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Tom Brock, Hope Lutheran Church Reverend Who Attends Gay Support Group While Advocating Against Gay Clergy, Expected To Keep Job

First Posted: 06/24/10 01:28 PM ET Updated: 05/25/11 05:50 PM ET

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Tom Brock told Lavender magazine that he is being held accountable so he never would do anything with temptation of his same-sex attraction.

MINNEAPOLIS (AP)- A Lutheran pastor ardently critical of allowing gays into the clergy is on leave from his Minneapolis church after a gay magazine reported his attendance at a support group for men struggling with same-sex attraction.

Church officials, however, said Wednesday that the Rev. Tom Brock likely will return to the pulpit at Hope Lutheran Church because he acted in accordance with his faith by attending the group.

A fixture on local cable access shows, Brock regularly broadcasts conservative views on homosexuality and criticizes the Evangelical Lutheran Church in America for liberalizing its gay clergy policy. Lavender Magazine published a story last week about Brock's quiet attendance of the Faith in Action meetings, written by a reporter who falsely posed as a member of the group.

"The fact that he said one thing publicly, and privately he's a homosexual -- that's somewhat inconsistent," said Lavender president Stephen Rocheford. "This company has a policy not to out people. The one exception is a public figure who says one thing and does another."
The Lavender article never explicitly said Brock confessed to homosexual activity. It quotes him at one point talking about a recent mission trip to Eastern Europe, of which he says, "I fell into temptation. I was weak."

Hope Lutheran's executive pastor, the Rev. Tom Parrish, said when confronted with the article, Brock "simply said he indeed has been attending this Christian group, both going there and being honest about temptations he has, and is being held accountable so he never would do anything with that temptation."

WATCH: Rev. Brock suggests that God disrupted a gathering of the Evangelical Lutheran Church with a tornado because of the organization's views

Parrish said Brock was put on leave from the job of senior pastor at Hope Lutheran when the article came out, but likely will return after an internal investigation.

"What they've done is unconscionable," Parrish said of Lavender's covert infiltration of Faith in Action. The group is the Minnesota affiliate of the Catholic Church's Courage program, described on its website as a "spiritual support system which would assist men and women with same-sex attractions in living chaste lives in fellowship, truth and love."
Brock, who has an unlisted phone number, did not respond to several interview requests made through Parrish.

Lavender is a twice-monthly free magazine Rocheford co-founded in 1995. The article was written by John Townsend, a freelance writer, who does not include details of how he gained access to the group except to say he went through a preliminary interview with its administrator, the Rev. James Livingston. Townsend did not reveal if he actively participated at meetings he attended or simply listened.

Livingston said Townsend gave an alias and attended meetings in Minneapolis over two months this spring.

"I think anybody who appreciates confidential support groups would just be aghast at what they did," Livingston said. "It's one thing to be opposed politically to someone; it's another thing to worm your way into a group like that and expose the secrets of the group."

Rocheford said he did not think it uncommon for media organizations to send reporters undercover to obtain secret information. But Kelly McBride, an expert in journalism ethics at St. Petersburg, Florida's Poynter Institute, said she found Lavender's approach "troubling."

"It's kind of like being a spy," McBride said. "For most groups that deal with something where members of the group find it shameful, there's a strong presumption of confidentiality."

The article graced Lavender's cover, with a large picture of Brock in his vestments over the title, "Antigay Lutheran Pastor Protests Too Much."

Last summer, leaders of the ELCA met in Minneapolis for a national convention where they voted to let individual churches hire noncelibate gay people as clergy as long as they are in committed relationships. In a TV broadcast, Brock called it a "grievous week" and mentioned that a tornado struck the convention hall where the Lutherans were meeting right as they were preparing to vote.

"Every time the Bible mentions homosexual behavior, it condemns it," Brock said in the broadcast. "It never adds, it's OK if you love each other."

Hope Lutheran officially left the ELCA last year, joining instead the Association of Free Lutheran Congregations.
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Associated Press Writer Jeff Baenen contributed to this report.

