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Michigan Father Commutes To Chicago For Work

First Posted: 08/09/10 11:07 AM ET Updated: 05/25/11 06:20 PM ET

Jim Laman

In her new book about the challenges facing the American middle class, Arianna profiles families struggling to recover from the recession. In this excerpt, she writes about Jim Laman, a Michigan father who, unable to find a job after he was laid-off from his engineering job in November 2008, began commuting to Chicago for work.

Jim Laman of Holland, Michigan, is another great example of how resilience can get you through tough times. He spent twenty-one years working at furniture manufacturer Herman Miller before he was "downsized" in the economic tailspin that followed 9/11. He found his next job at a smaller company, but in 2006 he abruptly lost it in a mass layoff. "There was absolutely zero warning," he says. "My benefits ended that night at midnight, as did my pay. I was devastated. Never saw it coming. They even kept the bonus that I had earned for the past year. I was bitter for a long time about that and it still bothers me, as the company was supposedly so 'family oriented.' I guess that came with a caveat!"

Laman found another job, this time at a manufacturer of truck transmissions in southwest Michigan. It was sixty-five miles away, but he kept his gas bill down by riding his motorcycle, even through treacherous weather, which saved him about sixty dollars per week. Then, in November 2008, as the economy reeled from the financial crisis, his company issued a round of pink slips-- and once again, with just twenty-four hours' notice and a month before Christmas, he was out of a job.

"It was not a merry Christmas," he remembers, "but we got a few gifts for the kids and a free tree to put them under. I started selling things on eBay to help make ends meet, and have continued to do so sporadically to this day. Classic Herman Miller furniture is quite valuable, so we sold a few pieces and I parted with a classic Saab and the parts I had collected for it for many years. I've sold about five thousand dollars' worth a year on eBay, and it has helped tremendously. In the meantime, my wife lost her contract job at Herman Miller, which was another blow to us. During this time we were very worried about losing our home, and my parents helped us a little. I was so stressed that there were days I wondered if I could go on much longer, frankly. Unemployment benefits and the remainder of our retirement savings got us through. I looked into selling blood, any sort of factory work, doing odd jobs, anything for some income . . . but no takers."

He filled out almost five hundred job applications. Frustrated, Laman broadened his search, first to Indiana, and then as far as Chicago, where he finally received an offer in mid-March 2009. In a complete upheaval of his life, he accepted the job.

"Soon after, I found a room to rent up in Evanston, about six miles north of where I work, and I still live there. I commute home to Michigan every Friday night, returning on Sunday evenings, so weekends are rather short, but we are making it work. People thought at first that my wife and I were separated or getting a divorce. But no, we are fine. We just live in different states! Kind of funny really, but I got a better cell phone plan and with that and email, we stay in fairly good communication. At times, I find out what is going on via Facebook, too! . . . I think it is about attitude and priorities: If you go in with a good attitude, good things will come your way. As a result I am involved in many things that I never would have done before, including company volunteer work, a softball league, and exploring the city on my own on my motorcycle. All new stuff--and kind of fun. Things I never would have imagined doing back in 2006 when I lost my job."

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In her new book about the challenges facing the American middle class, Arianna profiles families struggling to recover from the recession. In this excerpt, she writes about Jim Laman, a Michigan fathe...
In her new book about the challenges facing the American middle class, Arianna profiles families struggling to recover from the recession. In this excerpt, she writes about Jim Laman, a Michigan fathe...
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njgal4obama
All others will be towed.
03:30 PM on 09/23/2010
My husband is in a construction union in NJ. When he was laid off between December and the end of July, he was offered a job in Chicago with one of his previous employers. He could have lived with one of my siblings who live near Chicago, and would have done fine being separated from me temporarily.

Being separated from our kids was not an option, though. It would have killed him. He'd have sold everything we had first.
02:43 PM on 08/14/2010
This is not some third world story, It's an American story unique to the rest of the world. No other nation has this many people getting up at 3am and flying to work each week. We have people working months at a time on oil rigs, fishing boats, long haul truckers, tech service men doing this very thing to support their families.
One of the reasons we are NOT turning into a third world country is the fact that people still have the ability to do whatever it takes to survive. When that gets taken away you can then wirite your story.
06:39 AM on 08/18/2010
There is nothing honorific or heroic in being a survivor in one of the most wealthiest
country in the world is like like dying of thirst in a house fitted with running water.

It is just plain madness
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09:52 PM on 08/19/2010
This is a third world story. People in Taiwan do the same thing, commute to China. Only it's months between visits to the wife and kids. Talk to a few immigrants, this is common in third world.
09:24 PM on 08/22/2010
It was common here in the 1930s. It's happened before and it will happen again.
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09:57 PM on 08/11/2010
I did this for two years between SOUTHEASTERN Michigan and Chicago.
It was tiring but it was work.
I had a 50-65 mile (one way) commute for most of my working life.
Why does this make us a Third World America?
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jparso3
12:03 AM on 08/16/2010
Same here I had a 60 mile comment everyday for about a year and half. Got a big salary increase and bought a townhouse about 15miles from work. Also in my area it normal for people to go long distances. I person at the office I work at lives 4hrs away. They work four 10 hr days and get Fridays off.
06:43 AM on 08/18/2010
Because in other western countries people work to live not live to work.

