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Can A Mother's Affection Prevent Anxiety In Adulthood?

First Posted: 08/13/10 09:06 AM ET   Updated: 11/17/11 09:02 AM ET

Babies whose mothers are attentive and caring tend to grow into happy, well-adjusted children. But the psychological benefits of having a doting mother may extend well beyond childhood, a new study suggests.

According to the study, which followed nearly 500 infants into their 30s, babies who receive above average levels of affection and attention from their mothers are less likely than other babies to grow up to be emotionally distressed, anxious or hostile adults.

What's more, the link between the emotional health of adults and their mothers' affection was evident even though the mothers and babies were observed for a single day, when the babies were just eight months old.

"Even a simple assessment of the quality of the mother-infant interaction at such an early age captures something very important in terms of the future psychological health of that infant," says Joanna Maselko, Ph.D., the lead author of the study and an assistant professor of psychiatry and behavioral sciences at Duke University Medical School, in Durham, North Carolina.

The findings, which appear in the Journal of Epidemiology and Community Health, make a strong case for policies that would help foster positive interactions between infants and parents, such as paid parental leave, Maselko says.

The study also suggests that health insurance should cover services--such as infant-massage classes--that have been shown to strengthen the child-caregiver relationship, says Robin Gurwitch, Ph.D., a professor of developmental and behavioral pediatrics at Cincinnati Children's Hospital.

"Early experience can be a mediating factor on what happens to us as adults, and we need to look at things that we can do to improve parent-child bonding that can then perhaps serve as a protective factor later," Gurwitch says.

The study included 482 babies born in Providence in the early 1960s. Along with their mothers, the babies were part of a larger, nationwide study on pregnancy and infancy.

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When the babies were eight months old, psychologists observed the mothers' interactions with them as the babies took a series of development tests. The psychologists rated the mother's affection and attention level on a five-point scale ranging from "negative" to "extravagant." The vast majority of the interactions (85 percent) were considered "warm," or normal.

Roughly 30 years later, the babies-turned-adults were interviewed about their levels of emotional distress. The adults whose mothers had displayed "extravagant" or "caressing" affection (the two top ratings) were much less likely than their less-doted-on peers to be anxious. They were also less likely to report hostility, distressing social interactions, and psychosomatic symptoms.

The findings add to a large body of psychological research on mother-child attachment that suggests that healthy bonds between young children and parents are crucial to a child's emotional development.

Maselko and her colleagues suspect that their findings may be explained in part by the hormone oxytocin, which acts as a brain chemical. Also known as the "bonding hormone" or "cuddle hormone," oxytocin is released during breastfeeding and other moments of closeness.

"Oxytocin adds [to] the perception of trust and support, and hence is very helpful in building social bonds," Maselko explains. "It's plausible that close parent-child bonds help support the neural development of the areas of the brain that make and use oxytocin, setting up the child for more effective social interactions and mental health in the future."

For now that's just a theory, however. As the authors note, other factors--including genetics, a mother's stress levels, or even factors that have nothing to do with the mother--could explain the findings.

A smaller proportion of mothers with lower socioeconomic status exhibited "extravagant" or "caressing" affection than did better-off mothers, for instance. Although the researchers controlled for socioeconomic status and other characteristics, it's possible that social and financial difficulties during childhood could play a role in adult emotional distress.

Charles Bauer, MD, a professor of pediatrics, ob-gyn, and psychology at the University of Miami's Miller School of Medicine, says that conclusions about the role of maternal affection on a person's future mental health based on a single day of observation at eight months old are bound to be inexact.

"There are so many intervening variables between eight months and 34 years," Dr. Bauer says. "A whole cadre of factors might lead to a more stable environment, a more stable mental health picture, a more stable individual."

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onwisconsin
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02:12 PM on 08/17/2010
I'm just wondering about children like me who didn't tolerate a lot of cuddling. I was an unusual case, according to all witnesses. I began walking at 5.5 months (running on my tiptoes actually) and also threw away the bottle. My mother said I sank my teeth into the nipple, pulled it with all my might until it came off the bottle. After that, I would only drink out of cups (not sippy-cups - cups). I also climbed out of the crib so many times that they had to put me in a bed, low to the floor, at 7 months. I also talked early. I rarely liked to be held because I didn't want anyone to slow me down. When I did allow myself to be held, I was usually sick or incredibly tired.

I have AD/HD, which explains some of this.