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09:27 PM on 07/11/2010
Mr. Brock performed my Grandma's eulogy by espousing how important it was to believe in 'God' or you'll go to hell, probably because someone told him there was at least one atheist in the family.

I am not the least surprised someone that would use a funeral as a vehicle to preach fear would prove himself to be a hypocrite. But then again, I've never had a positive opinion of him.

Good luck with that 12 step program.
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CheapTrick
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11:40 AM on 06/28/2010
This guy has caused SO much pain and hate, I'm having trouble feeling sorry for him. He wasn't part of a legitimate 12-step program, he was just in some made up scam that's taking advantage of his self-hate.
10:47 AM on 06/26/2010
If a reporter had say, infiltrated a private and sensitive meeting of PFLAG or a sensitive meeting of a GLBT group counseling session and had pretended to be in need of help; all the while taking notes to later use as an attack piece. It seems clear that all those who think this (the article on Tom Brock) is just great journalism, would be screaming for the head of my theoretical journalist and anyone involved with its' publication.

Most of of those here in this comment section are seemingly seething with vitriol. I have noticed over the last 34 years of being a Christian, that those who yell and rant the loudest against the Christian message of redemption and love offered by the risen Lord Jesus Christ, are the vary ones who feel most keenly the conviction of the Holy Spirit. So perhaps it is not Tom you are angry with but your own sin that is being exposed. Unfortunately, you love the sin you are in more than the free gift of salvation and eternal life that the Saviour is offering to you and all of mankind.
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12:25 PM on 06/26/2010
You got a lot of nerve.
Your post full of judgment is the reason most of us don't like Christians.
It has NOTHING to do with your Christ.
I think he's kinda cool, with the exception of messing with that fig tree like that(you know, wasn't the season for fruit so he killed it, his "boys" made him feel bad so he brought it back to life?)...I had a problem with him killing that fig tree, but other wise, he's alright.
And Jesus never said a WORD about being against any kind of sexual activity. NOTHING Either same sex or "opposite" sex as you girl in California calls it.
No you "christians" are the "seething with vitriol" champions.
KEEP IT TO YOURSELF FROM NOW ON, EH?
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01:20 PM on 06/26/2010
Using the word "vitrio" has me chemical lost in translation_

No you "christians" are the "seething with vitriol" champions
No you "christians" are the "seething with sulfuric acid" champions

vitriol
1. A former name for sulfuric acid.
2. Any of various sulfates of metals, such as ferrous sulfate (green vitriol), zinc sulfate, or copper sulfate (blue vitriol). See also blue vitriol.
01:37 PM on 06/26/2010
Hello,

I am sorry you find my post difficult. But then again, Christianity has never been a popularity contest. Remember, the hypocritical establishment of His day had Jesus (The founder of the religion you seem to have so much trouble with) crucified, which by the way is an incredibly agonizing way to die. In some cases a crucified individual would take 24 hours or more to die. Jesus, however, was flogged with a cat-of-nine-tails before He was crucified (a leather whip with bone or metal pieces attached to the end of the whips nine lines to make it even more deadly). The whipping opened his back up and Jesus had substantial blood loss before they led Him to the cross. He died on a hill crucified with two theives. His death was significant because He died so that your and my sins could be forgiven. That is the Gospel in Its' short form. Trust me, the Gospel message is the best news you are going to hear today. May Jesus be with you as you consider what is written here.

Jay Howard

PS Take a look at Matthew 7:13,14 in any bible version you care to look at. It lays out clearly what Jesus the fellow you say is "kinda cool" tells the world is at stake for everyone at the end of the world.









hje died for your sins
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03:07 AM on 06/27/2010
"As cantankerous and varied as GLBT activism is, virtually everyone holds privacy sacred. The exception is if someone in a public position of political, social, or theological influence engages in homosexual or transgender activity while at the same time denouncing the basic civil rights of GLBT citizens. Former Senator Larry Craig’s restroom cruising and Dr. George Rekers’s Rentboy.com allegations come to mind.

The GLBT community and its allies have a wide variety of principled viewpoints, often conflicting, on just how out a GLBT person should or should not be, as well as what constitutes healthy sexuality or sexual excess. Both sides of these big philosophical questions are discussed and argued conscientiously every day.

