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Rep. Mark Souder Cries Over Affair, Resignation (VIDEO)

AP/Huffington Post   First Posted: 05/18/10 05:15 PM ET Updated: 05/25/11 05:30 PM ET

INDIANAPOLIS — Indiana Rep. Mark Souder, an eight-term Republican who promoted abstinence education, said Tuesday he'll resign from Congress after admitting an extramarital affair with a part-time staff member.

Souder won a bruising primary just two weeks ago, and the resignation effective Friday could hurt the GOP's chances of holding onto the Republican-leaning district in November in a year that many expect will favor the party.

Souder, an evangelical Christian who has championed family values and traditional marriage, apologized for his actions but provided no details during an emotional news conference at his Fort Wayne office.

"I am so ashamed to have hurt the ones I love," he said as he battled tears. "I am sorry to have let so many friends down, people who have worked so hard for me."

Souder said he doesn't want his "mistake" to be used "as a political football in a partisan attempt to undermine the cause for which I have labored all my adult life."

"The ideas we advocate are still just and right," Souder said according to the Wall Street Journal, adding that he is "most defined by the fact that I'm an evangelical Christian"


The announcement stunned many in political circles.

"Most people in this part of the state are as dumbfounded as they could be," said Bob Schmuhl, a political analyst and University of Notre Dame professor.

Republican Gov. Mitch Daniels said he was surprised and disappointed by Souder's announcement.

"He did a wrong thing but now he's done the right thing," Daniels said.

A spokeswoman from Daniels' office said a special election will be held to fill the vacancy. The winner would complete the remainder of Souder's term that ends in January.

Republican and Democratic precinct committeemen in the district will choose nominees for the special election, and GOP precinct officials would choose a candidate for the November ballot. The special election cannot be held until at least 60 days after the vacancy occurs.

Throughout his time in Congress, Souder made his evangelical Christianity a centerpiece of his public persona. He was known for his outspoken views on religion and his uncompromising conservative positions on social issues such as abortion.

He said after a 2008 hearing on abstinence-only education that the only fully reliable way young people can protect themselves from pregnancy and STDs is by "abstaining from sex until in a committed, faithful relationship."

Around the same time, he also recorded a video interview with a staff member in which he stressed the importance of abstinence education.

As a lawmaker, Souder was best known for his work on drug enforcement issues and his opposition to online gambling. Souder played an important role in 2006 legislation signed by President George W. Bush that targeted methamphetamine dealers.

"To serve has been a blessing and a responsibility given from God. I wish I could have been a better example," Souder said, his voice breaking. "I sinned against God, my wife and my family by having a mutual relationship with a part-time member of my staff."

He said he chose to resign rather than subject his family to a "painful, drawn-out process" in what he called "the poisonous environment of Washington, D.C."

"I'm sick of politicians who drag their spouses in front of the cameras rather than confronting the problems that they've caused," he said.

Souder, 59, has been married to Diane since 1974, according to the biography on his office website. They have three adult children and two grandchildren.

Souder was seeking a ninth term after winning the May 4 Republican primary with 48 percent of the vote. His GOP opponent, car dealer Bob Thomas, spent much of his own money on television commercials portraying Souder as a career politician who wasn't a true fiscal conservative. Souder countered by emphasizing his A-plus marks from the National Rifle Association and 100 percent rating from the National Right to Life Committee.

In November, Souder was to face Democrat Tom Hayhurst, a former Fort Wayne city councilman who got 46 percent of the vote against Souder in 2006 – the toughest challenge since Souder was first elected in 1994.

Hayhurst said in statement that his thoughts and prayers were with Souder and his family.

"I'm not running for Congress to run against anyone, but I'm running because I think I can help change Washington and that will not change not matter who is in the race," Hayhurst said.

Republicans hope the GOP tendencies will prevail in November in the district that John McCain carried by more than 10 points in the 2008 presidential election.

One possible Republican replacement for Souder is state Sen. Marlin Stutzman of Howe, who finished second to former Sen. Dan Coats in this month's GOP primary for the U.S. Senate.

Souder's resignation continues a significant turnover among Indiana's congressional delegation this year.

Democratic Sen. Evan Bayh announced in February he wouldn't seek re-election, saying he had tired of Congress. Democratic Rep. Brad Ellsworth is leaving his southern Indiana seat to run for Bayh's position.

Republican Rep. Steve Buyer, who had been under fire over a foundation he'd set up to award college scholarships, said he January he wouldn't seek a 10th term in the House after his wife was diagnosed with an incurable autoimmune disease.

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Associated Press writers Henry C. Jackson in Washington and Rick Callahan in Indianapolis contributed to this report.

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Rosanneofpgh
some days youre the dog;others the hydrant
09:24 AM on 05/20/2010
In other words, folks, marky is saying dont do as I do; do as I SAY!! typical rethug hypocrite!!
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joeyfoto
“Écraser l'infamie!”
04:32 AM on 05/20/2010
The fault-line here is not sex — God knows this pathetic "Evangelical Christian" fanatic could have used a good roll-in-the-hay — the crisis here is one of massive hypocrisy in the aftermath of over a decade of absurd policy positions that were bigoted, faith-based/as opposed to fact-based, hideously ignorant of the human consequences of vacuous moralistic pretensions and, now — finally, laughably, self-righteous.

