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Tiger Woods Talks About Divorce, Says It's A Sad Time In His Life

DOUG FERGUSON   08/25/10 11:28 PM ET   AP

Tiger Woods Talks About Divorce

PARAMUS, N.J. — For the first time all summer, Tiger Woods showed up at a PGA Tour event knowing that his day would not include phone calls from a lawyer or divorce documents to approve.

He is only married to his golf now.

"This is my job," Woods said Wednesday. "This is what I do."

Even so, Woods slowly shook his head when asked if he felt relief that his divorce became official two days ago.

"I don't think that's the word," he said. "I think it's just more sadness. Because I don't think you ever go into a marriage looking to get divorced. That's the thing. That's why it is sad."

Woods still could not avoid talk about the end of his nearly six years of marriage to Elin Nordegren, brought on my numerous extramarital affairs that were exposed last Thanksgiving.

As he was teeing off in the rain during the pro-am, People magazine released an interview with his ex-wife in which she spoke openly about how her world fell apart and that she has "been through hell."

Before he completed the first hole, his agent and spokesman were outside the rope, each talking on a cell phone.

Then, after Woods hit his approach to the green, a tabloid columnist walked out into the fairway with notepad and pen to ask him questions. She had never been to a golf tournament and was not aware that reporters are to stay by the ropes.

It took five questions on his game before Woods was asked about his divorce and his ex-wife's interview, although Woods handled both questions with the same, measured tones, not revealing much.

"I wish her the best in everything," he said. "You know, it's a sad time in our lives. And we're looking forward in our lives and how we can help our kids the best way we possibly can. And that's the most important thing."

They have two children, 3-year-old daughter Sam and 18-month-old son Charlie. The divorce allowed for "shared parenting," and Woods completed a four-hour program on family stability the day before he left for the British Open.

The process of getting a divorce consumed most of his summer, not only on the golf course, but during his weeks at home when he was practicing and preparing for the majors. Ten majors now have passed without Woods winning, matching the longest drought of his career.

Asked to describe how the details of divorce affected his practice, Woods said, "It was a lot more difficult than I was letting on."

"My actions certainly led us to this decision," he said. "And I've certainly made a lot of errors in my life. That's something I'm going to have to live with."

As for the job? That's not going so well, either.

Despite a tie for fourth in the Masters in his return from a five-month hiatus, and a tie for fourth at the U.S. Open, Woods has played so poorly that he comes to The Barclays at No. 112 in the FedEx Cup standings, with no guarantee he will make it to the next playoff event.

For starters, he has to make the cut at Ridgewood Country Club, a course he saw for the first time Wednesday. Then, he likely has to finish somewhere around the middle of the pack to move into the top 100 and qualify for next week's playoff event outside Boston at the Deutsche Bank Championship, which benefits his foundation.

Woods asked coach Sean Foley to look at his swing during the PGA Championship two weeks ago, and he met with Foley twice in Orlando, Fla., last week. On several holes during the pro-am, Woods tucked a golf glove under his right armpit during a full swing, a technique aimed to keep his arms connected.

Whether he hires Foley as his next coach has not been decided. Woods is not sure he wants to revamp his swing again, knowing how much time it will take and how much time he has lost already.

"It's an undertaking that I have to wrap my head around, because it's going to take some time," he said.

He drove the ball great at the AT&T National and British Open and couldn't make a putt. He hit the ball all over Wisconsin during the PGA Championship and kept in the game by making putts. And then there were weeks like Firestone, where he did nothing right and shot the worse score of his career, an 18-over 298.

For the ninth time this year, Woods can lose his No. 1 ranking to Phil Mickelson. His solution for staying at the top and getting a tee time next week on the TPC Boston is the same. "Winning takes care of everything," he said.

"I'm trying to get my game in order – work on some new things, working with Sean," Woods said. "And I'm trying to put that together and hopefully play well for the rest of the year. As of right now, I need to play well to make it to next week. So that's kind of the focus right now."

Even now, though, the focus is not entirely on golf.

"As far as my game and practicing, that's been secondary," he said. "We're trying to get our kids situation to our new living conditions and how that's going to be. That's where our focus is going to be right now."

