Christina Milian Talks Divorce From The-Dream: Marriage Was 'Hell'

After a year of many ups and downs, Christina Milian is ready to move on.

The singer/actress opened up to Latina Magazine about her highly publicized divorce from The-Dream, who cheated on her and filed for divorce while she was pregnant with their child.

Looking back, she has no regrets about ending the nuptials.

"No matter what, you can't change who you are. I know that now. I tried to be someone I wasn't because I wanted my marriage to work," Milian said. "But ultimately, if it's not working, it's not working."

Giving birth to her child, Violet, in March has helped her move on.

"Being a new mother definitely makes me feel so much sexier than ever before," she said. "There's a certain responsibility that I carry being a mom that makes me feel very confident and so blessed. Being a mom is the best thing that's ever happened to me."

In 2011, Milian says she's completely moving on.

"I feel brand new. I've been to hell and back, but I survived. I'm stronger for it and now I'm ready for the next phase of my life."

For more of the interview, which comes out in full on January 11th, click over to Latina Magazine.

Comments

[amd02148]

07:36 PM on 01/04/2011

Looks don't have anything to do with it, did anyone see who he was cheating on her with? The woman can't hold a candle to Christina.

[emperance]

11:35 PM on 01/04/2011

I did, OMG.

Someone told me that pretty girls aren't good in the boudoir.

Have you noticed that all of the men cheat with less fortunate looking women????

[amd02148]

12:38 AM on 01/05/2011

I don't know about the good in bed part lol,the rest is true I'm fanning you for your post.

[bwaldronxoxo]

02:39 PM on 01/04/2011

Thats all it takes to get back into the spotlight....have a kid with a producer..
http://www.britneywaldron.com

[Brandon1990]

01:27 PM on 01/04/2011

Her Star Fell about 5 years ago, she was running out of money so she had a baby by the Dream to keep the money coming in.

[UserNameJane]

12:29 PM on 01/04/2011

She was too good for The Dream, its crazy how someone could cheat on such a beautiful woman, Maybe she's just not a nice person or something, I have know idea, But she seems sweet, and again, Gorgeous.

[amd02148]

07:27 PM on 01/04/2011

usernamejane no he's just not a nice person, all I can say about the Dream is watch your back karma is a b***h. And to his current girlfriend who helped him publically humiliate his wife, Dream do it to you too.

[Blaq Ninja]

11:45 AM on 01/04/2011

i have a journal with the time and date of when my comments get rejected!! I am about to launch a boycott!

[Trizah7]

10:45 AM on 01/04/2011

HUFFP- She didn't say marriage was hell, she said she's been to hell and back - National enquirer?

[shawnepink]

08:59 AM on 01/04/2011

Per haps they ought to call it a commitment ceremony instead of marriage to capture the true meaning of this union of two people.

[Malarcus]

08:34 AM on 01/04/2011

I like to get all my life advice from 19-year olds.

[Pippen]

07:53 AM on 01/04/2011

Who ? Who are you ? Why are you on Huffpo ? Oh wait.......if your on TV you must be a celebrity riiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiight ?

[losangelesdan]

05:07 AM on 01/04/2011

What a horrible picture of her. The photographer and Ms Millian need to watch Americas Next Top Model to learn how to extend the neck & smize.

[Shimone Vermont]

03:17 AM on 01/04/2011

Christina Milian Talks Divorce From The-Dream: Marriage Was 'Hell'

[Sol76]

03:17 AM on 01/04/2011

What made her think that marrying someone who calls himself "The Dream" would be a good idea? Ladies, anyone with "The" in their name is not someone you should be openly admitting you slept with, let alone marry and expect to be happy with.

[Ms Smarty Pants]

04:46 AM on 01/04/2011

Ugh... (The) Dream is a stage name... smh

[Ohioliberal]

05:25 AM on 01/04/2011

LOL!!

[madskillzdotcom316]

02:42 AM on 01/04/2011

Meh. People nowadays don't want to work for jack. Marriage isn't easy - at all. It's work. It's hard for two people to live as one. It's more than just sex. It's a commitment, until death do you part. Why even get married if you are going to look outside instead of looking inward and working?

Sheez - folks hop into marriage without any real thought. Divorce is death, really. I've seen enough peeps go through it. Sure, I get tired of my wife, but we end up working it out. Sad, just sad.

[Shion St Bernard]

08:01 AM on 01/04/2011

Couldn't agree with you more...

[UserNameJane]

12:33 PM on 01/04/2011

You are so right, And I fan you for your passion.

[Shimone Vermont]

02:37 AM on 01/04/2011

מעניין לא?

[Sol76]

03:17 AM on 01/04/2011

That's what she said!

[Sunflo]

02:28 AM on 01/04/2011

I don't know if it's the pose, hair or just bad photoshopping but she looks like she doesn't have a neck.

[amd02148]

07:29 PM on 01/04/2011

Sunflo its the picture.