This vicious prig who has harmed so many Americans with his insultingly ignorant reactionary religious opinions (for example. 200,000 students denied student loans for mostly minor drug convictions plus his now hilarious insistence on "abstinence only" sex-non-education AFTER it had been scientifically discredited as useless or worse than useless..)...

This man fully fits the definition of a disgraced member; for the harm that he did to our country over 16 brutally bigoted years, Mark Souder should be run out of town on a rail.
11:21 PM on 05/19/2010
boo hoo hoo- at least he wasn't out hiking the Appalachian Trail. He kept it on the down low- no quick trips to Brazil!
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Cinnamonape
06:01 PM on 05/19/2010
From the Souder Video on the "Abstinence Only Programs"

"I should have abstained" -Indeed Congressman!

"How hard is it to get kids to abstain..." Apparently about the same as a Congressman and his aide. {I'll avoid the rude innuendo]

"Nothing works very well - nothing says abstenance education fails"...like a Congressman who claims to have studied it up the wazoo and still doesn't follow his marriage vows.

At 2:30 Tracy is strokin her pen, like a little floozy!

"If you mention condom eight times for every time you say abstain..." Tracy "Umh, Uhm Okay"
"Don't do it but here's what to do..." Tracy: "Take precaution"

From the video: "It's everyone's fault but his...don't have sex with a partner when you don't know their background"...wonder if he made her get an HIV Test before they did it!
05:41 PM on 05/19/2010
Souder translated words: "I'm just too sexy for Washington, DC."
03:59 PM on 05/19/2010
My only shock from the Republican "family values" hypocrite is that the illicit affair was actually with a woman.
03:42 PM on 05/19/2010
Never does he point to the 800-pound gorilla in the room :

the schizophrenia between his affair and the "abstinence" he was preaching, and how the latter obviously doesn't work if it can't even work for him.
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Cinnamonape
06:03 PM on 05/19/2010
Well those teenage boys simply weren't meeting vixens like "Tracy Jackson", I guess. And the teenage gals just weren't meeting guys with the charm and grace of Rep. Mark Souder ;-)
03:42 PM on 05/19/2010
What s Girly Man. If I get caught and the word is out I'm going to stand tall and without apology (except to my wife) admit it. That is the way to take responsibility. Now this woman looks like a very attractive woman and this man enjoyed every minute of being with this girl. Crying and lying like a little girl is just a way of covering his own butt and not defending someone you were intimate with is the way of cowards. This is pure dishonesty and the mechanism for getting sympathy for himself and throwing this girl under the bus. He is a cowardly piece of S--T.
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03:33 PM on 05/19/2010
What we need to be learning from these situations is that the louder and harder someone moralizes to everyone else about the sins of homosexuality and extramarital affairs, the closer we need to look at the one doing the moralizing.
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Rosanneofpgh
some days youre the dog;others the hydrant
09:27 AM on 05/20/2010
What you said is, indeed, a very good clue to the moralizer's behavior. People will accuse others of the things THEY are doing!
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02:00 AM on 05/21/2010
Just a way of diverting speculation away from themselves I guess.
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formlessness
03:08 PM on 05/19/2010
crying is the national pastime of conservatives
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02:05 AM on 05/21/2010
It's Glenn Beck's favorite.
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TYRANNASAURUS
UGH!....people taste like crap!
02:48 PM on 05/19/2010
HAHAAHAHAHAHAHA.....THOSE CROOKED PHONY BIBLE BACKING POLITICIANS ARE ALWAYS SINNING AGAINST SOMETHING................. AND THEY'RE ALL SO VERY SORRY...........................................................WHEN THEY'RE CAUGHT......HAHAHAHAA
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qthedancer
02:43 PM on 05/19/2010
I am SOOOOO tired of these politicians getting caught with their pants down and then going all teary-sobby and "repenting" because they have offended G*d and their families! Guys, if you can't abstain, quit preaching abstinence! What about that is so hard to understand?
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rougebaisers
02:33 PM on 05/19/2010
Has any of these gutless little peckers ever once just said, "Hey, I had an affair and it was great, sorry honey."
02:18 PM on 05/19/2010
Not all men taken in adultery regret it. It can lead to divorce; which always is expensive. Freedom isn't free.
Being free to pursue a lady love is priceless even when you & your lady love don't marry & part.
There often are moments which are precious beyond any monetary value as Bohemians have found. Finding a woman which puts you in the grips of hell can be rewarding for both parties. Marriage isn't suitable for all people.
Be thankful if you encounter a vivacious woman at anytime. There are risks & rewards in life.
There is nothing after life. Fate has nothing for the faint of heart, save eternal death.
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Rosanneofpgh
some days youre the dog;others the hydrant
09:29 AM on 05/20/2010
specious excuse there, sparky!
02:17 PM on 05/19/2010
Political speak= "I'm sick of politicians who drag their spouses in front of the cameras rather than confronting the problems that they've caused," he said.

Truth=His wife said 'I'm not going in front of the country, ask your mistress'.
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05:34 PM on 05/19/2010
Did you hear the anger and judgment in his voice when he said that?

How dare he try to sell himself off as being morally superior to other adulterers.

It's nuts.

This guy's got serious issues. Not a very self-examined individual. His religious zeal has made him jelly-brained.