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07:35 PM on 10/19/2010
as he gets older, he will have more regret
08:54 AM on 09/16/2010
When children are involved in a divorce things get very hard. There are so many emotions that you feel. If you need parenting divorce advice look at this website http://www.dadsdivorce.com they offer excellent service.
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One day closer to Utopia
08:24 PM on 09/03/2010
It takes two people to make a marriage. The ex forgot she had to work at it to make it a continuous functional relationship. I say this because she claims she had no clue. Only an absentee person would say something laike that. He had a lot of emo issues before marriage so his marriage was doomed from day one, but once married she didn't help him at all, it seems she got busy only helping herself to his money. the problem is not why people get divorce it is why they marry. Once again they were two people marrying for the wrong reasons.
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12:49 AM on 08/30/2010
hey, he just got tired of it

get real, folks
06:32 PM on 08/30/2010
You talking his wife or golf?
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IQ
12:30 AM on 08/29/2010
What is the overarching message/lesson we have
learned from the Tiger Woods debacle America???

If you are AA and you choose to marry a woman who
is 'NOT' and subsequently you cheat on her, or otherwise
publicly embarrass her; Segments of society will view
such acts as Defiling a paragon and will treat you accordingly.
Your 'sins' will be judged by a jury not of your peers who
were predisposed to see you as arrogant and aloof simply
based on your success and their lack thereof.
Your transgressions will be out-sized and blown beyond
proportion by a mob out for their pound of flesh
.......and profit.
11:45 AM on 08/30/2010
Amen. Fanned. Perfectly said.
06:33 PM on 08/30/2010
Like John Edwards?
07:36 PM on 08/28/2010
It has been reported the Tiger will be taking the TW logo off his golf hat and replacing it with an L
07:17 PM on 08/28/2010
He's a used car salesman....and I ain't buyin'.....by the way Tigger....haven't seen any Nike ads lately, and they backing away from ya?...me thinks so
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KCM7
“I am of a sect by myself, as far as I know”
03:01 AM on 08/28/2010
That is definitely not a happy man in that photo.
12:46 AM on 08/28/2010
Tiger is not the first or the last person to get a divorce. Stuff happen in life. Be strong and move on with your life Tiger Woods, just as how I am certain that Elin will be moving with her life. I hope you learn from this marriage and get your “A” game back and make that money.

It does not make any sense to stay married and live a life of strife and a loveless marriage just for appearances. I do not know what goes on in the privacy of Tiger’s marriage, but I get the feeling that both of them knew that this is it.

With that said I am dedicating this song by Jim Reeves: This Is It.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lipuMHo1wBE
06:35 PM on 08/30/2010
She just wasn't the 3 dozen women he wanted her to be.
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niceradz
02:10 PM on 08/27/2010
Welcome Back Tiger.... looking forward to watching you do what you are so good at... Good Luck and always the very best.
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jacobomorales
10:50 AM on 08/27/2010
I'm wondering what thoughts were going through his mind when he was with all those women? I mean, was he sad that his marriage was going to end some day?
06:11 PM on 08/30/2010
He wasn't sad until he was caught.
01:02 AM on 08/27/2010
Tiger that's the best thing that ever happened to you.But for those beatiful kids,that woman was never good for you.I glad you are playing well and I wish you luck.I saw you first when you were three and I still adore you.
02:06 AM on 08/27/2010
Elin bad-pornzies so much better for a Cheetah like T.
09:04 AM on 08/27/2010
he begged her not to divorce him and she dropped him in a heartbeat...smooth move
11:37 PM on 08/26/2010
Not such a sad time in his life now that hes shooting 65.

Watch this video from AP...http://www.newslook.com/videos/245041-woods-shoots-65-for-his-best-round-of-the-year
07:20 PM on 08/28/2010
Now read about round 2....do you feel foolish now?
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Rueben Eck
09:52 AM on 08/30/2010
how about round 4?
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Eric Susee
Legalize Marijuana NOW!!!!!
06:49 PM on 08/26/2010
“Ah, yes, divorce... from the latin word meaning to rip out a man’s genitals through his wallet.”

Robin Williams
04:05 PM on 08/26/2010
Some people are better off being single . . . it's really that simple.

I think he was pressured into settling down and starting a family (probably what his parents wanted and his PR people told him would be best for the "Tiger brand")

I wish him the best and I'm still very much a Tiger Woods fan. I hope he just goes out and just kills it now. Just to spite those that wanted nothing more than to see him fail and fall off the mountain.
12:01 AM on 08/27/2010
concur.