However, it’s a universal consensus among GLBT individuals and straight allies that to bash GLBT persons physically and/or sociopolitically—but then turn around, and be homosexually active oneself—is hypocrisy."

-- Attribution: John Townsend
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DEiST1
09:17 PM on 06/25/2010
Treaty of Tripoli, Article 11: Written during the Administration of George Washington and signed into law by John Adams.
“The government of the United States is not in any sense founded on the Christian religion.”
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ralp817
06:33 PM on 06/25/2010
funny how the biggest homophobes are gay, they are worried that people are looking at them so they put up a front.
06:29 PM on 06/25/2010
most of these comments are self-congratulatory and self-indulgent. criticizing religion for its antiquity is so 18th century, as if a viable solution to bad religion is the elimination of religion altogether. such comments are sophomoric, petty, and deeply unrealistic. religions are variegated traditions that develop over time, asking and answering questions that modify the traditions. they should be characterized by their best and not their worst (though, of course the worst should serve as warnings).

what's amazing about so many of the comments is that too few seem appalled that a reporter joined a confidential group and divulged publicly what was said in confidence. i'm not defending tom brock, but just because one disagrees with the premise of the group doesn't give one the right to violate someone's confidence.
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Earl
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06:36 PM on 06/25/2010
It seems to me that you believe a demonizer's privacy is more sacred than his victims' rights.
07:56 PM on 06/25/2010
not at all. I advocate for his victims' rights, and I think that it's possible to do so without stooping to that level. The end doesn't justify any means. The nobility of the end--civil equality for gays and lesbians--recommends a nobler approach to procuring it. It at least doesn't allow for the sleaziness of that reporter.
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Earl
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06:15 PM on 06/25/2010
I look forward to the day when being gay is normal and being an evangelical is stigmatized.
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06:29 PM on 06/25/2010
hear, hear.
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jaborine
No tea for me
06:14 PM on 06/25/2010
How many of these guys can they fit in a closet?
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06:07 PM on 06/25/2010
I wonder if Tom Brock needed help "lifting his luggage?"
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jaborine
No tea for me
06:00 PM on 06/25/2010
More conservatives looking for love in all the Right places.
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jaborine
No tea for me
05:59 PM on 06/25/2010
Here we go again. Can we safely conclude that everyone who spends time peering into someone else's bedroom has issues with his/her own sexuality?

There is a term we all can get a handle on and it's called "jealousy." These peepers would have us believe they are interested in same sex relationships because of their religion. However, this report indicates the contrary appears to be the case. There appears to be a lot of vicarious enjoyment gained by merely discussing the issue or being around the very people you are speaking against,


It reminds me of the brutal slavemaster by day, who became the bedroom intruder by night.

"Sir you protest too much." "You're always on my mind."
These are some of the same people who are trying to make rules and decisions that affect the lives and welfare of most of us. They claim to have all the answers on every subject when they really need to focus on their own lives, and I'll blunder on with mine.

We shouldn't conclude their nonsense is coming from seniors. My granny could mind her own business and raise 10 grand kids to do the same, and I think they should too. No, what we are dealing with is a mindset based on the faulty premise that I am better and you need my guidance.
Deep down they must know that they are wrong; hence, the internal struggle/painful confessions.
05:20 PM on 06/25/2010
come out of the closet queen & get over it.
05:09 PM on 06/25/2010
Isn't it odd, that the same people spewing forth that homosexuals are made not born, have these camps to "help" them with their urges? It seems to me that it proves that people are born that way. How do you explain that away?
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05:07 PM on 06/25/2010
Hmmm. He goes to a support group for men "suffering" from same-sex attraction, is suddenly on leave after it is reported in a gay mag, then it's really that he was there because it is his duty as a pastor. Uh-huh. Yep, I believe 'em.
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Earl
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06:39 PM on 06/25/2010
Wide stance, blah blah, carry luggage, blah blah...if there weren't people spreading hatred, perhaps these guys could live a normal life.
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liberal123
05:04 PM on 06/25/2010
Psychologists call this reaction formation.