zuma Wedding (PHOTOS): South African President Weds Third Wife Tobeka Madiba In Zulu Ceremony

First Posted: 03/18/10 06:12 AM ET Updated: 05/25/11 04:05 PM ET

(AP) KWANXAMALALA, South Africa -- South Africa's president formalized his marriage to his third wife during a traditional ceremony Monday amid media reports he plans to take a fourth bride later this year.

Some 2,000 guests thronged a homestead in rural KwaZulu-Natal province to watch the ceremony in which 67-year-old President Jacob Zuma and 38-year-old Tobeka Madiba took part.

The couple are already married under South African law and have three children. Madiba attended Zuma's inauguration ceremony in May. He paid a dowry to her family in 2007 as is tradition.

Meanwhile, a family member told The Associated Press on Monday that Zuma is also planning to marry again later this year. Other relatives have told South African media that the president plans to wed Durban native Gloria Bongi Ngema. The president's office has not commented on the reports.

Monday's ceremony included an hourlong traditional Zulu wedding dance. During the ceremony, Madiba performed a solo dance while holding a spear and a shield to symbolize her acceptance of her new husband.

Zuma, wearing a skirt made of animal fur pelts and sporting bright white tennis shoes, then joined the dance. The bride wore matching sneakers.

Guests dined on traditional Zulu foods, and attendees were told that more than a dozen sheep, goats and cows had been slaughtered for the feast.

Wedding guest Sipho Msomi, a cattle herder, said the wedding made him proud to be Zulu, the nation's largest ethnic group.

"We love him because he is one of us and does not look down upon us," he said. "Zuma can marry as many women as he wants. It is our culture."

Another guest, 28-year-old Prudence Khumalo, said she also supported the polygamous tradition.

"In the West is frowned upon," she said. "Here we celebrate it. It is our culture and we stand by it."

Zuma, 67, a Zulu traditionalist and an unabashed polygamist, has now married at least five women over the years and has 19 children. He currently has three wives including Madiba: Sizakele Khumalo, whom he married in 1973, and Nompumelelo Ntuli, whom he wed in 2008.

He also was married to other women: Kate Mantsho Zuma, committed suicide in 2000. He divorced the other, Nkosazana Dlamini Zuma, in 1998, although she remains a trusted aide and is now the country's home affairs minister.

When he took office earlier this year, all three wives were at the inauguration ceremony, but only Khumalo, his first wife, accompanied him to the main stage set up outside the presidency building in Pretoria. Since then, none of his wives has had a particularly prominent role, in keeping with the practice of South African first ladies before them.

Zuma's embrace of Zulu tradition - including polygamy - has endeared him to many South Africans. Still, some consider polygamy old-fashioned and expensive, and question how it can endure in a modern country.

And experts say having multiple, concurrent partners heightens the risk of AIDS, leaving some to question what model a polygamous president presents. South Africa, a nation of about 50 million, has an estimated 5.7 million people infected with HIV, more than any other country.

Zuma is not alone among world leaders when it comes to polygamy. In the Gulf, the number of a ruler's wives and who among them is paramount are a constant source of rumors.



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(AP) KWANXAMALALA, South Africa -- South Africa's president formalized his marriage to his third wife during a traditional ceremony Monday amid media reports he plans to take a fourth bride later this...
(AP) KWANXAMALALA, South Africa -- South Africa's president formalized his marriage to his third wife during a traditional ceremony Monday amid media reports he plans to take a fourth bride later this...
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01:21 PM on 01/07/2010
Tiger, take note. Skip Brit Hume's advise to convert to Jebus, and buy yourself a seat at Zuma's cabinet!
12:28 AM on 01/07/2010
Adorable couple
10:41 AM on 01/06/2010
"And experts say having multiple, concurrent partners heightens the risk of AIDS, leaving some to question what model a polygamous president presents. South Africa, a nation of about 50 million, has an estimated 5.7 million people infected with HIV, more than any other country."

ARE YOU SERIOUS?!!
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SgtLucifer
08:59 AM on 01/06/2010
One woman, one pain-in-the-rear.
Three women, three ....
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09:02 AM on 01/06/2010
makes one wonder what women think about you :-).
07:45 AM on 01/06/2010
I don't see how this will increase the chance of getting AIDS. Even if the guy has 10 wives, if they're all faithful then there's no problem. Also, I would think that being able to marry additional women would reduce the chance of infidelity, at least on the man's part.

I think it's great that they stand by their culture. There's nothing inherently wrong with polygamy, except that traditional Western, Christian culture says it's wrong.
07:45 PM on 01/06/2010
Wakey, wakey... The problem is that this dude (Zuma) is the unfaithful one. His was dragged to court by a prostitute a few years ago when she claimed he raped her. This became one of the many scandals he brought onto himself. When asked what he did to prevent contracting HIV, his now infamous/pathetic answer was that he took a shower and washed himself. Dhuh! Do some research and you'll learn what an embarrassment he is to his country and how badly South Africa is affected by AIDS.
07:42 AM on 01/06/2010
This is part of America problem. Judging others by American standards. Only Americans who have travelled know that all that you know ends east of NY and west of SF. Either get with the program or go home.

For some, between those reference points are all they know or appreciate.
06:28 AM on 01/06/2010
He must have a big wallet.
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Mortifyd
02:12 AM on 01/06/2010
Mazel Tov!
12:18 AM on 01/06/2010
Geez, imagine that, multiple wives & South Africa still has one of the highest rape statisics in the world.

Wonder what that means????
05:27 AM on 01/06/2010
The US outlaws polygymy and has one of the highest rape statistics in the world. What does that mean?
06:34 AM on 01/06/2010
I don't know, obviously polygamy isn't the answer, guess that leaves castration?
07:43 AM on 01/06/2010
The US outlaws polygamy but lets two men get married. What does that mean?
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dukesman2000
We have guided missiles and misguided men
11:32 PM on 01/05/2010
Ah the good old African culture...then comes along the white man and now I am stuck in a foreign land with one woman.
03:54 PM on 01/05/2010
Since I am from the USA, I find the customs of other internationals facinating. I especially like the dress of Zulu women in those distictive head gear.

The world is getting smaller by the year. It's a good thing.
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quel sauvage
02:53 PM on 01/05/2010
I can't see the problem with this. People should be allowed to love and marry whomever (and however many whomevers) they want, as long as everyone is consenting. Why are we worrying about how many wives this man has when there are wars and famine and other real issues we could focus on? Asinine.

My best wishes to him and his family.
02:41 PM on 01/05/2010
South Africa has the world's most liberal constitution. Interracial marriage, same-sex marriage and polygamy have always been a right in the new constitution. Women are also free to marry three husbands. I really don't see the issue in that as I come from Africa. If all three wifes are okay with that why not?
Just because we are behind doesn't make him primitive. The argument about AI.DS is just stu.pid. He was dating her like any other normal individual and she would have admitted that she has HI.V if she would have H.IV. I think the chance to spread the diseases outside a marriage is much higher than inside a marriage. So please quote your "experts."
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avshanbh
11:12 AM on 01/05/2010
Would that make her South Africa's Third Lady?
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archeDeWashington
11:03 AM on 01/05/2010
Personally, I think we should talk about corporation greed. How they are killing my people because of their greed. Most powerful people are destroying my people because of greed.

www.okonda.com/please_save_my_people.html

www.okongo.org

This is what should be the news. We want to make this world a better place for all. Not for few but to all.

When again shall we live in love?

Sometime, it is sad to be born (for me) and witness all of this. We should assist each other in danger because you know what? People help people.