I had a lot of anxiety growing up from some sexual abuse at the hands of my birth father and more from social anxiety once I went to school and realized how very different I was from the other girls. My mother is not what I would call nurturing but I wonder if it was because I pushed her away at a time when we were supposed to bond? .
12:21 AM on 08/16/2010
obviously every babe is going to benifit from a loving environ... is this new news?
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05:31 PM on 08/16/2010
You would be surprised.....
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mitzvah
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09:07 PM on 08/14/2010
While I can appreciate the theory behind this article, I am always leery to embrace such concepts in their entirety as there are countless stories of families with multiple children whose independent perceptions and temperaments do not express themselves similarly whatever. Such a mystery that can be.
There is a fabulous book written by a psychologist (Dr. James Hillman) named "The Soul's Code" that speaks to the rarely considered issue of what each of us come into this world with innately. Many have refuted the premise but I, for one, believed it to ring unquestionably true upon first read nearly 10 years ago. I have found very little in this world that turns on ANY narrow concept much less with respect to an issue as complex as one's personal take on the world. That all having been said, however, there is little doubt that each of us, despite the nature, nurture and/or innate portions that manifest with each of us as individuals, we each have the need for deeply felt, readily provided affection. Unquestionably, our culture needs to incorporate that truth into its fundamental parts, e.g. maternity leave, universal health care, so that all parents - whether female or male - can be supported in developing that most fabulous and priceless of relationships with each child.
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Lawson Meadows
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11:38 PM on 08/13/2010
This article does hold some interest because it is another piece of research, albeit somewhat limited, that supports the importance of parent-child interaction, and the potential ramifications of being engaged or not, with your kids. I imagine most parents show sufficient affections, and support to ensure their kids adopt a positive self-image and repeat the same as parents, but many will not.

I understand some of the more critical, blunt comments herein, but it is not about you feeling guilty, or regretful, but about being informed, because there are many adults perpetuating poor parenting practices, just because they were raised that way. Reminds me of Dorothy Law Nolte's 1953 poem about kids learning what they live:

http://www.blinn.edu/socialscience/LDThomas/Feldman/Handouts/0801hand.htm

As a few said, if parents create and maintain a relaxed and affectionate standard of interaction with their children, their kids will be likely to repeat the behavior as parents - seems obvious enough, barring neurological or emotional disruption.

Of course, the problem remains how to affect change in those who missed the message? How do you break those generational cycles, especially with the increasing isolation born from decentralized family support? Without adequate answers to those questions, the issue of problematic behavior repeating itself is not only in danger of remaining, but of expanding.

Lawson Meadows
07:52 PM on 08/13/2010
It's all my mother's fault!
05:52 PM on 08/13/2010
it's very simple: if you cannot provide this kind of love to a baby, you should never have children. unfortunately, many people have children on autopilot and do a bad job raising them. and you wonder why so many kids have emotional and mental problems that continue into their adult years?
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12:21 PM on 08/15/2010
I agree with you 100%. There should be a test that future parents take to determine if they are going to provide the care necessary for a healthy child. If they don't score the appropriate score then they should be sent to some training classes.
12:10 PM on 08/13/2010
aww.. so a happy and relax mother will raise a happy and relax child. Isn't this obvious?
11:42 AM on 08/13/2010
Look at the recent wave of children adopted from Russian orphanages, who aside from receiving shelter, food and medical care, have been starved for attention, the physical closeness of a parent and emotional stability as caregivers change frequently. It demonstrates how crucial early attachment and affection can have on mental health. Many Russian adoptions have gone horribly wrong because the kids have severe problems adjusting to being cared for and loved. Its very sad, and it proves much of what is said here in this article.
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11:28 AM on 08/13/2010
I do not agree with this one bit. If you have an anxious mother who showers you with affection and love, then what?
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02:48 PM on 08/13/2010
Yep, I agree with you!
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shiningstarra
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03:01 PM on 08/13/2010
Then you are still better off than if you had had an anxious mother who did not give you enough affection.
shuffleoff
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10:59 AM on 08/14/2010
Touche!
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10:59 AM on 08/13/2010
Mother's and father's (or loved one's) unconditional love, is the basis for self love and acceptance for any human being. It is the start of a happy life.

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09:55 AM on 08/13/2010
Used to know a fireman whose belief was that in the first year of life a baby's feet should never touch the ground, because someone should always be holding them. It doesn't always have to be the mother, but someone should always be showering babies with love and attention, IMHO. Otherwise they are more likely to grow up into insecure children and adults.
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shiningstarra
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03:07 PM on 08/13/2010
That reminds me of Duke Ellington saying he was raised in the palm of the hand by the best people of the land. I always liked the sound of that.
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02:39 PM on 08/17/2010
So when do they learn their independence?
09:46 AM on 08/13/2010
What a selfish way of looking at things. If someone told me I wasn't doing enough for my child, instead of lashing out at them for making me feel guilty, I'd set aside my ego and ask whether what they're saying has any truth to it.
09:08 AM on 08/13/2010
Can I vent for a moment on all of the ways I am frustrated here? First off, another thing for parents to feel guilt over, great! Oh, did I say parents? I meant mothers, because as all researchers seem to know, it is only the child's relationship with a mother (and a birth mother at that apparently) that matters. And, according to this study, it's not even good enough for us to be "warm" -- no, we have to be completely over the top with our babies. And those grown up babies "are less likely than other babies to grow up to be emotionally distressed, anxious or hostile adults" -- great but how MUCH less likely, and how MUCH less distressed. There's not real information here at all. Sorry for the rant, but I'm tired of science "news" that seems designed to drive us all crazy.
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02:50 PM on 08/13/2010
I do know what you are talking about as I have adult children and I had many of those kinds of days when they were young. It matters most what you do overall....everyone has bad days here and there.