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Elin Nordegren Breaks Silence: Speaks To People Magazine

HuffPost/AP   First Posted: 08/25/10 09:09 AM ET Updated: 05/25/11 06:25 PM ET

WINDERMERE, Fla. -- Tiger Woods' ex-wife Elin Nordegren said she has "been through hell" since her husband's infidelity surfaced but she never hit him, according to an interview released Wednesday.

Nordegren told People magazine she and Woods tried for months to reconcile the relationship. In the end, a marriage "without trust and love" wasn't good for anyone, she said.

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On Thanksgiving night outside their Florida home, Woods drove his SUV over a fire hydrant and into a tree, setting off shocking revelations that sports' biggest star had been cheating on his wife through multiple affairs. The couple officially divorced Monday.

Nordegren told People that she never hit Woods on the night of the car crash.

"There was never any violence inside or outside our home," she said. "The speculation that I would have used a golf club to hit him is just truly ridiculous."

Nordegren said Woods left the house that night and when he didn't return after a while, she got worried and went to look for him. She said that's when she found him in the car.

"I did everything I could to get him out of the locked car," she said. "To think anything else is absolutely wrong."

The magazine said the interview was conducted over four visits lasting a total of 19 hours at the rented Windermere, Fla., home where she now lives with their two children.

People magazine's Elin cover

"I've been through hell," the Swedish-born Nordegren said. "It's hard to think you have this life, and then all of a sudden - was it a lie? You're struggling because it wasn't real. But I survived. It was hard, but it didn't kill me."

In an interview on NBC's "Today" show on Wednesday morning, People magazine reporter Sandra Sobieraj Westfall said Nordegren and her team approached the publication.

Westfall said Nordegren wanted people to know three things: she's not violent and never hit Woods; she had no idea this was going on; and it was a real marriage for her.

Nordegren and Woods were married Oct. 5, 2004, in Barbados and have a 3-year-old daughter, Sam, and an 18-month-old son, Charlie.

In the interview, Nordegren would not disclose the amount of the divorce settlement but did say "money can't buy happiness or put my family back together."

"I'm so embarrassed that I never suspected - not a one. For the past 3 1/2 years, when all this was going on, I was home a lot more with pregnancies, then the children and my school."

Woods, who was playing a pro-am round at The Barclays in Paramus, N.J., early Wednesday, hasn't commented on the couple's divorce.

Shortly before 8 a.m., when the People magazine story broke, his agent, Mark Steinberg, stepped outside the ropes of the first fairway and was on the phone for the next 10 minutes, as was Woods' spokesman, Glenn Greenspan.

Nordegren said she would eventually forgive Woods, but that she is still working on it.

"Forgiveness takes time," she said. "It is the last step of the grieving process."

Meantime, Nordegren said she is excited to start the next chapter of her life and intends to stay in the U.S. with her children.

She also said she has "not watched one minute of golf."

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SonyaInTx
Money doesn't buy class.....
10:43 AM on 08/30/2010
If Elin were black, would she still be labeled a gold digger?

I think the venom being directed at her supports the belief in the stereotype that a good looking blond wouldn't have anything to do with a black guy, unless he is rich.

Maybe we should take her at her word. She married for love, and didn't get love in return.....
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03:51 PM on 08/30/2010
Being a black male myself, i can guarantee you a black woman would have handled this differently, but I digress. How many recent scandals have involved black women and their black athlets husband? Not many and there are black women married to athletes..
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03:58 PM on 08/30/2010
For all, the possibilities of Elin ever being black are slim to none. Tiger's father was not an african-american in the american sense. Tiger did not grow up around any black people.
11:11 AM on 08/29/2010
You had no clue you married a sex addict?
Ironic.

You are milking this for all you can get. Once a gold-digger always a gold-digger.
01:48 PM on 08/29/2010
how is it ironic? tiger had lackeys covering for him, which included the media. funny how you call that milking, when she wasn't even paid a dime for this story. so it's okay for tiger to talk about his side yet she's not allowed to say anything about hers? calling her a gold digger doesn't change the fact that tiger was the one who screwed up his marriage and wrecked his family.
02:10 PM on 08/30/2010
Kramer is that you?
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Rueben Eck
01:31 PM on 08/30/2010
So one interview after nine months is 'milking it' and everybody who marries somebody with more money than them is a "gold-digger------ life according to Christian Schultz.
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MaeBayB
06:58 AM on 08/29/2010
I find it strange that she approached People to do this story....much of it seems fake and contrived ...including her picture...
Oh well, her summer hanging out on the greens checking out the golf players resulted in her meeting Tiger and getting paid like the rest of the Bimboos...sooooo move on..your mission has been accomplished.....!!!!
01:54 PM on 08/29/2010
so you would rather believe rumours and innuendos instead? fyi, there's nothing wrong if she wants to talk about her side of the story seeing as pretty much everyone kept accusing her of assaulting tiger woods and that it was her fault for tiger cheating on her. sounds like you're jealous of the fact that tiger thought she was worth chasing after for a whole year and asking her to marry him. and btw, she is entitled to some of the money that tiger earned after he married her since he did sell himself as a family man thereafter. thanks to her and the kids, he got more endorsements and more millions.
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MaeBayB
08:47 AM on 09/02/2010
Hmmmmm, it seems to me that someone else is believing rumors and innuendos?...Sooo you are alleging that Tiger was chasing her....is that something you witnessed or heard? Afterall as a single person Tiger played on the greens and had a reason for bieng there...I am still trying to understand Elin's purpose for hanging out on the greens, since she portrays herself as a college student, model, as do most groupies.....just think'n And no I am not jealous of a woman who may potentially have every STD ever invented. Hopefully, she will invest in a good Gyno.
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IQ
11:43 PM on 08/28/2010
What is the overarching message/lesson we have
learned from the Tiger Woods debacle America???