And people wonder why there r so many divorces and families break up?
Love like work need time to grow, the time you spending on the road commuting.
10:23 AM on 08/11/2010
Henry Ford said that "A business that makes only money is a poor business."
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Gaylord P Farqua
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09:23 AM on 08/11/2010
This man's plight is a precursor of the Wall Street dream of a "floating work force" under the plan titled "structural reform" that has been floating around. The basic idea is to discontinue permanent hiring and use a temp labor force at significantly lower wages and few, if any benefits. We are seeing some interesting moves by big corporations and businesses now. The hiring freeze is on and those who survived the employment dumping legitimized by the market crash and recession scare are working harder and longer for less and scared to lose their jobs. Yet there is a reported 1 to 2 trillion dollar stash of cash being squirreled away by the employers just hoping that "bad times" will give the GOP the November elections. Maybe some of George Orwell's ideas were a few decades early. In the meantime profits are up along with the market.
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08:55 AM on 08/11/2010
Great story ... not. Bottom-line: someone lost their job, took on a job in a different state, and now lives in a - gasp! - long-distance relationship ... How exciting ...
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Tim in Tucson
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11:05 AM on 08/11/2010
Maybe the guy in the story should just stay at home and become a tro//, and earn 13-50 cents a comment by posting idi*tic rightwing snarky comments.
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09:59 PM on 08/11/2010
You can make money doing that?
Can I make money making idiotic left wing snarky comments on conservative websites?
Who pays?
09:27 PM on 08/22/2010
Or reply to said comments. haha.
08:37 AM on 08/11/2010
Thank the Dems for destroying the private sector jobs. Go work for the government and make really cash for producting nothing and get a massive pension after 25 years. The dems bailed out 26 billion yesterday to keep their unions funded for the next election:

http://www.usatoday.com/money/economy/income/2010-08-10-1Afedpay10_ST_N.htm

http://www.dailynews.com/news/ci_15694737
10:27 AM on 08/11/2010
Sure, blame the Dems. They have their pockets filled with the same corporate cash as the Repugs. But let's look at the folks that have held power for most of the last 30 years:

GOP (Reagan, Bush I) 1980-1992 - 12 years
Dem (Clinton) 1990-2000 - 8 years
GOP (Bush II) 2000- 2008 - 8 years
Dem (Obama) 2008-2010 - 1 1/2 years

Looks to me like the GOP has had their fingers on the levers of power about twice as long as the Dems. So your point is .... ?
09:28 PM on 08/22/2010
FDR was a Democrat. That's all I need to know. That's where this all started.
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Tim in Tucson
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11:12 AM on 08/11/2010
Unbelievable! How can anyone be so heartless and partisan that they would somehow turn the rescue of thousans of teachers' jobs around the country facing elimination due to the states' budget crises? Seriously, you'd rather that they end up unemployed? What about the police and firefighters? Do you feel the same way as them.

A true patriotic American will stand up and support other Americans in times of a national crisis. And then we have our modern-day Benedict Arnolds, who use this opportunity for their own selfish interests, like Beck, Hannity, Limbaugh, O'Reilly, etc at the expense of the American people.
08:35 AM on 08/11/2010
Nice story. Of course, this story could have been told a long time ago....nice of HP to wait to tell it until it can be used to promote AH's book. So, is this really a story or just advertising?
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Michael Monje Jr
09:28 AM on 08/11/2010
Did you maybe think it was an excerpt/summary _from_ the book? I don't really see how authors "sitting on" a chapter they're still writing is ethically problematic.
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06:07 PM on 08/13/2010
It might be listed as a "forthcoming" book because she's waiting for you all to submit your stories so she can complete the book. What an easy way to pad copy and get ideas.
07:28 AM on 08/11/2010
I used to live in Philadelphia, and worked in Honolulu Hawaii. I would get home once every ten days, for only 2 or 3 days at a time.

Even though I was in Hawaii, I was away from my family. It aint easy.

My heart goes out to that man.
10:25 AM on 08/29/2010
Is your old position still available?
03:53 AM on 08/11/2010
This commute pales by comparison to the many pilots and flight attendants of USAirways who commute from San Diego, Los Angles and San Francisco to Philadelphia a couple of times a week.
01:05 AM on 08/11/2010
This guy is way too happy. Does the new job pass out free meds ?
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yoyodyne666
Just here to spool you up.
12:45 AM on 08/11/2010
I commute 812 miles every week (hour and a half flight), rent a room as well. What I do is web phone via logiteck, same a skype. Keeps me in touch with home. Every morning I spend at least an hour chatting with my other half. I've done this for years and yes I could move but I do not really like the area where I work and financially moving may pose other problems as well. I actually stay in a house that is used only by commuters .... it's a different life style but hey, you gotta do what you gotta do.
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12:09 AM on 08/11/2010
Unless the manufacturing jobs return or are recreated, the middle class disappears, the institute of marriage is in jepordy and so is the American family.

The American Dream ? I wonder if anyone will remember it a couple decades from now.
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yoyodyne666
Just here to spool you up.
12:53 AM on 08/11/2010
Thruout history fathers have traveled far from home to provide for their families, not ozzy and harriet, but then we can't all be so lucky. Families will survive if they choose to, and understand the sacrafice being made by all is necessary.
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06:11 PM on 08/13/2010
This is a good point. The "Ozzie & Harriet" model was not really typical of the American family for a very long time. There were many extended families under one roof until WWII and mass media made us all think rethink this. What is the "normal" family? It probably will continue to evolve.
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littlebrowngirl
Brevity is the soul of wit - Shakespeare
12:08 AM on 08/11/2010
Having lived in Chicago most of my adult life and knowing tons of people who commuted from Michigan to Chicago, this commute does not seem so extreme. I have known people to have to drive hundreds of miles and mainatin apartments in other cities to work for years. But I get the point of the story. I have many friends who have do the same. Many people have to relocate for work.
12:00 AM on 08/11/2010
Jeesh, people are so bitter and negative. This man isn't complaining, in fact I am impressed with his optimism!

Yeah, I'm sure many people have it worse, would love his situation- but give this guy some credit for perserverance!