If you are AA and you choose to marry a woman who
is 'NOT' and subsequently you cheat on her, or otherwise
publicly embarrass her; Segments of society will view
such acts as Defiling a paragon and will treat you accordingly.
Your 'sins' will be judged by a jury not of your peers who
were predisposed to see you as arrogant and aloof simply
based on your success and their lack thereof.
Your transgressions will be out-sized and blown beyond
proportion by a mob out for their pound of flesh
.......and profit.
01:56 PM on 08/29/2010
you seem to have forgotten the fact that he pretended to be something he was not to appeal himself to the public and to gain more endorsements and money.
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LMPE
I connect the most dissimilar things
07:18 PM on 08/28/2010
If all else fails, Elin Nordegren and Jenny Sanford can join up. That's what I figure.
11:12 AM on 08/29/2010
Toss in Hillary Clinton and Sandra Bullock.
12:05 AM on 08/28/2010
This is it by Jim Reeves

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lipuMHo1wBE
11:14 PM on 08/27/2010
I guess only in our grandparents and great grandparents days that couples work out the storms that they do face in their relationships.

Stand by your man, Tommy Wynette
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DwBirf4BWew
12:58 PM on 08/30/2010
if he never actually loved her in the first place, what is there to work out?
03:33 PM on 08/27/2010
Elin claims that money can't buy happiness but she refuses to disclose the divorce settlement . Why should she get any divorce settlement at all considering she is young , a college grad, and she can get a career .Why does she deserve a large or even small percentage of Tiger's earnings? I grew up in a rich neighborhood and the women there had maids , after school activities and summer camps to get rid of the children and basically went to lunch , museums and SaksFifth Ave. In less affluent areas , women have to actualy clean their own houses and take care of their own children but these women get next to nothing if they divorce.. If money can't but Elin happiness , why doesn't she give the money to the victims of Katrina.
02:07 PM on 08/29/2010
so i guess princess diana didn't deserve getting any settlement either since she was young, educated, and could get herself a career when she divorced prince charles. elin deserves getting that much amount since she was his wife and gave him two kids, and helped him boost his image as a family man. why do people have the need to keep comparing rich people to the poor ones? if anything, tiger should give up most of his wealth since he doesn't deserve any of it. why should he earn millions for having the ability to put a ball into a hole when there are people out there who do more for society, like saving lives and protecting the country, but get paid a whole lot less. tiger chose to marry her, he screwed up his marriage and humiliated his entire family. what elin got was only a PORTION of his entire wealth, tiger should be so lucky since he still gets to keep most of his money. prince charles practically went broke when he paid off his ex, since princess di apparently took him for every penny he had.
01:01 PM on 08/30/2010
because part of tiger's sales appeal was that he was a happily married good guy. it's her money and it's not really your business what the settlement is. if you won the lottery (for doing nothing) would you give it all to the victims of katrina or some other charity? easy to tell others what they should do
03:10 PM on 08/27/2010
There is no financial glass cieling for women who play the marry and divorce the wealthy black athlete.
11:12 AM on 08/29/2010
Got that right!
04:02 AM on 08/27/2010
The marriage contract was for five to six years and two kids. Tiger said that he was not a black man, therefore, he had to get a white woman to carry his kids, to see if he can get rid of the blackness in his heritage that he really cannot get rid of. This was just the end of the contract. If truth be told, the marriage was just a sham. Tiger and Elin do not look like the loving doting couple in my opinion based on the pictures I had seen of them. This too shall pass, move on.
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07:09 AM on 08/27/2010
What?
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Tanker10a
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08:30 AM on 08/27/2010
joyce628,
That's a bit beyond harsh don't you think?
02:43 AM on 08/27/2010
She's like Rita Morgan, blind to Dexter's true nature. Never questioning, prefering ignorant bliss. I still feel bad for her.
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06:58 AM on 08/27/2010
Do you feel bad for all multi millionaires?
03:17 AM on 08/29/2010
No.
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Stephanie Guerilus
08:42 PM on 08/26/2010
This article was so beautiful. I really felt her pain and determination to move forward. I wish them both the best. Although, I believe in time that Tiger will regret letting a class act like her go.
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04:12 PM on 08/30/2010
How do you determine that she is such a class act? This woman could have been an absolute nightmare behind close doors.
07:42 PM on 08/26/2010
I often wonder if this would end up an Oj simpson episode-my thoughts should just stop
being so loud
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04:14 PM on 08/30/2010
You don't have to worry about that from Tiger. Such episode takes emotions. Tiger will move on and only has to care about his kids. He cares less what Elin will do...this should be obvious...he is already playing better
07:33 PM on 08/26/2010
why did she stop having sex with him
10:53 PM on 08/26/2010
which one?
06:16 PM on 08/26/2010
She should go to Congo and counsel rape victimes, lecture in Haiti to earthquake survivors. She could be an inspiration to the downtrooden everywhere on how to pull yourself up by your
Gucci bootraps after you have been though hell.
10:05 PM on 08/26/2010
exactly how downtrodden is she?..........give her money to the people in Haiti and see if they would complain!
01:04 PM on 08/30/2010
why don't you
10:56 PM on 08/26/2010
not even threadworthy